My views may be considered old fashioned, that is due to my bieng brought up as a young boy by my grandmother, I however think my more moral views better than todays amoral way of life,
sex in my opinion is, and should be for procreation, and nothing more, whilst i will admit a great many these days see sex as something for leisure, i do not have that experience, nor do i think it wise, in a civilised and polite society such baser urges should be striven to be resisted,
as for masturbation, that i rather find to be a disgusting practice that makes me feel dirty and serves no purpose at all, far from bieng pleasurable, it is a distraction that should be discouraged,
finding certain thoughts, images or fetishes to be erotic, or even arousing is one thing, but one should ideally abstain from further action sexually.