Why do men enjoy giving an enema to a woman?

@CJ1999, my sentiments exactly.

I couldn't say it ANY better indeed!!!!!! VERY sensual

I love looking at a womans body when she is laying on her side with her top knee bent. The curve of her ass is irresistible, and her lips just poke out from her thighs, beckoning my tongue or fingers. Or if she is on her hands and knees with her bottom in the air waiting for the nozzle with all of her womanhood on display. A woman is sooo cute when she's on her back and her legs up and spread, waiting for me to insert a large nozzle. They look so soft and vulnerable and needy. Let's not forget the orgasm. Much stronger and longer most times. And finally, that look of total satisfaction.

I love the intimacy of sharing enemas both giving and receiving.

elifer captured my thoughts very well. I find, anymore, that women's butts are the most exciting part of their body. When an enema is involved its over the top.

For me it would be very sensual for me to give an enema to any woman.

I do all the steps to make her feel comfortable in receiving an enema from me.

A woman’s bottom is the most loved part for me as it is shapely, soft and smooth to the touch.

I also love to see the anus of s woman so very close to her vagina lips that is so inviting.

I would love to undress her partially with panties still on. When I start the process of giving I would love to lubricate her anus and rectum with my finger so that she is prepared for the large syringe that will enter her bottom.

I would like to ask her questions about her bowel movement and compress her tummy at different points to feel the hardness of her bowel.

I would like prepare a warm soapy solution of about 2 litres of water that she will watch me do.

I then will place her lying on her left side with her bottom resting on a pillow. I would push her right knee to fold and her left left leg to stretch. I would then part her bum cheeks so that her anus is stretched wide open to receive my big black nozzle that I slowly insert deep inside her rectum. I push and pull out the syringe a few times to make sure she is relaxed and stimulated.

I then open the syringe tap and let the soapy water fill her tummy as I see it swell to make her look as if she is pregnant.

I would then rub her tummy in her circular motion to make sure the soapy water travels around her colon and cleans it.

Finally after 15 minutes if wait. I allow her to go to the toilet with me and I watch her defecate in front of me.

In this way I make sure she is clean inside.

This is my way of giving any woman an enema lovingly and tenderly.

I would much rather be on the receiving end although I do get the urge to give sometimes but my wife isn't a big fan of getting an enema, at least it's rare. Actually we are both waayyy overdue.

@receive Beautiful description of giving your lady an enema! I concur!!

This is certainly a thought provoking and interesting question!

My response to this is that when a woman gives her bared butt to a man for an enema she is expressing to him a sincere feeling of trust. This is not only very arousing to the man but also very flattering and complimentary. As an example, just contemplate how your relationship changes or becomes more in depth after the enema. Both of you in essence feel "closer" and for having "shared" something that is pretty much unmentionable in everyday conversations. That secret only between just you and him!

Ray

It is interesting to me that as a woman I am giving enema to a man, especially if he is sub or physically smaller or weaker. The Feeling of My supremacy and his helplessness give me extra excited.

This is a fantasy to me, to have a larger and more dominant woman give me enemas, as i'm a little guy myself (5'7" and 120 lbs).

My response to this is that when a woman gives her bared butt to a man for an enema she is expressing to him a sincere feeling of trust. This is not only very arousing to the man but also very flattering and complimentary. As an example, just contemplate how your relationship changes or becomes more in depth after the enema. Both of you in essence feel "closer" and for having "shared" something that is pretty much unmentionable in everyday conversations. That secret only between just you and him!

Ray

Ray I certainly think you hit the nail on the head. It is more intimate than sex and you are penetrating her most secret place. There is nothing better in my opinion.

@RaytheGent, your description was beautiful and quite accurate for me as the receiver.

I think men in general like sticking things into a woman's bottom. Whether it's fingers, penis, or toys. It usually starts with the vaginal opening and progresses to the anus for the more adventurous. I personally think giving a woman an enema is the ultimate. It requires some planning, some equipment, a considerable amount of time for the actual deed, and some time for the aftermath on the toilet. This requires surrendering control of her most private opening to you for an extended amount of time. Considering that most women will not allow you to do this makes it very special when it does.

There are many things a man can do to please a woman. Kindness, emotional support, respect, material things, sexual satisfaction, love, security to name a few. Giving her an enema coupled with orgasm is just about the high end limit. Making that her ultimate reward is both pleasing and shows a loving fondness for her. No higher reward exists.

For me it is the power of control. I will put a young lady in the knee chest position which totally exposes her naughty parts. Once the enema has begun I will focus on her vagina to help her through the process and take her mind of the enormous amount of soapy water she is taking. I love to stop the flow and prolong the process. By the time I let her expell she is ready to climax.

