Feel any jealousy in having her examined?

Do any of the guys here feel any jealousy about their wives or girl friends having gyne exams by male doctors. I have several friends that expressed this feeling. It is funny but the more excited by the idea of a girl being examined the guy is the more he got upset by his girl being the one up on the table. I would really like to know more about it.

I am probably the worst person to answer your question. My wife absolutely hates Doctors and probably has not been to the gynecologist in 15 years. When she did go, I would not consider myself to be jealous (too harsh a word) but definitely envious.

I did very much enjoy when my wife would relate what happened during her exams. I particularly recall what may have been her last. She went for menstrual bleeding problems and after the pelvic exam, while she was still in the stirrups, the gynecologist did a rectal exam without warning her. Her immediate response was "Excuse me, that is NOT where the problem is."

I have no jealousy problem with my wife being examined by a male doctor. She goes every year as required by her employer and also for her own health.I do get excited waiting at home for her because when she gets home she gets examined by me.You should always get a second opinion.She also never wipes the lube off at the doctors office so I get to see how much he has used on her.

My wife and I always get examined together and we have a female doctor mainly because I want to be examined by a woman she has had a male doctor before but im not sure how i would feel watching it or how he would feel

I guess there is a little jealousy since he gets "full access" to my wife. The image of her legs spread in the stirrups, completely submissive to the doctor's hands, is very erotic to me. Plus, he gets to do things to her (speculum exam, rectal-vaginal exam) that she would never allow me to do.

Lynn,

A very interesting topic. I'm totally jealous of former spouse being examined by a male doc. Thank goodness she would relay the details to me because she knew it turned me on so much. I think it's a thing of my X being totally submissive to a strance male. It's the things he would do and how he would order to obey ( so to speak ). It's the sense of another man violating my wife while I submissivly sit in the waiting room. She would just obey and do as told. It was another strange man doing what I'd wanted to do. We could role play afterwards at home but it was never the same as listening to the details and how the doc was so passive while he violated my spouse. It's also the positions he would put her in ( Sims, knee chest , sitting in an upright exam table , etc. and how exposed and vulnerable she was.

Del From Michigan

Del, you are exactly right. It is a mixture of jealousy and being totally turned on, and being in the waiting room and knowing it is happening a few feet away behind a closed door makes it worse (or better). It is the thought of another man, a total stranger, seeing my wife naked and spread open, her groin thrust up at his face and showing him everything; knowing his hands are all over her; knowing he can smell her even, look deep inside her, and that she does everything he asks without question that is so hot for me. I guess it is thinking that she is more shameless with him than with me that makes it so cruel a turn on. I imagine things going on that really don't and that makes it worse (or better). Just the thought of him standing there watching my wife take all her clothes off in front of him makes me violently hard. And yes, all the different positions, especially on her elbows and knees.

Thanks to all of you for your comments. This was a big problem for me when at age 20 the guy I was engaged to informed me I would only be PERMITTED to go to female doctors after we were married. When he learned I had already been to an all male group of gynecologists he lost it. That and two other problems made me see he was not someone I should marry. I didn't thank heaven. The question of jealousy or what even interested me ever since. Lonetalker, Del and js Thanks again. I really appreciate your honesty

I find it extremely exciting to watch during an examination. I find myself envious, not jealous. It leads to a lot of fun afterwards.

I am jelous of my wife being examined by a male doctor because I wish it were me

My boyfriend says he isn't jealous just concerned that I'm okay. He gets to come in but the doctor makes him sit behind a curtain. I go to male gyno but a nurse is always present during the exam.

I hate the idea of another man touching my wife but at the same time it kind of turns me on.

No, I have not felt jealous the 4 times that a male doc has examined her. I was in the exam room both times because my wife wanted me in there. She has me in with her when her regular gyn, who is female, does her normal yearly Well Woman exam

Once felt very jealous when my gf, who was about 23, had to go for a medical. I wasn't present but felt very upstaged that a stranger had seen her naked and done things to her that I wanted to do. In our normal love making I pretended to exam her but was too afraid to admit my fetish for medicals at the time.

