As MedFetter, can you still be embarrassed?

I'm definitely shy by nature, so I still get nervous, shy, and embarrassed by doctor's examinations. Something about them makes me feel like a 12 year old boy again...exposed to an adult who has the control of the situation.

And this is also the kind of dynamic I enjoy when I play. It makes it feel real to me.

See, my problem is that I get intimidated by people with power. When I worked in an ICU unit this past summer I really had to sort that out. The physicians there were all of these hot young smart men (and women) who essentially control when someone lives and dies.

So when I get in an exam room, depending on the context, I can get really shy and blush (which I definitely do because of my dutch heritage), and then forget all about my current 'issues' going on down there.

But then again, my current practitioner is a wham! bam! thank you 'mam! kinda doctor. I swear at my last pap two weeks ago, it was literally 5 minutes. Go Canada health! Geez.

While I was a serving member in the RAF, I had a vasectomy done, nothing to embarrassing there. After a few months I was talking with a colleague who also was thinking of having it done, so he was asking me the usual questions, did it hurt, does your sex life stop..etc… So I told him after the initial pain and slight swelling had gone I forgot all about that I had had it done.

In the forces nearly everything you do requires a medical check up before you start, and with this type of operation the doctor requires to see both partners, so they made an appointment to see the medical officer. Once there and after the initial consultation the doctor said to my friend to go with the nurse to get his vitals taken, weight, blood pressure, etc.. Once in the nurse’s room she did the usual checks then handed him a specimen bottle and pointed towards the toilet. When he came out, a little embarrassed, he put the jar on her desk, only to be told.. Ah yes, very good….. But I really wanted to test your urine not semen ……here try again, as she passed him another jar.

We still laugh about his embarrassment it this day and it happened over 10 years ago.

Before I was medically trained, while still in college, I applied for a job with a major mid-western city. The city required a physical exam. I was in a room with at least 100 other men, filling out a routine questionnaire. After we filled out our answers, we were told to strip down to our jockey/boxer shorts and were divided into groups of 20 men. We were then "marched" into another room and lined up. There was a middle-aged male doctor accompanied by a very cute young lady carrying a clip board and dressed in a cross between a candy striper's and nurse's uniform. Normally, I would have asked her out on a date but this situation was too surrealistic. I was not exactly sure what was going to happen but I was waiting to be told that this was all a prank of some kind. However, I did not ever have time to think about the "whys" of my situation as we were told to lower our jockey/boxer shorts, as the doctor examined each one of us for hernias while the cute assistant stood by him "taking notes". I could not believe this was happening. I struggled to not have an erection. I was more successful than some of the other men. This embarrassing procedure was followed by the next embarrassment-we were told to bend over and spread our cheeks to be examined for hemorrhoids. Once again, the cute female assistant (she could not have been over 20 years of age)accompanied the doctor. This time I did not leave the "examination room" without an erection. This was a true experience that I will never forget. I always wondered if I could perform such "exams" on a roomful of beautiful women. That has still not occurred.

I once got so nervous that I would get a genital exam for a problem I had, I ended up over explaining the ailment to the point that the female Dr didn't need to examine me and just prescribed the medicine. I guess I must have come across as nervous and she thought she would save me embarassment and didn't bother checking me.

I used to always be embarrassed growing up when I went to the doctor and I had my genitals examined, but as I don't mind being naked in front of a doctor or nurse.

Can I be embarrassed? Not easily.

In fact, the only time I can recall being embarrassed in many years, was over the Thanksgiving break last week when our 15 year old daughter was supposed to be at a friend's house overnight and came home unexpectedly around 1:30 AM because the party had marijuana and liquor. When she walked into the house, she saw both my husband (her father) and myself essentially naked as I was yelling at him and flogging him while he was all tied up with a full leather hood on and leg spreaders in the music room with piles of S&M toys around.

I described this in the "Parents and their Children--Privacy and Kink" thread in enemas4fun.

http://enemas4fun.zity.biz/?action=forum;topic=2345.msg259521#msg259521

Oh Susie!! And for everything else, there's Mastercard. That is priceless! If that had been me, I still wouldn't be able to look my daughter in the eye, and we have a very open relationship.

Thanks for sharing that.

Play On!

LadyDoc

Susie,

Wow ! What a story ! Life imitating art. Many thanks for sharing.

Respectfully,

Del

I think my excitement leads to embarassment. I am always worried that somehow my doctor will know I am getting some level of enjoyment out of it, so I end up being even more nervous and awkward. Even when I am calling to book my yearly, I can barely say the phrase "I'd like to book a physical exam". And the follow up questions from the receptionist on the phone aren't any better " Is this for a through annual exam or just a check up?" I can barely answer because I am mumbling in nervousness!

and often mumble which means I have to say them again!

