Spouses Who Tolerate Our Enema Passion

One bit of advise I have for anyone contemplating a committed relationship. Before both parties commit, confess your love of enemas. Your partner may be shocked enough to call things off, be somewhat neutral, or find the notion intriguing. I can't imagine trying to hide this fetish forever without significant frustration. After a little exploration together you'd get a clearer idea if you two are really compatible erotically. Good luck!

My wife gives me enemas both for medical and erotic sexual reasons, however she is not into receiving, though I've gently tried to get her to do so. Just not her bag I guess (Pun Intended). Only time I got to administer to her was prior to a colonoscopy exam before the norm became drinking a gallon or so of god awful liquid purgative. Would love it if she enjoyed them like I do, but guess I'm at least lucky to have someone who understands and meets my needs/desires.

I love this topic and find it very interesting. My current boyfriend and I are just starting to get into anal. He is very interested and just started getting into rimming me, but thats all we've done. I haven't disclosed my love for enemas with him yet and am trying to decide the best time & way to do it. He cleaned my house the other day while I was out, and I am certain he found my enema bag & possibly some other toys. No mention of it at all. I probably should have just said something then.

I have had SEVERAL girlfriends who really enjoyed getting enemas, an ex wife who put up with me giving her enemas and my current wife who lets me give her enemas every three weeks and before anal sex. They don't really turn her on, but make her feel clean.Oh well, I'll take what i can get (or give).

I was a married first for a short time in my mid 20's before my ex went back to mommy and daddy. She introduced me to anal sex, and used enemas for constipation, but only let me give one to her once, and I never confessed that I enjoyed them.

My wife does not approve of my use of enemas. She thinks I do it to to lose weight. She doesn't want to know if I'm going to have one. I do it when she's in bed or at work. There is no way I could get her to give me one.

However, I did give her one once when she was severely constipated. This was due to medication that she was taking. She got so desperate that she asked me if I could help. Of course I agreed!

I went the bathroom to attach the nozzle to the shower hose.(I do know the risks of this practice, and use it with great care). I asked her to come in and remove her trousers and knickers. I could hardly speak because my heart was pounding with excitement.

I told her to sit on the edge of the bath tub. I sat next to her and told her I was going to lubricate her bottom. I sqirted liquid soap on to my finger and gently inserted it into her anus. This was the one and only time I had touched her anus.

Then I switched on the shower and set the temperature, making sure it was not too hot. I told her I was going to insert the nozzle and she said OK. After only about 2 seconds, she told me to stop, and sat on the loo to expel the small amount of water. She was still constipated!

I said we would have to try again and she agreed. I did the same again, but this time she managed to take about 5 seconds worth of water. This had the desired affect. She sat on the loo again and this time she expelled the water along with the biggest stool I have ever seen! She was so relieved, she almost cried.

Sadly, this event has never been repeated. If she gets constipated now she uses shop bought products. What a waste of money!

I would try explaining why chemicals are harmful to the body and water is natural and healthy. Thats a good approach for those who just tolerate. Hopefully will get them to tolerate even more........... then who knows... 😉

Pinklady, I had the same fears when my boyfriend and I started to progress to anal. I helped him "find" my bag and we were on our way.

I think that if I had played it a little different about 45 years ago, my then new wife would have taken to enemas. Too late learning to pay attention to the right things.

Perhaps the best way is small steps. A little over numerous occasions. Build up over time and then maybe you will reach your ultimate goal. In any case your partner will probably not feel that they are being forced into something.

Been married three times, and never had a wife who enjoys anal and enemas as much as I do. In fact, I lost out big time when I turned down the only woman I have ever met who initiated and enjoyed anal activity. I'm stil looking for her (or someone like her)

Me too Peterbilt 149. Been married three times, and in the divorce process with #3. The only woman I have ever met that initiated enemas and combined enemas with sex was a nurse that worked at Ferguson Droste Ferguson Hospital in Grand Rapids, Mi. That hospital was world famous for treating all kinds of anal problems. She told me there wasn't an enema made that she hadn't given. She also bragged(and proved to me)that she could give 50 percent of her male patients an erection using a barium nozzle BEFORE opening the clamp. God, I miss that girl.

