Exploring with Friends

You need to go to a marine store and gets some blocks and tackle. Fun for hoisting bodies.

You need to go to a marine store and gets some blocks and tackle. Fun for hoisting bodies.

He has a chain fall - in his shop, and a few other things for hoisting motors and working on equipment. Maybe he can - change my oil in his shop sometime.

ELECTRIC HOISTING MOTORS?!?!?!

I'm jealous! Nothing like up and down at the push of a button.

Yeah, I'll bet he can change your oil!

I'm sure as hell not going to walk into his shop and not have some different ideas now - like, butt hooks for example. 😉

Now I have to go talk to some friends - about that item on our bucket list with the nude beach. 😉

Well Ladies you are interesting me, I am convinced to fly over the ocean to try the hoisting equipment from Susie and to be like an erotic slave for both of you four. 🙄 😳 Your posts made me really horny and awake some forgotten fantasies.

@Kid - my husband didn't just put a nail in the wall for her, he put a pretty nice hook there by the bed closest to the wall. He and I have talked - prior to this, and he's been suspecting that Gibby and I do the enemas on line thing, which is true. I also told him - that when she came down those times, that it was no big thing for her to do an enema. He didn't ask about details - and I didn't volunteer them, but I see that line of talk being opened up between us. I'm letting him take the lead - or set the pace as to how much he wants to know and what he wants to do.

@Lora ... that was sweet of your husband to do that for me 🌹 and I'll thank him when I get there. Your ceilings are pretty high ... and it might have been a little hard to get to the hook above the bed in your sewing room ... but it was sweet that he did that for me. 😃

Now I have to go talk to some friends - about that item on our bucket list with the nude beach. 😉

@Lora ... just let me know what you and your friends need me to do ... 🌹

So – my husband and I are friends with two other couples, Ruthie & Dave and Beth Anne & Steve. As I said a while back – we have this bucket list of things we want to do. We all have – through the years, gone on vacations together, sports events in other cities, concerts, dances, bars, cruises, and almost always it is the six of us. We are 'mature' - yes, getting old, and some of us have some health issues, my own husband has had a couple of close calls, so have I, and so has anyone who has lived for any amount of time. Time – it catches up with you.

We all saw a movie called - 'The Bucket List' a few years back, I forget the year, but it was awhile back, and none of us had hit the big 60. Cedar 🌹 calls it the – big sux oh, He doesn't smile when He says that. The six of us – my husband, R & D 😁 and BA & S, started making a bucket list for us all to do. Para-sailing – done that. Rock wall climbing – done that. Cruise to here and to there – done that and that. Going across a valley on a zip line – done that. Tandem jumping from an airplane – done that, hated it, but did it. Bungee jumping – wish I had had a better bra, and better sense, a lot better sense. And so on – went to Paris, went to Loch Ness, saw some castles, watched a volcano in Hawaii.

For the last couple of years – we have been kicking around the idea of us all going to a nude beach. We tell ourselves – that we are all pretty comfortable around each other, enough that when it gets a little drunk out, our husbands sometimes get into real, honest to Pete, pissing contests. Epic contests such as – which one of them could piss from one side of the irrigation ditch to the other, or the furthest off of the balcony at a hotel somewhere in a coastal town in Mexico into the marina, or the furthest off of the fishing boat, and so on. The worst – according to us wives, the best according to the Three Pissaderos, was when they all thought that they could piss on the campfire and put it out. They were informed – that steam from piss is so NOT sexy, and, hell no, not funny.

But there are – among us wives, some of us who may have flashed their girls at the others when wine was involved, or beer, or Jack Daniels, tequila, or whatever was being served at whatever party we were at or we were throwing. No – none of us wives are above a smirk or two, but we never got into any pissing contests, and we won't either.

