Lubricated finger inserted before enema?

Oh yes,..mom's finger! My sister and I occasionally think back to those days when mom was the "family nurse" and treated us whenever we were sick or got hurt.

I remember the time when I was about six years old she asked if I had a bowel movement recently. At first, I would always say "yes" automatically. When?... was the next question. I'd say this morning (very unconvincingly) and she would say, "well let's be sure you are clean." Then she would pull my panties down, bend me over on her lap and smear vaseline on her finger and insert it into my rectum. She pushed it way up to see if there was anything there. It seemed that her finger twisted and turned reaching all around (hoping, I swear!) to find something.

Usually she did and would try to determine how much was backed up in there. I remember one time when she "hit the wall", not too far in, she took a rectal thermometer and pushed it in as far as possible and then remove it. If most of the thermometer was covered with feces, she scolded me for lying to her. A good enema would follow.

I noticed that when she did the finger feel, sometimes it stimulated me to want to take a poo right then and there, as she pulled her finger out. Usually it was just a withdrawl "sensation" and nothing happened.

However, I remember one day she had my younger sister over her lap and was doing the finger test. Although she didn't hit anything at first, my sister said "I've got to poo", but mom said, "I don't think so, I can't feel anything," but you will need an enema. As mom was pulling her finger out, 'sis screamed "I'm going" and just as the tip of mom's finger was just exiting her anus, so was a very soft and somewhat watery brown bowel movement! Mom jumped back slightly as the poo squirted all over sis's bum and mom's hand;...she was shocked! "See, I told you mom", said my little sister. Mom grabbed some tissues and covered the mess and then carried her to the bathroom and put her on the toilet where more came squirting out. It took some time for mom to clean up the whole mess. Mom was annoyed but said she would listen to us more carefully in the future. Secretly, I admit today that I wish I was the one who soiled mom's hand and made the mess. That would have paid her back, as I hated those finger exams.

I don't think I ever got the finger treatment. Just lube on the nozzle. Although my first wife did slide her finger in and out sometimes when she was giving me a BJ[wonderful].

Oh yes the wife always uses at least one or two fingers to lube everything. always makes it more enjoyable.

A tightly gloved and well lubed finger is a must. I like a water based lube such as KY or Surgi Lube

It depends on what I want to acomplish. If its a quick rinse then yes to help with the water flow. It opens me up more. If i want tpo retain and play awhile then I let the nozzle do the stretching that way it stays in and my hands are free for other activities.

After I've filled myself up, I like to insert a finger and use it as a kinda butt plug. I like swirling the water around with it. 😉 Also, I like the feeling of trying to expel the water and pushing it out, while my finger is in my ass stopping it coming out, it feels great!

I fully insert my fingers or toys many times before the tube. Anal stimulation is wonderful.

Mom lubed me and as I got older she used a finger cot and lots of vaseline. She would take her time and was extremely thorough and deep with the lubrication prior to my enema.

I have a sister that is much older than I am so she was the one who would administer my enemas. She would always use a warm wash cloth to clean me up before using some cream "prevent chafing".

Jimmy1,

I do think my mom got sexually aroused when she gave me enemas...She especially enjoyed "checking" to see if I was blocked, and to "open" me so the nozzle would go in better....

Mom always used a large amount of vaseline on her finger and lubed me thoroughly

Yes my Mom always used her finger to lube me prior to my enemas. My Mom actually had me "trained" and would use the expression "Help me Steven." I knew to reach back and actually open my bottom for her and hold my cheeks apart so that she had full access to my anus.My Mom would be all proud of me when I showed her that I remembered and that my enemas had an impact on me. Would enjoy chatting further with those who dreaded their childhood enemas but were given them anyway. Please Instant message moms_enemas and steven928.

My mother put on a slick red-rubber kitchen glove, greased it, and slowly penetrated me--always several times. I also found myself arching my butt to received the fingering. I loved that part of getting an enema.

I have posted this before on "first experiences." In revisiting. I was about 6 and my grandmother administered the enema. I think she had a dominate trait. I barely remember that she put some pieces of Ivory soap in the bag. She had me over her knees and put some vaseline on my anus and she coated the standard black nozzle to almost an excessive degree. What I do distinctively remember was her seemingly lengthy talk as she inserted and after she inserted the nozzle. She began, I am going to give you an enema if you feel full to...as this went on, the nozzle felt like the thermometers that I had experienced before, it began to sort of throb and itch at the same time an experience that I had not liked and it was worse with the nozzle-the click of the clamp changed all that. The first surge made me feel uncomfortably full and I said so to my grandmother to which she laughed; at that moment the water broke past what must have been an impaction and the feeling was the most exciting and blissful a human can experience-warm and wonderful. My grandmother made me hold my water which after the administration was causing severe cramps and chills and made me put my hands behind my back and "stick my belly out" for her and my mom to see. What they both laughed at was my painfully ridged, blu veined little pecker-my grandmothers comment to my mom: "It happens to all men." That episode has lasted a lifetime.

