Why the shame around enemas?

@Real_Screamer I do my best! So far the last 2 I played with have been great but I am sure there is one bad apple 🍎 who will spoil the whole bunch

@chelle300 So my next question is did your Mom give you enemas as a child or did your fetish grow out other experiences as a child or young adult? You present yourself as an excellent play partner.

I like multiple play partners, 2-3, are an excellent scene. Because we have a good number of upscale resort hotels nearby, a number of ladies come together for a week of fun and games and good food.

So far they have responded to my discreet ads and we’ve had a ton of fun.

@Real_Screamer I was never given enemas as a child. My fetish started in the ER when I was 4 getting my rectal temp taken. The rest is history!

Amazing what a thermometer up the butt can lead to… 🍑🌡😆

@Temptaker4u more than you know 🍑🌡😈!

@chelle300 It was the first thing we did when we played: Pants off and thermometer in! 🍑🌡😍

@Temptaker4u 💯true story & it was amazing! Spankings too👋🍑🌡💦😈

To quote you know who… Sooooo YYUUUUUUMMMMMYYYY!! 😆

Excellent topic! I love reading the stories of how people started, mutas times so totally innocent

Why the shame? You ever hear someone joking that someone needs an enema? With the mindset that they are something to be avoided. Seinfeld- Kramer constipated, an enema was suggested. George commented they were awful. A lot of people no doubt feel the same without ever experiencing one. So it makes sense that one might feel shame liking something that others avoid.

I know I would still be embarrassed to admit I like enemas unless I knew for sure the feeling was mutual. You like what? Why? Eww, sounds terrible.

Since the internet and places like Zitybiz I accepted and relish my like of enemas. I’d still be embarrassed getting caught or having it revealed indiscriminately. But I no longer feel the shame. Thanks Zitybiz and its members. (I might be weird in my likes, but if that’s the case I know there a lot of others just like me)

Never discussed it but I suspect mom knew, as we had only one bathroom, and privacy was scarce in our house, starting around when I was 11 or 12 I would tell mom that I was having trouble going and she would take my two sisters shopping for a couple of hours. Hint taken!

About a year ago, my doctor formed a support group of women with G.I. issues such as IBS for the purpose of learning from one another and sharing experiences.

There are now eight of us, ranging in age from 28 to 66. We began talking to one another timid and reserved about our conditions, but once we have grown to know and confide in each other, I can tell you there’s no shame when someone in our group talks about her last probiotics enema or needing to do an emergency ”C-Cleanse.” The group's term for a constipation regimen – not just enemas.

@Vicki_V Support groups can be very beneficial or just useless depending on the facillators. Sounds like you found a good one! We’ve experienced both good and bad for those with physical disabilities and incontinence issues. Even the topic of sex has come up but we’ve got far better advice here on Zity! We have a physical therapist group that gets people out, excited and motivated. Well worth it!

I have hidden it all my younger years with the exception of mentioning the word jokingly sometimes, l guess one of the younger girls picked up on it and once asked me if l wanted her to give me an enema, ( l was seventeen and she was fifteen at the time ) not that age had anything to do with it, but l was hiding it so much that l answered, ‘’ no ‘’. Boy how l think l regret it now. l guess mainly l hid it ( was ashamed of it ) because l felt odd about it and was something l didn't want getting spread around. The very first time l ever mentioned it to anyone was at age thirty - nine and that was to a domme type on the telephone that l found an add for which included " disciplinarian, nurse, teacher ‘’ among other things in the classified section of a travel type magazine. Certainly remember how strange and relieving it felt to actually be able to discuss it with someone.

I never felt any shame taking enemas as a kid or as an adult. They were common place in the family for kids and adults alike hence no need for shame. I didn't go around broadcasting it but not out of shame more it wasn't anyone elses business.

I never felt shame giving them when required either.

I think it strongly depends on the crowd. Even open-minded “vanilla“ people still at least claim they think anal sex is taboo. So the idea of bringing up enemas is like 10-fold saying you like anal sex. It’s a tough subject but also part of the eroticism I guess. The taboo factor adds to the allure in some ways.

Even open-minded “vanilla“ people still at least claim they think anal sex is taboo. So the idea of bringing up enemas is like 10-fold saying you like anal sex.

It is true, but it is also ironic, since enemas are the one thing that should make anal sex less of a taboo, since nasty accidents are much less likely to happen 😉

No shame here - just pure pleasure! Didn’t get them as a child but now enjoy each and every one! So much equipment out there along with a variety of stimulating nozzles!

Self taught no shame and quite proud of my colon and what it has taught me!

@Kab sometimes opportunity knocks on our door and we don't realize

If an enema is not a shameful experience, then why do people on this site of Jack to meeting to share Giving and receiving enemas. I think they’re afraid they’re going to have sex with somebody they don’t want to and that’s fine but why not share the experience of taking and giving an enema. This probably will piss a lot of ladies off, but that’s how I feel.