We all – the guys and us gals, have tossed the nude beach out there off and on for awhile now. They guys – don't seem to be real interested, or they let it drop, but the Ruthie and Beth Anne and I are pretty sure we want to do that. Since I've come here – done the enemas with a special friend, found out about how good it is to be with another woman, and what it is to 'cyber', the nude beach has been a little on the back burner for me. Sex swing – this is probably going to be on my husband's and my bucket list. 😉

Anyway – my own 'activities' have taken up a lot of my time, and finding my way to Zity.Biz. Ruthie and Beth Anne and I – and a couple of other of our friends, usually have lunch date every Wednesday or Thursday and have for a few years now. Sometimes it's just the three of us – and we talk about things, the last few times, the nude beach pops up, and has been our main topic for at least the last three weeks. When Gibby had been out here – her last visit a few months ago, Gibby agreed to do some formal portraits of us and our families, and R & D 😁 and BA&S got in on that deal, and Gibby was fantastic and made a whole day out of it. She is a first rate photographer – and her portraits of all of us, our kids, grandkids, us as couples, turned out fantastic. Gibby didn't charge us a dime – not one red cent, and she got some of the best pictures of our grandkids any of us have ever seen and they will be with our families for a long long time. 🌹

Since I've been doing what I've been doing - I have come to consider myself pretty hot-stuff, and 'advanced' in the ways of the world, sexually, and on the cutting edge compared to my little circle of friends. Today – lunch with Ruthie and Beth Anne I half expected to be the 'leader' of the plot to get our husbands convinced to go to a nude beach. Hell – I know someone who has been to nude beaches, resorts, and so I am thinking that I will be the ring-leader on this because Gibby has been there and done that. They already liked her – a lot, and her dog, Skuter, and kind of figured she was outgoing and were impressed that she was or is accomplished in the martial arts. We decided – she would be good in a bar fight and someone who could clue us all in on what to expect if we all went to a nude beach.

I was thinking – bouncing ideas off of Gibby about how to 'sell' the idea to the boys, and I thought my plan was pretty unique. Turns out – I was way behind Ruthie and Beth Anne. Way behind. 😉

I'll stop here for now – it's getting late, but I can tell you, that when Gibby gets out here this weekend, we, the six of us, are going to throw a dinner in her honor, for real, to show her our appreciation for the memories she gave us by photographing our families. She has a heart of gold – and we really do want to thank her properly. But – if she can also shed some light on what to expect at a nude beach and make our husbands 'see it our way.' It seems that – Ruthie and Beth Anne, have some suggestions or ideas to run past Gibby as to how to get this done.

More on that later – probably after the dinner. 😉

I was thinking – bouncing ideas off of Gibby about how to 'sell' the idea to the boys, and I thought my plan was pretty unique. Turns out – I was way behind Ruthie and Beth Anne. Way behind. 😉

@Lora ... ok, this I gotta hear ... 😉

Since he put that plant hanger in our bedroom - I've been getting 2 or 3 enemas from him a day, a couple of times right in the middle of the day. That has opened up a lot of discussions - and I think that Arthur hit the nail on the head, my husband has some ideas of his own.

@Lora ... could you go into that some more ... is his giving enemas all his idea or do you have to ask him to give you an enema?

Sounds like fun Lora, do you think you'll be able to talk your 2 friends into enemas? Have you ever brought up the subject to them?

Can't wait to hear more!!! 😜 Take care, Mike 😉 🌹

Sounds like fun Lora, do you think you'll be able to talk your 2 friends into enemas? Have you ever brought up the subject to them?

@mike45 - I doubt if my two friends and I will be doing enemas together, what we are trying to do is get ourselves to a nude beach with our husbands. Ruthie is an RN - she works at a couple of the local hospitals, and she also does a lot with hospice. So - she's pretty busy, and I doubt she would be into enemas. Beth Anne - she runs a flower shop and I help her at times when she has a big order. She also helps me with some catering - and occasionally some decorating, and we help each other with grand kids and work on our farms. But all three of us - do pal around quite a bit when we have the time.

Ruthie is about my age - a little taller, on the slender side, and used to barrel race in college and is really good at riding horses. She helps train them - and also works with kids in a program called HETRA that involves teaching kids about horses. Beth Anne is also about our age - she's about my height and weight, and is also involved in animal rescue, mostly dogs and cats, and does some volunteer work at the no-kill shelter. Aside from all us wanting to go to a nude beach - I seriously doubt either of them would be interested in enemas or anything else for that matter. Although - both of them are good looking and have nice figures, I just don't see us going there.

To be honest - I have caught myself checking Ruthie out when she wears her 'scrubs' and also Beth Anne when she wears her smock. 😉

@Lora ... could you go into that some more ... is his giving enemas all his idea or do you have to ask him to give you an enema?