Yes I guess I get pretty jealous most of the time. My wife always goes to a gynecological group of four male doctors. She has never been to a female doctor for gyno type exam. The thought of her being told to get up on the the table and in the stirrups does get to me. I have been in the exam room with three GF in the past, but not with my wife.

I have a feeling that my boyfriend would get a little jealous- as long as I was comfortable, I think that he would want to come with me (and I would let him.) I think he'd get turned on after, but wouldn't be jealous if he was actually there. I think it wouldn't hit him until after, when I told him what had happened (I know that he would ask) and he would realize that someone else was touching me intimately.

Not me, my wife and I are both into med sex play. She lets me come in the exam room for very physcial. That way I see it all and the nurse does not have to be in the room with the doc.

Twice when the doc finished the exam and left the room she jumped back into the stirrups for quick fuck by me, very hot.

Boy, that's a tough one to answer. I can't help but think that I'd be jealous watching my wife be examined by another man - real doc or playdoc - but at the same time I know I'd get really excited watching it, and based on our conversations, I know she would get excited too!

Jealousy's natural, I guess - the key is to not let it get control of you.

I am not jealous at all when my wife is examined; on the contrary I get angry when the doctor decides not to perform a complete examination when she has a physical. Since my wife reached the “senior citizen” level of 55 years old and because she had a hysterectomy in her 30’s, our family practice doctor (who performs all our exams – my wife hasn’t gone to a gynecologist in 10 years or more) has decided that pelvic exams are unnecessary except every 2 to 3 years or so.

I hope someone will correct me if I am wrong but my wife still has her ovaries and to the best of my knowledge the only way to correctly evaluate them is during a pelvic exam. Since ovarian cancer is a silent killer I think she should have a complete examination every year. But I know that if I mention it during a doctor’s appointment my wife would get angry and want to remove a piece of my anatomy and the doctor who knows I attend all my wife’s appointments will think I am a little too aggressive to see my wife in stirrups.

My husband doesn't get jealous because I have a male Gynecologist, it actually it arouses him. My husband is always asking questions about my examinations, how I enjoyed them, did I think the doctor enjoyed them. It adds a little spice to our life.

Haha.. its more of mixed up feeling.. jealousy & excitement.. after all.. its hard to forget.. but I always ask my wife how she actually feels after we left the doc.. just excite me to hear the stories..

My partner says to me that i am very lucky to have a med fet and that he is very jelous that i can be probed and things enserted for my enjoyment as well as be checked up naked by a doctor .

he often says he was born in to the wrong body and wishes he was female !

Definitely, years ago when my first lover told me about her exam. She said the doctor made her remove the gown so that she was naked the entire time, and that he made comments about her tan lines. He sounded rather creepy to me.

I am not jealous at all. I have a beautiful wife and I love to see another man get the opportunity to see her naked and spread before him and then give him the opportunity to spread her open too. I know A LOT of guys that would love to do that to her but unfortunately her doctor is the only lucky one allowed. She now even sees a female gyno for her annual because she got embarrassed by a male doc and male observer. When I lived in Japan, I went to a bar where the women would strip to music and then after they were naked they would sit on the edge of the dance floor and straddle each man and then lay back and let the man finger her for about 30 seconds and then she would move to the next man until all of the men got the chance to feel her inside and out. Then she would leave the stage and if you wanted to do her, all you had to do was stand up. If more than one man would stand up, then the owner would bring out some dice and they would roll to find a winner. Then the winner would get up on the stage and she would come back out and he would do her in front of all present while the stage slowly spun in a circle.

