Anal sex

Any anal, giving or taking, is great! It's a different sensation.

I think of anal sex as an expansion if my sexual repertoire. I love stimulating my prostate during masturbation or getting my prostate stimulated by my partner. My girlfriend and I enjoy having anal intercourse. We both find it very intense and intimate. Before I met my girlfriend, I also tried anal sex with another guy where I had the receptive part. Being penetrated was a great experience - but I definitely prefer my girlfriend doing it with a dildo!

As a woman I have to say I love anal. Just remember guys lube lube lube lol

Definitely the best . As an older guy, I need more intense stimulation, not a loose pussy. A good tight rear fits the bill.

I have tried it once but am looking forward to giving it a try again. With the right people it could be extremely fun. The first time hurt but we were both new and didn't think about lube and the like.. it was a heat of the moment kind of thing.

As important as lube is to prepare the woman for it, taking time, playing, excitement, .... if that is the case, you will enjoy immensely.

My wife and I loved it. I love the way she pegged me and used the dildo and vibe on me. Due to medical situations our sex isn't what it used to be, but by using toys and vibes and dildo's we still manage to have fun.

I would like to try it but it's not something my wife is into.

I've just recently started to have anal sex with partners. And i see my past lifestyle has come up short in expectations. I really love being penetrated from behind and with the right partner it becomes even more intense. Finding the right people makes it a whole lot better.

I love anal sex and my husband gives it to me maybe once every 1 or 2 weeks. We do not plan it or anything but it just sort of happens. It is always in the doggy position and I like to keep my bum high up and so it is easier for his penis to enter. It is just such a nice feeling having him smashing my back doors in. 😈 😜

I LOVE anal sex, oh my God do I love anal sex and everything to do with it!

@Tankers, I think I need to stop reading your posts, lol. There are just some things you can't "unread", lol. Just sayin.

Mashie

I'm immensely anally erotic, but due to various circumstances I have never done it. My exes have done a lot of wonderful playing in my butt, including fingers, toys and enemas, but never asked for anal. Since I've had ED for a long time from meds, I haven't brought it up either. I think I will see if my next woman partner is interested, because I'd like to try it. Also we need to add pegging to my anal experience - I have no doubt I'll love that!

Eric

Eric, done right anal is to an adult like "7 minutes in heaven" was to us as kids. It's magical, you don't know whats going to happen, what it will be like, feel like, but it excites the living crap out of you. Same can apply if it's done wrong it can be the nightmare that haunts you the rest of your life. You will be forever asking yourself things like, "Why did I do that? Why didn't I do that? What was I thinking, what was she thinking? I should have done this, that or the other", and so forth and so on.

I hope the first time for you is a good experience because often times when it comes to things like anal, it will either make ya or break ya. If you need help or advice just give me a call. Nurse Mashie will be there to guide you. Besides that, you can trust me, I'm a nurse. I have to be, I have a t-shirt that says so and everything. I also have one with a picture of a syringe on it that says, "Bend over and drop 'em". I had that one especially made, but it's quite fitting for me I believe. LOL.

Mashie

Anal sex is more complicated than vaginal sex simply because our anatomy did not evolve to have anal sex- anuses evolved for pooping. Our sex drives and intelligence led us to the proposition... hmmm it might feel good if I penetrated an anus.

Mashie is spot on- done right it can be heaven. AND anal is one sex act that both men and women can share in terms of experience. A man and a woman can literally talk/compare about what it feels like to be penetrated anally.

If you are just getting started with anal, take the time to read up and gain some knowledge about how to do it right. It just might be the best sex you ever have.

Anal sex is good. My girlfriend enjoys it too for a change but she prefers penis in vagina sext. When we do have anal sex it's fun for her to lube me up.

When I was at school some of the other lads thought anal was 'gay'. When you're with a girl it can't be gay, so that shows just how much they knew.

