Do you prefer to be given enemas or to take them yourself?

I like to give myself enemas. I would prefer to be given enemas by my wife, but that happened only once, early in our marriage and she would never do it again. I would prefer to be given enemas by a women and if she were dressed as a nurse that would be great. Neither of those scenarios is ever going to happen though and it has been a number of years since I last had the time and privacy to give myself enemas. Though it hasn't happened yet, I would willingly give and receive enemas with a male friend.

I MUCH prefer to be given them. With a lady with the right attitude about enemas (sorry you're cramping sweetie... that's just the enema doing its job) I can take much more and hold it much longer than self administered.

But, of course, any enema is a good enema!

I prefer that my husband give me an enema as opposed to giving to myself although I do like both...a lot!!! Over his knee perhaps preceded by a loving spanking is a bonus for both of us and an enema on the bed laying over a pillow is very good as well. The exposure of your most private parts and being in someone else's control is a definite turn on. I generally will experience an orgasm during an enema either assisted or by myself. The feeling afterward is a sense of well being knowing that you have released your tensions and are squeaky clean inside and out after my follow up shower.

I did forget to mention that both bag and bulb have their individual benefits that I like both a lot. The bulb particularly over my husband's knee with repeated insertions of the nozzle is a particularly erotic turn on for both of us. He too enjoys being given an enema by myself. Denise

Depends on my mood. Solo can be fun when I'm in the mood but usually it's more fun to be given an enema. As a straight man who considers this a huge sexual fetish the giver needs to be female and usually yes an orgasm is usually part of it. Unless you are taking a series and wait to orgasm till the last one or the enema is just prep for something else.

I am solo, but would very much like to be on the receiving end.

I have done so many solo enemas. Butt I "keep the faith" that perhaps some day I will find a like minded female who enjoys filling me to the absolute max with a very large volume warm soapy enema.

I have always preferred having them administered to me, whether with bag or bulb, but solo is fun if a friend isn't available. Recently, however, a friend introduced me to the piston syringe. (That's the huge glass cylinder with a glass plunger which forces the enema fluid in.) I found that it is very comfortable, and allows me to easily take very large volumes. Hers is 500 ml, so six squirts is roughly 2 qts. We found that if she is gentle and pushes the plunger slowly, she can easily get 12 to 14 of them in me. That's more than a gallon, and is only slightly painful if held 10 minutes.The only drawback is that it is not possible to use solo. Since she really enjoys giving me enemas, and getting them from me, I suspect we'll be seeing a lot more of each other. She has already hooked sister Lisa, too.

Soapy4Me,

Syringe better than the bag? Why use it if it needs 10-12 separate plunges? Seems like the bag is easier? Other advantages? Just curious.

Eric

I prefer to be given enemas, especially now that I can no longer give them to myself. Even back when I could self administer, I definitely preferred to be given rather than self administer. and I would prefer getting an enema from a woman/girl. That has been the only gender of those who have given to me. If possible, bulb please; the multiple insertions are part of it for me... and No Fleets, please.

Cos

I prefer to be given enemas, especially now that I can no longer give them to myself. Even back when I could self administer, I definitely preferred to be given rather than self administer. and I would prefer getting an enema from a woman/girl. That has been the only gender of those who have given to me. If possible, bulb please; the multiple insertions are part of it for me... and No Fleets, please.

Cos

Sorry you can't give yourself enemas any longer. I hope someone attractive can help you still enjoy them. I'd be happy to help but too far away and I'm a very straight male, even for just medical procedures. Best of luck to you. I hope you can keep enjoying them for a long time. They sure are fun and also help my orgasms along nicely.

All the best,

Eric

I prefer to be given an enema from, a female for me. I solo but not by choice

I enjoy both administering and receiving. I had an e-mate about 10 years ago, and she was so much fun........ I really enjoyed her giving them to me, but over the years I have grown to the idea that I would give and receive from with a male or female.

But today, I am solo and this is fine. I also don't one very often, so when I do, it is really meaningful.

I am a lover of both. It's better to be given them then doing them solo.

Much rather be given an enema. My wife is ok with giving me enemas, as long as it isn't "too often" concerned about me getting dependent, and she is good at it, adding a little more volume, watching the flow rate, and more pumps on the DBRC. Getting better as we continue, so it's fine by me.

No one has given me an enema since I was 6 or 7 years old, but I am sure that I would like to receive enemas from a woman. But sadly I have never been lucky enough to find that woman.

