As MedFetter, can you still be embarrassed?

I think embarrassment is certainly an important factor in the whole examination experience. A patient who is shy, nervous and a little embarrassed adds to the control factor of the doctor patient relationship. Embarrassment is good but never humiliation as far as I'm concerned.

Sure

a bit of embarassement and shyness is important for to improve the erotic situation

I am not shy about being nude for exams or other situations, but one early May day 2 years ago, when I used our backyard pool for the first time that Spring as the air temperature hit 90, but the water was still only about 74 degrees, I went back into the house through the kitchen door after spending about a half hour doing laps and slid my wet trunks off so not to get water in the house. Our housekeeper was in the kitchen at the time (she had seen me nude before per my other posts), but this time my penis and testicles were shriveled up from the cold water and our housekeeer giggled a bit and in her accented English said I looked like her little boy and I turned red with embarrassment.

If it is a famale doctor or nurse, never be embarrassed!

I am embarrassed and the embarrassment is what turns me on.

I'm 66 years old and after several operations in which I was nude, including laser lithotripsy and having a stent placed in my kidney which was checked several times a day by a female nurse, enemas for opiate constipation in a short answer no.

To me, the word "embarrassed" implies that something unexpectedly or accidentally happened. Since a physical exam is a completely controlled environment and is a routine procedure for me and especially the doctor, there's nothing taboo or shameful about the experience. So although I wouldn't say I'm embarrassed during parts of the exam, I would say that a physical pushes me out of my comfort zone and requires me to engage in actions that I would never do outside of the context of a physical exam.

My most embarrassing moment was when I caught my foreskin in my zipper and a nurse had to cut me free. She then applied a bandage to my penis. I was 16.

Years later I was in hospital and I needed an enema. I was 23 and badly constipated after having my appendix out. In those days there was no key-hole surgery. I still have a scar about 3" long where my appendix used to be. On the day I was to be discharged a nurse came in and asked if I'd moved my bowels. Thirty minutes later in came another nurse with a trolley. I was told to roll over onto my side. I can still remember the tube being inserted. I had been told I was to be given a suppository and that I could go home after I had moved my bowels so the tube being inserted was a complete surprise. The nurse told me to take long deep breathes and relax. Then the sensation of the warm water started to give me an erection. The more the nurse told me to relax the more erect I became. He could see what was happening but I think he was enjoying my predicament. Then it happened. I came. The nurse saw everything. I had my first experience of premature ejeculation.

I tried to reach for something to cover myself. I was totally and completely embarrassed. He withdrew the tube and wiped my anus of any lubricant and left. Moments later I went to the toilet but with no success. The nurse returned and the whole procedure was repeated. I still didnt have success but to get out of the hospital I lied.

I have had many procedures since but I have never really felt the embarrassment that I did that day.

Not anymore. Colon cancer treatments, with bare butt radiation everyday for a month and bladder cancer follow ups with cystoscopies every 3 months have taken all embarrassment away. I'm used to a young medical assistant swabbing my penis with Betadine and injecting Xylocaine viscous inside my penis, prior to the cystoscope. I also had countless DRE's during colon radiation by the radiation oncologist. Everybody in the medical world has seen me nude.

Definitely a fine line anymore, I haven't "played" with others much so I think embarrassment/humiliation are not just possible but probable. The newer you are to the experience and person probably the better, and the same goes for real medical situations as well. I think for guys having to see a doctor for urethral/penis and anal problems is almost always embarrassing if you have never been to a doctor for them before. I know when I got circumcised at 36 even broaching the subject with my doctor was extremely embarrassing, so much so that I didn't say it out loud at first but wrote it on my exam form so doctor knew to discuss it with me. Then having to be referred to urologist, and when asked by nurse why I needed to see the doctor and say it out loud multiple times, then say it to the urologist. Then on the day of the surgery every single person who checks on you: name, date of birth, reason for appointment. The "C" word definitely made me blush.

Now I'm having some rectal issues and have my first GI appointment this Thursday, I know this will lead to my first DRE and some kind(s) of rectal probes because I have been told to take two fleet enemas prior to my visit. My fear is only on the outcome, definitely the embarrassment is having to expose my anus for the first time to a doctor. Plus I don't like discussing bowel movements either.

I have gotten erections three times at doctors during physicals and each time is embarrassing as it usually happens when insides of thighs are touched. First doctor just pushed it out of his way and didn't mention it, while other doctor commented "at least we know that works". I was undressed by my first doctor every visit I had with him from 16-20, so was always embarrassing being out of control. This was probably what cemented my medfet as being based around control issues. So I think anytime you are not in control, the unexpected happens, you can still be embarrassed. When you are really sick, I think you forget a lot of that as you just want to be "healed".

I live in a small town with a hospital and I know almost all the nurses and CNAs. The first time I was in the hospital, a friend of ours was the CNA. She came into the room and visited for a while with my wife and me then said it was time for my shower. She took me to the shower room, took off my gown and I stood there naked as she turned on the water. She then helped me into the shower and washed all of me except my private parts. She then dried me and I stood naked as he put lotion on my body. All the time we visited about family.