For me, it’s about exploring erotic possibilities and pleasing a woman in ways that give her the most intense orgasms. It’s an opportunity for her to express her wants and needs under the most intimate circumstances. The visual aspects of enema -giving are intensely exciting for me too. I love the idea of using bulb enemas with multiple insertions and fillings, accompanied sometimes by the use of vibrators and dildoes. The knee-chest position with her across my knees excites me, as does the exposure in the supine position, especially with her legs up in supports. We can make eye contact as I insert the nozzle and as I open the clamp, or pump the Higginson. Watching her expression change as she approaches orgasm is a wonderful experience.

Aside from all the visuals already mentioned here i also imagine how good it's feeling to her both physically and physically, assuming she gets a similar response that i do.

I'm a dom. I love the psychology of it... there aren't a lot of things you can do which are more submissive than allowing yourself to be enemaed. The giving up this much control thing is a wonderful gift to me. I'm also a butt guy... the visuals of giving an enema, especially if the butt has been well reddened by a very recent spanking, are hard to beat. And, when there is sex involved, I want my partner to have a mindblowing experience... I've had a lot of women describe oral sex while holding a very big enema as like nothing else in this world.

Seeing her asshole

I've given enema's to two women over the years, both submissive to me.

It showed their trust in me as a Dom, and this just adds to the complete link between sub and Dom, which in tun obviously made me happy. A good Dom is in control, and the enema scenario is certainly one where the Dom is in control..

You have to ask this question? Really it's quite simple: anything that gets a guy into our pants.

That is as good an answer as I have read here...perfect.

Course

Watching and hearing my partner experience "regular" (straight sexual, non-enema) arousal and then orgasm is one of the most delightfully satisfying things on Earth. This is not because I want control over her but just to see and hear how delighted it makes her. Philosophically, maybe it's even teleological: God (or nature?) made the sexual movements and sounds of a woman so intrinsically appealing to a man so that it would increase the chances for continuing the species (even if female orgasm isn't required for procreation).

With the right woman, that experience for both of us can be heightened by including an enema in giving her her orgasm. Her movements as she squirms around and sounds of her moaning and groaning while she struggles to accept the nozzle/catheter insertion, filling, and then holding and distention are in addition to her enjoyment of regular arousal and climax. It's kind of like what happens because I'm a switch - I know what it feels like to be sub, so I also like being Dom to her sometimes to let her experience the pleasures of being the sub. Likewise, I know what enjoyment and arousal I get from an enema plus orgasm, and I want to enjoy watching her experience the same satisfaction with her enema orgasm.

Eric

Well, first of all it is the intimacy that is shared between the two. You get to see and touch her in the very sensual private places. If you are a Dom, you get to have control of her. It is also a type of intercourse penetrating her special place. If she cramps, you can massage her and play with her buttocks. If she is frisky, you can spank her. You can tease her by moving the nozzle in and out. You get to see her reactions and expressions.

I asked my Master this once. Why Master and He said it showed my complete trust in Him and gave Him complete control. And have loved the blush on face and the sounds I made.

Men enjoy doing ANYTHING inside a woman's panties.

Susie, that’s quite true, but for most men only with consenting females (unless it’s a CNC type situation that’s negotiated upfront!)

I asked my Master this once. Why Master and He said it showed my complete trust in Him and gave Him complete control. And have loved the blush on face and the sounds I made.

There is nothing more erotic and sexy than submitting to have your innermost orifices penetrated and filled. The expulsion is also exciting as the blush on the cheeks while emptying with all the sounds associated with that also implies a trust level not easily reached. Damn, bend over!

There is nothing more erotic and sexy than submitting to have your innermost orifices penetrated and filled. The expulsion is also exciting as the blush on the cheeks while emptying with all the sounds associated with that also implies a trust level not easily reached. Damn, bend over!

Yes, agree. Knowing you completely trust the person who is subjecting you to being invaded and thoroughly filling your insides with a heavy incompressible liquid like water is not only extremely intimate but profoundly submissive or humiliating as well. You know you are safe but also know full well that this Dominant is going to go to the greatest lengths you can tolerate to provide you with an intense, erotic humiliating experience. And both of you in your own way can deeply enjoy all the verbal interaction between you as they describes how relentlessly and complete it will be in dominating you and your innards as they watches and listens to all your movements, squirming, moaning and begging during filling and retention. It can be a profoundly intense experience that also produces great arousal. And at least me, this one man, the mixture of enema plus arousal and later woman's orgasm sounds is extremely erotic and satisfying, trusting she's enjoying her end as much as I am. And with me, a switch, she has the delightful option of reversing roles later and providing some erotic revenge of her own if she likes.

Eric

@Bagme53 You used CNC, is that to mean Consensual Non-Consensual or what, please clarify.