Anal sex

Penetrating my wife anally... Well I like feeling the buttocks, and the anus is tighter than the vagina so orgasm comes quicker. Plus, an impression of slight dominance, and some satisfaction of doing her in a way she had never dared try with somebody else.

Getting pegged? It's naughty and submissive, though I don't orgasm from it.

My wife's vision of receiving anal: it's very naughty and submissive. The vagina is where respectable married women do wifely duties, the anus is for naughty girls. She takes it on the stomach while fingering herself (she cannot orgasm from it without fingering).

My wife's vision of pegging: it's a welcome reversal of roles, plus the Feeldoe feels good.

My favourite form of gay sex!

I love it. It has to be done right of course. It's not a wham bam activity by no means. Maybe because of that the enjoyment is heightened due to the care and patience and time required. It's not a LOT but some good lube and starting with one finger and increasing the number rather quickly will relax and the nerve endings get all excited and the heart races until the tip of the penis you feel slowly pushes in all slippery like u till it's buried deep. Then I need a few breaths to adjust and let the movement in and out begin. So hot!! It's exciting and although I've never orgasmed just from that, it certainly makes getting there really quick with any kind of clitoral stimulation. Although I've never tried pegging since I haven't been with someone who would like to try...I'd certainly give that a go. I do enjoy playing with a guy's backside any and all ways...and I've done rimming and enjoyed it. Give and take. Both pleasurable and hot!

Anal sex can be a lot of fun and feel wonderful.

If I was forced to make a choice between vaginal and anal sex for a lifetime, I would have to chose vaginal sex.

Vaginal sex is just the bees knees!

Anal sex is a goodness.. it beats the hell out of card games :-)

Well Doc you say it beats the hell out of card games but you have never played cards with your naughty nurse.

I am with you Susie, while I LOVE anal sex so much, if I had to pick one or the other for the rest of my life it would be vaginal sex for me too. It is the bee's knee's and a bag of chips, lol.

Mashie

My wife is like Mashie and Susie. Vaginal sex is what she normally wants (oral is nice but mostly as foreplay).. it's daily life. Anal is for special cravings of naughtiness.

Gee, Mashie, I would thought you'd have recognized the line.. Does anybody recognise it? (I know you will, Mashie honey, when you think about it..)

Neither of my wives like[d] anal sex, so my experience is limited to one time with a girl friend almost 40 years ago. It was pleasant, but not so much that I have any overwhelming desire to do it more often. Vaginal sex is fine for me.

OTOH, I am somewhat anal erotic, and enjoy anal sex play and penetration. My wife will play occasionally, and I have plenty of time during my travels to indulge myself when I want.

OTOOH, old age and hemorrhoids make it less pleasant on a regular basis as the years go on...

Intruder, regular plug wearing DOES make hemorrhoids go away. On a day when they subside somewhat(they're not such pain in the ass 😃 ) use a smooth small to medium sized plug for as long you're comfortable, and repeat every day for a week or so. You should notice less and less 'rhoids troubles!. Of course, be sensible; use safe materials (silicone, glass, metal) and oils instead of water based lubes (I find water based lubes irritate a sore lining). Diet, hydration and hygiene back there are also all too important! You should be fine in no time!

And to keep on topic; as a fan of all things anal - anal sex is something I can not do without!

I agree with alot of the comments anal is for a feeling of being naughty and like some say for a respectable wife

I love everything related to anal sex. It's all about it being 'forbidden' I guess

An extended relationship with a man gradually progressed to anal sex. At his request, I used my strap-on on him...which he enjoyed..heck, so did I. We were both sensual and enjoyed new ways of pleasuring each other...I loved it when he slipped a finger into my brown star, just a bit, while his other hand found my clitty---this is what turned me on to anal pleasures. He loved to apply lots of lube to me, then watch me slowly insert my dildo vaginally and begin in and out, in and out, then his finger slipped in my back hole, and when I could rub my lubed clitty, very sudden, oh so great orgasm..The first time he tried to penetrate me anally, I just could not relax and we did not use enough lube...we stopped. No go.I like to plan anal sex so I can enema cleanse before...patient, careful lovers we were and I learned to relax, used copious amounts of lube, and eventually could take all of him in my rectum...became mutually pleasurable, erotic, incredibly full feeling...I trusted him completely and knew he would stop and knew he would not hurt me.Trust and Patience and Mutual Respect are required traits for an anal sex partner....actually for an enema partner as well.He and I never got into enemas.Though we both enjoyed our relationship, we have both moved on.With the right partner, I hope to again enjoy anal sex, enemas, oral sex....etc...

This reminds me of the old joke. (Maybe I should post this in the joke section, but it seem relevant to this discussion.)

