Who in your life knows of your enema fetish? Who have you told?

My husband knows and my friend and neighbor Carlotta. We get together once or twice a month for a girl's day doing hair, nail, and massage appointments and one or two enema sessions. Also my mother and aunt knew from my reactions to enemas after puberty, they both told me that what I was experiencing was normal for a healthy young woman. I also believe they had the same fetish due to the frequency of the enemas they took.

Marlene

My wife and my mother because, after age 9, I would orgasm while she was giving them to me, however she never commented about it. Later she caught me self administering and took time to assure herself that I was doing it right as she watched me take two enemas. A few days later she gave me my own set and told me that whenever I needed help to let her know and she would. After that I ask for her help about 1-third of the time and solo's the remainder. By then although I would get a "woodie" I was able to hold back my orgasm when she was giving them and only go over the top while holding the enema privately or on the toilet. When doing solo, I was comfortable releasing as the need arose.

Also Carlotta because she has often seen two bags hanging in the bathroom to dry, but she doesn't give or observe my enemas no I of hers..

Marvin

Actually no one knows. My wife knows I take them but does not know the extent of my love for them.

Only my lover - Ford. We share many fantasies and kinks, oh yes especially everything about anal. 😃

Nobody - at least, that's what I think. If my wife knows, she has NEVER given the slightest hint that she is aware of anything. We have different sleep patterns. She goes to bed early and I only much later - during which time, of course, the enemas happen.

Only my husband and an ex-boyfriend. Have enjoyed getting and giving enemas with both. I must be perverted but I'd love to watch my husband take an enema from another man!

Too many people! I've always been open about my sexual tastes with others that were open with me. Until a short time ago that had never come back to bite me.

Last summer I met this woman who I was told was recovering from a bad marriage, her husband had gone down for dealing drugs (meth), she was living in the local women's shelter. We were introduced by people she went to the Mormon church with, They had asked if I had any part-time work for her, I said I could give her a few hours of contract work a week. I did due diligence and did a background check, she came up clean. She came for an interview and seemed lake a very nice person. We hit it off from the start.

A few weeks later there was a book sale at the local library, which is next to my house. I said I was going, and as this woman didn't have a car she asked if she could come along, that her folks would meet us there and take her home (She was 40). I said fine, at the book sale we ran into the Mormon Bishop, his wife and her parents, her dad has a high position in the local LDS ward.. I invited everyone to my house for a chicken barbeque, but everyone had eaten except for this woman and me.

The way things were I didn't see any harm in having her over and then taking her back to the shelter. We barbequed and as we were cleaning up she grabbed me by the crotch, french kissed me, headed toward the bedroom, and left a trail of clothes all the way. Ummm, should have known better, but I only have enough blood to use one head at a time! Without going into details... it was good sex, no, much better than good.

So dumb ass me, as we are getting along OK, and she is open to try about anything, I tell her about the enemas and also that I have produced as number of enema videos. I show her one with a woman in it that is bi, who I bring to town occasionally, and she wants me to bring her in for a three-some as she is bi, too. She wants a copy of the DVD and takes it with her. So we start doing sex and enemas, she really seems into them. I'm having the time of my life!

This is all well and good until the woman falls off the wagon, is abusing prescription drugs and drinking heavily. I try to work with her, but as she keeps showing up drunk I have no choice but to let her go, she's mad and files first degree rape charges, turns the enemas DVD over to the sheriff, and so on. She actually tried to blackmail me, but I stood my ground. It's also about this time I find out the woman's former names, find out she has multiple felony convictions, has been arrested 18 times in 10 years in this state and a similar number of times in Utah. She has children that were taken away by the state. She's also worked as a prostitute, with a couple of convictions for that in Utah and now works occasionally in a Nevada brothel, so she knows how to manipulate men. I'm not knocking prostitution or prostitutes, I believe it should be legal everywhere, I've been known to partake when I'm in Melbourne, Australia and find the occasional enemate on Backpage.

OK you ask, how can a convicted felon change her name, I found out in this state they are allowed...and get this... so they can get a job! Talk about the state screwing businesses. And who paid for her name change, the church! I found out later the Bishop was completely aware of her history.

So now the word is out, the rape charges were "unfounded" but the Sheriff is not happy with having a business owner in town who has been in the porn business, this woman stole from me and my company, we have proof but can't get her prosecuted.. probably because, as I found out later, she's also screwing a couple of the deputies! Oh, and since the rape complaint is public record, she has shown copies of that around town!

So I guess it;s OK to screw around, but if you do something kinky....

Lincster45:

If that story is true, while I can empathize with you, what did you expect? You live in a community, where let's say what is put out for public consumption, is not what goes on behind closed doors. I am not going to turn this forum into a commentary on the LDS Church and its history, but . . .

No one knows about my "hobby".

My wife discovered my equipment a few years back and it was a weird scene. I guess she thought I lied because I never told her something. Regardless, she knows now but won't participate in any fashion. So like many others, I'm doing my own enemas, for over 50 years now. I still keep my stuff tucked away out of site. I would like to wake up tied to the bed one morning with her holding my four qt. bad and the hose up my rear. Dream on.

My partner knows I love enemas and my doctor knows I take them regularly. Although my partner doesn't approve of me taking them even though he knows I do it so we may have clean sex. When I was a child I received an enema from my parents every day up until the age of 16, I wasn't able to go to the bathroom without the enema and stopped taking them for about 10 years. Now I have rediscovered my love of enemas and would even like to get back in the routine of taking one or more a day but am afraid that I won't be able to have a bm without one if my body gets too used to the enema. Enemas are fairly commonplace in the gay community for anal cleaning but we don't talk about them too much because it is a taboo subject but I have told some of our friends about my enema fetish.