@Gibby - after my husband put the plant hanger over our bed - I did the first 3 or 4 enemas in bed with him there and me snuggled up to him. We did a LOT - of talking about my having them, the anal jewel, and going without panties. I told him - and not untruthfully, that the anal jewel did help me with my Kegel exercises and that it helps. I hardly ever leak now - even when I sneeze or cough or laugh, but that just isn't because of the anal jewel alone. I told him that my anal jewel was mainly because - I'm liking things in my ass, and I brought up things like me being 'anally erotic' or becoming more anally erotic. My anal jewel - and me going without panties, are things that he knew I was doing pretty much from the start. We've been to a couple of dinners - with friends which included either Ruthie & Dave or Beth Anne and Steve, or both, and I was wearing my anal jewel and no panties under my dress. It was our little secret - and he had told me he thought that was hot, even back then, he just didn't know what I was looking for.

He asked me what was the story with the enemas - and that I had told him that I needed them to help with my constipation. I came clean on that - I told him that I didn't NEED the enemas, just that I wanted enemas because I just like them and the way they feel. I also told him - and he was listening, that I wanted to take him in my ass and get something going there. He's got a real problem with high blood pressure - and while 'regular' sex is not a problem for us, he has his doubts about being able to stay or get hard enough to 'do my ass'. Then that's where I took a deep breath - and told him that if he couldn't get hard enough for a rear entry, then there were always dildos and other things we could use, along with enemas. I told him about my dildos - and that we could get one with a kick starter if he wanted, but that I just wanted to play and have some fun, and make the most of what we have left. We talked.

Talking - who'd a thunk? 😉

After those talks - and me being in our bedroom to have my enemas, he started out by asking me if he could put the nozzle in me when I would hang a bag. Of course - I said go for it 😉 And that was the beginning - my usual time for my enema is at bed time, and sometimes I fall asleep with an enema in me. Sometime in the night - I wake up and have to go pee, but so far I haven't had any problem holding my enema and snuggled up to his nice warm body. 😃 The only problem is - that with my regular douche pipe, I don't move around in bed like I need too and don't sleep as soundly. I'm going to look into a retention nozzle - one that's flexible and I can keep inside and not worry about it slipping out if I want to get more comfortable.

Since that first couple of days - that's when my husband really took it from there and I don't even have to ask him to give me an enema. He fixes me one when we go to bed - and I have one waiting when I get up in the morning, which I like, I don't even have to get out of bed and really wake up when he starts me off with an enema. The past few days have been really good - I am usually getting a couple of enemas at night from him and at least one in the morning. He's even come home during the day - and given me an enema. There was one day he gave me an enema in my kitchen - and one in the dining room, and a couple on the couch. All without me having to ask - and I like that.

So - it is a work in progress, and the 'new' will wear off as far as him giving so many enemas, but I think I've got him liking to give me enemas 🌹 . We also run around naked a lot more, between visits from all of the kids and grand kids, and that is a big problem.

Sounds like the fun is just starting Lora 😉 hope it keeps up. 😜 😃

Lora, 🌹 would you be creating another monster ?. .or could it be "blockbuster". 😁 .gurl you'll be running all over the place. .Hubby wont know what to do with you. .but I suspect he has had a hand in it. .lol

Lora, 🌹 would you be creating another monster ?. .or could it be "blockbuster". 😁 .gurl you'll be running all over the place. .Hubby wont know what to do with you. .but I suspect he has had a hand in it. .lol

@That_Australian - this is exactly what I wanted from him, I'm not going to complain. 😉 The thing is - we are talking, and we have opened it up and are getting better about letting each other know what we want and not be afraid to ask.

I do want to look into that sex swing - 😈

Lora, it occurred to me the topic title is quite be-fitting. .Explorer just e-volved

It's happened so fast – and my dreams are coming true, the only thing, is how do I keep it real, and where do I go from here. I've been doing a lot of thinking – and I have a lot of things to work out.

So where to start – things have been so fantastic in a lot of ways since I wrote here last time. Some quick thoughts – Gibby got my husband and I 'His & Her' enema bags, the silicone jobbies that you can see through and watch the water level lower when the enema flows into you. My husband – who was really getting into giving me enemas before, now really is fascinated with watching the water drain from my bag and into me, hell, even the tubing is made of that silicone and you can see the water in it. It's like a new toy for my husband – and, again, this is what I wished for, and this is what I wanted and want.