I just recently convinced my girl to do film anal and she loved it. I mean she really wanted it hard. I've always wanted to do this but I was still unable to chum even after 5-10 minutes. It really bummed her out. I hope she still wants me to do it more. I would love to cum in her ass. I think it was a mental problem.

Anal is fabulous but you've got to be "more than careful."

I have a great friend, an ex-lover, who finally talked her husband into pegging, ruptured his colon, and they spent 12 months on a colostomy. Trust me as a surgeon, this happens more than you think. Lube, lube and more lube. Always start with the smallest dildo ... always .. and work up, adding more lube. Have fun, be safe, but more lube. One more hint: constantly wash you hands with soap and warm water. There are germs/infections out there today that are drug resistant. Wash your hands, no mater who you are with or how clean they smell ...soap and very warm water!

It has it's ups and downs. ( pun intended ) But I love it, for the most part.

I am very anal erotic, and enjoy anal stimulation myself. My sexual preference is for the more fair sex, so having some hairy guy fuck my ass is not my cup of tea. This is why I like women who are also anal erotic. I have found that there are many well adjusted women who enjoy anal as well as vaginal sex. I personally think that it is a sign of emotional well being.

I have dated a few women who are in denial about anal, some who absolutely refuse to even try. Sometimes I think that some of them may have had trauma from abusive relationships, others with religious back grounds and are simply suppressed. For example, I briefly dated a woman who would only have sex in missionary position, and would only date other christians.. ( I got around this by saying that I live more according to the teachings of Jesus than most so-called christians, but religiously, I would be considered Deep Ecological, finding spirituality through nature)

Anyway, now a days,I do not waste my time, and I look for anal eroticism in a woman before I get too involved. I believe that giving myself sexually is a special thing, and I want to give myself to only the right person. Anal eroticism is like a key for me, if a girl even mentions enemas or anything like it, it turns me on immediately.

My last meaningful relationship was with an amazing, educated and independent woman from Berkeley Ca, a place where amazing and exceptional women seem to hang out. She loved anal, and would enema herself before I came over for the that purpose. It wasn't long before I was giving the enemas to her. But then I fell in love with her, and found myself having vaginal sex. Not sure how to explain it, perhaps I had a primal desire to get her pregnant, which happened and eventually led to us breaking up. She wanted to go to graduate school and I wanted to have a kid with her. I really enjoyed vaginal sex with her, but don't get me wrong, doing her in the butt was really fun too.

I am not in a relationship right now, thinking of going back to graduate school myself. But, I want to meet a woman who is anal erotic, some one special who I can give myself to her and feel like I am not wasting my time.

I briefly dated a woman who would only have sex in missionary position, and would only date other christians.

That has got to be some kind of fetish of itself. Anyone know what it would be called?

@agracier ponders :

That has got to be some kind of fetish of itself. Anyone know what it would be called?

Yeah - I'd say Masochist would fit

I would love to try it, but my wife isn't into it sad to say.

She doesn't want anything going into the backdoor.

Sad to say here in Belgium at the gyn exam they don't do a rectovaginal exam.

That could help to get her over the edge :-)

Oh my, I hope I don't offend anyone here....... I was having the usual anal sex with myself the other day...... usual doesn't quite get the flavour. It is on a regular basis, but it is fantastic in every way and never ceases to amaze me.

Well, this time was even more amazing. I don't seem to need lube anymore. I go slow and my ass provides a lot of lube on it's own. I wouldn't recommend this with a partner because you can feel your own ass better than anyone and I can go slow or stop or whatever based on how it feels. My prostate gets a wonderful feeling when I am pushing with a dildo and after a few strokes I push and squirt or ejaculate or pee. This can go on for an hour or more. I get exhausted, but this time my penis tip burned with the ejaculate. It ended up being firm jelly type ejaculate that I have never seem before. Not as white. It would burn coming out, but I couldn't help cumming at 10 to 20 times. Peeing gives a special satisfaction too. I have never been more aroused in my life, Then, just to see how regular cum was different, I masturbated conventionally and the cum was regular, whiter and creamy.