My best male friend that I've known since 1975 does know about my enema proclivities and my anal eroticism fetish; other than that, I haven't had a good friend close by to share my enema love with. I haven't been able to get him to partake as yet as he tends to equate this with his being labeled gay; too bad as it's his loss....

At this time only my wife and two professional dominas know. My wife doesn't like it (which is why two dominas know). Eventually, a doctor or two will probably know if I have any health issues. However, as the years go by, I feel less inclined to be shy or defensive about my private life. When one is old enough, one can do what one likes and others don't need to like it.

For what it's worth, I know of your enema fetish and I have shared much about mine. I appreciate that many of you share such intimate details. That is why I've been around here for many years. Like many of you, I wish that I could be even more forthcumming about my inclinations, especially with those closest to me. It's unfortunate that so many don't or can't understand such a simple pleasure. Best wishes to all of you and best of luck in finding others to share in practicing or engaging in our favorite hobby.

My wife knows, does not mind but does not participate, although if I am in our bathroom taking an enema in the knee-chest position and she has to either use the bathroom or need something in there she does not hesitate to come in, and does not mind seeing me like that at all.

No one, including my wife knows of my enema fetish. If only I could meet some others who are also closeted enema lovers I would feel more comfortable in opening up about this.

Two ex's and two non sexual women friends. It's nice having female friends that I can talk sexual issues I tell mine and they tell me theirs.

My step-brother and dad. But I don't consider it a fetish, it is routine thing.

For now.......only the wife (who's not interested in participating), and the folks here on Zity.

My sister who likes them also, a few ex girlfriends and a few friends. All of them like enemas as well.

My wife knows and participates in our enema play. She had no prior enema experience, but has found that she likes them, telling me that "it is time for an enema for her" about once a month. As she takes her enema, she lies on her back, and I rub her belly and play with her clitoris, labia, and pereniem. She always reaches a climax, sometimes before the bag is flat. But it not by then, we keep going until she does. And she regularly gives me an enema with fellatio during the flow. I typically do not climax at this point, so then she gets on me in "cowboy position". It is wonderful sex.

We have a second home in Arizona. I frequently spend a few weeks there alone. The other day, I left the empty enema bag, hose and colon tube hanging to dry in the outside pool bathroom. Our "pool lady" typically arrives around mid-morning on Fridays. While there, she sometimes goes into the pool bathroom. When she came out this time, she seemed a little aroused. I did not say anything but will see what happens next week.

Answer to questions :

Firstly I'll state that these are those that were either aware of or knew about my use of the Enema but not necessarily all would knoweto what extent I took pleasure in them sexually

1.) Obviously both of my parents

2) Grandmother & one of two aunties, though I think both would know as they too ascribed to the efficacy of an enema.

3) My siblings no doubt as they were both introduced to & acquainted with soapy the bum bandit.

4) A childhood neighbour of whom I'd played doctors & nurses with.

5) Two (female) first cousins & 1 second cousins partner who I'd met when she'd begun her nurses training.

6 ) Former ex GF's (meaning more than 3) lady friends & active participants of the pleasurable purge.

7) My ex SO of whom I had introduced & encouraged who took to it like a duck to water (chuckle).

7a) And of course lets not exclude or forget everyone here on this zity forum.

My Doctor / physician & gynaecologist (female) who's known for many years.

Have a nice one now !. .TA🦘

Aside from my friends on zity, my ex-husband, several of my close friends in real life, and my son's girlfriend. My son has an inkling but he prefers to ignore it.

Of course my wife knows, there was one girlfriend that knows, and there is another old friend that knows because she is on this site, we were never boyfriend/girlfriend, but think of the fun we could have had, had we known about it back then, wow.

I do have another friend that I wish knew, but then again not sure how she would take it I mean receive it no no understand it, that's better

A few guys I've dated and my ex boyfriend!!!

My sister knows, and perhaps the two childhood neighbor girls (sisters) might suspect that I probably grew up with an anal/enema fetish after some of the "playing doctor" and "I'll show you mine if you show me yours" games we all did as kids growing up. Later in life, my wife of course knows and will administer enemas or ass play anytime I ask. My wife has discussed my taking (not necessarily my enjoyment) of enemas with her sister - they even jointly shopped for various enema bags and bulbs for me. One of the neighbor girls visited my sister a couple of years ago and I gather she made some comment about the "things we did" as kids. Other than these people, I've told a few massage therapists and colonic providers that my wife frequently gives me enemas.

So far only my boyfriend and one of my cousins (who is an exceptionally open-minded person). I also told one web friend.

Just some close girl friends no one else.

An old girlfriend, bought her a bag and she tried them by herself. Said she found nothing erotic about them, said they were for internal cleansing. So never had the chance to share with her, too bad, because she had a great ass. And would've loved to fill her up often. Besides two old girlfriends and all my friends on here.

An ex-husband, who could not understand why or accept that I had the fetish. Currently a male friend who has a fetish with anal stimulation he does not want to share with his wife.

Sharing the fetish with non open-minded folks can really go wrong. Caution!

Most of my close friends and family know and I get some grief at times, but they all know who to ask for advice when they feel sick!