It has been amazing – my husband, Tom, is doing all sorts of experimenting with these new bags of ours, yes, I'm giving him enemas, too. Just what I wanted – and his acceptance of them blows my mind, I've been living with a kinky little bow legged man. But – Tom, who has bad problems with high blood pressure, and has had problems for a long time, dug out an old stethoscope we used to use when we checked his blood pressure. Oh yeah – we know what the water sounds like going into me when I am getting an enema. And – oh yeah, I know what the water sounds like when it goes into him when he is getting an enema. You know – what is good for the goose is good for the gander.

Good ol' Tom – now wonders what a vibrator sounds like when it is inside of my pussy, and, hey, how about when I am having an enema?! Or – this boy is really getting creative, what does a vibrator sound like when it is in my ass filled with water from an enema? For the record – I want to know this, too. 😄 But how about – in his ass with a vibrator and with his ass full of water. Goose-Gander – yes, he's going to be good for that, all in the name of 'science' of course. 😉

Then there is the nude beach – the plotting, the planning, and how it all went, that is a story I will have to tell a little later. I will say this – that Dave dropped Ruthie off here yesterday, when my husband asked him to pick up a lunch for him since they would be out in the well fields and he couldn't get in for lunch. I was naked at home when they got here – I finished making the lunch, and Ruthie was naked when she helped me add something for Dave to take too. If that tells you anything – just know it is that clothes are pretty much optional around my house anymore, and it is the same way for Ruthie and Dave's house, and Beth Anne and Steve's house.

And here I am now – thousands of thought running through my mind, mainly because Ruthie stuck around after Dave left with the lunches for him and Tom. I was putting away things at the kitchen counter – when Ruthie, naked as I was, stepped up so close behind me that when I turned around we were almost nipple to nipple. THAT look on her face – when I didn't bother to back up to put a little space between us, told her I had changed. Right then – we didn't say a lot, she was expecting me to step back a little and I, more or less, expected her to do something like this.

Ruthie just asked - 'what's going on?' I've known her a long time – and I knew that when she asked what's going on, she was talking about Gibby and me, those enema bags and the hanger over Tom and my bed, and why I didn't back away when she had stood so close. Another friendship – may change too.

So – I will try to sort some of that here.

Ruthie just asked - 'what's going on?' I've known her a long time – and I knew that when she asked what's going on, she was talking about Gibby and me, those enema bags and the hanger

@Lora ... I told you ... 😉

Lora, I am very happy for you. Looks like you turned your hubby into a klysmo. That's a big dream most of us have. Enjoy your new found fun and be grateful for it.

Lora,

Sounds like things are developing very well between you and Tom.

That was so nice of Gibby to get you and Tom " his and her's bags ", you are both GREAT gals!!! 😉 😉 😘 😘 🌹 🌹

Sounds like you and Ruthie might need to sit down sometime and have a serious one to one (talk). 😄

Take care Hon, Mike 😘 🌹

I'm glad everything is going great for you Lora it seems your friend Ruthie may have some bi tendencies too, like Mike said maybe the two of you should sit down and talk to her face to face sometime. I would do that you never will know until you do, something might come out of it. 😉 😃

I don't know whether to - laugh, cry, get pissed, or feel really 'honored' and I don't have time to explain in detail here, just yet.

According to my dear friends - Ruthie & Dave, Beth Anne & Steve, and even my dear old Tom, I AM THE ONE who needed convincing to go to the nude beach! 😮 REALLY - ME!!!

Me! Me - I am the one who needed convincing or persuading? WTF?! 😮 😡 😧

I have to get back - to my 'friends' but I will write more later. I'm not sure what to do with what I had been writing before - but, I never saw this coming, but maybe I will be back later and try to make some sense out of this.

I'll be back later - sometime.

Hi Lora ,

I'm wondering why i have this distinct impression that somethings about to blow. .Could this be a game changer ?

🌹

I think you're bewildered and pissed Lora. Obviously one or all of them read you wrong. Seems strange, because I know you're a straight forward, no BS kinda woman. Get back to us if you can when you get it all sorted out. 🌹

Mike45, Carol is the type of woman who would say, "Oh hell! You've got me right where I want you."

