Prostate Massage

@oldasrocks

I am looking a place to get an honest prostate massage. My urologist suggested this and said she is not trained for it. She had no idea of where to send me. She told me to ejaculate at least 3 times a week to keep cleaned out. So far it is working and I can pee with no problems. But per her suggestion I am still looking if anyone has an idea of who could do that for me. I am 71 and live in central Missouri.

Old As:

Yes, finding a good clinical prostate massage might be difficult in central Missouri. You may have to travel to KC or STL to find a practitioner who could help you. It might work to call urologists in the city closest to you and ask if that physician has "additional training or certification" in prostate problems. Some "old school" who perform prostate massage may still be around.

One alternative that could work for you is use of prostate vibrators. Lelo Loki is specifically designed for prostate massage and very powerful. I use mine several times a month. There are many high-quality prostate massagers on the market right now that could help you.

Another alternative (that might be illegal in your area) would be to use the services of a sensual massage therapist, escort, or sex worker that would provide prostate massage. Over the years, I've had some amazingly effective prostate massages from those providers.

Good Luck!

My first wife was an RN and introduced me to prostate massage. To make a long story short, she would bring a towel into the bedroom with her and tell me to either lay across her knee or over her lap. At first, i was apprehensive of course, but once she got me to relax and let her in, the sensations were great. She told me she figured i would like it since when i would get excited my pre-cum would run like a faucet was turned on, I was actually embarrassed by it, but she reassured me it was normal and she liked it. She would work my prostate until there was a huge wet spot on the towel. This became an often used method of play!

Prostate stimulation and orgasms are awesome! Once you have experienced the intense waves of pleasure, you will be hooked! Lots of information out there to help you find the path! One good source is Aneros.com - they also have prostate toys to stimulate the area on the journey to pure enjoyment!

I was going to an adult theater for some relief, only to find it was closed. Next door was a not so reputable massage parlor and their building was closing as well. So I went in and she had me undress. While she was rubbing my body and my erect penis, the topic of a prostate massage came up. She volunteered to do it for no extra charge. I was on my back as she inserted her middle finger and found my prostate. She worked it along with working my cock and the orgasm was tremendous. So, if your looking for someone to administer this technique, look for a massage parlor. You may have to travel to a larger city to find one.

Wish my fingers were longer. Hard to find a lady to play with.

When my prostate was removed some years back, I discussed “nerve sparing” surgery with my urologist, but she thought it safer to do the usual prostatectomy. It is interesting that some nerves have either regenerated, or must have been spared, as I still have fair sensation there and enjoy a long, through anal massage. I’m hopeful that others who have undergone radical prostate surgery have faired as well.

This is very hard to do well alone, unless you are unusually flexible, and as regards using objects instead of fingers, you lose the sense of feeling. You really need a willing partner.

Women who do this willingly and skilfully may gain the huge admiration of their men, and perhaps ruin sex for them with any other less cooperative women. Surely the most intimate pleasure she can give him. When combined say with oral sex at the same time, the arousal is off the scale. The guy will truly be putty in your hands. Monitoring the size & feeling of his prostate of course has health benefits, and perhaps combined with checking his testicles at the same time, this will be one routine he happily agrees to.

A couple of years ago I developed a small lump on one side of my prostate gland. I was treated with antibiotics for prostatitis for a couple of months, and fortunately there was no cancer, and the lump eventually went away. Before we got the "all-clear" diagnosis @Sirensong would examine me to see if the lump was growing. I would lie on my belly in bed, and open my legs so she could sit between them and have comfortable access to my passage. She would put a glove on, and lubricate me well before inserting one and sometimes two fingers. When she found my prostate, she would gently massage it, taking much more time than needed to simply look for a lump. I never asked her, but I often wondered if she enjoyed it as much as I did. Needless to say, I never complained. Her fingers stretching my anus was both indescribably relaxing and breath-takingly intimate. The massage generated waves of pleasure throughout my lower colon and stimulated my prostate to produce semen which pleasurably leaked from the tip of my cock. We often ended those sessions by making love. I normally require a lot of stimulation before I can orgasm, but after these sessions I orgasmed much faster than I usually do, and on more than one occasion we orgasmed together which is an incredible feeling. I have wondered, but cannot explain, why her prostate massage accelerated my orgasm .... perhaps we need to do more research. 😈

Ising beads or aneros for me Or wife will massage with fingers if in the mood.

not a fan of vibrators inserted. Prefer the feeling that manual control of the aid gives.

Having your prostate Massaged while having oral sex is the ultimate mind blowing experience! Just had one this morning…….awesome!!

OMG! The thought of @sirensong doing that just made my toes curl!

Got to enjoy the most with a partner doing the probe, rubbing, and driving if using toys, true blessing enjoy

Having your prostate Massaged while having oral sex is the ultimate mind blowing experience! Just had one this morning…….awesome!!

