A lot of things have been happening since I last posted here before Christmas and my husband “Ted” and I are feeling as though we are getting in over our heads with our new found sex life with the enemas. It's a “good scary” kind of feeling and lines are getting blurred more and more each day as to what I, personally, am more comfortable with doing. I've been given enemas in front of @Dahiana and @Meat_Monster as well as Ted and DD and I are spending more time with each other doing things way beyond where I ever thought I'd go. Yes, I'm bisexual and have been, but I've been “true” to my husband from the beginning and moving back “home” and reconnecting with DD has really done a number on my morality meter.
Our husbands are aware and even supportive, of DD and me reconnecting and now I've got Ted into enemas and he loves giving me them. Ted has surprised me with how he grasps the concept of enemas being more than “just a sex thing” even beyond our using them before to clear the way for our anal sex. Since Christmas, Ted and I have had many long midnight talks while, mostly me, have an enema. The more we do those kinds of enemas the more I appreciate @gibby's insights into just what enemas are and can be. To be honest, mostly with myself, I thought Gibby romanticized enemas and that her history with them made them seem more than they are. I was wrong. 😶
And the enemas between DD and me? 🌹 Well they are breaking down any inhibitions or boundaries I may have and watching the videos of Aunt @Lora_C and how natural it was for her to be so open and approachable just amazes me. I no longer feel the need to cover myself if MM walks into the room where DD and I are having an enema or going down on each other and I don't feel embarrassed to be seen like that by him. DD also tells me that she feels the same way if Ted walks in on us doing what we do and wants to sit down and talk. The only “rule” DD and I haven't broken is having Ted give her an enema or MM to give me an enema, and no touching. But speaking for myself, and only myself, if MM did touch me or want to give me my enema instead of just watching me do it or DD doing it for me, I would not say no. And being real and up front and honest, that is not all I would not say “no” to with MM. I haven't told him that, but I have told DD, but seeing that MM is here on zity.biz, well, I guess I just did tell him that. 🤨
BUT, for absolute sure, Ted knows how I feel about “blurring the line” and taking it further. 🌹 The midnight enemas when the kids are asleep and it is just the two of us make for some very deep conversations and soul to soul talks. I love and adore my man ❤️ and I get that feel from him too, by the way we make love and how he touches me. ❤️
There was a reference in my thread or somewhere else about “poly” which I believe is,
pol·y·am·o·ry
the practice of engaging in multiple romantic (and typically sexual) relationships, with the consent of all the people involved
I really believe Aunt Lora was deeply into this and may not have called it that or thought of it that way, but I'm not sure the “romantic” aspect is there for me but I don't know enough about this to sound halfway intelligent about the subject. But even with that, there are rules and boundaries and priorities that I need to feel right about before taking anything further with anyone. And this is something DD and I have been heavily discussing between enemas and having sex with each other, both of us know there is a lot more to work out before we take it any further. As my husband says, “It could go sideways real fast.” He says that about a lot of things. 😉