That's what I'm guessing.

@mike45 - no, I'm not pissed, I'm having to laugh at myself because they, Ruthie & Beth Anne, had it in their heads that I would be the 'hold out' and not want to go to a nude beach. 😃 Either I'm very good at disguising my inner kink - or I look like more of a prude or doting grandma who hasn't got a clue about 'that' side of human nature. In other words - it seems like they think I'm kind of a stick in the mud or 'old fashioned farm girl' that hasn't got a clue.

This past week particularly - has been more along the lines of 'sensory overload' and things have happened so fast. I've got a husband - who is now giving me enemas, and letting me give him enemas. 'Letting' right now - is the key word, I'm not sure he is totally 'wanting' enemas, but hey, it's a start. Also this past week - and almost all of yesterday, Sunday, I spent time with friends I've known since high school completely naked and we loved it. Yesterday was the second time - for all day nudity with friends.

It's after midnight right now - I'm naked, sitting here in the darkened living room, and my husband is out checking wells and will be back in a couple of hours. Over on the couch - is Gibby, naked, and her dog, Skuter, is laying on the floor sleeping and he must be chasing something in his dreams. I can see Gibby in the light of her lap top - and she is checking her mail or something, maybe looking for pictures of me naked where I was stupid enough to post. No - at least I didn't show my face.

I had written a lot on that very first time - when we, my friends, husband, were all at dinner at the table in our house. Gibby was giving us all tips - or ideas, of what it would be like to go to a nude beach. About how some guys worried - about getting erections and making a fool out of themselves, but she said that erections would be rare, and unless you were 'doing something about it' there might not be much said. She also told them about how some guys guarded against - 'skid marks' by using some sort of towelette like Cottonelle moist wipes or something. I grinned to myself - thinking that Tom wouldn't have to worry about that because he would get an enema and a once over to take care of the skid marks or erections. 😉 I had it all figured out - and me and the girls, Gibby included, had it all figured out on how to approach the topic of nude beaches at dinner. Gibby also produced - two containers of Cottonelle moist wipes and put them on the table. I missed that clue - huge.

They asked Gibby a lot of questions - sometimes they had to be reminded to look directly at Gibby so she could understand what they were saying or asking. It took a little while - but they adapted pretty good and didn't have to repeat very often. Then Beth Anne - of all people, asked Gibby if we all should 'practice' being naked so that we wouldn't be such rubes out there on the beach and make fools out of ourselves. Ruthie nodded her head - and was giving Beth Anne that 'go girl' look and I swear she may have even thrown in an 'amen!' This is where I began to get suspicious - I'm a slow learner. :-\\

Gibby asked a good question of Beth Anne - like, what did she mean 'practice being naked?' So far - it seemed like we were following 'the plan' which was to get the guys to agree to have a cook out at Ruthie & Dave's the following day. Naked. That had been what we talked about - earlier at lunch, set the mood, make a plan, and all of us go over to Ruthie and Dave's and get naked, eat some steaks or something, and 'practice' for a nude beach or decide if that is what we wanted. After all - we all didn't want to pay to fly out to some place with a nude beach, and then come to find out we didn't want to be naked with all those beach people or in front of each other.

That was the plan.

Well Gibby - told us what to expect, that if you are first time naked with other people in a public or social gathering. Things like - how it would be natural to 'check out' each other, be curious about what the other would look like naked and feel like a peeping tom or be so self conscious. Beth Anne piped up and asked Gibby - something along the line of, what would happen if we all got naked here at my house at the dinner table? Gibby asked if this would be the first time - for any of us to see each other naked especially in a setting like this? Ruthie raised her hand - like we were back in school or some such thing, and said no, other than the time the guys tried to put out a camp fire by peeing on it and the piss smelling steam, or when they tried to piss from one bank of an irrigation ditch to the other side. Beth Anne capped it off by saying - no, other than that and that awful pissing on the camp fire episode, no one at the table had seen the other naked. Dave did mention something about a couple of us girls - who maybe had a little too much to drink and may or may not have flashed some boob at the others. Officially - soberly, consciously, getting naked with each other, no.

