Feel any jealousy in having her examined?

Yes very jealous

My wife sees a female, but if she ever went to a male, I don't think I could stay with her ... that's the level of betrayal I'd feel

I have never been jelouse of my wife gyno i go to her appointments with her as she goes to any i have. i do not really care for his bedside manner but he is highly spoken of for his success on the treatment of infertility caused by pcos. so i ignore him

Jealousy kills. All of the exams I have taken by ex wives and girl friends to have been with male play doctors with very definite kinks and I could not have loved it more! Watching. But not even as much as they loved it.

Jealous yes, I want to be examened also.

At first yes. After watching her getting a breast exam for the first time, I could not even get an erection when we try to make love same night. i feel so humble and weak before her . But later that thoughts went away and now , even thinking of her exams make me hard. ha ha

When I can not go it is not jealousy. I am not jealous of the doctor. I know they are professionals. I do have issues because I am fascinated by the exam though. It is not jealousy, but it is a very strong reaction. I definitely would like to be there. I mean I get to see what the doctor sees pretty much whenever I want, so I am not jealous. I just don't get to see it in that setting. If it is a scheduling issue, that's the luck of the draw. If she prefers to go without me, I feel hurt, but not jealous.

Yes my wife gets all fixed up for doc but wont let me go says she hates going but i dont believe her but i get hard thinking about her bending over the table for a rectal exam she has a big butt

Yes, very much so ... even though my wife sees a female ...

In everyday life i'm jealous and hate the idea of another man touching my wife, but in a medical scenario it's a turn on for me see my wife completely exposed to male doctor that give her an accurate examination.

I enjoy the fantasy of another doctor examining my wife. However, there have been many instances where we have ended up socializing a doc who has examined her and I alway end up feeling jealous. the jealously does not spring from the knowledge that he had intimately examined my wife, but from the knowledge that she might share info with him that she wouldn't share with me. Its the thought "Does he know something that I don't" that drives me crazy.

Reading about these jealousy issues about male doctors, makes me wonder what happened in the years prior to so many females becoming doctors themselves. What did men go around feeling then?

And yet that was a time when practically all men also thought that females were completely unsuited to the medical (or almost any serious) profession.

So what gave back then? Jealousy because men touched and examined their wives, and yet rejection of the idea of women taking over the job ... talk about innately unresolvable conflicting issues ...

My first wife was not comfortable with me being in the room and I had to sit outside wondering what was happening to her. After, I would pester her for details which would annoy her. This built up a feeling of resentment at being excluded and a residual feeling that the Medical staff could see her but I wasn't allowed. We ended in Divorce (not because of that I hasten to add.......although her unwillingness was probably a symptom of what was wrong between us)

Subsequently, my partner is happy to have me accompany her and what a difference!

I find it extremely exciting to watch during an examination. I find myself envious, not jealous. It leads to a lot of fun afterwards, in the car in the multi-story car park!!!! Briliant!!!! Fantastic!!!! Old doctor young nurse!!

I would have to admit that jealousy is a large part of what I feel when I think about my wife being examined; in fact, most of my fantasizing involves some aspect of my wife being seen naked/touched in a variety of embarrassing situations by other men and/or women... not just in medical scenarios, although my medical fantasies are by far the most exciting, most likely due to the fact that there is more reality involved. I have never been with her for an exam, other than when she was pregnant; I think this probably adds to the fantasy for me, as reality can't get in the way 😃

Nope, never had that. I actually enjoy watching another man between my wife's legs and seeing her all exposed. Trying to think what she is thinking at that moment is a turn on!

Maybe a little jealousy, but that is overshadowed by how much of a turn on it is to see her get examined!

I would say I am jealous that a person can order her to spread her legs and touch her wherever and she just obeys. I wish I had that sort of power!

Before becoming pregnant with our first child in 1982 my wife had a female GP for her smear test and internal exam after she had been on the pill for six months and that was in 1980.

At her booking in ante-natal appointment at the hospital she was examined by a male doctor.I was in the waiting room as at that time husbands were not allowed in at the actual check up but that changed a few months later.When she came out she told be that the doctor had examined her breast and did a smear and internal exam.I became quite aroused at hearing her talk about it although she was feeling the opposite to me.