I've had it done many times, and like you say , AWESOME!!! 😜

Wish I knew someone who was experienced at giving this

Vibrating dildoes are the best for prostate massage especially if your partner is doing the massaging! Love it!!!

Love to have one everyday

The Chinese lady I go to gives a great prostate massage. She gives a great massage also, but knows how to finger me. She starts massaging my butt, teasing my hole. I spread my legs as far as I can. She gets more oil on her fingers and slowly slides one in, then 2. As she's massaging me, she leans down and wispered “ I fuck you” . After I turned over, I was a mess down there. She asked you cum. I replied no, but I like you fingering me. After a little more massage, she wrapped her fingers around my penis, started pumping and slid her finger back in my hole. Explosive cum then

Finger is best to start, I do it with my own finger so I can find and feel. Then toys work too

I had been using the N-Joy tool to play with my Prostate. At first, I had wonderful experiences but then I was having bad results, just no good sensations. After a bit, I realized what the problem was. I was rubbing an area that was entirely to high! The next time, I lowered my spot and got back those wonderful feelings again. Nothing Better than having an expression of pure bliss on my face.

Yes I have had a couple of them they're fucking amazing. I have given a few to other as well and they seemed to enjoy them.

I have given many prostate massage's everyone i have done it too say they have never experienced such a powerful and wonderful orgasm if you go slow with a lot of lube you will be amazed how your man will react. I usually start with a good enema so the person dosen't feel like he has to go to the bathroom that way you can insure him he is clean and relaxed. i usually use a gloved finger because once i feel the prostate i start rubbing it very slowly you will feel whrn your guy is ready to shoo because the prostate gland will get hard and than press on it very gently most men scream with excitement.

I have given many prostate massage's everyone i have done it too say they have never experienced such a powerful and wonderful orgasm if you go slow with a lot of lube you will be amazed how your man will react. I usually start with a good enema so the person dosen't feel like he has to go to the bathroom that way you can insure him he is clean and relaxed. i usually use a gloved finger because once i feel the prostate i start rubbing it very slowly you will feel whrn your guy is ready to shoo because the prostate gland will get hard and than press on it very gently most men scream with excitement.

Once a woman does it to you, you're hooked… fucking mind blowing!!

Once a woman does it to you, you're hooked… fucking mind blowing!!

You got that right! 😜

The only comfortable object that helps me, is a long string of gelled anal beads. Anything else is too large for comfort.

I use an Aneros prostate massager. Once you get the technique down, it's amazing. It does take time and some practice. Don't hurry through it. “Cleaning out the pipes” now and again does feel wonderful.

Once a woman does it to you, you're hooked… fucking mind blowing!!

Prostate toys and plastic/silicon etc massagers don't hold a candle to 1 on 1 prostate massage. Whether it's a woman or a man(if that's your thing) giving you a real prostate massage - it beats the hell out of any toy. Personally, I found prostate toys disappointing. My best toy was my wife!

A woman taking her time to build you up slowly and finally bringing you to orgasm is the best, no toy can compare…..

I love a good massage, wife has done it a few times and I have been able to cum hands free while receiving anal.

Giving your man a prostate massage is one of the most intimate, physically arousing, and healthy things you can do for him. Every man needs this done to him periodically if anything to maintain urinary health. Several men of my family have prostate issues, so I make sure my husband has his prostate drained to help prevent these problems. The first few times I didn't know if he'd want me doing this to him. So I experimented by slipping a digit up his backdoor playing around a few times. He accepted it just fine, so I gave him his first prostate massage and he's been hooked since. We've experimented over the years with various massagers and vibrators to help give him maximum stimulation. But to be honest, he prefers just having me use my index and middle finger just a couple inches in his butt. It's more intimate, and I can feel and contact his prostate more directly using my fingers. Giving him a couple enemas or a colonic beforehand is a must for cleanliness sake, and to help relax him before being penetrated. He's usually very ready for it. I think it's best having him lie down on his back and pull his knees toward his chest. This allows me full access to his genitals and rectum, and I prefer to maintain eye contact as I penetrate him. Other ways that are good is having him on all fours or lying down left-sims like for an enema. It's amazing to watch how a man reacts when he's receiving maximum stimulation of his prostate to the point of orgasm. My husband has cried out in joy at times…..literally tears…..he usually has goosebumps all over his butt and legs, he'll buck his hips and quiver. All you really need to do to send him into ultimate bliss is to rhythmically kneed your fingers in a semi-firm but gentle “come hither” motion right against his gland. It feels like a tip of a nose, or a walnut like most people say, but it's full of nerve endings that causes so much pleasure. One thing you'll notice kneading the prostate is the amount of clear fluid coming from his penis even before he has an ejaculation. This clear fluid is directly from the prostate and it's healthy to force it out from the gland ever so often so it doesn't cause him health problems.