The first time it was embarrassing for her to see me naked but then next day, I enjoyed the shower. The next two days a woman my age who goes to our church was the CNA and she gave me a shower. One other CNA I knew also gave me a shower. I felt really strange to see these women at church or talk with them afterwards knowing they knew what I looked like naked. I decided however, that that saw a lot of me naked and that it was just their job.

Over the past 10 years I have been in the hospital numerous times and a lot of women CNAs I know have seen me naked when they have given me showers. I keep telling my self that it's just a job for them and they don't really care about seeing me naked. I hope I'm right.

I get easily embarassed because I'm kinda a shy person

I like the embarrassment factor. It's usually what I look for when I'm playing. Even more so, though, I love to see my husband embarrassed. I think humiliation is such a huge part of medfet.

I, too, love being exposed to the embarrassment of medical exams.

Not anymore unfortunately. Wasn't embarrassed when my physician (in her early 40's) felt my package and then the prostate a few months ago - actually for the first time in my life. Nor visiting a (pretty expensive and exclusive) dominatrix to play out a very elaborate scenario (fantasy clinic). She's a pro. It's not her fault. Everything was perfect: her looks and the action. I just couldn't get into the role. I am an adult now. No one can embarrass me in that context. Now, being caught posting this... maybe. Though probably not for long.

Original questions: "Because you have a medical fetish, can you still be embarrassed? Or does having a medical fetish mean that you are beyond embarrassment?"

With or without a medical fetish, I've been nude enough times in front of medical professionals, countless masseuses, & others in open showers at the gym. So planned or anticipated nudity, which can be practically any time in a medical setting, is not enough to cause embarrassment.

Embarrassment would potentially come, depending on who it was, if i were nude in a supposed private room or area and someone came upon me who wasn't supposed to see me, as that would be "unplanned".

No. I've had so many procedures done on me recently and so many people have seen me naked that I can't be embarrassed. I'm now in rehab due to strokes and after having my right carotid artery cleaned out. The closest was yesterday when I had to have someone hold me when I had to pee. I managed even though they saw everything. At least they didn't have to hold my penis for me. I tell the young techs that I'm not worried about them seeing me since I'm 67, maybe if I was 27. I may post about my experience when I feel better.

Well, it's surely because I'm still a bit new to it. But only by imagining that I have to end shirtless in front of my partner who will auscultate me while he's wearing his blouse and gloves. It makes me hella embarrassed, but also really arouse me. I have this feeling of embarrassment but also the wish that he just keep going until I get slowly used to it.

Yes you can certainly be embarrassed. Worst, is when you are in a paper thin gown, feeling very unsexy, and the room is cold and you find my member is shriveled up...then the doctor has to check for hernias.

I get very embarrassed. Ever since i was a kid i got super nervous and embarrassed when i stood before a doctor; my face burns, the heart pounds and i feel weak in the knees. It is strange bacause i hate it but also love it secretly.

Partially as a result of med-fet, I'm no longer really body shy - anywhere in life! It's more about a gentle, authoritative power differential to me, now.

I'm not beyond embarrassment and the need/desire for it is one of my kinks. For me, a Top/Dom who knows how to affectionately collar and control those things is one of the wonderful aspects of D/s.

Personally, I am not at all beyond embarrassment. I do not share my interest with anyone - my relationship with my partner is very vanilla and I intend to keep it that way, and it would bring up all sorts of weird, awkward discussions.

The main point for me is that I do not expect people around me to consent to share or even discuss my kinks, which is perfectly fair (there are many I would not want to share).

I'm perfectly fine keeping my fetishes for myself and this online community.

My Doc is pretty cool so I am too. My GF is a nurse so there is not much she hasn't seen or done.

Absolutely I can be embarrassed! Even when involved in kink with its med fetish overtones, I can usually be found embarrassed and blushing. I am a relative novice in this world, but I rather doubt this tell-tale blush will EVER completely disappear on me. Somehow I ended up playing with a more dominant partner who seems to rather enjoy capitalizing on my tendency to blush. He is even capable of generating a blush on my cheeks remotely from quite a distance by phone or by text message,

Actually there are different kinds of blushes on different ends and both work for me.they are both very exciting to me.

I’d imagine that this will differ person to person; there’s no hard and fast rule about when you can and can’t get embarrassed. With regards to medical play/real life exams, I’m never embarrassed when I go To the real doctor. Play exams on the other hand are when I feel It the most. Strange as that may be.

Though I enjoy medfet a lot and fantasize naked exam but if ever it happens in reality for a genuine reason I might get embarrassed.

Similarly even though I have medfet but getting my first rectovaginal a few months back I was embarrassed and scared. But I am not comfortable with my bottom being examined anyways.

I think embarrassment is one of the key of medfet.

I remember that after a while my former patient wasn't embarrassed anymore and I think it was the beginning of the end...

I definitely get embarrassed. I had a medical where I was bottomless for the whole exam. I was very aware that my vulva was on view to her. I have a long slit visible from the front so I couldn't even stand at an angle to hide it! I felt more embarrassed stood having my eye test with my slit showing than I did when she pulled back my lips for the genital check.