Female Enemamates Are Not Hard To Find

How you approach the subject of enemas (and medfet in general) is of paramount importance. I've met 3 females who submitted to a nozzle on this website. Others, like a ssbbw whom I am now examining and treating on a monthly basis, I met while I was visiting some friends in London. She's from Port Au Prince Haiti. She is now a U.S. citizen who resides in a town north of me. There are some women at my college, and at a nearby college, who will be paying a call on me soon.

I have been married 10 years to a women who is open minded. She will give me enemas when I ask ( she never suggests it), most of the time. This has been going on after about 6 months of dating. Three prior girlfriends before marriage also gave me enemas, one a nurse. One of those girlfriends wanted me to give her enemas and I did. We were also into spanking. You can find women out there, who care for you and will do this for you. Asking is the hardest part, men fear rejection.

I have found it very difficult to find an enema mate for some time now. 😢 Looking for a fine woman to share erotic enemas with. Maybe it's part of my location, live in Northern IL. I wish it was as easy as some of you others to find a enema mate. Guess I'll keep on trying and hopefully it will happen sooner than later.

You must advertise this as a way to really enjoy anal sex. Of coarse you will only attract those who enjoy this practice. It might work to say that some females fear worry about anal sex because of the fear of pain and the mess. You can promote that enamas can eleviate some of these worries

I've been lucky enough to find a few enemates over the years, however enemas are really a difficult subject to bring up with a woman. I wish there was a place to find sincere women who enjoy enemas without all the baggage attatched.

I am so happy to hear there are gentlemen around and my female opinion is that gentlemanly behavior is paramount. Recieving an enema puts a person in a very intimate and vulnerable position and open communication,comfort and trust are perfect tools to help keep the mood comfortable.

In your own town is good. However, one has to be careful of dipping one's ink pen in the neighborhoods inkwell.

Women may be easy to find, but even though your interest in enemas may match, many other aspects may not. I finally decided to meet someone from online. I have done this three times and have yet to receive an enema. The first time, although I was emotionally very matched to his desires, he did not seem like he could physically be a Dom to me, and I think he wanted more of a little girl, which (bbw) I am not. We agreed there was no physical chemistry. The second man was too meek and nervous. Again, I was looking for more of a Dom situation, which certainly online he portrayed. The last meeting went all the way to the hotel room. For some reason he did not push the enema. I think ultimate he really wanted to receive (and I was willing to give, althought that was not my real desire). I tried to explore why we didn't proceed, but it was met with resistance.

Ultimately I finally did the best thing for me, and that was admit to my BF that I had a fetish. I had hinted for years, but finally came out to him. He has given me one, and threatened for more, but he hasn't really taken matters into his hands like I would desire. Anyway, I think that there are women interested and 'out there' but matching sexual styles and fetish along with specific enema interests can be really difficult.

I have found that it isnt very hard to find women to give me enemas, I mean just be honest about what it is that you are into and dont just blurt things out, heck you win some you lose some, but i have had over fifty experiences with women and I dont consider myself a ladys man lol,

I'm primarily interested in chatting with female enemates, but am also enema-flexible 😃

Finding a female enemate is not the hard part. I found in most of my past relationships, including with my wife, once you get past the sexual intimacy and no longer have any shyness of the natural, i.e., no shyness in nudity, or taking a pee in front of you, etc., you can then openly speak of fantasies, fetishes, and the things you normally would not speak of otherwise. It's at that point that you can admit to your medfet or desire to receive/give enemas.

Let's face it... to rush into telling a lady on a first or second date, and even if you two shared the first night of intimacy, and tell her how you love having a bag full of water gushing up your butt....can easily make a lady wonder who she is siding up to. You must both get past the initial intimacies and taboos.

God...I wish it was easy!

But it's not, especially after 42 yrs of marriage and the little woman hates the subject just because she had a crampy enema during labor! I have to seek others who have an interest and of course the odds are heavier toward the male species.

I do thank the internet for allowing us more breadth in our search options. I think in the future we may atually see more women coming on stream and open to engage in just enema activities. if they only knew the kind of APPRECIATION & Affection they would garner. Oh well !

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I have tried to find women that will just talk about enemas and it seems to be a very difficult task..I am sure if i keep asking one day it might happen.

It also seems to be easier or harder depending on the area you live in. I'm in Oklahoma, and the society here is pretty conservative in matters of intimacy. It's slowly changing a bit, which keeps me hopeful.

It helps to just find a kinky girl too and introduce her to enemas, then she will most likely enjoy them 😎

I have found that discussions about natural health are a good ice-breaker. This can lead to discussions about cleanses and then an easy jump to enemas/colonics. You can find out very quickly if this leads to "absolutely not interested", "curious or has thought about it", "does it or is ready to do it". I haven't found but a few who are into enemas that don't enjoy it on more that just the "health" basis.

My late wife turned out to be a great enemate, she was raised on suppositories. Once I had a health problem, she went out and bought an enema bulb and attempted to give me one. Later I showed her some of my collections of vintage and modern equipment. She would get constipated because of meds and ask me for an "E" or the B U L B. The 1st half of marriage was as good as any. Probably gave her 200 to 250. Had her wear various ladies colorful Rubber Boots to match or contrast with the syringes. The "kids" grew up and she turned on me.