My wife went to that bar once to see the show and she was very turned on. She was turned on by the fact that these beautiful women had to lay spread open before all men in the bar one at a time while each man was given the opportunity to spread her pussy lips open and feel inside too. She would often fantasise about it but I know that she would never act on her fantasy. I told her of a great idea that I had...It would be GREAT if part of her contract of employment with her job, she would have to work in that bar 1 night a year. The night that she would have to work there would not be published. She would probably not have problem with it because the bar is far from her work and no one from the area of the bar knows her anyway. Also, it is a kind of fantasy for her as long as it is no one that she knows. For example, if the bar advertised that a certain women's clothing store supported the bar by having each one of their employees work there one night per year, and of the 12 women working there, you found 1 or 2 to be beautiful and you would give your right arm to be able to see her before you and finger her too. Now you don't know what night that one girl has to work there so you have to go every night to see. The bar charges a huge cover charge and so makes a lot of money. But here is the difference... I would secretly let out to one of my wife's admirers on what night she will be working and he in turn will spread the word to all the other guys that know her from her gym and from being one of her patients.

She has about 300 patients and many of them from the young guys who are 21 to the guys who are 40+ have made passes at her over and over. By the time that she would come out on the stage to strip, it would be too late when she realizes that she knows most of the men there. She would then have to spread her legs in front of every man and let them spread her open and finger her for 30 seconds and one lucky guy would be given the opportunity to do her in front of all the others. Now that is the reason that I don't get jealous when she used to see a male gyn. To me, it is about giving someone else the opportunity to fulfill their fantasy with my wife. I guess that I am kind of weird like that.

Going back to the question, like others I was initially very jealous about a doctor seeing and touching my girlfriend. The main reason was that it was just for family planning reasons and no other (the pill). How docrors must love the healthy teenagers arriving at their door for no real medical reason.

Oddly, I minded the internal stuff less that the viewing and squeezing of the breasts that to me was just the doctor having a bit of fun! I got so wound up at one point, my girlfriend lied and said a nurse had done that bit, but later admitted it was the doctor.

After that I came to see the pleasure that can be derived from this idea and we have had a lot of fun discussing the different ways that breasts are handled by different doctors.

On the contrary, I get upset when I don't get a chance to see my wife get examined. Just last week I lost out on that chance and I have only myself to blame. With her consent, I signed my wife up for a clinical trial of a hormonal treatment. The Gyn office participating in the trial called my wife up and she set up the initial appointment for a time when she was going to the city 40 miles away with our daughter on other business. She was not told on the phone nor was there anything in the sign up process that indicated that a full physical with a pelvic exam would be involved. We both figured that the first visit would just entail taking her medical history and finding out if she qualified for the study so I didn't make arraignments to accompany her. I did plan to go with her to any subsequent appointments because I thought a study of this kind just might require a full physical if she qualified. When she got home she told me that she had to answer a 20 page questionnaire with the study facilitator. Then she was told that they were now going to do a breast exam, pelvic exam and pap smear which the doctor came in and did.

What upsets me the most is that she was scheduled to have all this done later this month with our family doctor and I always go to those appointments so now she will not have it done again until next year, but you can be sure I will go with her then. If only I had waited a couple weeks before signing her up then I might have had the opportunity to view two exams.

Hey,

i am not jealous about my girlfriend being examined....it is exciting and afterwards we have sex and talk about it...

about her feelings and we are bout very arroused ...

its just great to be there en to se what the docter does with her??,seeing heer exposed...looking into here eyes...see here reactions

hmmm

greatings

She went yesterday and gave me the full report that evening. Two male docs had a look at a sore spot on her labia as well a a complete pelvic exam. She was in the stirrups for a long time. She asked if I would like to attend one of her examinations. I'm still afraid the reality might destroy the magic of her telling me the story. Dr. Stories are a great turn on.

Not at all. Its more of a turn on....

Although intimate examinations are a necessary part of medicine, male doctors handling my wife's private areas has always been a paradox of eroticism and jealousy for me. The thought of another man touching the parts of her body that excites her sexually makes me very jealous. On the other hand, I find that same thought highly erotic and stimulating. Even when I accompany her and watch the exam take place, jealousy and sexually charged feelings build up as the exam progresses. However, knowing that what takes place is essential for her good health, I am able to surpress my feelings until we leave. We are both into medfet so, as soon as we leave, she starts going over the details of her exams and talking about my feelings while I was watching. Of course, she is always ready to play doctor at home where we use ideas we got from her exams for our games..