Feel any jealousy in having her examined?

I have watched my wife undergo gynecology exams on many occasions. I get very aroused during the exams and I think she does as well, because after every exam we have always had great sex. I have watched her be examined by male doctors as well as female doctors. I must admit that the exams that were performed by female doctors were not as arousing to watch as the exams that have been performed by male doctors. She prefers male doctors and in the last few years she has shopped around to find one she likes. It is very erotic to watch another man examine my wife. Part of that erotic feeling is clearly from the fact that the doctor is male and part of my arousal may indeed be based in jealousy. I don't really know... I know when we arrive and sit in the waiting room that my heart is beating like mad. It gets worse when we go into the exam room and wait on the doctor to arrive. It is very erotic to watch my wife on the exam table and wonder what is going through her mind.. But when the door opens and the male doctor walks in, I can feel the blood rushing to my brain and my crotch and I'm almost ready to explode. I think if I was really jealous, that I would not enjoy the prospect of another man examining my wife, but I DO! If I was really jealous I would insist that my wife see a female doctor, but I prefer that she sees a male doctor as it is more erotic to me. I know my wife and I know how she acts and how she carries herself in conversations. I watch her mannerisms and body language as she greets the doctor. I watch with fascination as she holds herself and how she crosses her feet and keeps her hands in her lap as she talks to the doctor. When the small talk is done and the doctor asks her whether she is there for her annual exam, I really feel the raw power of the doctor. Once she answers the question with a "yes" she has effectively given her control...albeit temporarily, to another man. It is super erotic to watch her face and see her react when he tells her that he is going to step out of the room and that she needs to remove all her clothing, place the gown on with the opening in front and have a seat back on the exam table. I find myself to be jealous of his position as that must be an amazing feeling for him to have a beautiful woman come to him for the purpose of having him look over her body and spread her open. To know that he has someone else's wife or girlfriend, naked on his exam table and is doing things to her that her lover probably cannot, must be a thrill for him.. So for that, I am jealous. However, I thoroughly enjoy the the give and take that goes on before the exam. When he finally re-enters the exam room and takes control of her by directing her to do various things, including "lie back" "place your hand over your head", "place your feet in the stirrups" "slide your bottom all the way down" and "let your knees fall wide apart" I am hard as a rock and trying to control my heartbeat. Is it jealousy when he slides in stainless steel speculum insider her and holds her open or when he penetrates her vagina and then her anus with his lubricated fingers? In part, it is. However, it is also pure erotica.

When my wife gets examined, I have never been jealous, just really turned on!

I've seen my wife receive a gyn exam from a male doctor and I haven't gotten jealous watching her get examined.

I find it hugely erotic the thought of my partner having an exam, not sure it makes me jealous, but I certainly would like to be there. I've been present for a brief internal exam, very erotic to see.

Not jealous at all, in fact I find it quite a turn on. I've seen both my ex and current wife examined many times and I always get an erection. When my ex and I went for our first colonic the therapist was a male. I got a great view as he lubed her anus with his finger and then inserted the speculum into her asshole. I was so excited that I excused myself to use the restroom and masturbated while thinking about her being cleaned out in the adjacent room.

I have never felt jealous only super horny. I have seen her examined by a male GP who always gave her a rectal at the end. She now goes to a female who never gives her a rectal, go figure!

In 30+ years of marriage, I never had any jealous thoughts about my spouse going to the doctor. I don't think she had any about me, either.

Getting to watch my wife's annual exam is a yearly highlight!!! Not so much any jealousy, just a lot of turn on!

No, actually I enjoy it. Luckily, my wife goes to a male gynecologist.

I just love to go with my wife for her exams. I love seeing her spread wide open in the sturrips and watch as the dr used the speculum to open her wide and then fingers her and I love watching that finger enter her rectum. make he really horny and great sex when we arrive home. I really think she likes having me watch

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I have a strange since of jealousy and excitement. But I hope to never miss another one of my wife's exams. It's something I look forward to every year like a kid waiting for Christmas!

No, I'm pretty secure about this.

I remeber when I was 17 and had my first real GF. We decided she should go on the Pill and so went to see her GP. I had no idea at that point what was involved and thought he would just write a prescription for the Pill and we would be in and out in 5 mins.

We went along to the GP at about 5pm and I remember sitting in the waiting room with lots of other women, which I later realised was because it was a well woman clinic.

We finally went into the GP and he was a handsome man in his mid 30's.

