Why the shame around enemas?

@chelle300

Loved your comment! I wonder if you are a nurse and how you talk about it with your patients and family. Do you like to apply or receive enemas?

@chelle300

It actually feels liberating. Good for you!

Hello there and it's great that you are here! Neither my husband nor my self had anything to do with enemas until we got married. To make a long story short we both LOVE enemas. I started when I was 20 - 21 years old.

Today is Sunday and that means it's Enema Day! My bowels are full and I'm ready to rumble! Soon I'll be liberated and showing my freedom to my husband!

Have a great day chelle300!

And a great day for all of our Enema Friends!

GyneDoll,

Gwen

@brazilian I am not a nurse but a pharmacy technician so when I am giving injections patients will start talking & there have been a few of them that I have told about my fetish.

So fortunate that shame isn't a word I would associate with my enema and colonic regime. All the medical professionals; a lovely girl who ran the mine hospital in Africa, a colo-rectal specialist nurse who also gives colonics, the "Twinkly granny - a former midwife and my lovely RN neighbour, I have come out to about this have been incredibly positive. While I won't go out of my way to talk about this I'm definitely not shy, particularly when a lady says how well I look!!

Since my early 20s when a home health nurse gave me an enema because I was constipated, but it also unexpectedly sparked an arousal, I still thought of enemas more related to maintaining my health than anything else. Have I been kidding myself, at least a little bit? No doubt.

In my mid 20s, I began to experience intestinal problems, mainly bloating and constipation. My body was traumatized from the accident. The nurse who took care of me at home after the accident recommended that I buy an enema bag, which I did from a medical supply store. I was totally embarrassed, especially when the clerk (a retired nurse) showed me an array of rectal tubes, but I didn’t feel shame.

I started seeing G.I. doctors and undergoing tests. I hated the barium enema; it was an awful experience. Doctors said I had a “lazy bowel” and inflammation at the juncture of the transverse and ascending colon. It was easy to rationalize that enemas I was doing through the years during difficult times were for my health. Some embarrassment when I needed to talk to doctors, but I didn’t feel shame in that.

The first time I openly admitted that an enema was igniting my senses was with my husband, early on in our marriage. Although I was in pain, it wasn’t difficult for him to notice that I was also having some pleasure from the experience. At first, I was embarrassed (too many moans gave it away!), but those feelings quickly evaporated. No shame, he is my best friend.

About three years ago when I began seeing a naturopathic doctor who specializes in digestive ailments through more natural “medications,” one of the questions she asked me was how I felt about taking probiotics rectally. I told her that I usually “enjoy“ an enema. I felt a twinge of embarrassment, but no feelings otherwise. I felt good, being honest and admitting that to her.

@chelle300 wow and how did they react? have any shared the same taste?

@chelle300 here have been a few of them that I have told about my fetish.

Sounds a bit chancy; revealing your interest. I took chances like that when I was a younger man. But it can be exciting.

@brazilian they weren't really surprised. They found it to be interesting

@reddevil while it might be chancy it may also open up some more doors to meeting like minded people in my area

Speaking of meeting people, I would think there can be no better way for a mid-age gal to meet others who are into enemas, etc, than at this place, no?

No risk, no reward. You gotta “Test the waters” no pun intended, when you meet someone new. My experiences have been that if a gal is into anal sex/play, she will be open to enemas.

This site, as well as others, has been good for finding like minded folks insomuch as it takes the guess work outta things when you can see their likes and interests in their profile.

Compared to most of the B.S. I see going on around me, with big money and “important people” saying that it is a “right” and a “medical need” to make the claims and demands that are made, what exactly is it I am supposed to be ashamed of again???

@chelle300 ah cool and what was "get out of the store"? Why did you decide to take on your anal fetish? Do you just like enema or anal sex?

@brazilian I love both!!

@chelle300 wow! congratulations for the courage to talk about it! I don't know in the USA but in Brazil there is still a lot of taboo about anal sex, but many famous women are assuming to enjoy.

@chelle300 …. will start talking & there have been a few of them that I have told about my fetish.

Got me to thinking about the desire I've had to tell others I knew about my special interests; but how do you break the ice, so to say, to do this?

@reddevil I just start talking to people. Sometimes one thing leads to another. I told my mom this weekend about everything & how it started for me. My youngest sister knows everything about what I do. My mom was a little shocked butt oh well 🍑🌡💦

It could be for a variety of reasons one being that enemas are not seen as mainstream kink. Part of it has to do with dealing with intimate parts of the body. Possible issues with scat, accidents and odors. Addionally enemas are not as popular today as was the case in the 50’s

@redbag_in_ny i agree

I told my mom this weekend about everything & how it started for me.

Would liked to have been the proverbial “fly on the wall” to overhear that conversation. I was never able to broach the subject of enemas with my mom, who was addicted to taking them; and i suspect knew I was as well.

@reddevil it was an interesting conversation for sure but at least knows about my true fetishes.

@reddevil wow! Did she tell you she liked enemas? or did you see her take any? i am curious.

@reddevil it was an interesting conversation for sure but at least knows about my true fetishes.

@chelle300 And what was your Moms response to all that, was she wide eyed too? LOL 😁

@Mike45 she doesn't understand why anyone would want their ass played with. I told her because it feels amazing 🍑😈🌡🍆

@Mike45 she doesn't understand why anyone would want their ass played with. I told her because it feels amazing 🍑😈🌡🍆

@chelle300 Was she wide eyed or did her jaw drop when you were explaining it to her? LOL 😁

@Mike45 she had more of the ‘deer 🦌 in the headlights' look lol 😆

@chelle

Just exactly what did you tell your mother and how did you break it to her and, most of all, why do you feel the need? Not being negative, just curious.

@chelle300

Just exactly what did you tell your mother and how did you break it to her and, most of all, why do you feel the need? Not being negative, just curious.

@Real_Screamer mainly because it's risky behavior meeting people so if something should happen & the cops show up to the house & tell her it won't be a complete shock

@chelle300 I guess that will enable her to handle dealing with the police but I’d try really, really hard not to get involved in unsafe situations.