Constant Cravings

@Dahiana It's been a hectic past few weeks and my husband and I have not been able to spend the time together that we want to.

Just a word of advice - from an old girl who's been there and maybe not done that as much as I should, for crying out loud, take the time to fuck your guy! It doesn't take a lot of time - even if you two have to have a quick fuck passing each other in the hallway, just do it. He doesn't have to buy you dinner - and you don't have to get all dolled up, just jump his bones and let him know you are thinking of him. MORE THAN THINKING OF HIM 😉 😈

From all that you've written - you and your husband are finally getting back on track with each other, he's opened up all the way with you, so don't let anything - or anyone - get in the way of your happiness. No matter how 'hectic' it gets - BOTH of you need to put you & him at the top of the list, even the kids, decrepit parents, it's you two who are the crux of your own family. You'll take care of your kids - right along with your husband, that's a given, they will be fine, but they will be a helluva lot better with mom and dad getting what they want from each other when they want it. Take it from me - when you've been freshly fucked and put away wet, the world's problems are way more manageable because that human touch with the guy who puts up with your shit day in and day out goes a long way.

BTW - Tom's a Dewalt guy on a Black & Decker budget. 😉 Tom is very impressed - that I even know what Dewalt is, I also know about Craftsman - and then there is that Neiko 00206A 1/2 Inch Drive Premium Breaker Bar, 24" Length | Cr-V Steel that he has. 😈 That is to die for - when it is slipped up your ass! 🌹 😈 🌹 So @Dahiana - you're not the only one who can think of better things to do with a guy's toys, er I mean, tools 😉

I get what hectic can be - but take the time to grab your husband's cock and put it where it will do you the most good. It will be good - for BOTH of you. 🌹 🌹 🌹 It's your life - shit's going to happen no matter what, let hectic take care of itself. 🌹

And don't pass up the chance to experience - Neiko 00206A 1/2 Inch Drive Premium Breaker Bar, 24" Length | Cr-V Steel. 😈 😈 😈

Just a word of advice - from an old girl who's been there and maybe not done that as much as I should, for crying out loud, take the time to fuck your guy! It doesn't take a lot of time - even if you two have to have a quick fuck passing each other in the hallway, just do it. He doesn't have to buy you dinner - and you don't have to get all dolled up, just jump his bones and let him know you are thinking of him. MORE THAN THINKING OF HIM 😉 😈

From all that you've written - you and your husband are finally getting back on track with each other, he's opened up all the way with you, so don't let anything - or anyone - get in the way of your happiness. No matter how 'hectic' it gets - BOTH of you need to put you & him at the top of the list, even the kids, decrepit parents, it's you two who are the crux of your own family. You'll take care of your kids - right along with your husband, that's a given, they will be fine, but they will be a helluva lot better with mom and dad getting what they want from each other when they want it. Take it from me - when you've been freshly fucked and put away wet, the world's problems are way more manageable because that human touch with the guy who puts up with your shit day in and day out goes a long way.

I think that is really good advice @Dahiana from @Lora_C. I think she really knows what she is talking about. Your husband is yours to be taken. I learned very young that I have got to take him every chance I get. He is MINE and I am going to take from him all the orgasms I can get and I am going to give him all the orgasms I can. 😈 😈 😈 He makes me very happy so I try to make him happy too! You can not wait until tomorrow, it has got to be today! 🌹 🌹 🌹

Dahiana, I have been married for 23 yrs now, 10 of them too many . I waited , put things on hold, while the kids grew and figured we would get around to being that , lusty cant keep our hands off of each other couple we were when we met. Instead we grew apart. I lost who I was to motherhood and being a wife.

Its too far gone and beyond repair now . Divorce court is in our imminent future.

I do take the time now to explore and enjoy. Finding myself again is an adventure that is so worth the effort. Yes it takes some planning, and right now I cant go off on a whim like I would like to.

I try to make every minute count and also savor those special little moments.

Make the time for you and your husband, get a sitter every so often, whether it be for just a few hours or a night away. Text him the naughty thoughts that are running thru your head, send him stories you read that you find erotic, plan a night , try to be " spontaneous " yes it can be quite the effort but it will be worth it. Trust me dont wait for tomorrow, years of tomorrows can pass by in the blink of an eye .

Dahiana

I will write more later and in particular about what I am learning about Tanner and his enemas. I've found the key to exploring what makes him tick.