He asked my GF a few questions and then said he needed to carry out an exam. Before I knew it the GP had my GF on the couch having a bi-manual exam. I was so jealous and couldn't believe that the GF that had only shared that with me at this stage was now allowing another man to have such intimate access.

I couldn't help feeling that the GP was just enjoying himself, especailly with a hot 17 year old girl.

The whole issue of my GF's seeing male GPs for intimate exams troubled me for years, but now I enjoy it if anything.

I never talked to any of my boyfriends about my gyn appointments. My first boyfriend had three sisters, so I wonder how much he already knew. I also wonder if he would have been jealous about me seeing male doctors or he would have been turned on. Maybe we would have had a better sex life.

I would love for a bf to go with me to my appointments especially if he was turned on makes going to the doctor that much hotter 🔥🍑😈

I was with my wife at all her gyn appointments for both of her pregnancies. It's quite interesting caring on a casual conversation with the doctor as he is performing a vaginal rectal exam!

Regarding medfet exams, which is actually our objective (or we'd just go see an actual doc whether thats' dull or not) there are always some basic rules. Together or nothing is our own one.

And when both get to play eventually there shouldnt be any jealousy at all.

In college I dated an older woman, an RN, who talked to me about all kinds of medical stuff after we started having sex.

Because I told her I was interested in play exams, she talked me through gyno exams of her and she was always very highly sexed while I was examining her as she was soaking wet and I didn’t need much lube until I got to the anal exam.

I took full advantage of the intimacy of the situation and asked her if I could insert two fingers into her anus. She never said no because she knew it would take a while massaging her sphincter muscles before I could easily slip in a second finger.

All the while she was telling me how good it felt, coaching me along the way and knowing after her play exam was over I would give her a series of enemas before fucking her in her now clean and relaxed ass.

She was a very balanced bi-woman and enjoyed sex and sexual play equally with men and women. She had a female gyno who she strongly suspected was at least bi if not fully gay. She told me all the details of her exams and how much the lady doc took her time, was very thorough and seemed to take more time than was necessary.

Of course my RN loved the extended exams, telling me how horny she got, how she would rub her clitoris as she was getting dressed afterwards.

I was given some of the best sex I ever had after her exams and her detailed replaying of this lady doctor’s “handling” of the exam would make me hard as steel.

Years later, between marriages, I got to brush up on my play doc skills with many of the women I dated having developed intimate relationships with them. They all told me I gave them as good or better gyno exams than their real doctors.

Vag/recto exams were always a highlight for me and many of my ladies enjoyed learning that enemas could be given for their pleasure and enjoyment before anal sex.

I'm insanely jealous of the doctor, presently a male, who examines my wife annually. I'm especially jealous of the fact that she gives herself up to him for things she would never allow me to do to her. I love thinking about him pressing on her abdomen with his fingers deep in her vagina. Love thinking about him fingering her rectum. Love thinking about him asking her relax her knees outward before opening her vagina with a speculum.

We haven't had sex in years so I get very excited when I see a note in her day planner or on her whiteboard about an upcoming appointment. Whenever possible, I even try to masturbate while I know she's at her appointment, fantasizing that I'm there observing her exam.

YES And my qifee is making me pay the price. I have to go with her to every exam. i have to sit in the waiting room when they call her name and she goes back to an exam room. Of course I knpw what her exam is like. I sit there with all the other women waiting for their trip to the exam room. Almost always I am the only male in the waiting room. My wife a total plan to kind of either kill my jealousy or drive me crazy

I've been blessed with a wonderful man that loves all of me, even the craziest whims of mine, and vice versa! We both don't get jealous and are pretty open with a lot of things. Hubby jokes and says we're kind of like 'almost' swingers. Sex with others is our hard limit.

Anyways, with that said, Anthony doesn't get jealous of me being examined by the doctor. In fact, he's usually always present. We have talked about me being examined, alone with a male doctor as a prospect. Whether real or play, it's always fun. Every exam involving a male doctor often results in great sex for hubby and I.

This is an interesting topic that comes up quite often. More complicated than there is room to discuss here, but just to make the distinction (and I'll use the terms wife and husband in my comments but substitute that to your own situation) - jealousy would be about viewing the doctor as a rival, and envy revolves around the fact that you want to be in the doctor's shoes and are not or can not be. Personally neither exist between my wife and I, she's not thrilled about these type of visits but is quite happy that I am. On the flip side if I'm acting as a play doctor to someone other than her she is not threatened in the least bit. I'm not into using medical play for sex with anyone other than my wife and our relationship is quite secure. Neither of us have any interest in a relationship, sexual or otherwise, with someone else.

