Anal sex

I love anal sex. Makes me feel taken, submissive. It’s pain an pleasure and I love when his hot load is emptied into my ass, then have it to leak out later.

I have never had anal sex. I would like to try but too often it is associated with domination and pain and that frightens me and turns me off. If my partner was loving and gentle I think I would like anal sex. In my fantasies I think of it as a "daddy enema". I have played with my anus and vagina at the same time and it felt good. Why would I like anal sex? Probably for the same reason I like regular sex. It makes me feel full.

@Patty10 Loving and gentle is a good place to start with your partner. He should be a good listener too. Having been on both ends of anal intercourse I can tell you that it can be INCREDIBLE!

I like anal plays and I would need a wife to like anal sex and ass play, enemas.

I love everything about anal sex. Everything. I’m not a submissive person but I love to have someone fuck my ass and cum in me. I both love the stimulation of a thick cock or toy and I love deep penetration with a long flexible toy.

Like most, I love anal sex. From both positions. I am slightly obsessed with the idea of proffering my ass and being screwed to orgasm. I have been pegged a few times in the past but unfortunately not for a long time. Maybe that is why it occupies my brain so much of the time now.

My wife occasionally likes to have anal sex from time to time too. Generally I prefer this to vaginal sex as I seen to last longer!

I have tried anal 5 times or less. I think I need more times to play to get a more accurate picture. So far I like it.

Always loved the thought of playing with a female ass and analing her and now I want to try being on the receiving end.

Pegging is very satisfying

Anal sex is great When the anus is tight you get a feeling that you are in control of every movement that occurs It also gives the person you are having sex with great pleasure

I think it is great but requires patience and gentleness with proper lubrication. Before I was taken in the behind, my husband "trained" me by inserting gradually increased diameter but plugs and vibrators until I could accommodate his maleness size. So discomfort was minimal mostly just a real sense of being stretched a bit as he entered me the first time. I also think cleanliness is an absolute essential so far as I am concerned which involves a series of delightful enemas that I like to take several hours before anal sex. I also like to eat very little the day prior to anal sex. Done right, both my husband and I find it really sexy. I have returned him the favor at times with a strap on but not near as often. He is the giver more than the the taker!! Denise

I think anal sex is in the DNA , myself and my sister have talked about this and we both like anal better than vaginal for some reason

I think anal sex is in the DNA , myself and my sister have talked about this and we both like anal better than vaginal for some reason

My sister is a prude of the first order, so in my case no DNA influence ... ha ha. The only thing anal about her is that she is a pain in the ass ...

I'd say that liking anal sex is partly cultural - there can't be a constant vilification of the practice, because then fewer people will be willing to try it out.

But it is probably mainly about nerve endings and pleasurable sensations that occur when stimulating the anal region. People are suckers for pleasurable sensations ...

If it's a pain in the ass you aren't doing it right.

Hey GyneDoll..... do you have any sisters like you ? omg

Anal sex - it's a mystery; why do I crave it? Maybe because it's not something I cannot have... maybe because the female derriere is so exciting that I'm driven to it? Maybe some sort of primitive male thing..

My wife suggested I post what we do as a “step towards or instead of full anal sex”. So far she does not want my penis in her rectum. She does however enjoy the following as do I!:

She lays face down on the bed naked. Legs together but relaxed. I am usually already erect from anticipation. I put KY gel lube in her butt crack and then on the underside of my penis. Keep a hand towel nearby to wipe excess.

I get on top of her and slide my cock forward and back thrusting into her buttocks. I am now rock hard and if I thrust quickly ( if goal is fast sex) I can cum quickly . If not, I start slow and then speed up. I can either “ hold her down” with my body or support my self with arms. We use adequate KY and the gel makes a squishing sound as it warms up from the friction. As soon as I begin to ejaculate, I try to hold still so she can feel the hot seman spurt in her butt crack. Sometimes I aim the head of cock down right against her anus. I tell her” you are going to feel this” as the seman spurts against her anus. She squeezes her butt cheeks and last time said the seman felt very hot.

When she knows I am horny and she is not interested in vaginal penetration , she will say, “ honey , you can butt fuck me if you wish.

I always clean her up afterwards.

I admit, I fantasize about penetrating her rectum as I ejaculate but respect her wishes.

She says she likes the “feeling of being dominated “ and the feel of the ejaculation spurting onto her.

Do this about once a week.

She is always ready to give me a hand job but I really enjoy thrusting when I climax. I seem to ejaculate with much more volume. Anyone else notice more ejaculate when thrusting?

