What do you think of the anal sex?
I love anal sex. Its good to have a good enema before hand so you dont have any messes!
I love anal sex.its almost better than vaginal sex. We do it a lot and sometime i get an enema first but not always. I it just feels so good going inside me.
Anal sex is the best whether giving or receiving I love the feel of someones dick sliding in and out of me as much as I love to feel myself inside someone else. I think anal is smoother than vaginal, putting yourself up someones butt is as smooth as silk. I also like the visual you can see yourself much better during penetration wile doing anal dogie style. The best is when I am taking it though, I love it dogie style that way I can reach through my legs and massage my partners balls while he is doing me until he cums that's the best knowing you were able to give your partner so much pleasure
I've tried it and I really enjoy it. After an enema session years back I was always curious about anal sex. My emate at that time was bi. After a few drinks and little convincing he slowly introduced me to anal sex. At first it was a bit painful, but after relaxing and my emate patiently, and slowly inserted his 6 inch penis it was great! Of course he used a condom, alot of lube and it was a great combination of a sensual enema and anal sex.
Over the years, I have had the pleasure of having charming ladies as e-mates in my life with wide/varied/assorted anal toys and fun, along with my willingly gently sliding my penis into their rectum to satisfy their anal desires. I look forward to the time when I have a female e-mate in my life who will as tenderly and gently penetrate me with a right sized strap on as I have with women in the past.
Just thinking of a trusted lover gently caressing me while rhythmically gently stroking in and out of my rectum causes me to swell and start developing clear droplets of lubricating pre-cum.
I read an interview years ago about women in the porn industry. I forget which performer it was, but she said that they almost always douche and take enemas prior to scenes, especially anal scenes. She mentioned Fleets, so I don't know if they also hang bags or not.
She said that one woman learned the hard way about enemas... She had not taken an enema thinking her daily hygiene routine was good enough. The girls were using a special toy that was kind of like a dildo on a drill - it rotated. One of the girls was performing anal sex on her with it and all of a sudden, well, the description in the article said something like, "It was like pulling out the mixer while it is on its highest setting when you're making chocolate pudding." Ick, the poor things. I bet that made the blooper reel that year.
I don't know if you asked this question because you're wondering if porn stars secretly enjoy enemas and I don't know the answer to that. Some may enjoy them and others may just consider it part of the job, like putting on a uniform or something.
I was introduced to anal sex recently. I like it a lot.
It almost makes me cum. I like the difference between his cuming in my vagina and in my ass. In my vagina it all leaks out too soon. In my ass it stays until I absorb it. That is a powerful feeling of submission and acceptance.
Anal sex is a nice little treat every once in a while. I find that the best times to have anal are when the lady is craving it. Those will always be good times!
Have had anal sex with my ex-wife. We both enjoyed it but she would not allow it too often as I wanted. My gf has used a strap on with good results. It first started great but I think I stretched out too much and lost a lot of feeling and did not want to try anything bigger.
My ex always seemed to enjoy anal sex, and I was always willing to comply with his desires.
I have to admit that I rarely enjoyed it. It was often painful, and I began thinking that it was just his way to humiliate me somehow.
He rarely "took it easy", or took time in getting me ready for these anal encounters, and now I'm wondering if, with a little more anal foreplay, and a bit more consideration, I would have learned to enjoy anal sex.
So many posters here claim it's a wonderful experience, and go on about how it's enjoyed by both the male and female... There has to be at least something to all that, right?
Butt pligs can be bought in a 3 pack that are graduated from small to large. I suggest you lube and insert the smaller one first, then allow 30-40 minutes for her rectum to acclimate to the enlargement. Then same process/time interval for medium, and so fourth. Gentle enlarging her rectum for YOUR eventual penetration will make it pleasureable for her. Some females can actually have a rectal climax. The colonic walls actually stimulate the uterine walls that bring fourth vaginal penetration climaxes.
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Hmmm.....most of the women I've been privileged to be close to would rather have the enema than the anal sex....
Get yourself a dildo, that way you won't run the risk of loosing it inside.
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This is what i found on the net about enemas and anal sex...
Should you or shouldn't you use an enema before anal sex? A number of our readers have submitted tips on using enemas, and many have questions about it. While the majority seems to favor an enema before butt fucking, you also should hear what the enemies of the enema have to say.
The number one reason for using enemas that people cite is cleanliness. While folks find anal play incredibly sexy, the poop factor can be a turn-off. An anonymous female reader says, "Before you begin anal play with a partner, I STRONGLY recommend giving yourself an enema. It ensures that you won't be grossed out or turned off by the appearance or lingering of fecal matter during or after the process. Cleanliness is a girl's best friend."