Gibby then told us - that if we were to all get naked now, hypothetically, she would not be shy in checking us all out and not apologize for looking. She said that she would also expect - and accept the fact that we would be checking her out too. THIS by the way - is almost word for word what Gibby told me that first time I met her up near her home in a motel room before we went to dinner. It was like - deja vu, and I thought to myself that she had used a line on me. It worked back then - and it looked like it was working now. While Gibby was telling us this - Dave was slipping Skuter some cheese and bits of roast beef that was making him very popular with Skuter and Ruthie giving him a look like maybe he should ask Gibby first. Nah.

I should have noticed - well, actually I did, I just didn't think about it or it didn't sink in, but Ruthie and Beth Anne were exchanging glances with each other. The kind of glances between two people - that are called 'co-conspirators' by the news media. Ruthie asked - so how would all that start? 🙄 Gee - Beth Anne wanted to know that too. 😃 Then those two yahoos - looked around at everyone at the table, like they were taking a poll as to, something, like, maybe, who will go first? WE didn't talk about that at lunch, at least not for the dinner we were having that night. This dinner was just to - set the stage for the next day.

Gibby pressed the nervous people - are you wanting to start now? Whoa 😮 - this is not part of the plan! Why yes - those two little snots were shaking their heads like this thought JUST NOW occurred to them right there and then! Hell - even Dave, Steve, and TOM, were giving it that, 'well yeah' look to each other! This was a set up! But - I just knew none of them would be the first, and out of the corner of my left eye, I see this short woman with short auburn hair, killer lil hard body, stand up at the head of the table where she had been sitting - and take off her dress and there she was! Naked as a jay bird - not a stitch, and standing right there in front of half of Georgia and six people sitting around a dinner table in my house!

Ruthie and Beth Anne - who both wore dresses, and who usually wear jeans or slacks or something other than dresses, looked like they were having a race as to who got undressed first. And wouldn't you know it! They were both totally naked under their dresses! What are the odds of that happening - I ask you, what do you think the odds are of that happening? Now - Dave and Steve, did excuse themselves and took the Cottonelle wipes off to the bathrooms. Tom didn't have to go - because I had given him an enema just about an hour before the dinner. Oh yeah - spontaneous my ass!

When it was all said and done - I was the last one standing there with any clothes on. But not for long - 😎 because out came the girls, and then everything else, but I was the only one who had been wearing underwear.

Gibby was calling the shots - and breaking the ice, because there was a lot going on and we were looking everywhere except down below each other's necks. I checked out the dining room ceiling and every where else. Then Gibby - got our attention, and told us about checking each other out and get past the initial naked feeling and embarrassment and that it was natural to be curious about our bodies and those of others. Gibby even stood up again - and turned around slowly for everyone to see her body, and even did a walk from one end of the table where we were sitting, into the kitchen and back again, making sure that whoever wanted to look, and we all did, looked. She wasn't ashamed at all - and after each one of us 'did the walk' we started getting comfortable with the fact that we were all naked and we ate dinner.

Then - mostly for Gibby's benefit, we all went around the table and introduced ourselves to her, while we ate. Ruthie told of her being an R.N., involved with horses, hospice, and having two daughters who were away at college. Dave is a pilot - dusts crops in the planting and growing season. Beth Anne told about her flower shop - helping me part time cater, being a grandmother, and Steve told a little about his working with hospice and sometimes Ruthie, and who is a farmer and a mechanic who keeps the irrigation wells going. Tom and I did our thing - and told how many kids, from our marriage we had, and the ages of number of kids from other marriages. Gibby told about raising four boys - her husband and three sons, all of who were in the service, and had how her husband had also been in the service and served in Viet Nam a long time ago.

It was going good - real good, and then Dave asked Gibby about the necklace she was wearing, the gold necklace, with the gold rectangle with a red border, a white field inside of the rectangle, the two blue stars, and one gold star. We found out - what a Gold Star Mother was. Gibby softly explained - and in such a way, that showed her with so much dignity, and her loss, and sorrow, about something no parent even wants to have cross their mind. When she was finished telling us - we all knew that the subject would never be brought up again. She hadn't told many people this before - and that night, she told some new found friends who were just as naked as she was right then.

