Prostate Massage

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Thanks, Susie.

Pmoi,

I've written some other posts on prostate massage from my own experience doing it which has been very rewarding. I wrote a fairly decent post on 8/31/16 in this same thread, below,

https://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=787220

which describes how to find your prostate (either you or your partner, using fingers or toys) which you may find helpful. It's mostly based on your own sensation when you finally find your prostate. Take a look and if you like I can post another message to elaborate on finding it. Believe me, when you or your partner find it and start massaging it, with or without other stimulation, you'll be glad you did. Stay curious!

Eric

How do i request a prostate massage without sounding like im out of my mind?

How do i request a prostate massage without sounding like im out of my mind?

You go to a masseuse or other sex worker.

You DO NOT ask a physician or genuine health care provider.

You go to a masseuse or other sex worker.

I'm curious, is this something that women at asian massage parlors regularly do? What's the best way to let them know that I'd like them to give me a prostate massage (keeping in mind that English is likely not their native language)?

Look up a craigslist or backpage ad and call them.

Regardless of what they say, they probably don't know how to do one and will end up simply sticking their finger up your ass.

Dude31, its been a long time, and I haven't had the best luck with my wife, but here's my take. Don't say that the doctor gave you a prostate exam and it felt so good, that's a recipe for awkwardness. Guy doctor, "are you gay" flip-out, woman doctor and she's going to think she's a rival. She also might compare to her exams and wonder what's up with you that you would like that. Tell her you like it when she touches your anus. Tell her you'd like to try her penetrating you. Tell her you tried just to see what it was like and you liked it but doing it with the love of your life would be so much better. Tell her that you'll make sure you're clean. Tell her after you've rocked her world somehow, but probably not in the bedroom. Of course if you are into MedFet as a couple you can probably go straight for the med aspect.

You can always do your own. I've tried a lot of prostate massaging toys. The best one I've found is this one:

https://www.amazon.com/Metal-Solid-Three-Balls-Adult/dp/B00O35MSPI

It's not specifically a prostate massage toy, but when inserted backward (from the front), it does the job. Lube it up, insert it anally with the handle in front, and work it in and out while applying outward pressure against the front of your rectum. You can't miss your prostate while doing this. For me it always milks enough clear prostate fluid to use as my only lube for a slippery-style hand job. A couple of times I came very close to orgasm with only the hook touching me--a very intense experience repeatable multiple times, once every few minutes for me.

I've used a Pure Wand, dildos and fingers on myself. For fingers the best I've found is lie on your side, reach around the back, and slide your thumb up you as far as you can. I can hit about half to two thirds of my prostate and its comfortable.

Nothing like someone else, though. Do ask.

@WildBill2 thank you for the link! I just ordered it for my husband. ?? I am really looking forward to surprising him when it gets here. ?

You're very welcome Ms Lila. I think he'll really enjoy it. Please let us (or me personally) know how he reacts.

He might also enjoy this: https://www.extremerestraints.com/bizarre-butt-plugs_7/anal-intruder-cockring_2845.html

It's a little tough for me to get into, (and it into me), but it really hits my P-spot too. Get him to wear it. Then blindfold him, restrain his hands behind his back, tie a leash to the top of the ring, and pull him around the house. Every little tug will give him a thrill ! I almost guarantee he'll be heavily dripping pre-cum. 😄

Last week, I enjoyed the best prostate massage I have ever experienced. In this instance, my asian massuese periodically "teased" my anus and perineum while I was laying face down on the massage table. Her teases turned into deeper and deeper probing of my anus. After she knew that I was comfortable with the situation, she eased the thumb of her left hand into my well lubricated rectum while she was standing to my right side of the table while I was still laying face down. She then made a "V" with her index and middle fingers of the same hand putting the base of my penis and scrotum inside of the "V". She then made stroking motions over my perineum and around my penis and scrotum with these two fingers while thrusting her thumb in and out of my rectum. This was accompanied by a squeezing sensation of her thumb pressing on the prostate internally and the index and middle fingers pushing on the prostate externally. The sensation was absolutely amazing. When I doubted it could get any better, she worked her right hand under my abdomen and stroked my penis rhythmically with the prostate work being done on me with her left hand. I orgasmed after only a few minutes with copious amounts of semen and deep, long convulsions. This was the best prostate massage I have yet to experience and look forward to a return visit in the very near future.

It take time and lub but to me a gloves hand and figer in m'y ass make me drull and come many time to the pleasure of m'y parner and me

Fresh news from Daily Mail,

Man, 63, got addicted to uncontrollable orgasms after he learned to give himself multiple 'Super-Os' with a prostate-massaging butt plug.

A 63-year-old man found he could give himself intense orgasms using a prostate massager he bought to soothe the symptoms of an infection

Stimulating the prostate may cause men to have these kinds of orgasms because it triggers many muscle contractions

The developed an addiction to his full-body pleasure

He tried to stop using the toy, but found his brain was 'rewired'

He would orgasm just from lying in the position he usually used the toy in

Eventually, he weened himself off of his addiction, and can now climax up to 10 times during sex

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-5206767/Man-got-addicted-butt-plug-super-orgasms.html

Personally, I find prostate massage delightful., especially when done by a female lover during sex play. It has led to powerful orgasms. The first time it happened, my whole body shook uncontrollably and I orgasmed for what seemed like several minutes instead of the usual penile orgasm, which while wonderful, lasts less than a minute. I have been unable to reach my own prostate with just my fingers or thumb, but I have been able to stimulate it with various toys. While it feels incredible, I still prefer to have mine massaged by my lover. The intimacy of having someone play with your anus and insert their finger or fingers inside heightens the arousal and usually leads to a very strong orgasm.