My wife enjoyed both taking and giving enemas. She would get so excited on occasions that she pulled the enema tip out of me and slip it into herself.

Many of us here would be envious of Pear Bottom who found a spouse who enjoyed enemas as much as he did, even to sharing a single enema lying in bed. What a good prep for intercourse to follow the cleaning out.

My wife is really good about my enemas. I need them periodically for medical reasons but she will, on occasion, simply say "Tonight you get an enema". Hot and soapy and a rinse and then great sex. Nothing wrong with that!

I'm very lucky I guess. My wife says she doesn't like them but she sure seems to enjoy it when she is in need of one . She has known for some time that I enjoy them and is glad to help me out. On the occasions of her needing one she had a hard time retaining the enema so I purchased a inflatable nozzle and that did the trick. No more leakage and she's starting to enjoy it, but not too much.

Married happily for many years to an R.N. Very early on, I let her know I was into frequent enemas. Her comment, "OK, guys tend to really like them."

She keeps an eye on how well I do on cleanup and cleanliness/replacement of my gear. Sometimes that involves immediately giving up some favorite tube or gadget then launching on a hunt for a replacement.

I usually let her know an hour or so before a simple enema session. Several times a year I devote most of a day to a thorough housecleaning as a part of a dietary fast. She picks the day and opts for a shopping trip, leaving me to myself.

Those of you who have a wife that enjoys giving and/or receiving count your lucky stars.

We have been married 40 years. I told my wife early in our marriage that I enjoyed enemas. She has tolerated my enema sessions but only on occasion ever let me give her one. She doesn't even like for me to be in the bathroom when she has a bowel movement.

I continued my occasional enema sessions for a long time. Then a few years ago she lost all interest in sex after undergoing cancer treatments, thankfully the treatments were successful. As our sex life cooled the frequency of my enema increased. She understands my needs but will help in my enema sessions. She did show me some articles on colonic s and suggested that I go to a local place and try one. I have found that I really like taking my enemas using a colonic nozzle.

Does anyone else enjoy using colonic equipment to take their enemas?

As in Inflatable's case my wife does not mind when I give myself enema. She does not like to give them to me, but sometimes she will assist me. What she is doing well, she tells me "stories" about nurses giving enemas to their patients. These stories arouse me a lot.

Unfortunately my wife is one of those ladies that hates everything anal, because she was raised that it was all dirty. She does know that I like most everything anal, but will not have anything to do with giving me an enema and definitely not taking one. This is extremely frustrating, because there is really no one close that can help me with this. She really doesn't know just how much she is missing, but I don't ever expect to see her change.

I am also very happily married to a woman who is less than interested in giving enemas, or any sort of anal play. However, being the wonderful woman that she is, she will still participate on a regular basis. She WILL NOT receive enemas or any other type of anal play though.

I found that the best approach to take with someone who is not really interested is to give them the things that they need and want in return for receiving the things that you need and want. When she has a bad day, talk with her about it and let her vent. If she needs new clothes, go shopping with her and buy her some things. If you can't remember the last time you went on a date, shame on you, take her out for a date. As long as I keep her needs satisfied she is very willing to take care of my needs. Most importantly though, don't force something on your significant other that they do not want, or you will extinguish their desires to have any involvement completely.

My wife received her second and last enema 44 years ago in a military hospital by a male nurse before giving birth. She has never given an enema and will have nothing to do with them.

She does know of my fondness for them and tolerates my use. However, she requires that I do them when she is at work and all signs of them be put away by the time she gets home. Recently a neighbor needed a clean out for some medical tests and asked my wife if she could help her. My wife declined but told her of my use and suggested that she ask me to help her. She did and after talking with my wife about it I did help her out the night before and the morning of the tests. As a thank you for helping her she had us over for drinks and dinner. When we were leaving my wife told us that we should get together for mutual enemas whenever we wanted but only at her place. This has happened only once, but will happen again if she has a day off from work when my wife has to work.

I am on my second wife. When we were dating for a few months Inoticed her douch/enema bag. I mentioned to her one day that I could use an enema and she obliged and gave me two. Now, 15 years later she will give me a three enema series whenever I ask. If I try to stop after on she will insist I continue. However, she does not use them herself. We were also into spanking for a few years (me always on the receiving end). That has stopped however and i really do not know how to start it up again.