Over the years ( four pregnancies) she has had intimate examinations from about eight male doctors and I have never felt jealous about them examining my wife.I know that they are professionals and there was nothing sexual in their actions but I enjoyed quizzing her about the visits.

Our present doctors practice has more female GP's (5) than male(2). I have recently had an intimate examination by a female doctor and I am sure my wife wasn't jealousy about it.

In recent years she make appointments with a female doctor if she can but has said that will see a male doctor if it is an urgent matter and I am perfectly ok with it.

I thought long and hard about this one before setting out a reply. I was particularly drawn to the posts of Gynagog and AGracier as they both touched on my experiences. Gynagog echoes almost exactly my experience. My first wife was a firm believer in keeping me in the waiting room which did in the end become a source of resentment on my part. She was most forthcoming with the details though and I suspect now with hindsight that she quite enjoyed knowing how it made me feel and saw it as a bit of a power thing. As with Gynagog I can't blame that on the breakdown of the marriage but I always felt that was a part of our life that I was excluded from. That says more about me I know but that's the truth. When I married for the second time everything was different and I have been encouraged to go with my wife at every opportunity. However as I've got older I now feel that I'm perhaps intruding on something that really isn't my business and other than to give her support, I get no pleasure or excitement being there to the point of feeling awkward almost. When I'm not there though the demons take over again and the feeling of missing out is almost too much to bear.

In response to AGracier's point about acceptance, I think the times were different and we males were much more accepting of doctors doing intimate things to our wives as much as they were accepting of having it done. So if a feeling of exclusion can be described as jealousy then the answer is yes.

I have been married three times, for a total of thirty five years. I have never been jealous of my wives going to a male Dr for any procedure. I have always asked, when she got home again, "How did it go?" The response invariably was something along the lines of, "Uncomfortable, but necessary."

Once, when I asked one of my wives if it was a turn-on, being in the stirrups and completely open and vulnerable, she asked me, "How much of a turn on was your last rectal exam?" That kinda eliminated any visions I might have had of her writhing in ecstasy as the doctor probed her vagina. 😃

Married 13 years now, I have only been able to attend on pelvic with my wife. It was when we got pregnant. No jealousy...it was a female who was smoking hot.

As a husband do you ever see the wife getting a good gyn exam? I loved seeing her getting her breasts and then a bimanual exam.

I must admit, i do get jealous, but only because i want to be there, doing it myself. I think i prefer the thought of a female doctor though.

Not jealous, although my fiancee has always seen a female doctor, usually if I didn't go I just feel curious and wish I'd been able to go.

None of my friend have ever express jealousy about my exam that was given by a male gyn.

Yes, I usually feel some small amount of jealousy, but only because her gyn is a middle aged male.

I can't say that there's no jealousy on my part at all. She has a male doctor around our age (30's) and she's healthy and in good shape. The thought of the doctor seeing and touching her most private areas really made me wonder for a while, until I eventually accompanied her. That certainly lessened the jealousy some, knowing that I was at least there to witness everything that goes on during her well-woman exam. Despite the clinical tone, it's still a very intimate process in my opinion.

Not jealousy......Maybe a touch😃 It's more of an anxious feeling the whole time she's gone. I'm a heart man, so its not the fun exam that gets to me so much. It's more the man or woman.....Makes no difference to me. It's more the Dr. Listening to her heart and breat sounds, palpating her pulses, etc that makes me anxious. Upon her return, I always quiz her and make her tell me in detail everything that happened. Usually followed by several days of medical sex😃 It makes me uncomfortable thinking about someone listening to her/MY heart, taking her/MY blood pressure. Both very intimate to me, and I'm not big on someone else listening to her heart😢 It arouses me at te same time, so after a Dr.s visit, the next couple days are filled with sex.

I attended all her pre/post natal visits and enjoyed that immensely.

I am with my girlfriend for 5 years now. she has not allowed me to join in the exam room yet. Every time i wait inside the doctors office...not in the waiting area and I feel very anxious...not jealous...just anxious. The last time i could even hear part of their conversation and her kinda laughing when the doctor inserted the speculum...!!! I was next door and i wanted to rush in to have a clear picture of the situation!!