Why do women like anal intercourse?

I have always wanted to do it although my ex didn't.

I think its about wanting the domination.

I like to submit to my husband some times and anal sex doggy style makes me feel that the most. So yeah he is dominating me (but he is still kind).

This woman gives her own account (on the Literotica site) of how she got into anal play and anal sex specifically, mentioning how resistant she was to it beforehand.

She gives guys several suggestions about getting a woman into it.

Very detailed and personal and intense.

https://www.literotica.com/s/how-to-open-an-ass

I like to submit to my husband some times and anal sex doggy style makes me feel that the most. So yeah he is dominating me (but he is still kind).

The idea of wanting anal sex "to be dominated" or to submit to your husband is only that way if that is your desire. That isn't a rule.

It's only a submissive act for you if that is your intent.

There are times when I tell my husband to fuck me in the ass. I guess by your reasoning, that makes it a submissive act for HIM.

Usually, I get butt-fucked because we both like it.

Hi Sue,

Great comment. I really like the last sentence because it can go "both ways!!"

with a !!!!!!!,

highwater

The idea of wanting anal sex "to be dominated" or to submit to your husband is only that way if that is your desire. That isn't a rule.

It's only a submissive act for you if that is your intent.

There are times when I tell my husband to fuck me in the ass. I guess by your reasoning, that makes it a submissive act for HIM.

Usually, I get butt-fucked because we both like it.

SwitchableSusie Oh yeah I agree with you. I know I do not HAVE to be submissive when we have anal sex but it is how it makes me feel most times and if I am feeling submissive anyway I might want to just be taken like that. Once in a while I do order him to fuck me up the arse right now though. And he obeys too! 😈 😁

I like to submit to my husband some times and anal sex doggy style makes me feel that the most. So yeah he is dominating me (but he is still kind).

Susie, I think this is my wife's way of admitting that occasionally she allows me to take charge sexually.

Hell I just like it - it works real good for spooning, and I like it from behind so either one of us can get at my clit, or he can play with the girls, pull my hair, and generally whip and ride little buckaroo! Anal is also something that shows trust - and lust, two things that anal needs to make it work for me.

My hubby doesn't do anal on me all the time, we'll do it once in a while and when he does it it feels really good, I get dripping soaking wet when I feel him cumming up my butt, he cums really hard and so much cum squirts out of him it's not even funny

Yes, yes, yes. All that, taboo, being dominated, naughty, only really, really naughty girls do 'that'. Some of the things that make sex and anal so very hot.

But it also has a lot to do with how we are built.

There is so much more to our clitorus than, em, meets the eye. Besides being the only human organ whose sole purpose is to provide pleasure, it's 8000 nerve endings spread far into to our insides.

Wikipedia -clitorus (copy & paste)

. Penile-anal penetration may also indirectly stimulate the clitoris, either by the shared sensory nerves (especially the pudendal nerve, which gives off the inferior anal nerves and divides into two terminal branches: the perineal nerve and the dorsal nerve of the clitoris) or by the crura ("legs").[50] (end)

If you have not tried anal, please do. You are missing out on half the pleasure you could have.

Hi Lora C,

"Trust and Love"" You hit the nail!!!!! Both in "regular" adventures and those "out there!!" Best wishes to you and Cedar....as much as I don't want to "Envy" you two......I can only say I admire you both for your openness and ability to share with all of us!! Thank you for expressing your most sacred, secret, sexual feelings......it gives us on the other side the knowledge to know that our innermost cravings are something to be celebrated and "NOT" cursed!!! Thank you again!!

with........a little bit of ....."lube!!!!!."

highwater

@highwater - LOL, loved that

Hi Lora C,

with........a little bit of ....."lube!!!!!."

highwater

Anal with the right person - it's the 'bees knees'! There's someone here who says that - but I really enjoy the intimacy, and I was surprised at how much I actually like it. 😄

So many great replies! I can identify with the most common answers, but I always felt they are only scratching the surface. For me the underlying cause of my desire for anal play might be psychological feelings of emptiness. I love the feeling of being filled.

I always like anal because one I'm very anal erotic and with the nerves in my anus it really turns me on its just like an enema I like the fullness I feel back there. Then the movement of back forth really excites me to orgasm after orgasm.

I like anal sex after an enema.

I think that anal sex is wrong without an enema first.

