As MedFetter, can you still be embarrassed?

The reality of a medical exam is embarrassing to me at the moment but, sometimes, arousing later if the exam was performed by a female. I can’t really say whether an exam by a male or female is more embarrassing, but only an exam by a female ever seems erotic afterwards.

I don't have a lot of med-fet experience, but as a critical care nurse, i have a ton of medical experience. my nature is bottom with sub and there's really no chance of my nature being exercised in my job since i am doing all the exams and interventions. There's a professional switch or divide either way, so it just doesn't come into play.

Having said that, i do get routinely screened for STD's. i live in a comparatively small town and work at a teaching hospital, the hospital pretty much owns most the medical practices in town, and my insurance covers the ones working for the hospital organization. my infectious disease doctor is someone i work with and see on a routine basis at the hospital where i work. He is completely professional, but it is still embarrassing when we get to the place of swabbing for the STD checks. He does them himself, and i wonder if that is just something he does with me or all his patients? The oral swab is not a big deal, but when it gets to the place where he says "i need you to drop your pants and bend over the exam table" then inserts the cotton swab into my anus, i definitely feel embarrassed. i'm gay, and i'm not particularly attracted to him, but i feel pretty vulnerable and exposed. He retired and moved, so my next appointment will be with a new, younger doctor who just joined the practice. i also work with him at the hospital, we'll see how that goes, i do find him attractive so it will be a whole new experience with him.

When I go to the doctor's, I get embarrassed... Every... Single... Time. The more exposure and/ or intimate examination involved, the more embarrassed I get. I even get embarrassed when there's no exposure because I'm either thinking back to the last time I was exposed to this doctor for an examination, or I'm thinking about the possibility of an intimate examination in the present or future. To me, the embarrassment is a big part of my medfet. I always hate it while I'm at the doctor's, but love it when I think back on the memories and recollections of it later.

To me, the embarrassment is a big part of my medfet. I always hate it while I'm at the doctor's, but love it when I think back on the memories and recollections of it later.

I share your feeling about the embarrassment of the physical exam, especially the genital exposure, but I love thinking about the embarrassment once it is over. I hate going through exams and desperately hope there will not be genital exposure but, when there is genital exposure, I think about it for years afterward and enjoy masturbating to the memory.

Humiliation and embarrassment is one of the reasons I do it. Even today, I can still feel the emotions of that shy 15 year old girl, standing naked in front of a doctor and nurse.

Here's a Doc's perspective (my own, of course). Embarrassment is part of the play for me. Speaking from the perspective of the "Doc," I strive to control the entire experience, while giving the woman what she wanted when she made her appointment. I often examine strangers or first timers, and the fact that they are completely naked obviously causes embarrassment. I work "top to bottom," and leave the genitals and rectum till last. This heightens her anticipation and embarrassment, because everything is geared toward the climax. Finally, I announce each "event" before I do it, and tell her how I want her to position herself. I *announce* each event so that the anticipation will be at her max, and I make sure she sees me getting the instruments ready. When it's time for the enemas, I announce those as well, and place her in the proper position before I prepare. I announce the quantities, how she is to lie or kneel, and then while I am getting her ready I make sure to lubricate her with my finger, inserting the finger deep inside her. There's usually quite a startle response as I do that, even though I announce what I'm about to do. I always give a full bag (2-3 enemas), and sometime watch her expel. Then I do the rectal exam and finally (if she wants) stimulate her to orgasm both anally and vaginally. If she can take my hand, I fist her vagina. I have yet to find a woman I could fist anally, though I'm sure there are some. I stretch her as much as she can tolerate both vaginally and rectally and work on her clitoris until I get her to orgasm--normally I work with her until she's unable to orgasm any more. I find that a woman is often embarrassed by orgasming as well as by the exam itself. Essentially, everything is under my control. Interestingly, I've had one girl leave without finishing (she got the enemas, but not the rectal exam) & afterplay. I thought she was upset with me or the exam, but it turned out she had just been dumped by her boyfriend, and was a bundle of confused emotions. I love medfet, but always on the "giving" end, though I do enjoy well given enemas and rectal stimulation.

Embarrassed and some shyness are key to enjoying midget. Some people who cross over into medical play say I'm not communicative during play, they don't seem to understand that's the point. As a patient I want to go through the exam embarrassed, with some fear of what's to come, with minimum dialogue.

When you are one of three patients separated only by curtains in the hospital emergency room, and the doctor pokes his head in with a booming voice that says, “I need a rectal temp on Mr Arttemp!” It’s pretty damned embarrassing and horrifying! It’s a short walk to becoming that mortified kid with a thermometer stuck in his ass again. I was embarrassed and quite pissed off if you want to know the truth. If you have an infection, they want to know exactly what your core temp is! (No bullshit)... It’s now been over two years ago, and has become another ‘semi-fond’ fetish memory.

Hell yeah you can still get embarrassed!

Oh definitely, now while the embarrassment might be also a source of enjoyment, its still there. Just a short example, when I was in the ER last month, during the course of my stay I had to use the toilet, so I had to walk down the hall in an open-backed hospital gown with nothing on under but a pair of tighty whities. Parading yourself out in full view of others in your underwear is definitely embarrassing.

I certainly find myself in embarrassing situations, not just in medical settings. I’ve been a nudist for many years, and an artist’s model, having posed nude for thousands of artists and art students. I still find myself embarrassed, from time to time. I’ve been in the middle of something I’ve done many times before, when something unexpected happens, and it throws me off, or startles me. I’ve been undressing, and someone walks in unexpectedly, and I still react with modesty, even though I’m about to be naked in front of others, maybe including this person. There are times when it’s more that I’m showing consideration for whoever walked in, not so much for myself, but there’s still embarrassment there. I think it’s still part of human instinct, shaped by our society.

Beyond embarrassment? Never, I hope.

Embarrassment, nervousness, anxiety, those are just one side of the coin. The other side is joy, excitement, arousal, satisfaction.

They all come into play, pulsing through my body the moment her fingertips tug at my pants waistband.

Every time when it's the real thing in a real office when I'm playing that's a whole different story