It was the time of my life. I wonder if I could share this with others. Zity people get that there can be more. I get the sense that we are scratching the surface of what we are capable of. Go forth zity people and discover yourself.

Try anal, try it all.

Love it to feel a cock inside me and him cumming inside me

I'm a fangirl.

BTW, spit isn't lube. Just sayin'.

I've always known that I am bi-sexual and have always been frustrated that I haven't been able to really explore my other side, because I'm happily married to a woman that wouldn't accept my other side. She does know that I love anal stimulation and has quietly accepted that but doesn't participate in my happiness in the regard anymore. I've had three cocks in my ass during my lifetime - 57 years old. I would have had many more but it just hasn't happened. Each and every time, I've been in heaven when the cock was inside of me. Unfortunately on two of the occasions the man came rather quickly and I didn't get to enjoy it as long as I would have liked. On the other occasion the guy fucked me for at least an hour before he came. He wore two condoms and I think it really desensitized him. OMG, I can't even begin to explain how I felt during and after this experience. Unfortunately for me, he was on the smallish side but the sensation was still awesome. I really wish that I could find a secret lover to pound my ass at every opportunity. However, I really don't know how to go about finding one. I love the feeling of being full and deeply penetrated. I use several toys that do both to me. I fantasize constantly about finding a man with a larger cock to just pound me. I can take most of a 10" long by 3" diameter dildo and would love to feel a real cock about that size inside of me just pounding away and then filling me full of his cum. I'm still holding out hope of finding my lover and until then will suffice with my toys.

I truly enjoy giving and receiving anal sex and it all started with getting enemas as a child.

I love getting rammed but unfortunately it's not often enough!

Just have to make do with a cucumber, carrot, dildo, banana or anything else of an appropriate shape and size.

Well, speaking strictly as the do-er, and not the do-ee, anal sex can sometimes bring out my deeply lascivious side.

That's strictly speaking from non-use of condoms--all my partners I insisted on using a rubber with...except for one sweetheart of a guy whose virginity I helped lose and who by far granted me my only long-term and fulfilling relationship.

With him excepted, my experience on the receiving end has been variable.

MeMeMe – I can certainly relate to everything you say. I also love to be thoroughly rooted, but unfortunately the episodes have been too far between.

It has happened I think about six or seven times in the last 20 something years, but not since the late 1980's and I long to find a man as a regular f*ckbuddy.

But I am strictly a bottom, and I'm not into reciprocating, nor am I into the many other things that bi-sexual men want. I just want a man to use me naked and satisfy himself, and for me the great turn-on is the indignity, the shame and humiliation, degradation, indecency, and being denied privacy and modesty as I am first intimately explored and examined, probed and abused, and then ultimately given cock and thoroughly bugg*red. And perhaps I have a little feminine side because I prefer bare-backing and being inseminated. Being naked and exposed in the doggie position, well f*cked and pumped full of cum is overwhelmingly humiliating and degrading, and is perhaps even the ultimate insult to a man to be taken and used by another for his selfish satisfaction, copulated and used as a cum dump. And a gang-bang with several men is my ultimate fantasy, being bugg*red one after another and pumped full of cum. My experiences have mostly been at nude beaches, but I haven't been screwed for very many years and I'm now in my early 60's. I am registered on a few adult and bi-sex websites, but I have never hooked up with anyone via those places and the big problem (maybe) is my desire simply to be had and used for f*cking with no interest in the many other aspects of M/M sex. And by "no interest" I mean that there is nothing else that turns me on sexually. It gets me horny to imagine sucking a cock and even being spit-roasted by two men, but I don't want a mouthful of cum, and otherwise I do not get sexually excited about other activities. If I am not horny about doing other things then it's not enjoyable. So there are very few men who are interested in having a wench just for a f*ck-slut with little or nothing offered in return.