Why do women like anal intercourse?

I can't, of course, speak for women, but for a very personal take on a woman's perspective on anal sex I highly recommend a book "Surrender" by Toni Bentley. She elaborates at length (book-length) on physical, mental and emotional aspects of anal sex, based on her own experiences. It is very intelligently written, and extremely arousing, although it is not porn (it's subtitled "erotic memoir"). I apologize if it was already mentioned here before, but it's just fitting to this thread.

I’ve read about that book ‘Surrender’. Apparently the author was a professional ballerina in NYC who got into a relationship with a man who only fucked her anally and she reached some kind of almost religious awakening, which she describes in the book.

Here is part of it:

"I am sitting on the threshold. Perhaps this is the final paradox of God's paradoxical machinations: my ass is my very own back door to heaven. The Pearly Gates are closer than you think. Sacred and profane united in one hole."

Anyone found god through their own or someone else’s anus?

I'm pretty sure I've heard---"OOOH GOODD....ooh goddd....I'm cumming" at least a few times during anal

@RichardAsni said

I’ve read about that book ‘Surrender’. Apparently the author was a professional ballerina in NYC who got into a relationship with a man who only fucked her anally and she reached some kind of almost religious awakening, which she describes in the book.

Here is part of it:

"I am sitting on the threshold. Perhaps this is the final paradox of God's paradoxical machinations: my ass is my very own back door to heaven. The Pearly Gates are closer than you think. Sacred and profane united in one hole."

Anyone found god through their own or someone else’s anus?

It is impossible to take anything seriously that a religious person says when the subjects of god, spirituality or heaven come up in conversation or literature.

On the other hand, I won't argue with the pleasures of anal intercourse.

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The CORRECT title of the book is, "The Surrender: An Erotic Memoir" by Toni Bentley.

@SwitchableSusie Well, let’s just say that the times I have fucked a woman anally and been fucked in the ass myself, these experiences were absolutely heavenly, but God was definitely not present, except when one of us moaned “OHHHH GOD!!” 😉

A couple more excerpts from Toni Bentley’s book:

“ If a man can possess a woman sexually - really possess - he won't need to control her ideas, her opinions, her clothes, her friends, even her other lovers. He fucks my ass for hours with a dick an inch too big for the job: that is possession. After a round like that he doesn't need to infiltrate my life, my psyche, my time, or my wardrobe, because he has infiltrated the core of my being - the rest is just peripheral decoration. Domination - total and complete domination of my being - that is where I find freedom."

“ As I learned how to stay in the bliss, I found something else. I have become a pure vehicle for (him), no resistance. I can relinquish all power. I never knew how much power I had until I gave it all to him through my ass. My final one coincides with my ability to commit to complete submission, to remain completely open without reserve, without limit. No choice but surrender is surrender. I am his entirely, body, soul, and asshole. I relish my freedom."

More- https://www.tonibentley.com/books_thesurrender_playboy0815.html

To my husband’s credit he loves it when we have anal intercourse. However he is a person who will never force it or, for that fact, even ask for it. He knows that it is mine to offer and I enjoy that he respects me as so.

Maybe that is why it is so special between us.

In my life time, I've had a few female friends who were dating others, and us being close friends they would confide in me that while they enjoyed sex, their way of pleasing their men were to let ( insist ) them have anal sex, and that it served to help keep them from getting pregnant.

Has this been the experience of others ?.

I'd say a good 80 / 90% of the women I've been intimate with did not like anal sex, this always had me wondering - did my female friends who did engage in anal sex to keep from getting pregnant not like what they felt they had to do ?, they never told me as much.

The CORRECT title of the book is, "The Surrender: An Erotic Memoir" by Toni Bentley.

@SwitchableSusie, thanks for the correction. I have the book, but was too lazy to actually go and pick it up.

That notwithstanding, I am glad to have added a slight literary bent to an anal sex discussion.

The author's claim of having found God through repeated anal sex is better understood in the context of the narrative of the book. But much of the rest of it IS devoted to the pleasures of anal intercourse.

My ex wife wouldn't do it.