As MedFetter, can you still be embarrassed?

While I personally enjoy being naked at physical exams (and other places too, if I'm honest), every once in a while something will happen and I am genuinely embarrassed. For example, this happened to me last year just before my rectal exam.

Because you have a medical fetish, can you still be embarrassed? Or does having a medical fetish mean that you are beyond embarrassment?

See the afraid of the doctor discussion. I vote yes, you can definitely be embarrassed (and even afraid of real doctors, in my case) and have a med fet. Strange, but it is what it is.

I feel both embarrassed and excited at the same time...personally that's part of what I enjoy about med fet. The intermingling of intense feelings.

Loveburns,

I couldn't have said it better myself.

That's it exactly it's the intense contradiction of feelings that make it so powerful.

Jackie

It is very common for childhood fears to turn into fetishes. I'm in my 30's. I'm not afraid of the dentist now but I used to be terrified of the dentist. now it has recently turned into a fetish which I have not exploited fully yet. but now I even get exited sometimes when I get my routine exam by my female dentist. I usually don't get aroused but when she is poking around and it happens to cause a little pain I get very turned on. like when she pokes really hard testing a spot for decay. It sometimes hurts, and is a real rush. I'm so helpless lying there on my back, she is leaning over me holding my mouth open with the mirror and poking hard here and there with that sharp pick. I love it.

I am definitely embarrassed, and I (obviously) like medfet. I think the situation is very different in play and in real life. As it was said on this board already, I, too, am afraid of the doctor in real life.. But the idea of playing doctor thoroughly arouses me. I dont think the medfet necessarily takes away the embarrassment.. As well, when you're doing medplay, even though its submissive, it's still a form of mutual consent (or, I would hope!). You and the other person are aware that you (and they, most likely) are sexually aroused, and that the "embarrassment" is sexual in nature, whereas a doctor is unaware of the medfet, usually, which makes it just as embarrassing, because there is no difference and you are being examined as every other patient is?

Just my two cents.

I am always embarrassed during physicals. It is the total helplessness/hopelessness that is tremendously exciting after the fact.

I am ussually afraid of real doctors and embarrassed when have to take off my clothes. when the doctor is attractive for me this embarrassment is a pleasant feeling. but when i don´t like the doctor it´s terrible.

The embarassment and excitement are very close and both seem to feed on the other...i also feela little humiliated by it and i think after i shouldnt have done it...abd that what i think duriong too...like oh no i sholdnt let this happen..

It feels the stronger my med-fet grows, the worse my phobia of real Dr's becomes..

Recently I could not face an appointment to be seen about my sore knee for goodness sake, and can't even think about having a smear test without dying inside, strange but true...

Whether with my real Doctor, a younger attractive woman, or play I find almost the same mingling of embarassment and excitement. The excitement is heightened in play with the knowledge much more will most likely happen than in a real Dr.'s visit.

I'm not in the least bit shy now. I certainly got embarrassed at school, though oddly it was more at being naked in front of the other boys than in font of the doctor.

I used, above all, to hate baring my bottom for an injection. I wonder if the fact that these embarrassments used to exist enhances the fetishistic side now??

As a true Dr and my wife being very anxious about her health, I had to often toroughly examine her for more than 20 years - Wonderful memory !

Now, as we are older and she has her own Drs ... ( and I think it's really a good thing) but I remember with nostalgia these good moments

Friendly

I too feel embarrassed as well as aroused. All of these years later, exact same emotions every time. I also am one of those people whose body blushes, not just the face. 😃

I also feel both embarrassed and excited at the same time.

Yes I some times get embarased if I am required to be naked in front of someone I have never met before. However it is all part of the overall pleasure of the experience to have to follow the instructions of the person I am with.

My medical fetish interests make having a real exam ination all the more embarrassing for me.

It is hard to explain, but you can have the feeling of being embarrassed and excited at the sametime. You have the embarrassment of what he is going to see and do, but at the same time, the excitement, and enjoyment of the exam.

For me, too, it is the embarassement and humiliation that is exciting. My experiences of embarassment growing up were tough at the time, but looking back, that is what excites me now. The more embarassing the situation, the more sexually exciting it is.

I used to be very shy about this type of thng at school but now it sems so exciting funny how you life changes

I'm embarassed only when it comes to my appearance. Like going to the ER without shaving my legs for a few days. Or if I was sweaty before the appointment. Lol

I don't mind having to wear the flimsy little gown that really doesn't cover anything.