You accepted him for him and make him feel welcome. You and your husband are making it happen.

The key is you. 🌹

Lora said

It's your life - shit's going to happen no matter what, let hectic take care of itself. 🌹

It's you and Tanner. Maybe that break-over bar. 😉

I took my husband some lunch in the workshop and I fucked him. 😉

Just a few minutes ago I sent him a text and I asked him if he had a break over bar. 😈

He said yes, of course, like what-was-I-thinking? Mechanic - duh! :-\\ Before I could tell him what I was thinking he told me, 'yes' he's had it up his ass and he wants me to try. 😮 🙄 😜 Only he didn't spell it out like that on the text, but I knew he knew I was going to ask him that. 😉

Then a little while later he sent a text with just the word 'tonight.' No question mark. 😁

I'm going to town to pay a few bills, get some groceries, pick up the kids say 'hi' to Mom, then a preliminary enema. Then I'll see what he has in mind. 😈

@Lora_C, @Amethyst, @bridgette and @Cedar sometimes you just get caught up in "hectic" and forget. But we have communication like we've never had before and we are a good team, if it gets "hectic" again we'll deal with it. 😃 However I think he will go for more quickies, if lunch is any indication. 😉

@Dahiana , your post made me smile ! Congrats to you both for keeping that magic going , what an inspiration!

Enjoy ??

It is late right now and I am nothing short of amazed at my husband's ingenuity and long history with enemas and almost all things anal. 😃

@fniafk thank you for posting these https://www.zity.biz/gallery/image/147179

I had a very bad case of the "hornies" today and I worked myself up to overdrive beginning with a "nooner" with my husband and us devising a coded text we can send to each other when we want to fuck. It is simply "wf" sent by either one of use by text and under a brand new agreement that whoever sends it can count on some sex, any time, and almost any place. BTW, WF = wanna fuck, because WTF was already taken with the "What The Fuck". But that is a different story.

The kids were put to bed and mommy and daddy had a couple of tools from the workshop in our bedroom. 😈

Break over bars. The smaller one in the @fniafk post wasn't much of a problem for us to clean off any oil or anything, put a condom on it, use duct tape to hold down the condom on the shaft, and then slowly work it into my ass. Tanner insisted on being the one to slip it into me and he knew exactly what to do to tease it into my ass. The handle end of the smaller break over bar isn't as wide as my husband's penis that I have now had enter me numerous times now. We used plenty of lube and Tanner limbered me up with his gloved hand with the old 1 finger - 2 finger - 3 finger, go. By the time I was ready for the handle on the smaller one to be inserted I was hot and wet.

Once he worked it past my outer sphincter muscle and it "popped" past the inner one, I thoroughly enjoyed that metal shaft sliding right into me. It was like nothing I had experienced before, which at this point in my anal sex experience, isn't saying a whole lot. But the weight and solid feel of the shaft in my ass was nothing short of, "I want more!" 😎 Its smoothness and weight were what I noticed the most and my husband and I loved his "fucking" my ass with it. But I kept thinking how heavy it felt in my ass.

That was the short one, the 15 inches. My husband had shown me how he puts the larger, 24 inch, shaft into his ass and I will definitely write more about that later. I was doing an enema while I watched him do that with the bigger one. Impressive and awesome! When I looked at his abdomen I could actually see the bulge of the handle working around in him. AWESOME!

And then we cleaned it up and we were going to try the large one on me. Again we cleaned it up all of the way, rolled a condom over that handle end and used duct tape to tape down the other end of the condom. I was still pretty "loose" after the workout he gave me with the smaller bar shaft but the larger handle on the bigger one wasn't easy to work into me. It took lots of lube but again Tanner was really good with it and I trust him with my ass, literally. 😉 We got it into me and if I thought the other bar weighed a lot, this one was off the scale for me. 😃 I was in the doggy position when we were working it into me and once the handle part tip got through what little resistance there was it was feeling very heavy inside.

The enemas I had taken were gone but with that huge thing in my ass made me want to pee. We took it out so I could go and then when I was done I was right back and in it went again but a lot easier. 😃 The weight and smoothness and the girth or diameter is awesome, very awesome and we played around with it in my ass for quite awhile and I kept myself from cumming so we could draw it out more. I was either on all fours or butt up boobs down while we played. But as we played with my ass the weight of the bar was putting a lot of pressure on my rectum and I don't think my blood flow was all that great back there. I'm just not used to it, YET, but we agreed it had to come out and us not overdo it.

