Do you prefer to be given enemas or to take them yourself?

I've only ever self administered but would desperately love for a female enemate to give me some enemas and talk me through it. Open to offers ;-)

I would love to have a female give me enemas on a regular basis. Unfortunately I am not in a position to have that done. I have had enemas from females, but those were paid for. If I have to pay, definitely a female. Never had a partner/girlfriend that I confided my little secret to. Too embarrassing I guess. Never had a male give me one, but I am open to the option. Again the embarrassment is currently holding me back. All my sessions are solo right now. Just lack of opportunity or willingness to find someone and of course the cost. I did enjoy having them administered to me. The embarrassment of being violated in a so intimate a body part and watched while being so vulnerable. Part of the humiliation sub in me I guess.

I have jerked off or used vibrators while holding and did have orgasms. But to me they seem less intense holding an enema so I don't do that anymore unless told to. Not important to me. Never had a giver have an orgasm as part of the treatment. Never thought to ask them to. Up to them as I am usually busy taking it in.

I would definitely prefer to have another person give me an enema. Most likely that would be a male, but female is cool, too. If my giver were to choose to have orgasm, also cool. I'd be flattered.

I would prefer to be given an enema. Maybe in an old nostalgic setting.

I prefer to give myself the first SSE as I sometimes have trouble holding it. If I were to make a mess in front of my partner, it would be very embarrassing. Then, I like for him to use the larger nozzle and give me the rinse enema while he spanks my ass. I usually climax when this happens. He like it too because I can usually handle a longer, harder spanking too

If I had my druthers, I'd rather be given an enema by an enthusiastic woman. That said, I'll also take them by myself. The embarrassment of being given them makes the pleasure so exquisite. The possible humiliation from leaking, the urgency, the tenesmus all make a shared experience better.

Although I like to give enemas, I can honestly say that I prefer to be the one given an enema.

Without a doubt, I'd much rather receive an enema from an enthusiastic willing female enemate, but since that isn't an option for now, I'll just keep enjoying my solo enemas when I have the opportunity.

I like to give and receive with a partner.

I have always received an enema by my mothe and once by my uncle when I was a little child. I have not given anyone an enema and I do not have the desire to do so

Have never given anyone an enema. Certainly love for a female to give me one, and my -ex used to do that. Additionally, if she told me that I was going to receive one in a few hours, the tension would be agonizing. By the time she did all the preparations, and I received all the water, I would be so hard and horny that I would sometimes hold the enema while she felt the depth of my erection.

For the most part, my enema sessions are solo, certainly satisfying and erotic but no comparison at all to sharing an enema session with a partner. For me, my enema partners, save one, have always been male. I can say without any reservations at all that the hottest sex i have ever had, by several orders of magnitude, has been M2M enema sex involving both giving and receiving.

That's Hands Down, Have them administered by a strong domineering LADY. When you come home from work and walk through the door, you are greeted with a kiss and hug. Then you are told to "get comfortable" so you go upstairs and change into loose clothes. When you enter the bedroom in front of you is the IV stand fully extended and hanging from it is the large red open top enema bag with the metal pinch clamp, long red hose and the big rectal nozzle attached to the end of the hose. On the night stand is a bottle of Dr. Bonnars Peppermint Castile soap and a tube of K-Y Jelly. You stop at the sight of the empty bag just waiting. Then you hear someone coming up the stairs..........Then the door opens and standing there in a short dress is your lady holding the oak paddle that she made you make. She has a sadistic look in her eyes as she announces that she is in a very spanking mood and you will be spanked over her knee bare bottom. I instantly get hard!!. Then she puts the paddle down and picks up the empty enema bag and liquid soap and retreats to the bathroom. You hear the water running in the tub and her moving about then silence. She reemerges carrying the full budging enema bag, hose and nozzle. She hangs the bag back up and drapes the hose so it is in reach. You also notice a few drops of solution drip from the nozzle. You also detect the faint smell of peppermint in the air. She sits down on the bed and grabs the tube of K-Y jelly and keeps it next to her. As you stand in front of her you feel her fingers between the elastic band in the underwear and your bare skin. With one tug your bare standing there, She quickly grabs your hand and pulls you over her knee. She adjusts you for maximum angle. You lay there exposed, feeling the cool air on your hot buttocks. She reaches for the tube of K-Y and smears it on the finger. She puts some of it on your opening and slides her finger in and out lubing you well. She reaches for the nozzle and coats the bulbous head of the nozzle with the rest of the K-Y. She wipes the rest of the K-Y on your back. Then without warning, you feel her fingers part your buttocks and she slides the head of the nozzle into your ass deep. Then you hear the pinch clamp open with a click and feel the hot, soapy enema solution start to fill you. As the enema is running, she picks up the paddle and goes to town spanking those pale white buttocks and turns them into a bright RED. You kick and struggle as she spanks you and fills you at the same time.

