Is it normal to feel embarrassed or guilty about your enemas?

I feel like I am doing something wrong most of the time, like I am guilty. Is that normal?

Right or Wrong is a frame of mind. Enjoying an enema is just that. Enjoying an enema. If one were a little over weight would that person feel guilty or be embarrassed to eat an ice cream, prahaps but they would still enjoy it. Accept who you are. Embrace your own person and be happy with yourself. You have no need to prove anything to anyone else. The idea of wrong is something that other people would like to impose upon you. They might even be lifting themselves up by pushing you down. Don't let them do it. "To thy own self be true"

Is the fact that you feel guilty have something to do with your religious background?

Why should you feel guilty for doing something that you find pleasure in. If this continues to be a big deal to you don't feel ashamed to see professional help. I love my enemas and am not ashamed to admit I take them.

The embarassment is part of the excitement for me 😃

Definitely do NOT need to be embarrassed. You're not doing anything wrong.

I enjoy eating,

I enjoy taking showers;

I enjoy eating;

I enjoy enemas, and they're GOOD for me.

These are not WRONG.

Ciao

I think most people are embarrassed because they view anything that comes out the back door as “dirty”. I always go to the enema section at the store and check out the wares. Some times, and some stores, I am approached and asked, “May I help you?"

I will always ask some form of question from a simple, “Is this a 2 quart bag?” to something more involved, “Do you know if you can order a larger nozzle?"

Courage is something that you build up, not a magic pill you take in the morning. When you get it, you will never want to be without.

At first I was a bit embarrassed paying for an enema kit, asking questions at the pharmacy about soap, and other questions. Online sites like this one is great because everyone here is into the same thing, you can get some good advice from other people's experiences, so there is no reason to be embarrassed, here anyway. Actually, I kinda like the look on the cashiers face when paying for a new bag, lube, vasoline, and I probably have that, I'm a naughty boy look in my eyes.

There is nothing to be embarresed about purchasing enema equipment and/or lube. Most checkout clerks just scan and dump the items in the bag. I used to be somewhat embarresed while grocery shopping and having to pick up sanitary products for my wife till I realized no one cared what was bagged.

I was embarassed as a child when my mother would talk about my enemas with one of her friends or a female relative, but as an adult, never.

I used to work in a pharmacy as a cashier, and believe me, the only thing a cashier notices is that you are embarrassed. If you just come up, slap it on the counter, she's got other problems on her mind other than where you are going to stick it in. On the other hand, people who show up at a checkout with random items covering a box of condoms or Prep H gets noticed because they want to cover it.

Ok- So when my wife (then g/f) and I were in highschool together (different schools) I told her about my curiosity with enemas, rectal temps, role playing, and the like. She was pretty cool about it, and by the end of our senior year, we were ready to buy some equipment. We went down to our local Rite Aid where we bought condoms and lube, purchased rubber gloves, a rectal thermometer, and a combination enema kit. The same old dude that always sold us the condoms was at the check out, and we were both pretty embarrassed about our purchases. Moreover, I am sure that the clerk's imagination was running wild given the circumstances.

We are still youngins but we have much bigger metaphoric balls- we buy naughty stuff all the time now and think nothing of it. The trick is to be cool and aloof about the whole thing and most people won't even notice. We still laugh when we talk about the good ole days and our super shitty Rite Aid enema bags which get no use now that we have decent equipment via the safe and anonymous internet.

Naughtydoc

I always feel guilty for even wanting it. But i am getting over it.

Enemas have been around for hundreds of years. There are thousands of us that love the pleasures of a warm enema. You should never feel embarrassed for something healthy as well as enjoyable. Let the good times flow.

w/m 72yrs/W.Mass.

I get a bit of embarrassment every time I have an enema even if alone. Having my butt exposed and penetrated is the cause which is enhanced if someone else is giving it to me be that someone male or female. For me the embarrassment adds to the sensual and erotic feeling I get - so for me the embarassment is a good thing.

I think that there is naturally embarrassment, but part of that is because of the risk of rejection or worse, humiliation. But it is in the risking humiliation, even feeling humiliation, and then actually receiving acceptance and appreciation that we get rewarded.

I have NO desire to meet some guy on the street and have sexual events with him. But the thought of risking an enema situation with either a man or woman, and knowing (Hoping!) it will involve arousal and orgasm... For ~some~ reason that I do not understand, that somehow is different and part of the difference is the embarrassment or risk of embarrassment.

Well, at least that is what I think.

The embarassment is all part of the mystique! Otherwise, receiving or giving an enema would produce about as much thrill as taking a Q-tip and cleaning out your ear!

Who gets turned on by having having their temperature taken - in their mouth? Nooooooobody!

But imagine a sweet nurse rolling you over, patting your fanny and pulling down your underwear - her gentle fingers slowly prying your bottom wide open, the little gooey tip probing your hiney-hole...that penetrating feeling...the poke, the thrust, the little wiggle...I sure don't need to elaborate beyond that!

