Do you prefer to be given enemas or to take them yourself?

I don't know where to post this question, so this is my best guess...........

Would you prefer to give enemas to yourself or have someone give them to you and should they be a man or a woman?

Do you want the receiver or the giver to have an orgasm as part of the enema session?

I will give myself an enema from time to time. However, I prefer for a female to give it. Currently my wife gives me my enemas. When I was young, my Mother did it although I did give me a few enemas to myself in sneaking them until Mother caught me. If it was possible, to go back in time, I'd still desire Mother to give me enemas over myself or even my wife. She made each one special.

Preference and reality don't always coincide. I'm solo because I have a wife who isn't into enemas at all. And yes, I do bring myself to orgasm when I give myself an enema. What's my preference you ask; Preferably, I'd much rather that my wife enjoy enemas with me, giving and or receiving. But that's not reality. And yes, I would love it if she would bring me to orgasm as well. I would do the same for her if the situation were to be.

Healthymale, Thanks for your thoughtful and informative reply. It made me realize that I have not responded to the questions myself. Will do it tomorrow.

While I do self-administer, my preference is go receive my enemas from a lovely lady. It is so much better to just lay back and let a woman do all the work, fill he bag, insert the nozzle, massage my stomach, etc. When a woman is giving to me, all I have to do is lay back and enjoy.

Hmmmmm, so many choices and I would like to do them all. But if I am forced to choose, here are my preferences.

I would prefer to receive than give. I would love to be totally relaxed and indulge in all the erotic sensations without having to do anything.

I would prefer to have a woman be the giver. But I will say the skill and ability to give a sensual enema(s) takes precedence over the sex of the giver.

Not part of the original question, but as a the receiver I would definitely want to have an orgasm as part of this session. I know I would be so ready to explode it would be the grand finale to close out the session.

I've self-administered a few enemas when I had stomach issues and my wife was not there. I've also had a few enemas without her for play, but that's very rare - it's that I miss her playing nurse. Otherwise it's always with my wife.

Would you prefer to give enemas to yourself? If I don't have anyone I self administer.

Have someone give enemas to you. Yes I love this.

Prefer to give or receive from man or woman. Always from a woman.

As a giver, do you want to include an orgasm for the receiver as part of the enema session? Of course if she wants it.

If you administer an enema to someone, do you want an orgasm for yourself? Of course.

I prefer to be given soapsuds enemas from a female or a male. I would not then refuse to give an enema.

Hmmm...

I used to self administer but have been on hiatus for a bit.

I think I would like to be given an enema.

I would like to masturbate to give myself an orgasm.

Definitely to be given , by a strong male , otk ..... Yum

Well this is selfish i know i prefer to receive i would want the giver to be a woman, i would love a orgasm during the enema, and for a + a female watcher would be great well there is my fantasy , oh i would like her to use a bulb syringe

I'd have to say - yes to ALL of the questions. 😄

Would you prefer to give enemas to yourself? (Sometimes I like to be alone with my thoughts and feelings. It's usually if I need an emotional release that I don't want to bother my husband with. He calls it "a female thing.")

Have someone give enemas to you.(Love it when hubby gives; I can just lie there!)

Prefer to give or receive from man or woman. (I've only given to my husband and daughters. Other than my husband, I'd prefer receiving from another woman. Years ago when first married, I was given enemas by female nurses.)

As a giver, do you want to include an orgasm for the receiver as part of the enema session? (Not intended, although hubby's erections made both of us feel good!)

If you administer an enema to someone, do you want an orgasm for yourself? (With hubby, we've had our moments together. Never with my girls.)

I myself have received enemas from my Mother, then when that stopped I received enemas from a friend of mine who lived next door to me. That was my first Bi-sexual experience. We carried on our relationship for a year then her Mother and Father got a divorce and she moved to Cal where I never saw again. She was my first and last Bi-sexual experience. After that I had some bfs but it never worked out. I was with a bf for 6 months I thought we had been together for me to tell him about some of my kinks and next thing I knew he dumped me that was back in 1995, so I haven't been with anyone until I met someone here at Zity and it turned into a relationship between us. 😃

I enjoy both giving and receiving to/from a woman. I give my wife enemas, which she enjoys immensely but not for erotic purposes - she loves the cleaned out feeling mostly. She enjoys giving me enemas, and she understands I derive sexual pleasure from them - often she gets me off orally or manually and sometimes gets on top while the water is flowing in. She has encouraged me to find a play partner as well (fair, as she has hers) and helps me seek them out - I really have a great wife!

As a gay man, my preference is to receive from another man and I actually prefer a "mutual" session of multile enemas and orgasms each.

As a straight guy, I prefer to be the one taking an enema rather than the one giving an enema. I just like the way an enema feels as it fills my colon.

I prefer to be given one than take one myself

I much prefer being given an enema, tho at present I have only one "giver." Self-administered enemas can be quite satisfying but remain a poor second.

While I love giving an enema to a willing recipient, if I am going to get one I prefer it be given. Alas, I am without a partner now so it solo when it happens.

Hate to say it, but this questions seems to me a little like: "Would you rather masturbate, or have good sex with a willing partner?" Notice I said "good" sex, and not boring sex with an uninterested individual. In the latter, masturbation is probably preferable. So, for me anyway, I would absolutely much rather be given an exciting enema by a female partner who is really into the whole scene, as opposed to going solo. Barring that, then I guess it's solo for me, just as masturbation satisfy's a need.

I have given myself and members of both sexes a number of enemas. I have received them from women who were my wife, a nurse, a neighbor, a childhood friends mom. I have received them from family members including mom, dad, stepmom, both grandmas, a brother, an aunt, 2 female cousins, and an uncle. An enema giver is an enema giver to me. The gender is usually not important. I have received them from family members of both genders before sex.

I would prefer to be given the enema, but I am open to giving as well. I would also prefer an enema given to me by a female, however, I am open to receiving from a male too.

I think it is only fair that both parties experience the pleasure of an orgasm.

I was lucky enough to find a giver a few hours away that fulfilled many fantasies that I had since I discovered I fell in love with enemas as a teen. It's still a preference to receive them, but I would give them too if asked...I hate that it sounds selfish...but i guess that it is the "submissive" part of me that loves to receive them

I prefer being given the enema sometimes. The lack of control of how much is going in, the giver's soothing voice, encouraging me to take more 😄

Taking a nice warm enema by yourself is quite nice. having the wife in the shower with you taking the large nozzel with a large bag of water klystra it is good. then making love to her while the warm water is flowing this is a good great wonderful feeling. ps try it you will like it.

Self-given enemas never were a big turn-on in adulthood. I was not a big fan of the soapy treatment until I learned of the erotic possibilities thanks to a nurse friend who was always willing to practice her enema skills. Since then, being the receiver is definitely my choice including for the closed system colonic.

I prefer to receive from a woman play friend but I always offer to reciprocate the service.

I would much prefer to be given a really nice series of enemas by a female enemate that was into them as much as I am, but since that situation doesn't exist in my life at the present time, I have to go for the next best option, and that's to take them by myself.