Two little girls were playing. Mary said, "Janie, what do you think of sex?" Janie replied, "Oh, Mary, I think it is a pain in the ass." To which Mary replied, "Well,Janie, maybe you are doing it wrong."

hankb

I think it is God's will that humans enjoy anal sex as well. Think of the ways a woman can make a man ejaculate. By vagina of course. Then there is blowjob and by hand. But for these two jobs, the woman has to work on it. But anal sex is like vaginal sex. The woman doesn't have to anything, just take it. I think anus is there for sex too.

I think it is God's will that humans enjoy anal sex as well ... I think anus is there for sex too.

It's also a form of gender equality sexual activity as well. Both genders can enjoy the same feelings.

Honestly not a boast (because I'm only not that much longer than average at about 7 inches), but because an early girlfriend of many years ago was a tiny 4 foot 9 inches only(!!) she had real trouble relaxing and enjoying sex because of risk of over-penetration. I'd try to use only two-thirds of my cock but my enthusiasm and our shifting about always ended up giving her a painful STAB IN THE CERVIX so she'd be tense and close her knees together if I used much more than half my cock at anything near a frenzied pace. Not very satisfying for either of us. We tried reverse cowgirl, etc, but it's really never going to be good fucking when you're 7 inches and she's only good for about 6 inches. Tiny pussy, & tiny mouth too, so my relatively large cockhead was about all she could stuff into her mouth and she caught her teeth on it if she tried bobbing on it.

ANAL TO THE RESCUE! When our mutual (female) friend suggested anal intercourse as a thing to try for these circumstances I thought she was nuts. Too big for her pussy must surely mean too big for her ass? However, it is medically a fact that although an ass is tighter, it can accommodate much longer cocks. An average woman can comfortably take 7" in her vagina (when stimulated), but she can take two more inches up her butt. For my Robyn, being smaller she'd be at least an inch shorter than both these penetration depths, but still leaving enough depth for me to give her full stroke butt-fucks even if not vag-fucks.

Turns out Robyn had actually done anal before (I hadn't at that stage !!) but it seems not many girls volunteer it so she hadn't offered it to me as an option up till then.

I got to learn that alcohol, significant cunnilingus, slobbery tongue-assault on & in her puckered hole, wetting it, fingering it, lubing it, then butt-plugging while giving her a half cock-length pussy fuck, was all good preparation for steadily, increasingly vigorous anal intercourse.

It extended the life and quality of our sexual relations. I found there's nothing quite like 7 inch cock full-stroke bum fucking of a small girlfriend. After good prep, she really did usually enjoy it almost as much as I did!

ANYONE else had similar relief they couldn't get through pussy sex through incompatible sizes?

@Sten said

...... but because an early girlfriend of many years ago was a tiny 4 foot 9 inches only(!!) she had real trouble relaxing and enjoying sex because of risk of over-penetration. I'd try to use only two-thirds of my cock but my enthusiasm and our shifting about always ended up giving her a painful STAB IN THE CERVIX so she'd be tense and close her knees together if I used much more than half my cock at anything near a frenzied pace. ........................

ANAL TO THE RESCUE! When our mutual (female) friend suggested anal intercourse as a thing to try for these circumstances I thought she was nuts. Too big for her pussy must surely mean too big for her ass?.................................

ANYONE else had similar relief they couldn't get through pussy sex through incompatible sizes?

I can sympathise with this, as an ex-girlfriend was a similar height at approximately 4'10", making her over 18 inches shorter than myself. Quite a few women I had slept with were on the short side, but she was the shortest, and the height difference made sex difficult in a number of ways. Over-penetration was always a hazard, and I had to keep penetration quite shallow and use short strokes. She actually didn't mind if her cervix was touched, but just as long as contact wasn't too heavy. So I adapted to my partner to overcome the size incompatibility. I don't think she would have been at all keen on the idea of anal sex due to her small size relative to me, and so I never actually suggested it.

My wife is 5'11" and she is much more physically compatible with me. There's no doubt she enjoys anal sex, and it isn't to avoid vaginal sex either. 😁

I have come close several times. I have got the head in, just about to disappear and the screaming starts. I am always careful and use plenty of lube,would never hurt her. I guess I will have to be patient and keep trying. I have always wondered how good a tight ass would feel , and explode deep inside .

My girlfriend loves anal sex.She loves the feel of me going deep inside of her and if we have not had anal sex in a bit asks me to take her anally. She wants me to come just inside of her so that she can feel me drip out of her ass afterwards. She has even had another guy when we are having 3somes take her anally. I am one lucky guy.

I am an anal man...my wife is not interested in it...when ever I am alone, I give tight nice spankings to my buttocks using wooden brush , and then lo behold my anal hole is ready to be fucked. First I insrt well lubed small anal toys like that of two fingers and then gradually dilate upto almost 1.5 inckes in diameter ...once my ass is relaxed and open to almost 1.5 inches then using my toys,,lying on my back on the edge of the bed, and my legs hanging up in air as is done in missionary position of fucking , I just fuck my ass hole till the discharge...and this really is very satisfying....it is wonderful sensation to fuck oneself till the point of ectasy....