I was feeling little spasms back there or my rectum was pulsating or something and it wasn't feeling all that great. I was probably gaping and I felt like I was having trouble constricting my muscles. The only thing I could thing of was to ask Tanner to put his cock into my rectum so that I could "clamp" down on his shaft and start "closing up" again. We need to understand this better, but his cock in my rectum helped and we had him cum in me while I rubbed myself off. I took very cool enema afterwards and that helped in closing up.

Like I said, this was an awesome and incredible experience for us both and Tanner is so very good at ass play than I could have guessed even with us doing what we're doing now. It's awesome watching him sleep right now and knowing there is a lot more to learn about him. 🌹

I'm too tired right now to describe watching him with the big shaft and his working it in his ass. But I will and for now good night. 🌹

I've got just a little bit of time to add something to my little adventure from last night with that humongous metal bar my husband and I slipped up my ass. The largest one, the 24 inch one, is too big or more accurately too heavy for me to have inside of my ass. No, there was no way I was going to get all 24 inches up inside of me and we never even tried doing that. And it really wasn't too much in diameter or girth for me to take into my ass either.

No, it was the fact that there was a lot of weight on the other end of that bar that was sticking out of me for me to feel like I was in control of it. If Tanner hadn't been back there keeping it pretty much in line with my spine so that it didn't flop down or press down in me, it would have been too much for me to handle. Yep, I saw that, the pun. 😉 I found that with that big bar I was really tightening up my abdominal muscles to keep the bar from just going all over inside of me and hitting who knows what inside of my abdomen. I must have been doing that a lot more than I thought because when I woke up this morning it felt like I had done a hundred sit ups or planked too much. The only thing I could think was that I was tightening up my muscles to keep what control I could of that heavy bar inside of me.

The littler one, the 15 inch one, was a lot better for me to control and I don't think I was tightening up on it too much. I think I was pretty much able to control it without much assistance from Tanner. So if we decide to play with his tool time toys, I don't think I'll be taking that big one up my ass. I liked the feel at the time but I'm not liking the morning after. And no I don't think I tore anything up inside of me or damaged anything because we weren't fucking me like we do with other toys.

Oh, when I talked about finding out more about Tanner and his anal interests, I really do have a lot more respect, or awe, or awww 🌹 , for his growing up with his secret. He's not gay although he said he sometimes worried about it when he was growing up or that he was some sort of pervert or this or that. I told him he's just a pervert. 😉

But last night when we were playing around, Tanner showed me how he used to do the bar up his ass. He did the cleaning it off dish soap because he said it cuts the grease, the wipe down with Clorox wipes and then another rinse and drying it off. Which he did and then he rolled a condom over the end and as far down the shaft as he could and held in place with a very guy thing of duct tape. I thought I was going to impress him with saying that he should try Gorilla tape. Nope, he ran out day before yesterday on the windshield on the old pickup. I did not even get an, "Oh wow you know about Gorilla tape!!?" 😮

He showed me how he would put the socket end (?) up against the work counter base or the wall and line it up with his ass and get it started into him. And I'm watching this right there in real life, live action, 😜 😜 and when he got the tip into his ass then he crossed his legs at the ankle and slowly used his feet to steady the shaft and work it into him slowly. Don't think that didn't make me wet just watching that. 😁

And into him it went, nice and slow, steady, and pretty deep too. I could see that it was having an effect on his cock because it was rock hard and I could see a little of the stuff call pre-cum starting to ooze out of the tip of his cock. The more he rocked back and forth on the shaft the more of that pre-cum was starting to come out of his cock. I wasn't going to let that go to waste and I slipped my head underneath him and took him into my mouth. BUT when I was getting him close to getting off he was starting to feel some pain because he couldn't line the shaft up properly and it was pressing on some things inside of him. I helped him onto his back with the bar still in him and I finished what I started and got him off.

It was awesome seeing him do all of that and don't think I won't be thinking about that sometime some quiet night when I'm alone and want to rub one off. 😉 How much of his sex life have I missed? He's a work in progress but what man isn't? And hopefully he is feeling more comfortable letting me in on his secrets.

