How do you feel about sex and masturbation?

Tell us how you feel about sex and masturbation ??

the feeling of being dirty or naughty or even should it be done in side the house or out side the house .

I'm interested in others views

Both things are wonderful in all their atritbutes.

Masturbation is terrific on your own or with a partner. The sensations are just great. Children should be taught to do it (not necessarily by watching them, but by books or other literature) by their parents rather than get lousy information from their friends.

Sex is great with a trusted partner even when you are doing it for the fun of it. It has even better sensations when you are doing it with a loved one.

My daughters have told me they masturbate in our conversations and I support it. A few years ago I even left a bottle of astroglide in their medicine cabinet. The older daughter thanked me, but said she gets soaking wet just thinking about boys or sex and didn't need it unless she was having a masturbation marathon. I related to that because when I was her age, I would masturbate until my arms were spastic and I was completely orgasmed out of breath and couldn't make circles with my fingers anymore!

I love masturbating, especially with someone, and i love masturbating a woman, i love watching her face when i masturbate her

i do agree that it should be thought, in my case, i had to discover it on my own and i didn even know how it was call for several year until we had sexuality lesson in high school

There is a place for masturbation in a sexual relationship.

I see no reason why you can't masturbate yourself if it creates enjoyment.

Masturbating your partner can bring enormous pleasure as you can concentrate on satisfying the needs of one person. You don't have to both try and climax at the same time.Your partner can then return the favour.

I have masturbated both males and females, and you can enjoy the reaction of their complete body as orgasm is achieved. Often the strength of the orgasm is stronger.

Masturbation is a tremendous stress reliever for me. It is a way to finish off a lousy day or begin a day with eager anticipation. Masturbation with a partner is very enjoyable...and you can masturbate each other which is a fun experience and an intense experience.

I don't know about teaching my kids to masturbate Susie but I will definentaly let them know about it. I want to teach my kids about safe sex aswell as fun sex. When my kids get to the age of thirteen my boy will be getting condoms and lube. In case of women having trouble with self lubrication. And I will be encouraging my girl to go on the pill. Not that I expect them to need it. But its better they know how to have risk free and certainly fun sex. And yes I will be getting him assorted condoms including ribbed and studded :p

^^^^ You would be better off giving your daughter condoms (and education and an admonishment) also.

It isn't so good for developing bodies to be on the pill so young.

All men masturbate. There is an old joke that someone once took a poll to see how many boys masturbated. The results showed that 98% masturbated and 2% were liars.

"All men masturbate. There is an old joke that someone once took a poll to see how many boys masturbated. The results showed that 98% masturbated and 2% were liars".

Actually, I have heard of that poll. I think the results are probably very accurate. I am wondering what percentage of women/girls mastrubate.

Generally, I like it.

Masturbation is a totally natural act, either alone or with a partner. There is no reason whatsoever to feel guilty or ashamed over it. Just do it and enjoy. And share it with a friend whenever you can.

ldb

Why not? It's a real turn on to watch your partner, and a great predule to great sex.

Masturbation has been around since the beginning of time.

So why not enjoy and share with someone.

When done with another can be extremely erotic and enjoyed by both.

And then you can switch and have the other person be the masturbater and you can be the mastubatee.

I just love masturbating, and cannot get enough of it. I have just masturbated while reading the thoughts here, and will do so again when I have finished all my entries. It is such a cheap and easy way to have pleasure and one never gets tired of it.

Sex with a partner is great, and if in the right context probably better than masturbation, but it is not nearly as readily available and flexible and you cannot just have it whenever you think about it as you can with masturbation.

Masturbation can be very erotic within the couple , but is in another way very rewarding alone 😁 😁 😁 a long as you find a place for it and it doesn t interference with your couple sexual life, it s only benefit 😁

Masturbation is very human. I have read that besides humans, only kangaroos masturbate. For me, masturbating is total relaxation, it's almost like meditating because I really live only in that moment. And with some practice and mental focus, it is possible to delay my climax for hours and keep my sexual energy at a high level for a long time. But I must say, sex together is always more fun, because you can share it. But unfortunately, there is not always someone to share it with.

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Masturbation is very human. I have read that besides humans, only kangaroos masturbate.

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Actually, I think all primates masturbate. And I think I read something about dolphins once, though I'm not sure how that would work, exactly... them not having opposible thumbs and all. Maybe that's why they molest humans occasionally. They're attracted to our fingers....

As Anne said, all primates masturbate.

The great apes and chimpanzees are also known to perform oral sex on each other both heterosexually and especially homosexually in males.

Horses do it too!

I've had a few intact males over the years that when bored or stressed, will masturbate by slapping their erect penises against their belly. The sound is distinctive but so is the evidence; semen on the back of their front legs and over development of a certain group of abdominal muscles.

The cure? A penis ring. You guessed it, it's the biggest cock ring you've ever seen. It prevents them from becoming erect. Of course, gelding them also works.

Play On!

LadyDoc

Well back to the original question..I like It..especially if someone else is doing the... hand work shall we say.

Thanks lucam, we had gotten wildly off the path there! And I agree with you, masturbation is a wonderful thing, but I like it best when shared with someone special.

Play On!

LadyDoc

Your welcome ladydoc....and your so right about it being more fun shared with someone else.

I love masterbating. It is really fun when you and your partner are doing it together. That is so hot!!!!!!!!!!!!

I take upwards of 45 mins (not bragging, just takes a while) before I can even contemplate cumming. My missus ALWAYS cums before me unless she spends a good 20 mins + wanking me off first, although I prefer wanking myself (I can generally get myself off better). I'm currently trying to get her to engage in some prostate manipulation. At the moment she will take (occasionally), but won't give any further than between the anus and the testicles! :-(

Hey Lilla,

There are times when masturbation is totally necessary. Like when a (my) partner reaches menopause and drys up and looses total interest in sex and the other partner (me) doesn't want to find a fuck buddy because of the agreement with the partner of the first part. In my case masturbation is it. We have been in counseling and are slowly working through our issues. Until the issues are worked out one way or another it's just me and miss Michigan... and any toys I can find

Love sex & masturbation... I don't ever remember a time in my life when I didn't masturbate (even long before puberty). I think masturbation is part of being alive.

I read in some posts earlier that horses and monkeys do it. I read an article that scientists have discovered that male dolphins do it as well. The scientists used to wonder why the males would gather in large groups. They did it to have a lot of other bodies to rub against...

When I was little, I used to do it by rubbing my penis against my belly (windshield wiper style). I didn't start pumping it until other kids talked about it in school.

I understand why some religions (and some people) think that masturbation is wrong, but I think that they are seriously misunderstanding (and underestimating) the importance of masturbation in developing a normal, healthy sexuality. Much like interacting with kids when you are young prepares you to socialize as an adult, I think we learn to be sexual beings through practice, first on on our own and then later with our partners.

I am married now and have a good sex life with my wife, but I still masturbate regularly. It is as much a part of who I am as my personality or my genes...

A friend once told me that all sex "was masturbation." Masturbation was defined as the desire to reach orgasm. When engaged with others in sexual activity, she believed she used others and they used her. She had a viewpoint that caused me to think.

For me masturbation goes with enjoying my regular enemas and have become a very important part of my sex life!

My wife knows I masturbate quite frequently (once every day). We have sex 2-3 times per week and usually masturbate each other during our sex sessions. She knows I need to get "off".

Mutual masturbation is a very nice thing to do for each other. I usually do my ladyfriend first as it takes a bit longer for her than me. Then she does me. Sometimes we just would rathur do that instead of intercourse.