What an enjoyable evening.

I prefer to be given one. I find it works better for me!

For the majority of people most want someone to give them enemas and more.

Their is a more satisfying feeling having some one looking over you and inserting their very well lubed finger into your rectum and readying it to take that big nozzle sliding into your rectum and releasing that clamp as a nice warm SSE is flowing in and will clean you out. So you will be ready for more.

Any ladies and or couples that need assistance or guidance or want help receiving enemas let me know.

My observations have come from many years working in the doctor's offices and hospitals and as a Colon Hydro Therapist.

I'd like the attention of being given an enema. I'd compare it to sex vs masturbation both are enjoyable but sex is better.

I strongly prefer to have someone else give me the enema. As a gay man, I prefer for that person to be a man, but I have had enemas from women in professional settings and enjoyed them as well.

Self-administer!

Entirely.

Likely forever.

That's the way I would prefer it.

I've always preferred to have enemas administered to me by a female, although it's been a solo endeavor now for many years. Both my wife and a past girlfriend knew that pleasuring me during an enema would produce a strong ejaculation.

I certainly like giving enemas, but I LOVE to be the one who gets given the enema. Being pretty much hetero, I want it to be with a woman, in either case. I've been (VERY rarely) in a situation where a man was present while a woman gave it to me, and could probably enjoy taking from a man IF a woman was present. The few times I've tried doing anything with just me and a man were, sorry to say, just boring, not traumatic, horrible, anything like that, just not exciting. The times I've done things with a man while a woman was present were incredibly exciting. Based on that, claiming to be bi strikes one as pretentious. The thrill of giving oral sex to a man while a woman watches, or receiving anal from him, again, with a woman watching ties in with my pleasure from humiliation, which is a large part of why I enjoy enemas in the first place. As for solo enemas, they're just not the same, probably because there's no humiliation involved.

I enjoy solo but I want badly to be given to me, its nicer, more relaxing. Also very willing to give.

I prefer to give the bag to women but if she insisted on giving to me as well, Yes! I'd probabally submitt. in the interest of "fairness".

All my life I've Prided myself on being fair.

I prefer to give the bag to women but if she insisted on giving to me as well, Yes! I'd probabally submitt. in the interest of "fairness".

All my life I've Prided myself on being fair.

As Far as being with another man for taking or giving ?

No offence gentlemen, but I'm very Italian. We live for women.

Prefer to give NUT both is good nice to give but you are missing something unless you receive... it also gives you a knowledge of the experience nice ...

I very much prefer to give the enemas even tho I do enjoy taking them myself. As mentioned its good knowledge to know how it feels to receive an enema to be a very good giver!

It is just as much fun to give as it is to receive, I enjoy both. Or, I can take them myself.

I take solo at the moment but would greatly appreciate someone to give them to me. Either male or female is fine, as long as they have a plethora of equipment and plan to use most of it during the session.

All my non solo enemas have been given by women..first my mother and grandmother, often together, then my sister as kids, almost 50 years worth from my wife, and then most recently a few Fleets from a certain massage lady. I’d love to administer to another woman or women, help them expel and reach orgasm by any means necessary. Although my wife has recently started taking enemas on her own she refuses to let me help or even watch; the best I get is to listen at the bathroom door. I fantasize about trading bag enemas with the massage lady.. she has fisted my ass over the years, and I’d love to do the same to her.. An old man can dream, can’t he?

Not either/or for me. I like them both. Except when I was much younger (pre-puberty) when Mom gave me the enemas, I have mostly given them to myself, especially since I turned 50 a few years ago. I enjoy and am aroused by the whole process and try not to rush it. I would enjoy being given enemas by a close male friend. That's yet to happen.

I like both too, and since being solo for about 10 years, I keep on doing it alone until I meet another great lover. But it's more fun to have a trusted switch Domme like my exes give them to me because I love taking them as a sub to her Domme. And my exes were very good Dommes and loved giving me forced enemas after dressing me in rubber and sneakers and restraining me. I have a very active and enthusiastic fantasy Domme to replace her, but the real thing was even better. Adding a D/s dynamic to being given an enema by an enthusiastic trusted, loved real life Domme makes a very pleasurable erotic activity even more satisfying and erotic. Details available on request!

Eric