Anal sex

Love anal. Finding the right partner who enjoys receiving it, especially if she's a submissive, is great. The intimacy of being so deep into her arouses me even as I mention it.

Blissful. Both giving and receiving. The receiving partner must be more than willing, must be desiring it, craving it. It is the most intimate feeling. Long, slow, deep. Fucking and being fucked in the ass when my eyes connect with hers is perfection.

I like it ,just take time to do it , I use toys ,tried many different anal toys

Partner does not like anal at all .

My partner did not know I like anal ,until she found the box full of anal toys .....since she does not like it ,I use toys myself .

I think it's great! I Had it my 1st time in 2009 I was 19 & came to North Carolina to start my new life,with my new Daddy! I was hurting quite a bit at first,but then really liked being a bottom boy! And still do!

From my point of view, I love anal sex, being on the giving end for my wife. She loves anal sex too, being on the receiving end. I introduced her to anal sex within our first month of marriage and she often tells me I trained her to be so anally sensitive. She loves anal sex as much as traditional sex, and sometimes I think more so. We pretty much practice anal about fifty percent of the time and traditional fifty percent of the time.

Best thing since fire... Now I am gay so I have no comparison although know I have been told by more than one bisexual man it is superior for them. I know at least a few women who enjoy it too.

While my wife was alive, anal sex was an integral part of our sexual life, as was pegging for me.(she got me into it). There was never a time that it wasn't. No matter what we tried that seemed new to us, we always tried it anally as well. Can't get better than that.

I dated a serious Christian woman for about a year. She was and is still a Sunday school teacher at her church. When we started dating she had never done any kind of anal play and thought anything with the asshole was disgusting. I worshipped her gorgeous bottom from the first day we kissed, just caressing it at first. Soon one night she was naked on the bed and I was touching her ass and said 'I wonder what is between these beautiful cheeks of yours' and gently pressed my thumbs into her crack. She said 'no! no! don't do that!' but she didn't pull away. By the end of that night I had explored her cute little anus quite deeply with my tongue and a finger and she just laid there moaning and telling me how wrong it was and naughty but she just kept grinding her bottom toward me the whole time. Soon we had anal intercourse the first time, her on her stomach, and I came inside her. She said she could feel me come inside her asshole and that was something she always looked forward to, that feeling. I never wore a condom. Sometimes I would fuck her ass while she was on her back with legs pulled up so we could look in each others eyes, which was very intimate. I would also fuck her anus with a buttplug sometimes, also used anal beads, and I often took her temperature rectally because we liked to play doctor too.

She was a dedicated church goer and very much believed in Jesus and God and was generally very conservative. But her desire for anal sex was consistent and intense and although she used to think it was wrong and disgusting when she was young, she absolutely loved it with me and admitted it and couldn't explain why her attitude changed.

We broke up long ago but she sends me holiday cards so I read about her husband and children and all about her church.

Well Richard I don't think her church attendance has anything to do with her sexual desire which any adult female can have. Perhaps since you were not married might have made her uneasy but she sounds like she had a normal sex drive. I'm glad you took care of each other in a time of need. Sounds like you still have a special place in her heart for what you experienced together. Her new hubby owes you big time!!

I totally understand how Richard's Christian friend felt. Anal play & anal sex is viewed by many as taboo & naughty, yet it feels so good. It brings out my submissive sexual nature more than any other type of play, plus the orgasms are so intense. I have a partner who also likes to help me prepare for anal play by giving me enemas.

When I am bent over a stool with a large nozzle in my ass, I can easily drift into a deeper subspace. The feel of a crop, flogger, or cane on my ass while the water is flowing into me is pure pleasure. After my enemas, I can stay in subspace until it is time to open up for my partner. Feeling the head of his penis push against my sphincter and then push through as he slides completely in is the ultimate in surrender for me.

I enjoy vaginal sex too, but it just isn't as satisfying as anal sex.

Finding this site has turned my interest to enemas and things related to butt. Use plugs and things sometimes, turned on thinking about someone using my anus and butt for many wonderful things. Never had anyone, more I talk the more interested, male or female.............

I love anal sex ??

I never thought I would enjoy anal, until my ex convinced me to try it, after he exposed me to enemas and plugs. Sometimes I think he knew he was working me up to it, before the enemas and plugs even started nothing of anal sex was mentioned it was just non nonchalantly mentioned one night since I didn't seem to be opposed to enemas and plugs how would I like to try anal. He went slow and easy, and found it a little strange the first few times, but I was able to "get used to it" now I can actually say I enjoy it.

I feel the same way this guys does,

I've only had dildos and plugs in my ass during solo masturbation. I absolutely love the feel of my 7" dildo sliding in and out of my hole. But, I crave the real thing and hope to someday find a friend who will accommodate my desires

I've been enjoying anal sex since I was in my teens . When I introduced it to my wife at first she didn't like it to much. As time passed she seen how much I enjoyed my ass being played with now she loves it as much as I do we started with beads small plugs now years later we got bigger plugs beads and dildos

It's still the best kind of penetrative sex. Oh, yeah, and the only kind I do.

I absolutely LOVE anal sex and wanted to penetrate a womans ass from the time I was 12 or 13 and saw my first Penthouse magazine. The soft smooth skin, the shape of her hips, the curve of her cheeks and the secret little place that gets exposed when you spread them. Just 1000% yum! I enjoy regular sex as well, but when I'm with a partner, most times I will finish off with anal, even if we started out vaginal. Anal is just the most physically and mentally exciting to me.

