Aroused by embarrassment?

Embarrassment is definitely the common denominator in all my fetishes (that, and for very similar reasons, tighty whities)

The embarrassment of having someone who was "normal", or at least not into enemas watch me take an enema really excited me. It made what I was doing feel (can't find the right word)... Similarly, purchasing enemas equipment in a pharmacy or dept. store was another kind of thrilling embarrassment..

I can relate to this big time.

At first there was just the humiliating embarrassment of having my doctor pull my panties down and examine me during my exams when I was around 11.

As I started to develop I couldn’t understand why my body was getting aroused before and during his exams. I am sure that he could tell and probably even encouraged it by prolonging some of his exams at the time and adding to my embarrassment.

I felt the same arousal when playing doctor with friends and when my stepdad would spank me.

Embarrassment is a huge element of my interests with medical play, and has been going back to playing doctor while growing up. It certainly features in my more current day fantasies and play scenes.

Things like:

- middle school or high school age and being embarrassed about a friend or babysitter learning that I still get my temp taken rectally

- college roommate finding my thermometer and Tylenol suppositories

- being seen by a friend or cousin while getting an examination by doctor.

- displaying evidence of arousal while being examined or having my temp taken, etc.

Yeah, i sure have that button.

For me, it's not overt, but subtle. A Top guy who figures out ways that i want to please Him and is able to manipulate that, and my need, in ways where we both know He is in control because i want and need that from Him. For me, the most powerful expression of that is never forced or bullied, those are almost forms of denial for me (i.e., the Top/Dom isn't really certain of His power, so feels the need for force, and i don't respond with real and deep submission because He hasn't found or pushed my 'button/s.' To me, there's an almost magical aspect to it.

Embarrassment is definitely the common denominator in all my fetishes (that, and for very similar reasons, tighty whities)

I find it embarrassing to be seen in tighty whities too and wear them for physicals for exactly the reason. I am curious to know more about what you find embarrassing about being seen in white briefs?

Embarrassment is something I’ve totally outgrown. That being established, thinking about having to wait with my pants and undies down for the Doctor to come in and examine my little boy parts was highly embarrassing for me at the time. I had to sit bottomless for ten to thirty minutes in front of my mother and sometimes my sister. Due it’s relatively speedy nature, the rectal temp taken previously by the nurse wasn’t as bad in comparison. While I’m no longer embarrassed by any real medical procedure administered to me, memories of childhood embarrassment are now highly stimulating.

This is an interesting subject of discussion and is so individual to all of us.

I find that it is fun to be embarrassed in a play setting and fun to be the cause of my play friends embarrassment.

We all have keywords and settings that work only just for us, so getting to know them well helps, and as the years go by one knows just what to say to push those buttons.

Real embarrassment for any reason is not fun, but through play one can play with it so to speak, and I have found that it helps me see myself in a better light and laugh at myself. if you can do that then you have confidence in yourself and that feels great.

I have used play to learn to deal with emotions and feelings I found difficult in the real world, that had stopped me from truly connecting with myself or anyone else.

Sorry, I have gone off-topic, but embarrassment was the first thing I learnt to have fun with.

Peace,

Cazzy.

For me the feeling of embarrassment is a hot feeling especially in the face--turning red, maybe feeling dizzy. I've had it a few times when my sense of modesty was violated. It was an intense feeling when my baby sitter stripped me naked; when the doctor, at age 11 examined my scrotum, worse when she showed my mother the varicocele; when I was bathed & shaved for a hernia at 14; 3 times when I was stripped in the hospital after an accident.

However, when I transitioned to enjoying being naked in front of a woman doctor or nurse,there is not embarrassment feeling.

I was 22 and while given a warm water enema (with soap packet added) by a home health nurse, I was embarrassed and beginning to feel aroused. I must have moaned or given some other indication, because she noticed and quietly assured me that what I was feeling was normal and "just go with it." The nurse was so low key about the experience that my embarrassment faded away.

I was 22 and while given a warm water enema (with soap packet added) by a home health nurse, I was embarrassed and beginning to feel aroused. I must have moaned or given some other indication, because she noticed and quietly assured me that what I was feeling was normal and "just go with it." The nurse was so low key about the experience that my embarrassment faded away.

Ive read this before and think it is a hot scenario. There is nothing more arousing to me than spreading those cheeks for a first glimpse and it gets a blush every time.

An enema without embarrassment is not a good enema. Lol. Funny how embarrassment can arouse and there are so many ways to embarass during an enema. To name a few:

Making him or her walk around holding the bag

Watch him or her expel

Make him or her stand in the corner and discus his or her enema

Make him or her discuss bowel habits or need for an enema

Make him or her sit on the toilet and ask fir permission for a bowel movement

Make him or her masturbate at your direction but not cum till you give permission

I am sure there are other ideas.

An enema without embarrassment is not a good enema. Lol. Funny how embarrassment can arouse and there are so many ways to embarass during an enema. To name a few:

Making him or her walk around holding the bag

Watch him or her expel

Make him or her stand in the corner and discus his or her enema

Make him or her discuss bowel habits or need for an enema

Make him or her sit on the toilet and ask fir permission for a bowel movement

Make him or her masturbate at your direction but not cum till you give permission

I am sure there are other ideas.