The defense rests 😎

I don't feel embarrassed at all because I've been into enemas for so long it just comes natural every time I give myself a good fillup. I would hang the the bag in the bathroom on purpose hoping someone would ask me about the bag. Before you know it, we had a conversation about enemas. The next thing you know it, we were giving each other enemas.

Don't be shy about your love of enemas, after all, you are the one who is having all the fun. Some of my friends would ask about the enema bag hanging in the bathroom. My reply was, “Yeah that's mine,sometimes I get constipated and I need a clean out. End of story.”

Let the good times flow. w/m72yrs/W.Massachusetts

Well, as I think I might have said in a previous reply in another category, I wouldn't put a sign on the front lawn (maybe the back..) but on the otherhand I don't feel guilty when I take an enema or give my partner one, especially since he seems to have come around to really liking it.

What's your private business is nobody else's and as long as you are doing no harm to yourself or another, have a good time. Life is too short not to get pleasure where you can. And if comes out of an enema bag - go for it!

I think I know how you feel. It seems a little weird, but this web site shows that it is rather common.

Yeah but i like the embarassment part, it's really intimate for both people.

I felt embarassed the first few times I enjoyed the sessions I gave to myself in private. Later, it bega major part of the sensual and sexual highlight n to be nautral and fulfilling in a different maner. Bringing up the subject with a new partner may be a bit difficult, but as has been sugested several times, I leave my enema equipment prominently displayed in the bathroom and hope for the qurestions to come. On one occasion, it was the spark that brought us together for that first sexual experience together. mmmmmmmmmm ... how good it is...

Embarassment is part of the joy and a major part of the tension building of foreplay, leading to great and fullfiling sexual release.

If it feels good, and is consensual, and is legal, go for it... enjoy...

I can share your concerns about whether taking enemas for pleasure is "sinful" because of my Catholic upbringing. I was taught at an early age that almost everything to do with sex, by yourself or with another person other than your wife, was wrong. As I was attracted to enemas from the ripe old age of about 8 and I was shown how to masturbate at the ripe old age of about 10, you can now understand how traumatic my sexual development was for me [having condemned myself to hell about every second day of my life]. You can guess what was the most regular sin I confessed to my confessor each time I went to confession. As I have raised my own family now and have been a grandfather for the past 25 years, I'm starting to realise that masturbation and erotic solo enemas have provided me with sexual relief throughout my long life. Man is a sexual animal and to control and limit sexual desires and their sometimes tragic manifestations, God must have allowed me to choose what will satisfy my sexual appetite equally as much as He allows me to satisfy my appetite for food. So I've come to the conclusion that if it's not sinful to enjoy my food and be contented with that delightful feeling of fulness in my tummy after a good feed, how can it be sinful for me to enjoy an erotic enema or a good old wank?

My attempts to share any aspect of my enemas with my current wife has been met with such extreme rejection that I've given up on her. Unfortunately, all this has simply driven my enemas underground. After 60+ years of enemas, almost all furtive and secret, I've beginning to think that the furtiveness lends an element of excitement to them. Oh, well....

For my angel that's part of the fun. Being so exposed in such an intimate way. Go with it. Use it as part of the turn on.

Regards Sir Gerald

Nothing more embarassing then being told in public that you're gonna get at enema when you get home...or exciting.

We seem to feel embarrassed when we do something others consider outside the realm of normal behavior. It's also associated with sexual behavior which many folks are embarrassed to talk about.

Enjoying enemas is not wrong! Many, many people enjoy enemas as a sexual tool. Enemas can be used alone or with others to heighten the sexual experience. Enemas can also be exchanged without exchanging sex. Enemas can be very erotic and very relaxing at the same time. There is no reason to be embarassed by them. I was embarassed as a child because the enemas were administed in a crude manner, without explanation. I was told I needed an enema, I was told to take off all my clothes and to lie face down on the bed, and the enema bulb was inserted into my rectum with my cheeks spread wide apart and the bedroom door wide open to anyone who happened to wander by. This same embarassment also led to erotic feelings that I didn't understand at the time. Eventually, however, I was able to overcome the embarassment and began to enjoy self-administered enemas. Later, I found my first enemate and learned how exciting it was to exchange enemas with someone else who enjoyed them as much as I did!

There is definitely NOTHING wrong with doing, but I would mortified is I got caught.

I do get a bit embarrassed if I haven't completely emptied out my colon after an enema and I have to release the final amount into a toilet in a public restroom. I wait until all have left the bathroom for me to let it out and let go of any left over gas. Is this true of anyone else or just me. I also do this upon a normal bowel movement in a public restroom. 😳

^^^^ I can't say I have had the problem of needing to expel any part of my enema in a public rest room.

As far as having a regular bowel movement in a public rest room, it is rare for me, but if that's the situation, I just let it fly! I am not concerned about who is in there.

About the gas and farting part, you evidently aren't aware that women don't have gas and we never fart. 😁