Try it!

My personal feelings and views about anal sex are from a gay perspective.

i discovered my anus as a sex organ way before my penis, i think i was about 7 or 8. i was at a friends house and he showed me an enema kit and nozzle and gleefully explained how it was done. i secretly had a crush on Him and as soon as i got home, i found our enema in a cabinet in the bathroom and the nozzle became my first dildo.

For me, anal penetration has always been associated with another person, or fantasy about a penetrating person. In retrospect, i've been able to piece together and see my earliest 'sub nature' and how i was attracted to 'Dom' guys. The first time i penetrated myself with that enema nozzle, i connected the act with the boy who told me about it.

i ascribe to the spectrum theory of sex, it makes sense to me and seems to fit. i see identifiers like Top, Dom, on one end, versatile somewhere in the middle and bottom, sub, on the other end. i know that's a personal point of view, that there's such a thing as sub tops, though that doesn't really fit for me. Though most of my sexual experience is with guys, i think women can be "Top, bottom or versatile." One of the reasons i think my marriage to a woman was so difficult (besides my being gay lol) was because we were both "bottoms" and both pretty "sub." i also like the yin/Yang explanation sexually applied.

Besides the obvious physical pleasure i derive from anal sex, there are deep emotional/psychological components as well. i've come to view people as penetrators by 'nature' or receivers, or a mixture of both. i see some with a drive to create, to "penetrate" another with their person and leave a part of their person, or mark, on that person. The two seem connected to me. On the other hand, i see others with a drive to be penetrated by another, to receive a part of that person into their self and be 'marked' by that person.

Beyond the physical, anal sex for me is about receiving the need of the guy i am with to penetrate and put and leave a part of Himself inside of me. For me, when He orgasms, it's like His orgasm (and all that comes with it) is now mine... like He has put it, a part of Himself, inside of me and a part of Himself (way over simply put) is now inside and a part of me.

i have very detailed ideas of the Top/bottom, D/s, yin/Yang dynamic. i see anal sex as a physical expression of our emotional, psychological selves.

Ok , bottom line on anal sex , its a hole in the body, a cave , and what do we do with all holes , and caves , we explore !!!

@AnneM, Great way of looking at anal sex. Kinda like being a prospector looking for the mother load. My husband struck it rich and staked his claim many years ago. He still mines it quite often! And it keeps on giving and giving and giving! Gotta Love That! 🌹

I love anal sex! Lol, I love anything anal! I love being doggy style position and my husband is firmly grabbing my hips and thrusting firmly. Yes, lots and lots and lots of lube with much of it injected before play. I love the feeling the warm cum inside!

Love anal sex so much and anything anal.

I think its the ultimate pleasure receiving, toys or flesh.

Anal the only kind of penetration where women and men feel the same action. If a couple (m/f or m/m) like to change the active and passive role, both of them understand to pleasure the other.

Anal sex would be a real great thing for couples. It makes the sexuality come into a new higher level. Ther are so many things to do and find out about anal feelings.

I love it ?

In the 50's and 60's, girls(women) employed anal sex as a form of birth control. It was the only method of having complete sex that gave the man a complete sexual experience, and the woman, both, the sexual experience and an assurance she wouldn't get pregnant. How were we to know it was a gold mine for all of us?

In the 50's and 60's, girls(women) employed anal sex as a form of birth control.

Darn! Too bad I never met one of those gals. Can you imagine it - her saying, "Sorry, I don't want to get PG, so can you do me up my ass?.... Or, I'm a virgin and want to save myself till marriage, so can you do me up the ass?

In the 50's and 60's, girls(women) employed anal sex as a form of birth control.

I'm not sure that is true across the board. Some may have done it - but I suspect a lot more did hand jobs, oral, or early withdrawal. I was a teenager in the sixties and we explicitly shared our sexual adventures. Never heard anyone talk about anything anal.

My wife and I both loved anal sex!

I'm not sure that is true across the board. Some may have done it - but I suspect a lot more did hand jobs, oral, or early withdrawal.

I agree with this. I don't think anal sex was main stream and "Good girls" didn't do it. It wasn't something discussed much. Being anally inclined I tried to get my wife to " Give it up" and she thought the idea disgusting. She never did relent even after I bought her a car once and she used anal sex as an enticement. When it came time to pay up that bung closed so tight you couldn't have pushed a BB through it. She just couldn't get past the stigma. She hates the big E too.