I love receiving anal sex! It took awhile to get hubby to try it; he thought he was going to hurt me. I had to show him it was something I really wanted by self pleasuring myself anally and when he saw how much I loved it he decided to give it a try. Let me say, he (and I as well) is SO glad he did! We have anal sex at least once a week and during vaginal sex we often have a toy, or at least a finger, going back there.

Although hubby does not want to be pegged, he does love a bit of single finger penetration. "Just the tip" lol

@RedInBed , Love your new avatar, sexy lips! 🌹

Count me in as another who loves and enjoy anal sex. As others have said, I would have very little problem with nothing but anal, but I feel that it needs to be a special act between hubby and I so we do it ever 2 to 3 weeks. Hey have to give him a reason to keep me around. Cute tits, a girdle and nice smile will only take me so far.

Tillie, you have nice lips in her avitar too.

RedinBed, I love your method of getting hubby to try anal. That would have certainly worked on me in my pre-anal days!

I'm such a lucky guy. My wife and I both love fucking each other's asses. She loves to fuck my ass with a dildo, (in her hand or in a strap on), and she likes to fist me. We love regular sex when we're both stuffed with a butt plug. I rarely have sex or masturbate without something in my ass.

1. If SHE likes it, I like it.

2. If SHE wants it, I want it.

3. Go back to #1 and REPEAT

I have loved anal sex for a few years now. I love the feel of a penis entering my ass. I like my ass to be lubed up a lot and when the penis enters I get waves of excitement as the penis enters farther and farther I like others rhythm to be slow and steady. As it feels more and more exciting I can't wait til my boyfriend cums in my ass. . I love when he is done and I can feel the cum roll out my asshole. I love anal sex.

I'd do it if my wife wanted me to and was OK with going slow and taking our time. I figure it will be pretty similar to vaginal, maybe slightly different sensations but still very similar. I don't bring it up because I'd rather use my brownie points to have her do my ass (with whatever she's willing to), because that's a very different sensation and experience, also she would need to be really interested and not just faking it for it to feel its best for her to receive.

I'd rather use my brownie points to have her do my ass (with whatever she's willing to)...

@moliere You did NOT just say 'brownie points' in a discussion about anal sex, did you!?!?!? 😁 😁 😁

Anal sex is a must in my marriage. My wife and I both enjoy giving to one another and receiving each other. We only play with each other and do not have an open marriage, nor plan to. With that said, I will say we both love larger toys and fisting. She Has me up to a fist + 3-4 fingers depending on the day. I have large hands so, we're still working on getting up to the wrist. We even go as far to as doing Double Penetration (I have another post that explains how awesome that is if you want to find it) with her riding her strap on and me Double Vag and/or Double Anal stuffing her.

@Jonny5, I love how sexually adventurous you and your wife are. When you're both willing to try new things, there is always something new, and you develop so many sex-play options that you never get bored. Zity is a great place to get ideas.

Here's one you might enjoy if you haven't yet: double dildos.

My wife and I enjoy going butt to butt with an 18-inch long, 1-inch-diameter double dong inserted into both of our asses at the same time. You can straddle each other (with bodies in opposite directions) and fuck each other in the ass while making genital contact. It feels great. You might even be able to fuck each other normally while you fuck each other in the ass at the same time! My wife and I need a longer double dong to do that, howerver.

You can try it alone too. You can feel what it' like to go past your rectum and into your sigmoid colon. There's a new, intense kind of pleasure there. I enjoy pushing all 18 inches into myself and closing my ass over it. They say this is dangerous, but it comes back out easily for me.

I recently bought a 24-inch long double dong for my wife and me to try to fuck each other normally while simultaneously fucking each other in the ass. Unfortunately, it was way to thick for my wife. Until I unpacked it, I didn't realize it was 2.75-inch diameter! I love the monster up my ass, though, especially when my wife fucks me with it When she pushes it in 12 inches to hit the first turn in my sigmoid colon, and then she pushes and pulls 12 inches in and out a for a few minutes, I'm drenched in precum, and almost the instant she grabs my cock she makes me explode. We're looking for a 24-incher that she can handle too.

@moliere You did NOT just say 'brownie points' in a discussion about anal sex, did you!?!?!? 😁 😁 😁

Of course I did. I never say "pun intended" (or, I guess, "double entendre intended"). The readers can figure those out on their own.

CJ1999 said

@moliere You did NOT just say 'brownie points' in a discussion about anal sex, did you!?!?!? 😁 😁 😁

Moliere replied

Moliere said

Of course I did. I never say "pun intended" (or, I guess, "double entendre intended"). The readers can figure those out on their own.

Moliere, you are right NOT to say "pun intended". A pun ISN'T funny if you say that. The reader MUST figure it out for him/herself to be funny.

A joke is only funny if you get it on your own. If you need it to be explained, you will understand the joke and you may smile, but you won't laugh because it isn't funny any longer.

Likewise, overusing some words as puns isn't funny either. For example when people say things like, "I love you BUTT you are too fat" instead of saying "but", especially when they use the word several times in a post, it totally loses its effectiveness.

People who repeatedly use puns will be punished.

As an additional example, if I had said, "pun intended", my previous sentence would not have been funny or punny. Yes, "punny" was yet another example of a pun. And it ISN'T funny if I tell you it's a pun. 😁 😁 😁