Then we noticed an odor - Gibby was the first to notice it, over near where Dave was sitting, and her eyes locked on to a set of eyes that looked very guilty. Skuter. She asked Skuter if he had been a naughty dog - and if he had eaten any cheese. It was obvious he had - and he gave Dave up by glancing over his way and trying to avoid Gibby's scorn. Dave looked like a deer in the head lights. Gibby told him - Skuter, to heel, Dave damn near heeled too. Gibby had that tone in her voice, and she and Skuter went out into the back porch and on the patio. Ruthie rolled her eyes at Dave - Dave was busted, Steve and Tom didn't look at him because he was fucking toast and they didn't want to get burned either, after all, it was all Dave's idea to feed Skuter. Steve and Tom - they were totally innocent and never would feed someone else's dog without their permission. The clue bus was bouncing over Dave - like a speed bump in the road. 😁 Dumb ass.

While Gibby was airing out Skuter - we all decided to go out onto the patio, it was dark, still pretty warm, a little chilly, but not bad. Being naked outside - well that is something that I never really did. Completely naked - and with friends, outside, now that was something fantastic! It was night - and our patio is not visible from the road, and our nearest neighbor on that road was about a half a mile away, so being seen was not very likely. I noticed that my girls - my nipples were reacting to the night air, just like Ruthie's and Beth Anne's, and we got a chuckle out of that. But the boys - well, their boys, were shriveling up because they weren't used to the night air. Naturally - Ruthie the RN, had an answer as to why this was happening, about the boys retracting into the body to keep warm. She may have been right - but we all thought it was funny as hell that the boys were shriveling up! Woosies!

About an hour or two later - after staying outside as long as we could, we went back in, had some dessert, Gibby took Skuter out one more time, we all decided that we would meet up at Ruthie and Dave's in the morning-ish for 'breakfast in the buff' and maybe spend the whole day naked. Ruthie and Dave live in back our our place - about a mile and a half down along the water canal, and don't have the problem of their kids or company just 'dropping by' unannounced. None of us had to work - except checking irrigation pumps, or moisture contents, or some little chores. So we all could spend our time - just getting used to being naked with each other. It had been a good night - and being naked felt good, real good, and we all wanted more of the same.

When they left - Ruthie & Dave and Beth Anne & Steve, Tom trundled off to bed while I went with Gibby to her room. We did an enema - and held each other for a little while. It was a perfect ending - and felt so right, everything about being naked with my friends, outside, sitting around the dinner table, the coffee, the dessert, getting to know each other like it was the first time for any of us to meet. If that was what being naked with friends was like - then I wanted more, and holding Gibby and having an enema with her, that is where it's at.

I didn't plan on adding all of this right now - so if there are some mistakes, chill, it's almost 2 a.m. and I think I want to give Gibby an enema right there on the couch. IF - Skuter doesn't have to be aired out.

Nite - 🌹

Lora,

Glad you were able to get to the bottom of it ( no pun intended ) and get things sorted out. I can see why you're kinda laughing now. 😄

Sounds like you've all adjusted well, thanks to Gibby's wonderful help. I think it definetly broke the ice and will make everyone more comfortable when you all get to the beach.

Take care and thanks for the detailed explanation, Mike 😃 🌹

I want to start out by saying - Tom and I are definitely going to get one of those sex swings. It will probably be something like this - https://www.amazon.com/360-Degree-Spinning-Sex-Swing/dp/B005GFY57I and both of us are laughing our asses off at what Amazon.com is selling these days! 😄 😄 😄

I hope you all will be patient with me - I tend to write a lot, but writing is my way of thinking through things. I have a lot to think about - this past couple of weeks has seen Tom and I getting naked with two other couples who we do a lot of things together, vacations, going to shows, games, dinners, parties. But now we have gone naked together - just some things like a couple of dinners, a breakfast in the buff, and visiting.

