How do you feel about sex and masturbation?

I am a chronic masturbator and my wife outright encourages it. It's better that I am jerking off than cheating on her. We still have great sex though.

One of the best sex moments in my life was when my wife told me it was okay to beat my dick like it owed me money as much as I want. I grew up with more than the usual amount of guilt about masturbation. If she's not in the mood, I will masturbate in bed as we watch TV or talk.

Well I love it. I didn't quite know what masturbating even was at first...just knew it felt good playing with myself. Didn't know what the heck was going on first time I had an orgasm...it actually scared me. I soon learned that it would be many many years of fun.

I'm like most posting here. I masturbate often. For me it relieves stress.

While my SO believes that it is important for me to have frequent ejaculations for prostate health, she believes that solo masturbation reduces my ejaculatory control. Therfore, she masturbates me a few times a week along with a prostate massage(usually after an enema). When she is working a late shift (she is a nurse) I am forced to wear a sheath urinal to prevent me from solo masturbation. This seems to work as I have developed excellent staying power.

It's been said that masturbation is like a game of Bridge. If you don't have a good partner, you better have a good hand. 😃

Always buy pornographic books in hardback because they're easier to hold with one hand.

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merewantscookies 😁

You have the wrong attitude here, you really want to be able to take your time and enjoy this very much, even if it is more then once a day. So your answers are NO fast & easy way to enjoy this, at your young age, you may be only using pads not tampons,tampons helps a little, as it helps you relax your mussels with a tampon in, time will help here also.

The intensity of a orgasm, is your own doing or not doing. soo yoou need to do so "recon" of yourself, go to the web site milk and cookies and click on "my parts" and then lock you door and look in a mirror, on your bed to see all of the different parts, and feel around, what does this do? and that is? Buy yourself some personal lube, condoms at a dollar store, and find some thing the correct size for your vagina, and lube up and go to it"

So now you have a new insight to yourself, take your time and feel the inside again, where people are tell you to go is the "g spot" it is up front and past the pelvic bone, that is the one the that sticks out on the lower part below your belly.

Have fun in other places, like your brothers' room, outside some where less traveled, on a hard chair, knees and legs on the out side of it, try rubbing on your belly, use some old pantyhose and lube it up heavily, this is a thrill ride - to find a great orgasm.

Lasting a few seconds,, is at least a start, and you just slow down and enjoy more of this, you will be feeling great in know time.

Some posts state that masturbation is ok as long as sex with the partner isn't impeded. I agree.

But I also think that masturbation can actually make sex in a partnership easier (and here I mean "solo masturbation").

Without masturbating frequently I become inconsiderate of her mood and may become obnoxious with my wish to have sex even when she doesn't. Not too great...

I like the following alternative when she is too tired for sex: she let's me sniff her pussy or ass (no touching/licking/kissing; too ticklish!) while I masturbate and she just lazily pulls and tugs on my balls or puts a finger on my ass.

Her scents just do it for me.

Masturbation is great,as I sit here with my catheter in place I would love to have a good wank to relieve myself of those toxins,it makes me very appreciative of the basics in life that have been gifted to us.

If anyone knows of a way around my dilemma then please come forward,it will be much appreciated at this time,yours 'Missing my masturbation deeply'

I love to masturbate as it being my only outlet as my wife lost interest in sex many years ago, and finds even talking about it distasteful. I would love sex as well but the opportunity rarely happens for me.

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Re: How do you feel about sex and masturbation?

Umm, well, I like them both. 😄

I'm sure that I am addicted because I jerk off way too much and can't give it up or just don't care to give it up. I have never had bad sex solo. I am always drained and satisfied and I am always ashamed. I love bopping the bishop! I haven't gone blind and my palms are not hairy, yet anyway. LOL 😶

I think they should be ok together. if you like to masturbate alone theres no reason not to do it around your partner.

Sex is ALWAYS way more fun than masurbating....but masturbating during sex

enhances the sex TREMENDOUSLY....

"tell us how you feel about sex and masturbation ??"

2 different things in my world.

MB is all about me. My pleasure and fantasizing. For me it's the epitome of the most personal thing about me. I'd rather share dark secrets about myself then MB in front of someone. It's a stress relief as well, not just the physical but emotional. Sometimes makes me feel like I can escape to a fantasy world in my head when I need to. I rarely MB without fantasy.

Sex for me is all about the other person. Engaging the other person and seeing how much I can make them feel loved. I love to keep going on my wife until she says stop. I love trying to outdo my wife, which usually isn't hard since she is quiet selfish. Sex is a bonding experience with the other person: mind, body and spirit. It's a different kind of fulfillment than MB is. I don't "need" sex but feel content afterwards if that makes any sense. I do need the orgasm release but can get that on my own if necessary.

One is not better than the other, just different. Although if my wife never refused me, I would abstain from MB at her request.

Masturbation is a natural part of life.

Sex..........is a natural part of life.

As has already been mentioned, both are wonderful.

G.N.

It is like playing bridge... If you don't have a good partner, ya better have a good hand.

Cheers ya'll

I think it is Woody Allen who said: "masturbation is making love to some one you really love".

It WAS Woody Allen. 😁

Feel always down after ejaculate by myself.Would love to do it with a women

Switchablesusie,

Sorry. English is not my mother tongue. With my french logic, I used the present tense as I was refering to a living person.

It was Woody Allen who said it. I was not correcting your grammar. I was agreeing with who you thought it was.

I think Woody said that more than 40 years ago.

Oh the joy ,skin so sensitive just brushing past someone would bring on an erection ,wish I was a teen again .

Love this subject

I haven't had sex in nearly 20 years ,

My late wife and Ienjoyer sex yn any form .We both knew that the other did , So what , neight had any problem with that .

WC

Its all I have for now so yes have done it many times

My wife loves to watch me play with myself expecially fucking myself with dildos

Best things since sliced bread

A lot of people don't realize that sex makes you smarter. It increases circulation, gives off endorphins, etc...

I tried it once.

Then again and again, I think I like it, 60 years later I still like it.

I like it. I like mutual masterbation too with my fiance. It's a natural thing.