Under normal circumstances (i.e., the person getting ass-fucked is healthy, practices normal hygiene, and has regular bowel movements) anal sex is not terribly messy. You will not be cleaning crap off the walls and ceiling. However, for many people, especially anal beginners, just the fear of embarrassment about the presence of fecal matter or odor is an obstacle to enjoyment of anal sex. You shouldn't be so turned off that you need Viagra to overcome sexual dysfunction. If taking an enema reduces anxiety and inhibition around anal play, it may be worthwhile. However, once you and your partner get more comfortable with your ass and each other, you may not feel it's necessary.
When You Gotta Go
Another reason for using enemas before butt sex is practical. If there is "something in the pipe," anal stimulation or bearing down during anal sex can bring on the urge to evacuate. Unless you and your partner are into scat, interrupting sex to take a dump will be, at the least, inconvenient. Janet in Florida writes, "To overcome the urge to evacuate, and control the timing, I give myself an enema the morning before we plan to make love, and when I do I hold the enema water for as long as I possibly can." Another female reader says she likes to prepare with an enema the night before an anal sex session.
However, Patric in New England prefers a different tactic: "An enema is so easy but makes [your ass] all tender. The key is to fast for 24 hours before and [your ass] will be tight and slick. I can fuck a huge cock for days if I haven't eaten, plus it makes it easy to bear down on it." While we commend Patric for his commitment, we don't expect many people to go hungry for the cause of better anal sex.
Others, like this anonymous female reader, just like to keep things simple: "I don't go through special rituals or preparations to have anal sex with my partner...I don't find enemas necessary. I think normal bowel movements are sufficient. I opt for a long, relaxing shower or bath." Many sex advice experts agree with this reader, and recommend that folks just do number two, then clean their asshole and rectum with soap and water. Slipping a soapy finger inside yourself while showering can be good way to get your butt warmed up. Go light on the soap, though, as it can be irritating to your innards.
Enemas Are Evil!
Speaking of irritation, that seems to be the top reason readers cite for *not* using enemas. Some, like Brent from Vancouver, feel very strongly: "Enemas are evil and make things sore; avoid them unless you're really squeamish about what you might find in there. If everyone's healthy, there's nothing that'll hurt you anyhow, and a small amount [of natural secretions] will significantly improve both sensation and lubrication."
OK, maybe enemas aren't the work of the devil, but this reader has a point. They can rinse away the natural secretions and lubrication produced by the mucous membranes inside the rectum. Those secretions are there to protect the anal lining and provide natural lubrication. Of course, anal sex always requires additional lubrication, but the natural layer provides a buffer between the chemical lube and your delicate membranes.
If you do use enemas, to minimize irritation, use plain warm water only. Packaged drugstore enemas contain salt water or other solutions. Gina from California thinks you should just dump them out: "I always like to use an enema, but I pour out the fluid inside the bottle and use water. I swear it makes me feel clean and my asshole isn't on fire."
For couples like Gus from Winnipeg and his girlfriend, cleanliness is beside the point: "Sometimes when she's feeling ultra nasty she won't use an enema, and sometimes she won't even wash herself there. This gives the ass that nasty stinky aroma. It just gets me firm the second I smell it." The butt's natural funkiness can be a turn-on for some, so if that's the case, an enema just defeats the purpose.
If want to try anal sex "au naturel" but are still concerned about the possible mess, put a towel down on the bed, put a condom on your dick or dildo for easy cleanup, and keep a supply of kleenex or wet wipes on hand.
Enemas Are Sexy!
Enema eroticism is a subject unto itself. Suffice to say that some people enjoy enemas for their own erotic value or as a part of foreplay before anal sex. Nicolette from Canada recommends "warm water, 1/2 quart given slowly to begin. It can be an extremely erotic experience, touching her as you administer the enema, finger in her pussy, gently fingering her clit, and when she gets a little more excited, some gentle spanks (or not so gentle if she prefers) to her cheeks. Repeat the enema and the procedure until all is clear, then get down to some serious, fantastic buttfucking."
If you are comfortable having your partner administer the enema, it can be a sexy experience for both of you. As with any sort of anal play, communication between is crucial. Let your partner know if you experience any pain or discomfort during the enema so they can stop or reduce the flow.
Sum It Up
In our unscientific survey of reader input, 75% of those who expressed opinions about enemas were in favor, and 25% were against.
People use enemas before anal sex to feel cleaner and prevent the need to evacuate the bowels during sex.
Enema detractors think they are unnecessary and make the asshole and rectum irritated before sex.
Having a regular bowel movement and washing afterward will get your butt reasonably clean.
Some people like to use enemas as a part of foreplay.
Just a question, and I'm sorry if it is elementry, but does anyone wait a certain time period after an enema and anal sex?
With me, the fluid seems to stay inside for a little while.