My GF loves anal and I do too. We both like to always prep ourselves first so we are nice and clean. She enjoys it when I cum in her that I pull almost all of the way out so that afterwards she can feel it dripping out of her and I can watch. She also enjoys the way it fills her up with my cock deep inside of her. I have also squirted her before with my fingers inside her ass as opposed to being inside her vagina. She squirted a fountain of ejaculate as well as having an anal orgasm.

Anal sex is another level of shared, pleasurable intimacy. It requires a solid layer of trust and understanding and patience from both people. When you get right down to it, for maximum pleasure, both need to be very educated, so best to first "read-all-about-it."

Extended foreplay, to include administering slow, sensual cleansing enema's that culminates in anal sex....ahhhhh, really nice, really nice with the right partner.

For me it is a just a more intimate way of being fucked. I love the feeling if being taken in this primitive way.

To overcome fear. To learn to surrender. To learn to relax. Makes you relaxed towards life. Especially if you live a very correct, tidy and conservative tight-ass lifestyle – a good anal fuck will just make you easy-goin

It allows me to orgasm far more consistently, harder, and more predictably. This is with warming up and a lot of foreplay involved of course.

The reason I like anal sex is because there are so many erogenous nerves up there. I swear I've got a G-spot embedded in the tissues near the far end of my rectum.

I like anal sex for a few different reasons.

1- the anticipation. We tell each other we want it. Yes, we! I wanted it for Valentine's Day so I told him.

2- the extended foreplay to get me ready. Don't get me wrong my partner is generous but when anal is on the dance card his generosity is awesome..

3- being totally submissive to him. I love bending over the bed and parting my cheeks to expose my anus for him.

4- the stretching. Feeling his head part my anus and stretch my tiny hole as he penetrates deep. Heaven.

5- the orgasm. I rub my clit while he fucks my ass. (I like saying that.. We're extremely vanilla and anal is the only time we're not) My legs shake when I cum. It's awesome.

If only I could get him to give me an enema..

Nice to meet a member who have a vanilla behaviour and is sexually mature.

I like anal sex for a few different reasons.

1- the anticipation. We tell each other we want it. Yes, we! I wanted it for Valentine's Day so I told him.

2- the extended foreplay to get me ready. Don't get me wrong my partner is generous but when anal is on the dance card his generosity is awesome..

3- being totally submissive to him. I love bending over the bed and parting my cheeks to expose my anus for him.

4- the stretching. Feeling his head part my anus and stretch my tiny hole as he penetrates deep. Heaven.

5- the orgasm. I rub my clit while he fucks my ass. (I like saying that.. We're extremely vanilla and anal is the only time we're not) My legs shake when I cum. It's awesome.

Yeah I get all that. But with us I think it is different because we do not really plan it ahead of when it happens. It is something we just do at the time we feel like it.

My wife and I used to have anal sex once a week or so when we were dating and through the first few years of marriage. She doesn't orgasm easily with vaginal sex without some help from a vibrator or finger on her clit, but she always came fast and hard with anal.

It is the most deliciously erotic feeling in the world😃 I seriously would be okay with only anal for the rest of my life😉

My late wife of 40 years enjoyed enemas and anal play. I never penetrated her with my penis as I was concerned it may cause damage. I had to have a anal fissure surgically repaired so understood the level of pain that can be.

All I do is anal. Of course I've done vaginal, mostly to please other people. I started having anal sex over forty years ago, and quit vaginal completely four years ago.

Why? That's the way I come. Every time.

Yes, I've talked to Doctors about it. There's nothing wrong with me.

Yes, I've talked to Doctors about it. There's nothing wrong with me.

Well now, you've opened up a line of questioning that any good trial attorney would hasten to follow up on - or so I've heard it said so often on TV and in the movies ... he he.

So tell us, how did those doctors react, did they give any opinions or hints or show body language what they thought of this, either approving or disapproving? Did any of them try to counsel you differently? Any specific physical exams performed to determine nothing was wrong with you?

Agracier- My gyno gave me a thorough pelvic exam, and referred me to a neurologist. Both found nothing physiologically wrong. I also saw a therapist, and we talked briefly about my anal proclivities. All of them suggested masturbating my clit, and vagina only until I learned the right way.

The reactions of the people was interesting. It was 1985, and anal sex was as far from the mainstream as fisting is now. Their reaction was- Um...well...ok...My gyno actually gave me the 'You'll poop yourself for the rest of your life' speech. My GP was more understanding.

I did try masturbating the 'normal' way. It was the longest ten minutes of my life. Upon returning my results to them, we mutually decided not to fix something that ain't broke.