Is it normal to feel embarrassed or guilty about your enemas?

Great answer....would love to hear your line......oh by the way......as far as no gas....really? and I thought only men were liars. 😮

I'd like to hear the line too.

Darvis, you are correct, only men are liars.

Geez...not too sure it won't sound stupid.Well how about this..."I'm sorry you had to smell your relatives getting flushed-wanna hop in and take a spin with them?" (don't say I didn't warn you!) 😁 😁 😁 😁

^^^^ I think I'll try to come up with a line of my own! 😁 😁 😁 😁 😁

You'll know next time not to ask eh? :😃 😁

^^^^ I'll still ask. I can decide what to do with the information and I never turn down an opportunity to learn something.

Susie:

Just for laughs and giggles....I was at lunch today and right next to me as I ate my salad and coffee, a female that I guess was in her 30's, bent over and let out the juiciest fart I had heard in sometime. She was totally embarrassed and I looked at her, smiled and shrugged my shoulders and said, '' well when you gotta let go, you gotta let go." so dearest Susie........enough said. 😁

Honestly, I never heard of this happening before.

Darvis, Are you sure she didn't step on a duck?

About farts in public places...

Well, it seems like it could be kind of natural. There is more room on the outside, vs. the inside... Yes?

Farting is a natural product of eating. Everyone can do it, but I do know of some that will swear that they "never" fart. Yeah, and I know they would also never lie or cheat.

I've been cut off from you guys fior a couple of days now - there's a break in the Seacom cable (right in the centre of the Somali pirate playground) and it has meant only business Internet traffic has been getting through the rerouting plan B.

Yes, it's normal to be embarrassed. You dropped a point,like in tennis! But sometimes embarrassment can be a great way to start a conversation or break a tense silence. My dad had one for silent dance partners that was guaranteed either to get his face slapped or raise a tension-busting laugh "Tell me, how is it, do you think, that shark's arses are so awesomely watertight?"

Johnny

Somebody took government funds and did a scientific study to see if women actually passed gas as often as men, they did. And any one who has been married can verify that as fact. But worst of all is my female Boston Terrier, she can clear a room is seconds!

Jim

Oh, no, I'm certain they had a typo or some kind of error someplace. Women absolutely do not fart.

How did you transcend the spectrum so easily, going from if we don't fart, we explode? The system can deal with the gas otherwise; yes?

Layla17 - In direct answer to this thread, "Is it normal to be (feel) embarrassed?", my personal answer is 'yes'. It is inculcated into us as children. However, I worked very hard to overcome my embarrassment (not to mention the shame)... and, eventually, it paid off. I now totally feel free to enjoy myself, either solo or with a partner, and this INCLUDES expelling in the presence of a partner. (Btw... How did farts get on this thread? LOL! Just for the record, I fart. ALL women do...)

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Geez, who doesn't fart in public? I dont think it would be good to try and hold it in.

I'm getting over the stigma, only after years of the embaresssment. I guess that's called maturity.

It's normal to want to protect your privacy. Not everything you do needs to be for public consumption.

Generally, the best way to avoid most types of embarrassment is to keep these things private.

For me, because i like BDSM play, enema is very humiliating and offensive play for me. Verry embarassed. I like this feeling.

Embarrassment factor?... I remember that. Way back when! My Lady an I have been together for years... We know each other all too well these days... LOL! But I remember when she used to get real embarrassed by me giving her enemas.. God, that was hot! On occasion now, she'll get slightly embarrassed if I am very stern about her enemas and give reasons for why I am gonna give her such an enema. But that hasn't really put a dampner on our enema fun. Hell! Our last enema session, the 1rst soapsuds enema of the evening that I gave her, I stopped the flow when the bag was atleast half emptied (or a little more than that) into her sweet round behind. I mounted her from behind an proceeded with intercourse while she was holding atleast a quart or more. After 5 mins. of that, I continued fucking and released the clamp once again so the enema would continue as we had sex (alah "doggie style"). She grunted and moaned. And after the bag completely drained into her, I asked, "Had enough?". She replied, "Keep goin'!". And we continued with sex for almost 1/2 an hour after all had taken place. She went to the bathroom obviously aftwards... She came back to bed put her arms around me and told me, "That was wonderful..." That's my girl 😉 She got two more enemas that night amungst other things😉

Feeling guilty about doing something that makes one feel good, now why does that sound familiar? Could it be something religious? I remember when I was a kid there were similar campaigns waged against certain other activities. Some of these activities are definitely immoral, and one should feel guilty should they dare to do them. But enemas, between consenting adults, and without coercion or cruelty? I know the lessons of youth learned by rote are difficult to push into perspective, especially those dealing with primal things. All I can suggest is 'Practice Practice Practice' and you may get to Carnegie Hall, or more likely, Nirvana... 😃 😃 😃

Happy waterings,

Cos

Cos-- I think you speak for many of us. You made an excellent statement and put it very well!!!! My guess is that if many folks in this world could respond they'd feel much the same, but we are conditioned by parts of our uptight society creating shame and guilt about things that in the proper circumstances are not only appropriate, but should be viewed as quite acceptable. If some of us traveled the various states and probably some countries in the world we'd find that we could or would be locked up if caught doing some of the things we all talk about on this forum. When we really analyze most of them are pretty ordinary things by general standards and for most readers of this forum just day-to-day fun.

Whenever I'd fart, and I would be walking with my wife, I'd just say, "Don't worry dear, everyone will think I did it."

Having worked in endoscopy I can tell you with medical certanty that everybody farts after a colonoscopy.

Definitely embarrassed, love the humiliation of a woman giving me the nozzle and controlling me

I had a girlfriend teach me about enemas. I was very shy about it at first because I remembered the one I got as a child and it hurt. But now I love them.

I was mortified when my wife gave me that first enema. In some respects it had shades of those that I got from my mother, but really different when it is the woman you're having sex with.

I kind of miss that feeling.

Yes I feel the same way if I have a lover and do them alone.. I think that is pretty normal.