I think that a good enema before anal sex would be quite helpful; unfortunately my ex was not into either enemas or anal sex so I have not had the chance to verify my intuition.
I hope to find a lady that shares my interests.
I'd wait at least an hour or two after taking an enema or a series of enemas before engaging in anal sex. I think it's a good idea to walk around and exercise a bit to get your body moving. It sometimes stimulates your bowels if they're feeling a little reluctant to let go of anything. Even if it doesn't do anything for your bowels, it's still good to move around a bit. Any kind of exercise you're able to do that involves your pelvis would be something to try after a series. Just move about like you're giving yourself a dry run of the kind of motions you do during sex. If nothing happens, you're fine. If you need to release more, it's good to know ahead of time rather than in the heat of the moment. It really sucks to go from, "Oh, god. Oh, yes. Oh yes." to "Oops. Oh, god. Oh, my god. Oh, no. Oh, shit."
Totally been there and done that numerous times. I hate when I go so overboard that I can't enjoy anal play afterwards. A clean, but sore colon is a real bummer. It's like being all dressed up and no place to go. I try to be gentle if I know anal play is on the menu that day. But sometimes you just can't help it.
It's so odd how mainstream anal is these days, but people still freak out about enemas. I think it's odd to have anal sex and not to take enemas. I would think people would want to make sure that everything was clear before approaching the runway. (Sorry about that. You try to come up with a good metaphor when you've been awake over thirty hours.) 😃
Thank you egirlky and very funny! Will do.
On a side note, I was in flourence?, KY about 2 weeks ago on business.
Reading through this string...Holaamigos compilation is interesting and appreciated. In my experience, if you enjoy anal sex (my boyfriend and I do), you're not always going to be prepared if you're at all spontaneous. We might meet at a chic little wine bar after work and top the night off having some intimate fun. I'm not going to be "prepared" every time, with an enema a few hours beforehand. So does that mean no back door play at that time...not necessarily. The rectum isn't always full of fecal matter - at least I've found this to be the case. And lots of us know when things are pretty clean. If you think it might not be "clean" and this is a big concern for you, then just leave the anal play to another time.
Whether I've prepared or not, I do know that my boyfriend always quickly and discreetly (without discussion or fanfare) washes his penis, fingers, whatever, afterward. There have never been any nasty messes or embarrassing moments, and this is a guy who gags if he has to clean the cat's litter box.
I like the idea that if (as a man) I take it from behind, and then I take her from behind, we get as close to having the same experience as possible...enemas seem more and more to me as a means to an end...I have said before maybe I am more medfet than this, but I hope that doesn't mean I can't hang out...
I had tried all kinds of things, candles, vibrators, butt plugs, etc. But the first time a Woman took me with a strap on was pure heaven! i could not believe how much i enjoyed it. Larger and longer strapon's are a must for me.
The whole gamut is in my repertoire, but my wife isn't into enemas. I introduced her to anal sex by the two/three finger method: the thumb in the vagina and a forefinger and then index finger in the anus. This becomes easy when with licking the clit her juices are lubricating everything and the heat of the moment makes her oblivious to what holes are being punctured. I didn't have to ask and sometimes she even begged for it. Adding lubricants during this process does help. It depends on the moment. The best is when I cum inside because she can absorb what I've unloaded and how very intimate is that?
I would prefer pre-enemas, I know they make me very erect and clean, but I can deal with rectal returns. She'll just put a towel on the bed or wherever.
Most intense rectal play takes years to stretch and cultivate.
Love anal sex, both giving and getting from a woman.
Has anyone ever taken a woman anally while she is retaining an enema? I have done this only once in my life, but I would love to try it again just to witness the writhing in pain while deeply aroused of the woman I gave a 2-quart enema to before having anal sex with her. Have any women in this forum ever tried this?
If I have any anal sex its when I do it to myself. She doesnt go for back door play!!!!
Yes, pornstars take enemas before having anal sex on camera so they are squeaky clean, without the risk of a mess. -Remember this is big business. They don't want profits to drop. I've seen articles on it written by the stars themselves. One pornstar who doesn't even like anal sex was posed the same question by one of her fans. She said that even though she doesn't like and/or do anal sex scenes, that her friends in the business that do anal scenes most definitely have enemas before having anal sex. I've seen a video clip of Belladonna(pornstar) showing how to take enemas in preparation of having anal sex and so on.
Yes I was given an enema and then he slipped a nice hard cock inside me . I really enjoyed the feeling of being fucked while I was full up... but it was a little messy as I leaked especially when he came...
Definitely nice and have done it a few times now....
Mom used to give me ivory soap suppositories as a kid, to this day I still use them, they just keep getting bigger. Something about the smell of ivory soap just turns me on, and I think Mom was the one that got me started. Never told her though.
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