Mom usually began with a glob of vaseline on her finger. The black nozzle was also coated lightly.
A former colon therapist also gave a finger lube, she said to check for impaction and relax the anus for the speculum.
My mom ALWAYS used her fingers to lubricate me prior to receiving my enemas.
Oh yes the wife always uses at least one or two fingers to lube everything. always makes it more enjoyable.
A tightly gloved and well lubed finger is a must. I like a water based lube such as KY or Surgi Lube
It depends on what I want to acomplish. If its a quick rinse then yes to help with the water flow. It opens me up more. If i want tpo retain and play awhile then I let the nozzle do the stretching that way it stays in and my hands are free for other activities.
I fully insert my fingers or toys many times before the tube. Anal stimulation is wonderful.
Mom lubed me and as I got older she used a finger cot and lots of vaseline. She would take her time and was extremely thorough and deep with the lubrication prior to my enema.
I do think my mom got sexually aroused when she gave me enemas...She especially enjoyed "checking" to see if I was blocked, and to "open" me so the nozzle would go in better....
Mom always used a large amount of vaseline on her finger and lubed me thoroughly
Yes my Mom always used her finger to lube me prior to my enemas. My Mom actually had me "trained" and would use the expression "Help me Steven." I knew to reach back and actually open my bottom for her and hold my cheeks apart so that she had full access to my anus.My Mom would be all proud of me when I showed her that I remembered and that my enemas had an impact on me. Would enjoy chatting further with those who dreaded their childhood enemas but were given them anyway. Please Instant message moms_enemas and steven928.
I loved the feeling of mom lubing me. She used alot of vaseline and a finger cot.
My mom always lubricated me well, and greased the enema tip well, so the enema tip insertion was never uncomfortable. I probably still enjoy enemas today because they were never uncomfortable as a child. Today, because I'm solo when it comes to enemas, I lubricate around my anus well with Vaseline, and then put plenty of Vaseline on my index finger and lubricate myself well inside. I then apply a light film of Vaseline to the nozzle. My slightly enlarged retention tip nozzle slides in easily and comfortably. If I'm doing multiple enemas, which is generally the case, I repeat the whole procedure before each enema. Even if I'm giving myself mulitple soapy enemas, and then a rinsing enema, my rectum and anus stay very comfortable and never get raw or tender. Vaseline is cheap, and it makes the whole experience very pleasurable. I just wash my vinyl nozzle well with dishwashing detergent to remove all Vaseline before putting it away until the next time. Works fine.
Nothing like a finger in your bum, greasing it up for penetration of some sort be it the nozzle, rectal temp,inserting supps, or toys............it is my very favorite and nothing replaces that feeling for me.
Finger penetration and anal play, along with a good prostate massage. And a few warm enemas. Doesn't get any better than that. 😜
Always should insert a finger fully to work the lube deep inside.
A finger before the nozzle? When I was a kid, that was the normal thing for my enemas... Mum always had to 'make sure that everything was alright' before proceeding; I'm not sure what she could tell from the exercise (of putting her finger up into my bottom), but I came to expect and eventually enjoy it as part of the enema experience... When I gave to my wife, it was part of my technique, as well..
Someone else's finger never penetrated my anus prior to an enema. Darn!
I also like to insert a well lubed finger all the way into my anus right after I have lubed up the nozzle when I'm getting ready to do a series. It makes it so much easier for me to take my enemas that way.
It was always a prelude to my childhood enemas. Laying on my back, I remember the look of concentration on her face while she ministered... Always Vaseline on her finger, and a gob applied to my crack, and the sliding in. I usually whimpered a bit. Eventually, I got used to it, and even started to secretly enjoy it. I could never get the wife to do it, though.
Thinking back on it I wonder if mother had stock in the vaseline company. The finger lube was thorough and, when I was older, was wished for, sometimes she wasn't satisfied with the first try and repeated with the finger. When she was through greasing the nozzle there was so much on it that it looked twice as thick as it did when dry. In another post I described my helping her give my younger an enema he didn't want and there was so much lube around his bum the nozzle seemed to pick it back up as it would come out. Great memories!
As I indicated way back in reply #3, a check for impaction was one of the reasons penetrated me, and a former colon therapist did it too for the same reason. She used KY or similar instead of Vaseline, however, and it helped relax the anal muscles for the speculum.
Willy's mom probably had the best of intentions in giving his little brother extra lube of the enema nozzle because he likely had only a thermometer inserted before.
Its amazing! --I can't believe with all of the enemas that I received as a child that I missed "the finger". Seriously, I don't remember ever getting the "dilation finger"....always just a well-lubed standard black nozzle.
However, in later life especially starting in 2005 when I had Visiting Nurse services on four different occasions...and received enemas every other day...usually got "dilated" prior. --and always if they were going to use a catheter.
A great image: that Vaseline oozing out that way. And one I'm very familiar with. We had what amounted to a warehouse supply cause daddy had the visiting nurse coming to the house bring a fresh jar with each visit.
My mom never used her finger to lube me. She just dipped the nozzle in the vaseline jar and then plugged the nozzle in my butt.
My mom used her finger to lubricate my rectum every time prior to giving me an enema.
I remember when around seven I stuck a large hat pin up my butt and lost it in there. They x-rayed me and could see it.They were going to operate on me but the doctor said he would try to fish it out first. They held me down and he tried to pull it out with two fingers, but could not do it. A nurse with small hands said she could do it. she got her whole hand up my butt and pulled it out. It was very painfull but also caused great pleasure.
Only received one enema from my Mom when I was very young. I don't remember the finger. I do remember my Aunt using her finger when I got my weekly enemas from her when I would stay with her for summer vacation.
My anus always got a gob of vasaline before the nozzle insertion. Never had a finger inserted though.
Hello everyone, this is my first post on the forum (Woo!). I'd just like to ask; did your mothers ever use gloves? If so, what kind?
I've sadly never experienced the finger from my mother, but I have from a girlfriend, although sadly not an enema to go with it, as bags are very hard to come by in the UK.
Thanks for your time,
My mom just lubricated the opening, I had one aunt that loved to insert her chubby finger all the way in, of course I hated this as a child, but over the years I accepted and enjoyed aunt wandas enemas, her finger action in particular.
When I was a child I had worms in my bottom. An enema and/or a suppository were always the order of the day. I also was made to drink a foul tasting medicine called Pripsen.
It was in powder form and mixed with milk or water.
All of my 'treatment' was in the 'legs up' position. When getting ready for bed, I would be told that it was 'botty time'.
I'd lie on my back with my legs up in the air. Mother would remove my underpants (ALWAYS checking them for staining).
Pulling my buttocks apart she would examine my anal opening to see if there were worms wriggling inside my bottom.
A glob of white cream (zinc and castor I think) was spread around my anus, followed by the insertion of a finger.
I'd be told to 'hold still' whilst the finger twisted and turned inside me. There would be times when I could actually hear the sound of the cream squelching around inside me.
There would usually be some poop in me, so a suppository would be inserted. My mother would hold her finger inside me until the suppository had disolved.
Once the urge for me to poop had kicked in, I was sat on a potty, the contents of which would be 'examined' for signs of worms. A 're-fingering' would take place to check that there was nothing else inside me.
I would usually receive an enema at the weekend, but this would always be preceded by a finger insertion.
Did I like it? I guess at the time I persevered with it. After all, your mother always did her best for her child.
Years later with discovering my sexuality, I'd like to relive the experience, but this time I'd like to be 'treated' by a daddy, uncle or big brother.
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