My husband's blood tests have been clear - so far, this coming Friday he will have a follow up colonoscopy. It was delayed because his doctor broke his foot - it was supposed to have happened last week, but that is just how it goes. We are getting to be old hands at the colonoscopies - starting tomorrow, we are going to cut back on his solid foods a little and get in more soups. He is totally open to enemas now 😄 - but that doesn't mean he still doesn't have to drink what he calls 'goat piss'. We are thinking that when he does have to drink that stuff - that we may have him do some enemas before hand, to make it a little easier to get everything out. If we don't find any polyps - and the blood tests keep coming back clear, then we can wait a year for the next one. We are just taking it slow - but it is looking cautiously optimistic.
Our couples friends - Ruthie & Dave and Beth Anne & Steve, and we, have all tested negative for any STD's. 😃 But that 'fluid bonding' I had mentioned earlier - that is so not going to happen, too many couples in the mix. The math just didn't work out - but that is OK, and all of us are good with the guys using condoms. The girls and I - have talked amongst ourselves, that we will let the guys make the moves, mainly because of performance issues, and the male ego. It's a real concern for us gals - and it is not something we are going to let our guys in on as to what the reasoning was when we set out that guideline. I put it out there - to the gals, that if either Dave or Steve wants to 'do me' that I will be OK for them picking the time and place. But us gals - and the guys, have agreed that anal will be only for our husbands, for now at least. Oral and vaginal sex - will be with condoms.
But when it comes to sex between - Ruthie, Beth Anne and me, we aren't really sure if saran wrap or dental dams are the route we want to go. That will probably mean some more - or regular testing, safe sex is going to be part of our little group. I won't bore you all with the behind the scenes talks - but now that we have some ground rules down, I feel a lot better about where we're all going with this.
Tom and I have our sexual bucket list - there was a post or thread here in Zity.Biz where I posted my own sexual bucket list. 😉 Which BTW - I've since shared with our circle, circle sounds better than group. Tom and I are going to get that swing - 😄 and we found it YOGABODY Naturals Yoga Trapeze-Yoga Swing/Sling/Inversion Tool, Orange - yeah, right, yoga. 😉 That's going to be our story - and we're sticking to it if one of the kids or grandkids ever wanders into our room, which will be locked from now on. That hook Tom put in for my enema bag - he did it right and we have put in some more hardware to make it more sturdy. Yep - taking up yoga. 😉 🌹
This past week - we all got to talking about bucket lists, and of course it came around to sexual things. It was during and after our - 'dinner in the buff' gatherings at Ruthie & Dave's. I started out - since, even though we were all naked, it was down to who's going to get their crazy out there first and take that chance of being the only strange one in the room. Sooooo - I went first. 😈 I told them - of course Tom knew first, that my own sexual bucket list - one of them has me having enema in front of a crowd or a room full of people. Another was me being stripped naked - or being the only one naked in a crowd or room full of people or the only one naked in the room. Insert crickets chirping here - 😳 😮 🙄 The silence was deafening - and I'm thinking 'oh shit', but Ruthie, bless her heart, asked if she could be the one to give me the enema?
If all goes well with Tom's colonoscopy - and I believe it will, our little circle of friends and we are going to have a get together this Sunday. Ruthie says that Dave knows about her enemas - and has even stuck around while she has one, and is used to her having an enema. Beth Anne said that she hasn't really done many enemas - but that Ruthie has been hinting at how good they are for general well being. So they think it will be OK - but things have to go well with Tom and that colonoscopy. BTW - Tom is OK with me and my little bucket list. We'll see how this goes - 😃