Female Enemamates Are Not Hard To Find

Living in a rural part of IL makes it a little difficult to find a woman interested in enema play.

Hi Susan Just come across your post about wanting to receive from an older experienced male. I guess by now you might have experienced your first time. Would you like to discuss it?

I'm in the manchester area of the UK - You?

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I must say that i don't think that the enemamate would HAVE to be good looking.

Hello Guys!! I am a single girl in her mid 20's looking for a male to give me a enema or two. It is very hard for a woman to find a man. I have had many inquiring, but they have been older. I would love to find a nice, trusting guy between mid 20's and mid 30's...

Redbaglover: You go girl. You sound like the perfect woman.

As the old joke says, please send picture of your best cooked meal.

Once you can find someone who really cares for you they will try almost anything

Titusnub, If I weren't married and was nearer to you then I would be glad to help you and you me. Good luck on the search honey.

I am amazed as to how many directions this thread has taken and only a few got it right,but that's OK,at least there is a lot of interest for the folks to meet someone to share their enema passion with.My point was to meet someone locally,not so much just for enemas but a relationship that eventually would lead to your end result. When I met my wife for the first time,I concentrated on a solid relationship before considering the enema aspect.I believe once a relationship becomes intimate,there should no problem introducing her or him about your love of enemas.How you present enemas to someone is an art by itself.If that person truly cares for you and you don't get too pushy with your enema introducing,the rewards will be extremely pleasurable.Let the good times flow.w/m72yrs/Western Ma

What you get from life is what you ask, and what you do not get is what you do not ask ! Asking may be beyond our capabilities, or may be within…

I have been divorced for ten years now, and married for a much longer period. I never dared tell my wife the word “enema”.

I have been on enemas for a very long time, and I came to realise by myself that enemas had an almost instant effect on colitis (IBS as they now say). I have been suffering from colitis crisis since I was a teen, and no remedy could do any better that bring me back to normal within two days, sometimes three days. A coupler of enemas, and it is gone ! I told my MD, who was not enthusiastic , although he admitted the possibility for “purely mechanical reasons”… well, I do not mind the reasons : it just works with me.

As a married man, I used to do it solo, and never dared telling my wife.

After the divorce, I had three girlfriends, and am still a happy man with the third one. I made the decision that no matter was shame as long as you are just yourself and do not attempt to destroy the other.

So came the opportunity after a few months of a nice relationship to ask the first one if she would assist me in taking an enema. No problem : she did not know exactly what it was, but understood very quickly, and we never had a problem with it. Same with second and third.

Why should assistance be a problem between loving people ?

Guess what ? Two of them told me without any suggestion from my side that they would welcome the idea of “adding some fun” and make it both a remedy and a game ! 66% positive result.

One of them noticed that I was more “efficient” after she gave me an enema, and explained it because of the effect on the blood circulation in my colon. She is a scientist sa maybe she is right !

I have to admit that only one of them agreed in receiving enemas : on one occasion when she had no BM for a few days and complained about it , I told her that instead of her usual and apparently not so reliable laxatives, she could try an enema. Because we had to leave for holydays the next day, she finally (reluctantly…) agreed, and I understood she was afraid of it, although she had performed them on me on quite a few occasions. She had it and she realised that it caused no pain and was efficient. Next time she suffered constipation, she asked for one, and so on. She never had pleasure with it, but she was one of the two who had fun with giving mine…

I am know in my late fifties, these girls were the same age as myself, high education level, not the kind who believes everything just because it comes from a male !

That is it. If I did not dare ask the first one, I would have been left a solo player for all these years.

Just ask. Take time. If she loves you, she will not say no. If she does not, you will not miss her a lot.

The fact is I was not cheating my girlfriends about IBS. By the way, IBS is a painful situation, and it made periods of my life rubbish : at least I have compensation now !

Good luck to all of you, and always be honest : if she understands you screwed her, you may loose someone you care a lot : is it worth it ?

While I certainly agree with the whole Gentleman/patience/honesty concept, I have to agree that it is harder for us college age guys to find women who are open to the idea. I am sure there are some out there, but this suggestion is usually met with ridicule or apprehension and takes a lot of looking to find someone who can overcome present day taboos and go with it.

Still the only solution is to keep looking and eventually you will find the one.

I was on ALT for awhile. It is a good site for meeting a woman in control. You will have to search some-but they can be found.

And you are soooooo on target, a one liner will get you nothing. Explain yourself well and describe your interests. Best advice I can give for meeting a fine femdom

I've been at it for 10 years and have yet to make a connection. Met a young lady on Nozzleville about 7 yrs. ago. We had lunch and made out a little. She was nice enough but the chemistry just wasn't there for me. The NY area seems to be kinda barren of enema people.

I'm pretty much resigned to being solo forever. If somebody turns up, great, if not so be it.

I cannot agree more! Present the positive (romantic) aspects of enema play and fulfill your woman's fantasy and they'll be asking for more.

Awesome... most of what you say is the way that I would approach things, but you state things so very well. A true gift with words!

After reading all of the posts in this thread I felt like I would add my two cents to the mix as well.