Greasing up with moms finger was one of the pleasures of her enemas, sweet memories.

Once, when I went to the VA hospital to have some shrapnel removed, I think every doctor and nurse in the hospital, had their finger up my bum. At that time I was young and most of the patients were older than dirt so I surmised they wanted to see what young meat was like. LOL A funny observation from my years of rectal exams, the male examiners always felt like they were pushing a truck in there and it was so uncomfortable, however, the female examiners always felt so good, it seems that they knew how to be gentle and careful.

I have had a few rectal examinations for enlarged prostate but have given many hundreds more than I have received!

As medical students we were taught that 'if you dont put your finger in it, you put your foot in it'.

I loved the feeling of mom lubing me. She used alot of vaseline and a finger cot.

My mom always lubricated me well, and greased the enema tip well, so the enema tip insertion was never uncomfortable. I probably still enjoy enemas today because they were never uncomfortable as a child. Today, because I'm solo when it comes to enemas, I lubricate around my anus well with Vaseline, and then put plenty of Vaseline on my index finger and lubricate myself well inside. I then apply a light film of Vaseline to the nozzle. My slightly enlarged retention tip nozzle slides in easily and comfortably. If I'm doing multiple enemas, which is generally the case, I repeat the whole procedure before each enema. Even if I'm giving myself mulitple soapy enemas, and then a rinsing enema, my rectum and anus stay very comfortable and never get raw or tender. Vaseline is cheap, and it makes the whole experience very pleasurable. I just wash my vinyl nozzle well with dishwashing detergent to remove all Vaseline before putting it away until the next time. Works fine.

Nothing like a finger in your bum, greasing it up for penetration of some sort be it the nozzle, rectal temp,inserting supps, or toys............it is my very favorite and nothing replaces that feeling for me.

Finger penetration and anal play, along with a good prostate massage. And a few warm enemas. Doesn't get any better than that. 😜

Because I love he sensation when having something inserted, I always insert my lubed finger several times before the nozzle goes in.

On my last trip to see her when we got to the room I reminded her that I wanted the finger treatment before all my enemas after a few enemas and expelling she said it was time for a good anal treatment then she had me lay on my belly and fingered me again and took her time doing so she removed her finger told me spread my legs wider and raise my hips then in a slow manner she stuck something in me that felt rather strange then removed it and did something I couldn't figure out she had put a tampon in me.

Always should insert a finger fully to work the lube deep inside.

When I spent summers with my auntie and her daughter we got daily "fanny" temperature. Auntie would put some vaseline on the outside of our bottoms but that was all. When an enema was in order she would take one of us over her lap without our bottoms on. I could see her open the vaseline and liberally coat the curved black nozzle. She also took a dab of vaseline on her finger and very gently but deliberately inserted it well into our exposed bare bottoms.This was always a pleasurable experience for me. It also made the slow insertion of the black nozzle not at all bad.

A finger before the nozzle? When I was a kid, that was the normal thing for my enemas... Mum always had to 'make sure that everything was alright' before proceeding; I'm not sure what she could tell from the exercise (of putting her finger up into my bottom), but I came to expect and eventually enjoy it as part of the enema experience... When I gave to my wife, it was part of my technique, as well..

Cos.

Someone else's finger never penetrated my anus prior to an enema. Darn!

I also like to insert a well lubed finger all the way into my anus right after I have lubed up the nozzle when I'm getting ready to do a series. It makes it so much easier for me to take my enemas that way.

It was always a prelude to my childhood enemas. Laying on my back, I remember the look of concentration on her face while she ministered... Always Vaseline on her finger, and a gob applied to my crack, and the sliding in. I usually whimpered a bit. Eventually, I got used to it, and even started to secretly enjoy it. I could never get the wife to do it, though.

Cos.

Thinking back on it I wonder if mother had stock in the vaseline company. The finger lube was thorough and, when I was older, was wished for, sometimes she wasn't satisfied with the first try and repeated with the finger. When she was through greasing the nozzle there was so much on it that it looked twice as thick as it did when dry. In another post I described my helping her give my younger an enema he didn't want and there was so much lube around his bum the nozzle seemed to pick it back up as it would come out. Great memories!

As I indicated way back in reply #3, a check for impaction was one of the reasons penetrated me, and a former colon therapist did it too for the same reason. She used KY or similar instead of Vaseline, however, and it helped relax the anal muscles for the speculum.

Willy's mom probably had the best of intentions in giving his little brother extra lube of the enema nozzle because he likely had only a thermometer inserted before.