My boyfriend is OK with me using enemas. He has even tried a couple of them and given me some. We both are very curious and don't mind trying new things. We share a lot of interests but not all. We always try to help each other and we are always allowing and open minded.

I have met several married or straight guys who simply love the pleasurable sensations and health benefits from Enemas, but can't get them at home. Some of them visit me now and then in order to be able to enjoy a good Enema session with a like minded buddy. Some guys return the favor, and there are some who enjoy it so much that I get pleasured just from taking care of them. I'm not talking down and dirty sex (though sometimes)... I'm talking pleasuring a guy with Enemas in a guilt free atmosphere. Sex does not always take place. Pretty much comes down to people who aren't getting what they need at home are going to eventually get it where they can.

Jake, congratulations for having a buddy who is open to trying new things; too bad more couples don't have this.

Dan

My wife no longer likes to participate with me in my enema activity, but for years she did. Now I mostly fly solo. I always tell her when I am going to take an enema to give her the courtesy of using the bathroom before I take my enema, but in our house it is simply no big deal.

I have said this many a time Why pour chemicals and laxatives down your throat which end up flushing your system clean thru and even disrupting your electrolytes and body's natural chemical balance, When all that is needed is right below the belt? I have know too may people who gulp down ExLax, MofM, including stuff that would floor a horse, Mineral Oil, vegetable oil, you name it. when a simple enema is all that is needed. This is exactly what a Girlfriend I once had used to use for herself. She claimed that her Mom gave her enemas and that they gave her bad vibes since then. And she would not give them to me...needless to say no matter what I did and said to her would help...so we went our separate ways....

I just explained the health benefits and the clean feeling after. She was game to try and now loves them.

My wife is aware of my love of enemas but it took a couple of years to slowly introduce her to the fact that I enjoyed them and intended to find pleasure in using enemas. We have been married for roughly 10 years and I would say it took 2 years to get her to come around and accept that I enjoyed this type of fun...

The thing about women is, the longer your married, the more relaxed they become to the idea of new things. It also depends on the woman's age... When my wife was younger, in her early 20's she was very Up-tight about a lot of things... Very closed minded to anything she had been brainwashed to believe anything erotic was bad... I'm several years older than my wife and I introduced her to vibrators, dildos, etc. and other techniques that allowed her to finally experience a TRUE orgasm herself. This was a real awakening for her because before I used vibrators on her I'm quite sure she had never experienced an orgasm before. Now she is in her very early 30's and she has really come around quite a bit from her former frigid self and learned to enjoy and seek out the pleasure of orgasm.

It's in this newly found joy of sex and orgasm that my wife now is open minded to the concept that I derive pleasure from receiving enemas and using other forms of prostate stimulation.

Now I use enemas while she is at work. She is aware that I enjoy enemas but I'm working towards the day when I can give myself an enema while she watches or perhaps takes part in the procedure.I don't like the fact that I am expected to HIDE my love of enemas... I honestly would like to have a room in the attic that I close off and turn into a doctors office with enema equipment hanging from the walls...

I swear some people are just so up-tight when it comes to things like enemas... I mean why deny yourself pleasure?? Why go through life knowing there is such a amazing way to enjoy such eloquent and sublime pleasure and choose not to enjoy it??

As I had said previously on a related topic, my husband knows I enjoy my enemas but he has little interest in them himself and on that subject we simply agree to disagree. He does not seem to mind me indulging myself and sometimes it works for both of us. This afternoon is a good example. At 1 he started watching football, switching back and forth between several games. I follow pretty much one team and if they are not on I could care less. So I went to my bedroom and treated myself to a relaxing couple of enemas. I think he figured out what was going on when I came to the kitchen in my robe and brewed a pot of coffee. Anyway, I had just finished getting rid of it when he came to the bedroom. Said it was half-time. I asked him if he came for his enema and he just snickered and said not exactly. I was well warmed up so when it became apparent he had quickie on his mind, I had no objection. He was gone in 15 minutes.