I would like to be given by a man or woman who really enjoys giving. I've been given by those who did more as a favor, and that didn't excite me. Apart from that, I also like to be watched by someone who is shocked a bit to see someone who likes taking an enema.

Most of the enemas I have had are self administered. The ones that were given to me as a child were at first not wanted then about the age of 10 I really started enjoying them. I started self administering at about age 13 and have continued till now, age 76. My wife never knew, to my knowledge, that I loved taking enemas. I have given enemas to my wife, who was vanilla but only in a medical sense. She was severly conspitated after surgery and the painkillers really bound her up. I was extremely gentle and understanding of her prediciment and enjoyed being able to help her with enemas. She passed away about three and a half years ago so now enemas around here are on an as wanted basis. Answer is I would love to be given enemas by a female and I would love to give her enemas (and other kinky things) in return.

Top preference, I would prefer to be given an enema by a woman and have an orgasm at the end. I also like to give enemas to ladies, but have had limited experience with that. I would like to help her to an orgasm as part of that as well.

I am open to a mutual enema, butt I do give myself one more frequently than not. My first true enema enthusiast partner that I met here on Z.B. has passed away. R.I.P. Buzz. We traded just a few emails and finally met. It was wonderful having someone to relate to with the same kinks and desires. It is so gratifying to find that elusive enemate and when it happens you know it is right. Since Buzz I have met a handful of other guys but they are not into me helping them. I am pretty unshockable and understand that poop is the byproduct of enemas but the rewards of having a nice clean hole to play with far out weigh the negative. I would like to have my first female partner to either give or receive , E-Fest was a great opportunity but it wasn't in the cards for me this year.

My enemas are self administered, but I'd love to have an experienced person give me enemas until clear!

Most times it's just me and that ugly bugger in the mirror. We get along OK, and really, he's a good guy and knows what I like. There are times that my wife will need an enema so I will give to her, then she will reciprocate. She really doesn't like enemas, so it's not as much fun as it could be, but I do enjoy both giving and receiving with her.

I have been lucky in my life in that I have known many women who love the enema. I find that it's easier and more relaxing to have a helper, especially when using long colon tubes that I like using. I love being in the presence of a confident woman holding a red bag (well, any color) and a large nozzle. If she is as turned on as I am, all moist and juicy, I can't help myself... by the end of the session we are both a mess and very, very happy.

My wife and I prefer to give enemas to each other. We don’t always have to have an orgasm during a session. That really depends on why the enema is happening. If it’s part of our play time, then many times one or the other (or both) will cum. If one of us needs to be cleaned out because we are constipated, then we usually do not cum.

What I prefer is: A naked woman gives me an enema, either before or after she gets hers, and we both enjoy orgasms at some point in the process, which leads to more bedroom fun.

But, to quote the Rolling Stones: "You Can't Always Get What You Want"

I much prefer to be given an enema. You can relax easier and take more water. Also a willing giver can slowly stroke my cock or suck it the entire time the water is going in. If the giver get aroused then you can return the favor.

Have always given them to myself but haven them given to me would be a welcome choice!

I have only given them to myself, most of my others I got from Mom or Dad.. I lean towards other girls and I would love to find someone to give and take

Growing up my enemas were given to me and of course no choice mostly by mom, and sometimes by my aunt or grandmother.

As an adult, I still prefer someone to administer them to me. I have been given by both other men and women. I like someone else being in control and not given a choice. Often these are in role play and have a medical or discipline scenario. I generally during these do not have orgasm myself and sometimes the giver has had an orgasm and sometime not. When I am alone and take an enema, I always masturbate and have an orgasm. When i young man after I would be rock hard and leaking but now I get hard but do need stimulation. Still enjoy them though.

If I had my choice be given the enema is the best. Had a few given to be by my x. It’s submissive and not humiliating but there is a tiny sense of embarrassment for me I’d say. Especially if your telling them you can’t poop with out it. If it’s for fun then to me it’s just a submissive thing and not the humiliating/embarrassing aspect. But the age old saying. What’s the point of enjoying something if you can’t enjoy it with some one else

For many, many years I was pretty much a solo player when it came to enemas. Occasionally, hubby would give me an enema when I asked, but only when I asked.

Fast forward about 20 years and those "hangups" that constrained us, have melted away. Hubby is more than ready to give me an enema most anytime I make the hint (even sometimes when I don't). And I love it. While I still play solo on some days when I want to have some "me" time, being given an enema by someone whose technique is loving and who enjoys the process as much as I do is magical!

So, call me a fence straddler, I love it either way!

Have fun and play safe,

Deb