Mine are tame compared to his and they don't involve the hardware store. But I'm not going to rule that out. 😉

My husband has got some tools too @Dahiana in different sets, I bought some for him once but I have not thought of using them as sex toys. I think my best sex toy is the one I married. 😈 lol

My husband has got some tools too @Dahiana in different sets, I bought some for him once but I have not thought of using them as sex toys. I think my best sex toy is the one I married. 😈 lol

@Amethyst ain't that the truth! 😁 😁 😁 Truer words were never spoken and he's probably Every Ready. 😉 😁 😁 😁

@Amethyst ain't that the truth! 😁 😁 😁 Truer words were never spoken and he's probably Every Ready. 😉 😁 😁 😁

lol! I have checked and he has got nowhere to put in batteries @Dahiana but maybe his battery is just built in like some phones. He has got to charge back up after I have used him but he has always got a lot of power in him when I want him. 😈

@Amethyst lol! I have checked and he has got nowhere to put in batteries

Well actually there is a place you can put batteries. 😉 😈

Bwahaha 😈

My husband has got some tools too @Dahiana in different sets, I bought some for him once but I have not thought of using them as sex toys. I think my best sex toy is the one I married. 😈 lol

Maybe, maybe not, you have to branch out and try stuff.

Besides, the TOOL OPERATOR is what makes all the difference.

Maybe, maybe not, you have to branch out and try stuff.

Besides, the TOOL OPERATOR is what makes all the difference.

I have found out he knows how to use his tool @SwitchableSusie, I know he has had a lot of practice with it before I owned him.

Well actually there is a place you can put batteries. 😉 😈

Bwahaha 😈

But I would not want to switch him off @Dahiana by trying to put things in that socket. lol

I do not know what he is going to think when he reads these posts. 😳

@Amethyst I do not know what he is going to think when he reads these posts. 😳

He will probably think that you are hot for him. 😉 And I really don't think he would mind if you put your finger in that socket when you are working on his heat sensitive moisture probe and depth guage. 😉

Soon I am going to prepare a bulb enema for my husband and the first moment we have alone, preferably during the day, I'm going to pull his pants down, and have him lean over maybe his work bench, or the kitchen table, the couch, or somewhere and give him an enema. Just 'out of the blue', for him anyway 😉 while I watch the nozzle go 'bulb deep' in his tight little ass and hear the sound of the water being squirted into him by me. I will do this as many times as needed until all of the water is in him and gently cup his balls in my hand as I do this. Then, with the last bulb of water still in the bulb and in his ass, I'm going to suck his cock until he cums in my mouth.

When he cums and I swallow, I will squeeze the water into his ass while his cock is in my mouth. He can 'process' what I've done for him, and care for his needs in his own way, in his own time. And I will go on about my business with him knowing that there is more.

I read about this from another post and this is what I want to do for my husband.

Or maybe TO my husband. 😉 😈

@Dahiana ... I hope that you post about how it all went. I'd love to hear about that. 😉

@gibby and @Ms_Lila thank you for asking and your concern but Tanner will be alright. They had to use three butterfly sutures to close the cut above his eye and the burn might blister but it will be OK. My ankle from stepping out of the ambulance was only a minor sprain and the ace wrap is all it needs. They will let Tanner out early after some observation the rest of the night. I just got home from picking up the kids.

So, yes, it was not what I had planned.

@Dahiana

Sorry to hear about that but glad you two are okay!

Fn

Dahiana, maybe I missed something here. Why the cut above Tanner's eye? Where did the burn come from? The ambulance, how does that fit in with the sprained ankle and the overnight stay in the hospital for Tanner?

Was there a post about this here or somewhere else?

I'm echoing Cedar, Dahliana, what in the world happened?

Finally looked up a break over bar on Amazon. I am not sure the pleasure apparently found with that device is worth the risk of perforating one's rectum/colon. Please be careful, for a "perf" is one major medical problem.

Sorry @Cedar and @fniafk but when I wrote that post I wasn't thinking and left out what should have been before that. But when I came back to delete it when I realized my mistake, you two had already left comments.

This will have to be short because my Mom is coming home for the holidays and I've got a lot to do.

The long story short is that I was all set to give my husband a surprise bulb enema and do it like I've read here in some posts. I had this vision of pulling my husband's jeans down and having him bend over for me to give him a bulb enema. Just to let him know I am totally into his love of enemas.