It's going real good between Tom and me - he's giving me enemas, even without me having to ask. Those see through enema bags Gibby gave us - well, it's like a new toy for Tom and he really likes to watch the water level go down as the enema goes into me. He is also letting me give him some enemas - and, a very real big step for him, and us, was when he gave Gibby a couple of enemas, and she gave him one. That was a major step for us - but that was just between the three of us. Where that will take us - if anywhere, is not really known yet. It sounds strange - but when Gibby was giving Tom an enema, there was just something about him being willing to try this that made me fall in love with him all over again. 🌹

But there are a couple of things that have happened - some things I have found out, that have really woke me up, about me, my husband, and our friends. Ruthie and I have had sex with each other - I may write about how that happened, but it was the result of all of us friends deciding to try the naked or nude at home lifestyle out. I found out - that out of the six of us, I was the only one who did not know that Ruthie and Dave and Beth Anne and Steve were already going naked at their homes. I also found out - that they are also 'doing each other' at their homes too. And also I found out - that Tom had been approached by Ruthie, and yes, there was sex involved. She's an attractive woman - and, as I said, just this past Monday, and Tuesday, and Wednesday, I did Ruthie too. It's one of the reasons I've been curious about something called - switching.

Tom and Ruthie did the deed at about the time - that Tom decided to hang a hook on the sewing room wall so that Gibby could do her enemas. It was also about the time - that the big push from our friends and Tom to go to a nude beach really started to gain momentum. I was looking up things about nudism here - and getting to read about some people's experiences. This has helped me - a lot of things here have helped me find some peace, and do some exploring, and be a better wife, and friend, I hope.

Even though I found myself out of the loop with my friends here at home - I found out that, sexually, at least compared to Ruthie, I am not out of the loop, and she isn't as dominant of a personality as she thinks she is. Some of you may wonder why I am not livid - or pissed at my husband fucking my best friend, and some of you know the answer, and know I'm no angel by a long shot.

For the most part I have finally got what I wanted - it's been almost 2 years to get here, and in so many ways I am a rube. My husband and our friends want to become sexually involved with each other - Tom I know for sure won't want anything to do with a guy touching him at all, and I'm pretty sure Dave and Steve are the same way. But I thought I knew a lot before - I am willing to bet on Tom not wanting to be with a man. I know Ruthie likes girls 😉 - and she and Beth Anne have been 'besties' for almost a year now. I never saw that one coming - but if Ruthie was any indication of their 'skills' then they have a lot to learn.

So now for a somewhat serious question - 'swapping' or 'swinging' is what I am trying to figure out. In my little mind - 'swapping' is when couples exchange partners and are pretty much exclusive with each other. And I am thinking that - 'swinging' is more or less couples going out to parties with just about anyone and 'doing' them or they are into larger 'social circles'. Trying to figure this out is something I need to do - because if I am going to fuck Dave or Steve, I need to know that the only people they are fucking are Ruthie and Beth Anne, and that none of them are fucking half of Clark County or upper state wherever or the west side of some city two counties over. Maybe I'm just getting picky in my old age - but I'm too old to be lining up behind some sweet young things at a clinic somewhere getting treated for an STD's, or the CDC asking me, 'who have you fucked in the past year?'

I really want to know all of this - because when Tom and I are talking to our friends, I want to know what I am talking about. I think I will be ok with 'swapping' - as I think it might be, but no way to 'swinging.'

So - that's where I am at. I will add more later - that will be more along the lines of, for an example, how I owned Ruthie when she thought she was going to show me how to fuck another woman. 😈

I really want to know all of this - because when Tom and I are talking to our friends, I want to know what I am talking about. I think I will be ok with 'swapping' - as I think it might be, but no way to 'swinging.'

So - that's where I am at. I will add more later - that will be more along the lines of, for an example, how I owned Ruthie when she thought she was going to show me how to fuck another woman. 😈

@Lora ... LOL ... 😄 ...

It probably would be important to know the difference between ... swapping and swinging ... for everyone involved.

I want to see that swing ... hanging from your bedroom ceiling ... 😄

Susie who is the carpenter?. sounds like you know your way around building,resessing in drywall etc

as red green says that if women dont find you handsome you can be at least handy

Hi again Lora C 🌹(for the gazillionth time 😁)

I get the distinct impression there's a bit of schoolin going on. .there's a new Headmistress goin down. .& she's taking it as it cums. .butt not without some deep probing. .could there be more than one avenue opening up

Interesting how one responds when their arse is on the line. . .reminds me of that now classic -."sista's doin it" & hubby has his hands full. .by the bagful it seems

Someones in the drivers seat . just remember to keep your eyes on the road ahead. 😜

"Exploring with Friends" - You've got that down sweet 🌹