Lubricated finger inserted before enema?

I find finger insertion bit redundant, well greased nozzle is always sufficient. Finger is what most walked by sliding space. Or is intended to make little massage, then that is good. A.

When preparing to use my colon tube or double balloon nozzle, I make sure everything is lubed up...and that includes the area immediately outside my anus and just an inch or two inside. I find the additional lubrication to be really beneficial insofar as insertion and comfort goes. Of course, if you're using a hard douche nozzle or some other similar device, lubrication on the nozzle alone will likely be sufficient. But if you're using something made of rubber or silicone, I think you'll find a little extra lube from your fingers will make things that much more enjoyable!

Have fun and play safe!

Hey RedBag, I'm with you. My "first" finger-in-the butt was at Sherema also. Having many, many enemas growing up due to my birth defect of mega colon, Mom was always gentle and lubricated the enema nozzle thoroughly butt I don't recall her ever fingering my arse.

When I had several Visiting Nurses it varied....some did a little some didn't. One that I remember well did a good job; almost a Prostate massage! --t'was nice

Now my wife/former veterinary nurse does a thorough finger-in-the-butt each time. And that's every other day which is now my required schedule.

Yes Virginia, there is a God, and 'she' has a great sense of humor.

the boxcar

When growing up, I do not recall ever having my anus lubricated by my mom. However, since that time, either playing solo or with someone, I always lube by anus and inside as well. When I'm giving an enema, I will lube my partner's anus as well. With a colon tube enema, I use a lot of lube, both outside and inside. I have a Fleet enema that I fill with lube and then give myself a small lube enema before inserting the tube.

Usually just lube the douche nozzle and a small amount of lube on me, when I use one of my very large diameter nozzles I do lube as far as my well lubed finger will go

One advantage to the finger up the ass first is that it coats everything with Vasoline and keeps stinging to a minimum. Also, the DRE (digital rectal exam) prior to catheter insertion is part of the textbook barium enema experience. Alas, those are not given much these days!

Nice to put some up there afterwards too, as that's when things are typically tender...

I had my aunt insert a lubricated finger before giving me an enema to help with the nozzle insertion.

Yes, this adds to the humiliation/submission.

Analee, I'd be glad to help you anytime!

I think that in the case of a constipation it is very important to insert at first a well lubricated finger in the anus, this in order to estimate what sorts of medical measure should be taken in order to remove the constipation in a practicable and adequate manner:

- to insert a suppository

- to give an enema

- to let swallow a good dose Castor Oil

Oh please, what good is an enema without a good middle-finger massage of the anus. Especially if the "fingerer" communicates what he/she is doing and feels inside the lower bowel.

Medically speaking of course, I always insert my lubed finger first to have a good feel around, and that's for both suppository and enema insertion. A suppository will not work if it's shoved up in the middle of feces. And, because we always use a fleet enema, shoving the fleet nozzle up into hard feces is going to probably hurt. So, having a good feel around first helps me gauge proper placement for either item.

Mashie

It's my thought to do a rectal digital exam to make certain that I don't feel anything untoward from the anus inward, passing through the sphincters into the rectum. If I do, then it may not be the right time to play. One could find a lump of one sort or another, or even an internal skin abrasion, which might indicate that it's not a good time to play.

Butt, and then again, I've yet to find anything untoward...

Hermann

Because of my love of anal insertions I always insert a lubed finger before an enema. I note duckbill states "middle finger"? I use my middle finger on myself because I can insert it further but use my index finger on others because I can insert it further on others. So...which finger do you use?

Master thoroughly lubes me with his fingers before insertion.

A small dildo usually starts things off for me, once full I insert it again.

I love it when mistress thoroughly lubes my anus and rectum with her finger. The longer she takes, the better the sessions. After the enemas are done, she checks her work by inserting a finger again to make sure I am completely clean.

I cannot imagine an enema without the prelude of a 'good fingering'. Something I look forward to and second only to the long nozzle insertion and removal process. Gets me going all the time ! Now.... where is that finger ? Oh yummy .... it is going in there !

You are so lucky to have such an obliging aunt. I think it is ever such a good idea to open the anal canl and relax the sphincters a bit. It also aids the nozzle sliding in if a good deal of lube is introduced beforehand.

I liive in the UK but it would be worth the flight to HK to meet yourself and your aunt. I simply adore HK and have a grat friend who is a nurse living there

Best wishes

Garts

I notice the likers far out number the dislikers. I cant understand why you wouldn't enjoy a slippery

finger first.

My e-mate used to lube me that way in preparation for the nozzle. By the time she had me lubricated well insite, my prostate had been massaged and I was ready for the pleasure to come one the nozzle was inside and the clamp opened.

Always. The lubing went in as well as around.

Both my husband and I do. Receiving a a minute or two of external lubrication of the anal sphincter which is them followed by the sensual pre-enema,deep finger lubrication for an extended time is an important part of our enema fetish. There are several things we do to show the other how much we're enjoying the sensations the deep fingering is providing, Holding our hand over the hand doing the insertion is one, another is "Kegling" i.e. flexing the anal sphincter on the finger, which also provides an added measure of pleasure for the recipient and the lubricator, another is pushing back while twisting and writhing the hips and of course there is the vocal sounds of receiving pleasure. When doing Marvin I have to be careful not to go too far and bring him to orgasm so he can accept the entire enema that is waiting to be given to him.

Marlene

ALWAYS... both as giver and receiver, again and again and again. This is one of the best parts of enema play, and a fabulous intimacy.

I think that's the only way to get or give an emema. It also helps to build a trust that one is safe.

My wife and I will always give each other a finger lube before inserting the enema pipe. Also, just for the record we much prefer Vaseline to any water-based jelly. It just seems to hold the pipe in place a bit easier because it isn't quite so slippery.

I always use a lubed gloved finger and gently massage the anal sphincter. It relaxes the person and if they are tense or a first timer receiving the tube and enema, the tube slides in with no discomfort.

And the finger in the rectum before the enema is really a turn on....getting you lubed up and worked up all in one action. You can never go wrong with lube, the more the better, and the rubber gloved finger is a great way to get and give lube.

I'm a proponent of a finger first...among other things I think it helps the patient relax and open up for a more comfortable administration. Not necessary for a Fleet or syringe, but helpful for a bag.

I have learned by experimentation that it is better to lube both the hole and the nozzle. In any event, you need to do the hole, or the nozzle will feel dry the first time it goes in.

hankb