I did enemas as a kid with my Mom starting the whole thing out and she took me through the High School days with the enemas and then I graduated and went into the Marines and it seemed that it was going to be a long dry spell of doing them myself.

I was shipped off to Viet Nam and was wounded and found myself in Hawaii on recovery and there I met my future Wife when we were discussing enemas as she was giving them to me in the hospital during recovery from hip surgery.

I told her that they made me horny and would she mind if I masturbated while she gave them to me and she told me to go for it and make it happen. She used to get so hot giving them to me that she then started getting me off during them and this continued until I was dating her after recovery.

She would then give me enemas and AI would do them to her as well. This has worked well for many years. So many years that I have grown accustomed to good sex, good enemas and great love during those enemas as well.

We have played so many games with enemas and good sex that when she died in a vehicle wreck, it tore my heart out and I have been solo since then. I am sure I will find another because I am not shy or retiring when it comes to enemas and I talk about them with each woman I meet and date or get affectionate with. Keep trying because a good man who knows how to do and play with enemas can have a great reward in the long run.

TommyG

This web site is the first place that i actually found others with the same open mindedness. Being from the south there is still ALOT that is hush, hush. Thank all of you for your opinions, experiences and stories.

That is not restricted to the south, its totally wide spread. Ever hear of the conservative midwest and unfortunately I'm stuck, smack dab, in the middle of it. California, wish I could come.

There are many of us out there that have been undetected. It is hard to bring up the subject, but I have met my lesbian lover by her seeing my bag hanging in the shower. When she came over, she noticed the bag and it immediately opened up our discussion on enemas. We have been together ever since.

The key is that it is an intimate subject, one people rarely talk about, and if you spend six months getting a relationship started, then find out she or he is appalled by your sexual desires, is that good?

A forum like this can be good, it puts it up front, so you know the people you are talking to have an interest in enemas, but even that is problematic. Most of us love gentle nurturing enemas, playing the sick kid being taken care of, this is particularly true of men. More women put a sexual spin on it, but responses are all over the board. Some like it rough, force etc. Many enema lovers will be as appalled by that as others will just about enemas in general.

How do you meet someone you can let your hair down (or undies down) with for the rest of your life?

To me a sexual partner is likely to become a LTR partner, I want someone that shares my values, loves and loves me, as I love her. It can be difficult, and findin someone who share a sexual fantasy is most difficult.

I've never gone out looking for just an enemamate, however several girlfriends have become enemamates. You have to get to know someone and be comfortable with them before getting into the anal play/enema realm.

The kinds of gals I wish to meet are difficult to find. I'd like to meet some African-American bbw/ssbbw who'd like to be prospective patient. I've met some big (and very big) black and beautiful ladies in the past, and had fantastic sessions with them, but those ladies are exceedingly rare in my immediate area these days.

These comments are really interesting. I'm of the opinion that if you ask, you may well find. The trucker that responded a number of comments back has the right idea and it does work. You don't have to be a prince to get ladies on board. You just have to ask and be sincere. Some will respond negatively, yet many others are quite interested in trying something new and yet others will just surprise the hell out of you with what they know and want you to do to them or they to you.

I agree about the gentleman thing. When it comes to enemates, they are hard to find, so you have to treat them well.

Anyone who thinks a female enemate is easy to find is floating in the clouds. while i think women are more anal erotic than men, ther subject is a hard one to broach with a women. they will discuss this with another woman, but to most women this is probably more intimate than sex. i have been lucky a couple of timers in broaching the subject thru submissive actions-----the enema is a very submissive act. but in general, i think it is very hard to find.

No, it is not like floating in the clouds 😃

You could also say it is not easy to find a female to have sex with 😉 can be true too, but it is all a matter of perspective.

Go to an E-fest. I understand that this is a good place Ice is already broken for you. i

I've never really had a difficult time finding gals who were willing to submit to medfet (including a rectal thermometer or an enema nozzle). All of my patients are plus-sized (or bigger) Black and White women who want to try something different. I live near a big city in the Midwest, so finding a prospective patient isn't a big problem.

I've been off this site awhile...but I have many years experience and almost all of it has been with submissive women. Now before everyone gets all hot and bothered, a man can still be a gentleman and a dominant...women who submit are not inferior doormats, but rather, woman that assume the counterpoint to a dominant role...when I have a submissive woman, I decide when and if she needs an enema...how I administer it to her wil usually decide if she comes back for another...my experience has been positive...I make it an erotic event for her..I listen to her desires...she doesn't always get what she wants...but usually, she gets what she needs...hope that makes sense to all the vanilla people that enjoy enemas and for the submissive women reading this, you know exactly what I mean. h2odom

😜 's to all of your gentlemen who responded to "Female Enemamate Are Not Hard To Find,' for your wonderful responses!! Any ladies out their need to find gentlemen like you as their Enemamate! Good luck to all you men looking to share such intimate bottom's up experiences together!!

😄 getting a woman interested in enemas is like getting her interested in you for a date. some men just walk up to a woman and ask her right out and nine times out of ten your gonna get turned down.same for enemas, if you take the time to know her as a person and things do hit it off,chances are at some point she will let you enema her.but most times you need to approach it slowly and not just dive right in. just a point of view. 😁