Aroused by embarrassment?

Silke85: Do you like real-life embarrassment of others or more like the idea of embarrassment, as in a fictitious situation?

Reddevil: Indeed. You don't want to have an enema bag in hand when coming across neighbors or colleagues.

When I was a kid, some day at the pharmacy counter the clerk shouted to one of her colleagues "hey bring me XXX children's suppositories". There was a girl from school with her mom, she saw my long face and giggled. I doubt this would be possible today, pharmacists I think nowadays better respect privacy including of children.

I was really embarrassed when my wife and I discussed my bed wetting and came to the conclusion that I must wear diapers to prevent the bed getting wet.The male ego went south now older less importance but she still stands her ground no funny business.

Yes, truly enjoy and aroused by it but only with a known and very trusted partner or Domme. I don't mind MedFet and have given requested MedFet medical exams to a couple of people who requested it, but it's not a significant kink/fetish for me. My enjoyment of private, definitely non-public temporary submission, embarrassment and humiliation is usually limited to my Domme ex giving me enemas.

Eric

Greatly enjoy and get aroused by embarrassing situations. Wish for butt injections everytime I visit dr.

..... Wish for butt injections everytime I visit dr.

Me, too. But they always want to give shots only in the the arm anymore. I give myself a daily shot of insulin every morning, mostly in the belly or leg, BUT one day each week, I get a NICE BONUS in my butt...TWO BUTT SHOTS...ONE in each cheek!!! On Wednesdays, my wife, a retired RN, has the privilege of giving me my insulin in one cheek and Ozempic (a once a week diabetic shot in the other cheek). I really love pulling my pants down to get these shots!!!

Yes. Aroused. And more than that: I feel awkward, stifled, a bit afraid to be myself and say how I feel or what I want. I become more totally at the disposal of the other, the doc, and. that too adds to the embarrassment!

Why can't I act like a show-off or say that nasty thought? I could and might but I also hesitate, too embarrassed to put in words or deeds what I feel because it is somehow taboo to the larger world out there. and that is exciting, especially as the doc pushes me to say and do these very things!

I’ve found throughout my time as a play doc that this is a very common thing. I think for many of us, embarrassment and arousal at a young age are intertwined and remain so throughout our adult life.

Deffo but not necessarily in a medical setting.

I think most of us have sweet memories of embarrassment and humiliation.

Oh yes, being embarrassed is hugely arousing for me. I am told I blush well when embarrassingly aroused. I can’t imagine that I will ever not have that tell tale blush!

RTnurse: Certainly. I still think about that female doc giving me a DRE, and that female doc feeling my testicles.

Definetely. I get so aroused by feeling embarrassed myself, or seeing an embarrassment of the patient. Feeling exposed, watched, vulnerable, being assessed by a stranger. Feeling like a test subject. I love this from both views. Especially I find weighing as a big turn on - being naked on the scale, feeling other's looks on your bare ass, being watched by a doctor, nurse, nursing students and other patients in the waiting room behind the opened door. And everybody hears your numbers. You just stand there, being so small and shy.

Absolutely.

I think that a lot of it for me is becoming objectified. I'm usually the guy in charge, the guy others look to for direction. In an exam or procedure the tables are turned. That's why the dynamic of one or two female medical professionals (preferably younger) conducting the exam or procedure is so compelling, especially when in my skivvies or naked in a gown (or without).

As one who loves to wear diapers and rubber pants, l often feel embarrassed and excited when I first tell someone that I am wearing diapers and rubber pants. Every time I go for a check-up and the nurse asks me to remove my clothes and she sees my pinned up diaper and rubber pants, or when I go for a massage and quietly ask her if its OK to have a massage if I have a diaper on, and especially when she says yes and takes me to a private room where I have to disrobe and stand before her in my diapers. Or the many times I have told a girl I was on a date with that I needed to tell her something scary that I was wearing a diaper and rubber pants and then let her see my wet diaper. Or whenever my girlfriend of the past 7 years decides she wants to tell someone we are with that her boyfriend wet his diaper and needs to be changed.

Most definitely yes!

A lot of my enema fetish is based upon my embarrassment as a young teen having to bare myself and go over mom's lap to receive my weekly bulb enema. I always associated needing enemas as something babyish, and as a 10-13 year old boy it was very humiliating.

It didn't help that I ALWAYS had an erection, and having my mother see it every time, combined with me being pretty small just added to the shame.