I also don't mind laying back on the table, with my gown open in front, exposing my genitals to whoever happens to be in the room.

And I don't even mind the testicular exam (my favorite part of the exam).

But, I think the only thing in the exam that really bothers me is when she tells me to step up on the little ledge on the exam table and bend all the way over for the prostate exam, and the gown pulls up my back and my buttocks part like the red (pink) sea. That's not being naked, that's being EXPOSED. I've seen the videos of prostate exams on the internet, they always show the guy laying on his side, while the doctor shoves a finger in his crack and up his ass. Well, that's not the way my doctor does it. It's more like: "Let's put you in the most embarrassing position imaginable, and then I'll jam a finger up inside you and see if you jump." (My words, obviously...)

To me, THAT'S embarrassing.

"Let's put you in the most embarrassing position imaginable, and then I'll jam a finger up inside you and see if you jump."

You've never been (and most likely will never be) in stirups or you'd have a much more exposed/embarrassing position to imagine.

Jackie

Part of the interest for a DRE is that whatever the position, over the couch or lying is that it's all expectation and touch: i can't see when the finger or speculum's coming close so there is most definitely an element of surprise about it.

Well if you want the "bending over" to be particularly humiliating, have the patient stand on something that will elevate their waist well above the level of the exam table.

The doctor used to just want me to stand on the floor and bend over the exam table at a 90 degree angle, which isn't too bad. But the last time I had it done, she told me that you are really supposed to stand on the little "step" that slides out of the exam table. The effect of this is that you end up bending over about as far as your spine will let you.

Basically, the further you bend over the more the prostate is pushed against the rectal wall making it easier for the doctor to feel your prostate. This is why my doctor favors this position.

You wouldn't think that a few more degrees to the angle (More like a 'V' shape than an 'L' shape) would do so much to increase the humiliation, but that definitely did it for me. I started to bend over (me, who has no shame) and suddenly found myself too embarrassed to continue and asked her if it was really necessary for me to bend over so far?

She smiled and giggled a bit and said "Well, yes, it really is the best way to do the examination"

Her smiling made it even more embarrassing for me. I mean this is my REAL LIFE doctor. Not some kind of play exam or something...

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Well if you want the "bending over" to be particularly humiliating, have the patient stand on something that will elevate their waist well above the level of the exam table.

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I know exactly what you me mean HP. I've had a doctor in the past (not my current one) that did the rectal exam that way. She would have me stand not on the floor, but on the little step at the bottom of the exam table. Then I would have to bend over forming the "V" shape that you mentioned, where you head was on the table and was actually lower than your ass. Yes, I think that is very embarrassing.

In contrast with this, my current doctor has me get on the exam table on all fours, and then rest my head on the table. This is a similar position, and my ass is still up in the air above my head, but for some reason it's not quite as embarrassing. I don't know why -- it should be.

Most patients are probabley not embarrassed simple because they are there to get an exam or treatment for discomfort unless its a simple rountine physical-- on the other hand embarassement is a sigmificant part of play exams and the inherrent thrill of being in a compromising position in fornt of your "DR" it what makes it all the more exciting --just my opinion-- i may be wrong

[quote author=soumise link=topic=19629.msg240763#msg240763 date=1251986296]i am also into BDSM and have been a "model" for demonstrations in front of several people at a time. The being nude for that isn't bad either until they touch me, and then it all starts again....lol. During one bondage demonstration i started to get wet, and in the position the Dom'me had me in, everyone in the audience could see the wet spot on my grey thong panties...lol.[/quote]

You really need to tell us quite a lot more about that occasion!

This is a really good question that I've had to deal with recently with a guy that I trade exams with. We're in a situation where we trade off roles as the patient and we're finding that the embarrassment component is really what's missing from the whole thing. When we did not know each other well, things were a whole lot more exciting.

Part of my problem is that I'm pretty much an alpha-male kind of guy, and in everyday life I have ways that I turn situations around to remain in control and I find myself doing that when I'm playing the patient. I literally have to role play as a patient and actually not be myself, in order to make things more exciting - if that makes any sense at all - because if I'm just...myself...getting an exam, it's almost impossible to embarrass me.

Definitely embarrassed and excited at the same time.