I got a gallon pitcher, his bulb enema, it's blue, and I knew he was out in the shop working on some equipment, getting it ready for storage and next season. The kids are with my sister and would be there for the next couple of hours. This was an impromptu thought on my part about giving Tanner a "quickie" bulb enema and other than him working on some equipment it should have been OK to do.

It's winter here and so I put on my long coat and went from the house to the shop carrying the pitcher of warm water and his enema bulb. He was in the shop bay area because I could hear the radio on and some of his tools clanking but I didn't see him right away. I was also making sure no one else was in the shop and I saw his legs sticking out from under a truck. He was on a creeper and I was sure that he knew I was around.

I'll just skip over everything and say that when I reached down to unzip him to reach in and grab his cock, he must have been startled. I'm so very sorry that he did something and really hit his head under the truck and whatever he hit under there caught him right above his left eye and put a bad gash right above his eyebrow. And the trouble light he was working with didn't have a cage on it and when I startled him and he did whatever it was his head or eye smashed the light, too, or it fell on his face and burned him a little.

There was so much blood and he wasn't moving like he should and seemed out of it. I called 911 and the ambulance got there about the time that Tanner was beginning to clear his head. OMG I couldn't stop the bleeding all of the way but the guys who got there were able to help get it under control. They said he probably needed to get some stitches and they were worried that is pupils were uneven and that he may have had a concussion.

So I tripped getting out of the ambulance and sprained my ankle but not bad and followed them to the ER. They kept him overnight for observation and I picked him up a little bit ago after the doctor's rounds.

This is so not funny and he is going to be OK but it scared the hell out of me. I should have been thinking but I honestly thought he knew I was there.

So @Cedar and @fniafk that's what happened.

It was stupid and maybe someday I can laugh about it, like Tanner is now, I should be pissed at him laughing but he's the one with the bandages.

You guys have to be careful. Those oversized, socket wrench metal bars are heavy. I always knew them as "breaker bars" (my husband has a ridiculous tool collection, many of which he bought because he thought they were cool, but I never see him using them), which amazon also calls break over bars.

Hmmm, Dahiana, I have been working with tools on my cars all my adult life, yet I have a hard time seeing the desire of a cold steel breaker bar by the grip end (the other end would be impossible). The grip end is very rough to accommodate your grip when tightening a bolt or nut. Seems like it would be more harsh than sandpaper on your soft sphincter and anal nerves But hey.....

@easy123

Hmmm, Dahiana, I have been working with tools on my cars all my adult life, yet I have a hard time seeing the desire of a cold steel breaker bar by the grip end (the other end would be impossible). The grip end is very rough to accommodate your grip when tightening a bolt or nut. Seems like it would be more harsh than sandpaper on your soft sphincter and anal nerves But hey.....

If you look closely at this picture @easy123

https://www.zity.biz/gallery/image/147179

you will clearly see that the handle is NOT rough. The "other end" is something he has never considered. And never will. My husband also has been working with tools all of his adult life and is very good at what he does. And during his "secret years" before we began exploring and experimenting together, he always played safe and isn't one to take chances with his, or my, body.

That is if you do not startle him while he is under a piece of machinery. 😳

Dahiana,

I have worked with tools like your husbands breaker bars all my life and never once thought about using them as sex toys. I do want to thank you for sharing your experiences. All of the comments have made for interesting reading. I will view my tools much differently the next time I go to the shop.

Your comments about the weight inside you has to be dead on accurate. I admire the two of you and the way you are enjoying exploring your new stash of toys...

Thanks for sharing.

Hmmm @Dahiana, I need to learn that one must be very careful when making statements when one has exposure to only one's own tools for reference and conclude that not all tools are created equal. Here is whence the tool handle of which I speak that could (most likely would) distress my hemorrhoids rather dramatically.

https://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=gallery;ox=showalbum;ax=7033

And, I agree with you about the other end too. LOL

@easy123 ROFLMAO 😁 😁 😁 😁 😁

Here is whence the tool handle of which I speak that could (most likely would) distress my hemorrhoids rather dramatically.

https://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=gallery;ox=showalbum;ax=7033

Oh that would file them down for sure! 😁 That was priceless. 😉

@easy123 I loved your post! 😄 Have a Merry Christmas! 😁 🌹