Over ten yrs ago, placed ads in local Alternative Papers Wild Side. Met 2 enemates, advertised: ISO Enemate, Rubber Fetish, ISO Nursing Types, they changed to "Hey, Nursie", etc. The 1st was an ex-exotic dancer/massage therapist. Gave her one in her bathroom on 1st date. She has since moved, we are still friends.

The 2nd asked if I spanked, too. Knew her for several yrs, Tuesdays we went out, Friday, got take out food, went to a motel. I was on the "V" pill, we would eat, give her an enema, then light spanking, then fool around. She liked it up her "heinie". Would get off 3 or 4 times. Later stood me up? Recently got married for 3rd time in Ohio, asked for forgiveness. We are Net friends. She was a bi nympho.

Current gf, knows my "kinks", is 1/2 vanilla, but not run away. Helped me take one last yr, held the bag. Said, maybe sometime. See on weekends, am free weekdays.

Best way to share enemas is to get to know someone of common interest. This site is a good start. Be honest, and you might be surprised with the response you get.

I have shared many a good sessions with women who shared my erotic appreciation for enemas and anal play.

The sad part is if you don't ask you'll never know. Why go through life without fulfilling your desires? This is not something to be ashamed of; I've always been of the mind set that if you don't have any sort of fetishes then you are surprising who you are. We all tend to gravitate toward different interests this is simply another interest.

I have been to see a few Colon Hydrotherapists for treatment and always hoped that maybe one of them would jump over to the erotic side of things when giving a treatment but have not had that happen. It isn't that easy to find someone who really appreciates the intimate side of enema erotica.

Very true as most are professionals. Many of them to take enemas themselves and mine openly discusses enemas.

A few months after I met my current partner (almost 20 years ago) we were having sex with her on top. My index finger "strayed" to her butt and led her to mention rectal thermometers -- apparently part of her childhood exploration once. I used the moment to talk of enemas, and although she was inexperienced, was interested. This led to games with first the enema bag and a few years later the 8 oz enema bulb.

One evening I had gone out to a meeting and returned home to find that she had gotten the enema bag out and hung it from the shower rod! It can't get much better than this, believe me.

We have slowed a bit due to aging, but she still gets aroused by giving me an bulb enema, and is one of our favorite fantasies -- all about the golden age of the 50's (when every drug store had a window display of enemas) and the young couples making their happy discovery.

I guess we are all members of the James Joyce fan club: he wrote "I have worshiped at that altar where the back changes names."

As I indicated earlier here Finding an enemate is not the hard part so much as breaking the ice into the topic. Most women who find you attactive, and enjoy being in your company, and want it to turn into something meaningful and good, will be open to your

needs. with all the women/enemates I have had, Some were into give/recieve, others were

Give but did not like to recieve. These usually showed a certain turnon at giving and even

at the Control part of giving. Only once or twice did I meet any woman that grimaced and considered it Taboo or off the wall. For which I let it slide.[NO PUN INTENDED].

I have tried to get my wife into enemas for 20 years, she has noooo interest!

I have found that one important aspect of meeting with a woman is the fact that "SEX" is no directly involved...A woman can get "laid" anytime..Its enemas that they want and the intimacy involved...Make sure that you let them know your not interested in Intercourse just exchanging enemas...

This discussion is really revealing! Instant gratification in this arena is simply not going to happen and , in the end , wouldn't be as fun or gratifying. I have been romancing a wonderful lady for a year and have yet to enjoy an enema with her... either giving or receiving, but I have (from the beginning) discussed my paraphilia with her. She is about to hoist the bag very soon, I suspect, and I will return the favor.. She is interested in the health benefits of the water cure, so I am dove tailing that into our scene.

I romanced a lady for 36 years and only received one enema from her. Everything about them she detested, even though she was an RN. The romance was magic but my enemas were solo. We are now entering a new cycle with a new generation. If you mention enemas with all of the health benefits many of the young women become curious about them. Of course, you must engage in a conversation with them to get to that point and being a gentle-man who can converse. It may also mean that you may have to be the one to start the conversation. Every new person is a potential friend, lover and enemate. Meet and treat a lady with honor, respect and allow her beautiful femininity shine through. How can you miss if you live by the Golden Rule?

Tonight my new lady love approached me because she was constipated and wanted an enema. Did she think I would say, "NO?" We soon got down to business. I drew two quarts of warm, 105 degree, water into a two quart basin. I had her lie in the Sims position and I filled the bulb syringe and emptied it twice into her rectum. That was a pint of water. The second enema was doubled to a quart and the third was doubled again to a bag full. About two hours later, she expelled the last water and then inquired about colonic hydrotherapy for which I have a homebrew appliance. "Would I demonstrate it on myself?" "Yes and I did!" She likes the idea of being cleansed completely and she will come tomorrow for round two which will be a hydrotherapy session.

That sounds like a female enamate to me!

An enema a day keeps the doctor away!

73

Bill/ K2MMW

I wish it was easy to find a male enemate who is willing to take the time to be intimate with a newbie.

Hi nadali, Just keep posting on Zity and listen to folks who have been around for a while. Don't jump at any "opportunity". Get to know people first. You will find someone.