I can and have been enjoying plain, vanilla (non-kink) enemas since age 15, However the older I became, the more fun it was to add D/s and embarrassment and humiliation from my Domme to a regular enema. It just intensifies the experience and I agree with Redbag who nicely outlined several ways to make it more embarrassing. Other nice embarrassments and humiliations my Domme would do to me include:

Stand and walk around the house showing my distended enema belly with her prodding and massaging it.

After she lets me start to expel, telling me I have to have another bigger enema and orgasm.

Make me tell her out loud how embarrassing it feels and how she can make it even more embarrassing for me. Compare my belly to feeling like I have a soccer ball in there and how much bigger the next one will be - "Don't worry, to make sure your next enema makes you humiliated and aroused, I'll make your next one feel like you're holding a basketball............."

Make me do household tasks, make and serve her coffee and/or exercise while holding the enema.

Make me give her PIV while holding and tell her about how I'm struggling with all the water weight and sloshing, and make me stay on top of or under her until I orgasm.

After she has her orgasms and I've given her PIV while I'm retaining, threaten me with retaining the enema all night (and sometimes really do it).

The possibilities are endlessly humiliating and arousing........

Eric

Embarrassment is almost always a turn-on for me. I posted recently about an experience where my masseuse kept leaving the massage room to greet clients who were stopping by without appointments. At one point, she just left the door to my room open, with me stark naked and face down on the table, as she went to welcome some more drop-ins.

They turned out to be young ladies, as I learned when they reached my doorway before the masseuse got there, and burst into squeals and giggles at seeing me like that. I live in a small town, so it's very possible that I knew one or both of them.

I thought about looking up, but I kept my face in the headrest as they laughed and moved on... though I did hear them come back for another look.

Makes me hard just thinking about it.

On my recent Facebook feed (!!!) there was a clip from BBC Comedy about a young boy going for an examination for "swelling" After a short exam, med students are brought in to "learn" about the boy's sweeping of the epididymis and he has to talk himself out of popping a boner. It is very medfet!

BBC Three - My Left Nut: Trying not to get a boner at the doctors - and this link from Google:

https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=1734263833405722

I posted this on another thread, but it seems more appropriate here:

When I was in the U.S. Navy in the 70's, I overheard some Corpsmen talking about a Wave (female navy) who would often complain of bowel problems to get out of work. The last time she came in to sick call, the Dr. used a speculum to examine her bowel and, while she was thus exposed, called in every medical professional he could find to see what a perfectly healthy bowel looked like. They said she never came in again with that complaint.

I doubt if she was aroused by her embarrassment, or em bare assed ment.

OOOOh ya...... I love the feeling of humiliation and embarrassment..... like getting caught by your wife masturbating, very naughty ! I wish she would of spanked me.

3 factors plays big role in my fantasies, : humiliation, embarrassment and a little bit of pain for my poor patient.

OOOOh ya...... I love the feeling of humiliation and embarrassment..... like getting caught by your wife masturbating, very naughty ! I wish she would of spanked me.

I can relate to what you said - don't know why, but masturbating to something I'm watching on TV, like a weather gal, feel so much better if my wife sees me doing it.

Yes this is very true for me. During doctors visits when I was young, I was got so embarrased what he was doing , and what it caused for reactions in my body. After this I start to connect embarrasment with arousal , so that I could get aroused sometimes from just knowing the exam will be very embarrasing for me. I always try to hide my reactions and feelings, to not show the Doctor.

I love embarrassing and humiliating situations . That's what I like about enemas. I would have to strip in front of Mom , spread my legs, lift up on my knees. So that was embarrasing. But also to be told to cooperate for it, to obey, was humiliating. I did not understand this as a child. But atabot 11 I felt good when it haplend, I knew something was there. By 12 , I understood it was sexually arousing.

Yes absolutely. That's why I love the ER

I may be the proverbial dog that caught the car on that one if I found myself in that situation again.

I'm definitely aroused by the memory of my pediatrician having me lie completely naked on the exam table for a skin exam as a young teen. My mom was in the room seeing the whole thing, and I was super nervous that a nurse or other staff member, or even another patient or parent would walk into the room while I was in such a vulnerable position.

But if I were in the same embarrassing situation again, I'm afraid it would be anything but arousing in the moment.

Embarrassment played a big part in the compulsion I had to buy enema bags in various stores, as well as buying women's underthings... The embarrassment created an addictive rush where the dislike of doing it made all the more exciting to do so. Kind of like the way the pain/discomfort of an enema becomes our pleasure.

I would say I do like being embarrassed in front of the doctor. But it's mostly from the things he says or ask me more than what he's examining or how long he examines that specific area.

I'm such an odd girl. I hate being embarrassed in the moment. When I was younger and my Mom would ask me about my bowel movements in front of somebody like my Dad or a friend of hers. Or if she would say "Jen was such a big girl for her enema today. She took the bag for me." Ugh. But for some strange reason, I can cum so incredibly by reliving those moments after they have happened.

Not me!!!!

I'm such an odd girl. I hate being embarrassed in the moment ................ I can cum so incredibly by reliving those moments after they have happened.

Exactly the same for me - I hated the embarrassment when I felt compelled to buy enema bags in stores, but then at home alone I enjoyed reliving the embarrassment!

I have a love/hate relationship with embarrassment. I like the idea of being embarrassed but don't actually like it if it really happens. At least not in the very moment it happens. I also like it if others are being embarrassed.

Reddevil: Same for me. We have at times played with embarrassment in stores, buying "naughty" or shameful items.

A requirement though for me is that we are not frequent customers of the place. This avoids too much real-life embarrassment.