I like anal sex a lot - if the right person is doing it with me. I like a man to go slowly, let me warm up, start pressing the head of his penis against my anus, and then let me bear down as he slowly penetrates me. If it doesn't hurt, he's doing it right! On the other hand, when a partner just jams it in there, it is incredibly painful and unpleasant because my body isn't ready.

The sensation is very different from vaginal sex, and while I wouldn't say I prefer anal over vaginal sex, I do find it very enjoyable. I especially like it when my partner pulls his penis all the way out way out so I feel the sensation of him entering me over and over again. For me, it's definitely better if it's slower. Hmmm, I like that too for vaginal sex, so maybe it's that it's an unusual sensation, it's a little submissive, and because it's not the "norm" it feels exciting to be doing something different and slightly taboo.

Maybe I just like being a dirty girl...

.. (tiny GFs) ... I can sympathise with this, as an ex-girlfriend was a similar height at approximately 4'10", making her over 18 inches shorter than myself. Over-penetration was always a hazard, and I had to keep penetration quite shallow and use short strokes. I don't think she would have been at all keen on the idea of anal sex due to her small size relative to me, and so I never actually suggested it.

Such a shame you didn’t raise anal as an option with your small ex. Once warmed up, it’s the only option that doesn’t risk over-penetration as tiny women can take more up their butts than pussies. In the case of my Robyn, after we got well practiced with warm-up & lube, she preferred not having to constantly stress about the prospect of receiving an over-penetrating painful thrust into her cervix. With almost all of our penetrative sex becoming anal, she got a lot more cunnilingus and fingering from me than ever before, and we both enjoyed full-length fucking rather than clumsy half strokes with her legs protectively half closed. So, our recipe was to give big attention to her pussy and clit with mouth & fingers, then extend that to include her asshole, then ease in a comfortably sized & lubed butt plug, while continuing to spend lots more time working on her puss. Replace butt plug by easing in your well lubed erection, as slowly as she wants. Then just park there, letting her fully acclimatise! Spoons position is good, so you can keep working her clit and finger her vagina. It’s quite tantric to feel all of your erection up your tiny lover’s ass, just holding it steady. Don’t overstay your welcome. Two minutes like that, then relube before two minutes of powering in and out of her using the full length of your erection to fuck her as hard as you’re confident she’s become able to take. Fucking hard like this into a tight but fully relaxed and lubed anus sees me cum well before she starts to get too sore to do this regularly. And don’t imagine it as one-sided (with her as grimacing or “putting up with it”), she loved it, wetting the sheets from her pussy. It was a fully mutual enjoyment in spite of her small size, in a way that vaginal sex wasn’t for either of us. Visually, it was great too. It felt like my cockhead was plunging up inside her ribcage.

Good on you Sten, My partner will be very interested in what you say. regards, irrigator333

Its fantastic for me

The first time my old gf pegged me it was basically a full tllt full body BIG O like that first time I watched the film *The Story Of O* and I wish I had a copy of that flick on a HD. She stopped after about IDK 10-15 minutes and I was completely exhausted. If I'd ever been able to fuck her even half as good as she had just pegged me I bet we'd still be together.

I get more erotic enjoyment from a nice dildo banging my backside than the BEST BJ in the world and this gal was the Albert Einstein of BJs.

That's why I decided a long ass time ago my next gf wood need to be a kinky bitch cuz vanilla sex tho nice just don't git er done fer me. So I have a kinky gf who gives me fwb sex anytime I want. It's a real nice situation we have. It was HER IDEER TOO. Yehaaaaaaaaaaa

Sten you oughta WRITE A SELF HELP BOOK on everthang you just said about proper anal sex with small to tiny ladies. Everthang you said I've seen here and there in other self help websites. There's a couple ladies on YT that give sexual advice but it is more from a clinical perspective. They are cute women too, you know nice looking. I cant member their names 2 of them are a team both emotionally/physically and professionally bring humor into the mix which is truly wonnerful as some folks are quite shy when discussing such subjects. But if you can put a smile on someones face they'll usually relax enuf to ask their questions so they can be helped.

In fact it would be wonnerful if more tiny ladies had this info available to them and here's why: Many girls and gals wood be walking around with that **just fucked really well last night** look on their faces with their hubbies or boyfriends and the world at large might just enjoy that elusive thing known as Peace

Anal. I think I don't have it often enough.

Anal is as important to me as breathing. I use a dildo on myself about 5 nights a week, but I really need to find a GF that's into anal, and pegging.

I prefer anal sex and I'm hoping to find a woman that wants to go anal-only.

Unfortunately my current partner isn't that much into anal though she has strong orgasms every time we do it. I guess it's growing on her