Thanksgiving break turned out to be quite an education for everybody at home.

Now, we truly have virtually nothing to hide--its all been seen.

Susie, First, you obviously have a very well-raised daughter for leaving that party. And you have started a new family Thanksgiving tradition, that has should catch on -- at least within your friends here.

I couldn't have said it any better myself @NR72 (reply Post 40), although I think I have posted my similar problem before.

Jackie

I think that embarassing is the most exitating thing in mefet|

Do i get embarrassed, yes, but i cannot show i am embarrassed due to having such a pale face. I do love being naked though and i feel embarrassed, i guess i'm lucky i dont look embarrassed 😃

I like to feel embarrassed adds to it for me

Good to see that I'm not the only one! I get embarassed and love it at the same time! I think that's 100% of the excitment!

I love to have an embarassed patient. It can make the exam funner for me to try and talk him out of his clothes and to doing as I tell him.

Yes, it is very satisfying when you persuade a shy patient to allow you to see him naked. 😃

It's fun reading some of the posts here. But I would ask all of the people who speak of the "fun" of being embarrassed, have you ever been so embarrassed that it was not fun? I think what I learned is that while a small amount of embarrassment is kind of fun for me, if the embarassment is too much, it's actually not as much fun as it is.... well, just embarrassing?

I am not at all shy about being naked in front of people. And I don't mind the anal exams when the doctor separates your cheeks and pushes a finger in there. But I really did find it embarrassing (and not all that much fun) being bent all of the way over so that my crack was exposed.

I mention this only because I really did not expect it to bother me that much, but it did. The last time I went in for an exam I decided that I was being silly, so I bent over (no shyness) and tried to act like it was a perfectly normal thing to do. And, while I can't prove it, from the look my doctor gave me, I think I embarrassed her! She barely spoke to me after that and acted like she was in a big hurry to leave the room...

So, yeah, I know that there is a "fun" kind of being embarrassed where it's kind of a turn-on to be seen there and have someone touch you, but there's also kind of a "Oh my God, you want to look at what!?" kind of embarrassment that is not as much fun and just makes you want to go hide...

My greatest embarrassment was getting injections in my youth, particularly in adolescence because I had to pull everything down to my ankles and bend over the receptionist's lap to get them. The humiliation of a girl watching me get a shot in the bare bottom was always worse than the posterior pain of the injection itself.

@Dr_Grant Post 27. .You're not wrong, which is one reason I always enjoy a gown..wondering how the doc will uncover me, it's very anxiety producing and exciting to feel the fabric being moved out of the way, or a hand trying to slip under it while keeping patient dignity intact...or not..heheh...that's the fun part!

Absolutely, I avoid a physical like the plague, yet I fantasize about it all the time...and as many have said that's the odd contradiction. Last time I *had* to have a physical to get a referral...felt my stomach in knots even afterwards all day at work. That night imagining the same exam performed by an attractive female...with the memory of how it felt very fresh in my mind, well I've probably never been so horny in my life.

To take it a step further, I think many guys if they know an attractive girl thru work or socially will fantasize about having sex with her...well I always fantasized them having an exam as long as I can remember. One close friend I fantsized about more times than I could count. Then one day she told me she was heading out to go to the "lady doctor" and was extremely nervous. When she got back she said how much she hated it and was feeling shaken up. Since a person whom I cared about it actually bothered me instead of exciting me. I couldn't stand to think about her feeling that way in reality much less be turned on. It's such an odd contradiction.

I have had eight operations and over six months in the hospital and in therapy. Add to that incontance for the last fourty years and I haven't found many situations that embarrass me anymore.

Isn't old age a pain

Embarrassment and excitement are both feelings I enjoy being examined. Especially if the doctor is a female younger than me.

I think everybody can be embarrassed, but as we age it takes a little more to get you to that point. This is because in most cases we have been there done that several times over, and when you are young it might be new and a little scary sometimes.

The embarassment feeds the fetish. However, it also leads to avoidance in my case.

I have to agree with rt patient... Having a patient that it a litle shy or embarassed really adds to the exam.

I do get embarrassed easily, but it can be so fun!

In real medical exams I feel uncomfortable and do not generally enjoy the experience, however in a play exam the manifestation of my shyness can really make for an amazing time.

I love being naked on all fours with my ass and pussy exposed high in the air while my head is on the ground. Even being in this position without being touched makes me wet knowing my most private parts are so vulnerable. It's so satisfyingly humiliating, I'd love to receive an examination and enema this way.

Hearingcolors, Have you ever taken your boyfriend along for a real gyn exam? Do you think you might enjoy it more if a male friend or possibly a coworker attended (viewed) your exam? It may prove to be a deliciously embarrassing experience!