The other interesting thing is that most men seem to be bothered by a male doctor yet not a female. I think that speaks more to jealous fears. I've been to countless appointments with my wife and I can guarantee that there are plenty of female doctors who are enjoying what they do. And before anyone shrieks that this can't be possible...you have to get over the fact that a doctor can enjoy examining the female body without lusting for a sexual or emotional relationship with the patient. I think that really is the driver of the "jealous effect."

In many ways it's fueled by the medical profession itself. You have doctors who will cover up your wife like wrapping a mummy, make a big deal out of you being in the same room, purposely turn their head to one side, there are female doctors out there who act like the husband is the enemy of some secret female doctor patient cult, whatever...but the fact is that in order to perform a medical exam, on top of everything else, they have their fingers deep inside your wife's vagina and are feeling her reproductive organs. And while you can say that oh well they do this all day, there are going to be some women that they actually enjoy looking at or physically feeling. Both the medical and sexual aspects can exist at the same time without there being a relationship involved...outside of purposeful abuse. And then you have some wives who make it some type of private matter "between themselves and their doctor"...so of course this creates anxiety with the husband...what the heck is this dual relationship that I cannot be a part of that involves overtly sexually related parts of your body and must remain a sealed mystery behind closed doors that I am not allowed to know about or participate in. And of course there is no clandestine relationship, but the more you try to hide what goes on the more it starts to look like you have something to hide. That invokes both the jealous response and the envy response. Perhaps silly but it's the way the human mind works.

As in the previous comments my wife and I find the whole occasion as a reason to enhance our own sexual satisfaction after a medical exam, whether it's putting her back in the stirrups before she gets dressed or only waiting until we get home it's like a very intense foreplay opportunity. And if I'm performing a play exam for a couple I'm not in any way deviously plotting to engage in a sexual relationship, I'm more excited to be able to give them something that goes well beyond what they can experience together at the doctor's office and hope that when I leave it results in them having the best post exam sexual experience possible.

Jealous, no however the thought of it gets me hard as a rock instantly. The thought of her laying there completely exposed being violated and stretched with the dr staring deep into her id like no other. Ive expressed my feelings and unfortunately she thinks im crazy.

No I have never felt any kind of jealousy from my wife being examined by male doctor's. She prefers male doctor's over female doctors and I am fine with that, it's her choice. I do like hearing about her exams afterwards no matter who examines her. Personally I like to hear her tell me about her exams from female doctors I think having another woman touching her is hotter than a male doctor touching her. The bottom line is there's no reason for me to get jealous from her being examined by male or female doctors. She doesn't enjoy it or get turned on from it, there nothing sexual about it for her.

Im the absolute opposite. i fantasize having a man examine my girlfriend especially rectal/ recto vaginal, just imagining another man sticking his fingers in her most intimate areas excites me

I always had very mixed feelings. The feeling of jealousy, as my wife wasn't always agreeable to me seeing and feeling her parts. And I'm sure she'd do whatever the doctor said, without question. She wouldn't say "No I don't fee like opening my legs right now, I have a headache".

But then I was totally turned on about what was happening. I was never allowed to attend and I doubt I would have gone if I was. When she came home I would ask her to tell me in great detail what happened. I don't think she held anything back. I would get an erection and masturbate in front of her as she related what happened. The thoughts of a male doctor with two fingers inside her, buried up to the third knuckle, as I had done many times made my head swim.

She eventually became less willing to tell me what happened. Now she goes to a female doc and made it clear that "I don't want to talk about it".

As she goes to her doc 4-6x per year for various ongoing issues I don't know which, or any visits involve intimate parts. It's now to the point where sex in any form isn't up for discussion. I masturbate to my old memories.

I’ve never had jealously feeling about male doctors examining my wife. I knew some guys who joked about their wife’s visits to the “perverted” gynecologist, and I wonder now if those jokes were covering up a jealously or insecure feeling their wife was being somehow shared. Or maybe the opposite - they get aroused by it.

It's now to the point where sex in any form isn't up for discussion. I masturbate to my old memories.

That's really sad. How old are you and how long did it take to get to this point?

I have accompanied my wife to a few appointments and it was always clinical and not sexy at all. She has always had a female doctor.