If an enema is not a shameful experience, then why do people on this site of object to meeting to share Giving and receiving enemas. I think they’re afraid they’re going to have sex with somebody they don’t want to and that’s fine but why not share the experience of taking and giving an enema. This probably will piss a lot of ladies off, but that’s how I feel. Have the understanding there will be no sex. I don’t think anybody on this site wants to cause harm to anybody.

If an enema is not a shameful experience, then why do people on this site of object to meeting to share Giving and receiving enemas. I think they’re afraid they’re going to have sex with somebody they don’t want to and that’s fine but why not share the experience of taking and giving an enema. This probably will piss a lot of ladies off, but that’s how I feel. Have the understanding there will be no sex. I don’t think anybody on this site wants to cause harm to anybody.

Not wanting to meet complete strangers for any type of intimacy (enemas are intimate with or without sex) is common sense for folks that aren't looking for relationdhips. We men may say it's all on the up and up (no sex) - but how do you really know we're not just using it as excuse and hoping it leads to sex. A lot of people are on here to read, chat, discuss, get information, etc. with no desire to meet someone, not because they are ashamed of their enema interests.

I don't talk to friends and neighbors about the details of my sex life, nor how often I masturbate. Not because I'm ashamed of it, just because it's really none of their business.

@Rigel: WE men may say it's all on the up and up (no sex)

Oh, so true! It always leads to sex when it involved men; at least from my experience…

Oh, so true! It always leads to sex when it involved men; at least from my experience…

@Reddevil That's why we are called the “weaker sex”!!! 😈

An enema was uncomfortable, scary and very intimidating when I was a child and even as a teenager. I absolutely knew that enema bag and long hose was going to go in my rectum and my Mom would purposely make my stomach cramp. The smell of Ivory soap in the bathroom would make me have butterflies and dread. Skillfully, using the enema bag, my Mom was going to take control of my bowels and make me cramp and poo uncontrollably until I was a grownup.

I felt tingly and "feel good sensations” in my young pussy when I knew I was going to get an enema. That was very confusing. Once, I remember sticking a a thermometer in and out of my rectum when I was in bed at 5 or 6 years old. It felt good!

I have been embarrassed just hearing the word “enema” as an adult. I still have vivid recollections of Mom's enemas and the memories of it all, now make me sexually excited. I have phenomenal sexual feelings and climaxes using my old red enema bag with the curvy black nozzle. 💜

After a nurse introduced me to enemas at 5 years old, I don't know why but I liked it. I remember asking for an enema when I was about 6 years old, my aunt was there and I heard mom say “I have to give him an enema, we can talk while I do it”. Aunt Betty asked why I needed it and mom told her “I think he likes it”. Aunt Betty said “are you serious, he likes getting an enema”? I remember the conversations almost 70 years later like it was yesterday. I think that was the first time I was embarrassed about them but it never stopped my occasional asking. By the time I was about 8 years old I found that picking at my food and eating little brought about the question “do you think you need an enema”? It must be a genetic thing as my older sister liked them too.

For me, its just hard for other people to understand, unless they understand. Ive grown up in a judgement world, and can't get myself around to believing that people close to you will accept you for who you are and what you like.

Sad, but has been my reality all my life.

I think the shame is more on the younger generation that has never been exposed to enemas. They often know what an enema is, and where that nozzle goes. But in today’s society, everything has to be fixed with a pill. Nobody wants to have to swallow their pride and accept the truth that a little warm water squirted up the butt is all anyone needs to get instant relief. A nozzle getting stuck up the rear is out of the question, because the idea of a rectal intrusion just seems too unbearable.

It’s seems silly to those of us who grew up accustomed to enemas as a fact of life. I can remember a time that if you saw a sick child crying from a tummy ache, his mother would take him to the bathroom and close the door. Everyone knew she was about to give him an enema to make him feel better, but nobody said anything about it. Everyone just knew that was the remedy of choice for a constipated child.

There are the naturopathic groups in the younger generation that are embracing the use of coffee enemas and colonics. That movement seems to be growing, which is promising since the pharmaceutical industry is getting a bad name.

I’ve been going to a naturopathic doctor for about 4 1/2 years. She will recommend warm water enemas as one of several ways to treat common illnesses such as colds and flu, which in her words, “rests the digestive system” and helps the body to recover. She prescribes extra rest (not continuing to work at home; turn off the computer), pushing fluids (hydration), consuming light nutritious meals and extra vitamin C & D — traditional remedies that help boost the immune system and still work.

Patients can be reluctant, she says, but if they are willing to take that first step with some gentle coaching, most feel that the enema is not shameful and, in fact, they'll feel like it's a gift of healing.