Absolutely! I'm not normally aroused at the moment I am being embarrassed, usually I am hating that moment and feeling. In fact, at the doctor's office, my genitals are usually quite shriveled and small from my anxiety, which only adds to my feelings of embarrassment. Could I actually become physically aroused during the very moment of embarrassment? Most definitely, given the right situation, scenario, and stimulation.

What I find most arousing about embarrassment is the memory or thought of the experience. Replaying in my head what I, or others, were thinking, feeling, seeing, and hearing are what get me going. Reliving my memories over and over again. Imagining different scenarios that could have happened or different settings. Imagining other people's experiences in the same or different scenarios. Picturing the people during their embarrassing situations. That's what I really love.

The embarrassment is, for me, a huge part of the arousal. It’s not even primarily about being exposed (though that’s definitely nice!). It’s really more the idea being treated like a child, in particular having to get a rectal temperature because I can’t handle an oral thermometer, or the reading doesn’t appear accurate. Somehow, being forced to submit to something normally for babies and toddlers is erotic and embarrassing at the same time.

Absolutely. Wife is superb at creating innuendoes , especially with my step/daughter present.

Absolutely. Wife is superb at creating innuendoes , especially with my step/daughter present.

Can you give a few examples of those innuendoes, @dgh?

@punativedaddy I have a 4” crystal ball on my desk that was given as a present as I used to always say i cannot predict the future. That was explained to one of her friends that it is a giant anal ball.

Yes. When I used to get PT for back and leg pain, I would get tissue massage and ultrasound per the MD orders. The physios were always female. To access my glutes, I laid on my side, told to bend my legs, then she’d lower my underwear to the bottom of my cheeks, saying “excuse me, sir”.

The first time, I had no idea I would be exposed like this. Bare bottom. I was embarrassed but also aroused. In that position I faced a wall as the physio sat behind me pressing her fingertips into my buttcheeks. The massage was usually about 10-15 minutes. Then came the ultrasound which meant lots of lubricant on my bottom so the device moved easily across the skin. As I lay there I could only imagine the view these women had.

Of course, being professionals they probably didn’t care cause they saw bare butts all day. But that didn’t stop me from feeling!

What was also embarrassing and arousing was the sensation of my cheeks being spread open somewhat with the physio sitting there focused on my glutes. Because of the motion of the deep tissue massage, she would occasionally lift the upper cheek and the sensation was unmistakable as was the cool air on my anal area. Also, after the ultrasound, the physio always cleaned the lubricant off my bottom with a tissue. This wiping inevitably spread my cheeks open a bit, plus sometimes the lube dripped into my crack. So of course the physio very gently wiped it from between my cheeks.

Of course, all of these sensations were both very embarrassing but also very exciting and arousing. I did get erections but just remained absolutely still and silent during these procedures. Even though these women were just doing their job and dont care about me except as their patient, it was impossible for me to remain unaffected by what was happening to me.

Can you give a few examples of those innuendoes, @dgh?

In you end--oh. 😃

I loved the embarrassment of being naked and over moms lap for my enemas,I sure added to the intensity of the feelings of that nozzle sliding in and out!

I also got wicked embarrassed during an initiation to a underground men’s club when I was stripped naked and masturbated by several members,I believe that greatly enhanced my orgasm.

I think moderate embarrassment can be exciting. I was embarrassed by certain situations, but if I was very humiliated, they would not be exciting for me. I suppose it would be very embarrassing for me to be seen naked in medical situations by non-medical persons whom I might then meet.

I'm definitely aroused by embarrassment. Not only do I enjoy my own embarrassment, I also enjoy the embarrassment of others. My favorite masturbation fantasy in school was imaging my female classmates undergoing an embarrassing exam. I also remember the butterflies in my stomach and the tingling in my genitals when the doctor performed a genital exam on me. It was a different kind of arousal that I experienced as compared to sex.

Generally speaking, no. But when it comes to medical exams definitely yes.

Embarrassment is often the trigger for the most erotic of all examinations. Realistic examinations by role play will lead to very intense Orgasm , Women who have built up a level of anticipation and anxiety will often let it all that go in the examination . Esp more intense if the Role play Doc knows how to stimulate the G spot areas , very important to massage the lower part of the stomach just above the vagina to increase the intercity of the Orgasm.

I believe the complex cross over of emotions between arousal and embarrassment is very interesting. I’ve found this to appeal to almost all of my patients. Actually the physiological response to the two is very similar, a flushed feeling when the capillaries in our facial area dilate and we blush. It’s not hard to understand how based on past experiences, these two sensations can become intertwined. Part of the fun is understanding this and creating experiences where embarrassment leads to arousal. This is where a little creativity and imagination come into play. Just my $.02

Dr. Guenther