Some times my wife, and also another female friend, would give me a prostate massage while I am holding a 2 liter enema.

First they would give me 3 enemas to clean my colon. She would then give me the 2 liter enema and while I was holding it she would slowly introduce her finger into my rectum. She said she could feel the warm water in me and that she could reach and touch my prostate easily with the enema as my rectum is enlarged with the water.

She would introduce her finger slowly and carefully so that the water would not leak as she got her finger in me.

I have always been able to hold 2 liters after the first enema without any discomfort or cramps.

They do it on the bed while I lie on my back with my legs bent.

The feeling of holding an enema and have a prostate massage at the same time is an incredible sexual feeling. The amount of sperm I ejaculate that way is much more than when they masturbate me while holding an enema, which is the normal way when they give me some enemas.

I am very interested in this but have yet to have it work. I have felt pleasure through my prostate via fingers or toys but never even a small amount of liquid leaking from my penis let alone any of sort of hands free orgasm.

Just bought a new penis shaped dildo to day as my insertable massager died on me. This is a little bigger and I hope it works out.

My wife is ok with me doing it, but she only plays with me while I do it. That's ok though.

I've been on a quest to experience a prostate orgasm. We've tried fingers, dildos and our favorite enema nozzle. I experienced drips of cum from my cock but not streams like I might usually expect. When being explored by fingers she finds a spot that feels like part of an orgasm. It is wild sustained pleasurable bundle of nerves but no cum.

What am I to expect from prostate milking? How can I achieve a prostate orgasm? Is it the same as a usual one?

Boomer--The company that makes Aneros products has extensive library, forums, & chat areas about this subject. You might find additional info there.

www.aneros.com

Taurus395,

Some times my wife, and also another female friend, would give me a prostate massage while I am holding a 2 liter enema.............She would then give me the 2 liter enema and while I was holding it she would slowly introduce her finger into my rectum. She said she could feel the warm water in me and that she could reach and touch my prostate easily with the enema as my rectum is enlarged with the water.

She would introduce her finger slowly and carefully so that the water would not leak as she got her finger in me.

They do it on the bed while I lie on my back with my legs bent.

The feeling of holding an enema and have a prostate massage at the same time is an incredible sexual feeling. The amount of sperm I ejaculate that way is much more than when they masturbate me while holding an enema, which is the normal way when they give me some enemas.

Wow. I'm really impressed that you two can manage an enema plus prostate massage with no major leaks. I do my own prostate massage with an njoy PureWand, but I've never done or had done to me a prostate massage while holding an enema. It sounds extremely erotic and I'd love to try it. At least with my PureWand I wind up doing so much in and out and side to side motion that if I was full of even just 2 quarts I'd be making a big mess from leakage. Maybe it's different and you can control your anal movement more if it's done by an experienced finger instead of a toy. More power to you. I'm glad you've got such a great solution to erotic prostate massage. Have fun.

Eric

I love the intensity of a prostate massage. I remember squatting in the bathtub. The warm water was running onto my penis, and I was fingering my asshole. I hit the right spot, and I i had a very intense orgasm. still think about it, today.

I clean out with 2 qt enema then insert the Lelo Loki Wave which includes perineum finger.

Like the lowest intensity of vibration with both anal and perineum motors running.

A play doc would stimulate me for five minutes with the Loki, and then tease frenulum ultra lightly with tip of feather.

This produce strongest release.

Alternatively, stimulate with Loki and estim with bands placed around frenuleum and scrotum, again slow rhythmic waves. That's almost as good.

Thoroughly enjoy solo prostate play - would be even better with a partner! Have been doing it solo for over a year. See my album under images - any questions send me a note! Just gets better and better as you develop techniques and learn from others!

"Wow. I'm really impressed that you two can manage an enema plus prostate massage with no major leaks. I do my own prostate massage with an njoy PureWand, but I've never done or had done to me a prostate massage while holding an enema. It sounds extremely erotic and I'd love to try it. At least with my PureWand I wind up doing so much in and out and side to side motion that if I was full of even just 2 quarts I'd be making a big mess from leakage. Maybe it's different and you can control your anal movement more if it's done by an experienced finger instead of a toy. More power to you. I'm glad you've got such a great solution to erotic prostate massage. Have fun.

Eric" because I

Eric, it is all a question of learning to squeeze your asshole. I am used because I like to walk around the house with an enema in me. When she inserts the finger have your asshole squeezed. If her finger is well lubricated it will go in no matter how hard you squeeze it.

I like them it's not my favorite but I'm real good at giving them

I tried finding prostate using finger and prostate massager I couldn't able to stimulate it.

However yesterday while playing with dildo, taking it from behind in standing position.

I hit the jackpot, man it was awesome feeling, with help of my hand I had my first full body orgasm.

I am hooked. 😄

For anyone on FloMax have your doctor switch you to Cialis and everything will work again. FloMax kills all desires.

I am looking a place to get an honest prostate massage. My urologist suggested this and said she is not trained for it. She had no idea of where to send me. She told me to ejaculate at least 3 times a week to keep cleaned out. So far it is working and I can pee with no problems. But per her suggestion I am still looking if anyone has an idea of who could do that for me. I am 71 and live in central Missouri.

I just love the feeling of getting deeply penetrated and rubbing my prostate..... i think the first time i experienced it was the best... i had just taken a 2qt enema and had purchased a vibrating butt plug earlier that day. it was larger than i should have purchased but i had been pretty worked up. By the time i was trying to get it in i really was wound up and got it to pop in with some effort and frankly a little wince. it felt really good inside me holding the enema.... but it's when i turned on the vibration that's when my world changed.... i was in a head place that i had never been in before and my orgasm literally shook me from head to toe. A totally unrivaled experience.