Do men find a "fat" pussy to be repulsive?

My wife weighs perhaps 240 lbs. Her pussy is not repulsive, just difficult to get at.

Her weight is not the issue, the issue is, you need to explore, find, and use ways, and methods to please her!! Lots of wonderful ways to please a lady, and her figure has nothing to do with it, it's called love, and exploring ways to make love, and make it satisfying, for your partner!! Mr Peacock, figured out nice ways to use his Pee-cock :-) Mike.

"Fat" is a very relative term. If you're obese and packing on still more weight the genitals' appearance might be too narrow a focus. Also, it may not be your lady parts' appearance a guy recoils from - some guys "go downtown" out of obligation at best, and are not fond of the taste or scent. I'm not one of them, for the record, but just like some women who find fellatio off-putting (makes her gag, hates the taste of semen, pubic hairs flossing their teeth etc) some men just don't get into it. Maybe they'd rather just get into you already...

I do not, not at all.

A fat pussy comes with a fat, out of shape body.

I never saw one without the other.

Has anybody here seen a woman in reasonable shape with a "fat pussy?" . . . I didn't think so.

It's certainly possible to be turned off by obesity despite genitalia being offered to you.

OK, you guys. You're sending mixed messages. You ogle videos and photos of nubile young women on this very site, be it an anus or a vulva, and go on and on about how gorgeous the pink, bleached, depilated body parts are. One particular one that comes to mind involves a tantra massage with an enema. Though it can be arousing for both men and women, it's enough to make any woman feel self-conscious. I am glad that you are finally 'fessing up here. What you drool over tends to be a fantasy, but in reality, hopefully, you are not that shallow. The proliferation of nudity, call it "porn" if you like, has established unrealistic standards for "normal" women.

Check out "The Labia Library," ladies. http://www.labialibrary.org.au/

Furthermore, it is somewhat unkind to tell someone with body dysmorphia to "do something about it." Whether real or exaggerated, we all have to accept and love who we are before we are motivated to change a thing. I would suggest to the larger women to go out and find some pretty underwear or lingerie. Feel pretty, because you probably are. Buy some new shoes or a nice purse, if that's easier. It all adds to the confidence matter.

I am over seventy and have a decent figure. Over time, gravity pulls everything toward the center of the earth. My pussy may seem fat if compared to that of a twenty-year-old. I believe it is still attractive and still works.

Furthermore, it is somewhat unkind to tell someone with body dysmorphia to "do something about it." Whether real or exaggerated, we all have to accept and love who we are before we are motivated to change a thing. I would suggest to the larger women to go out and find some pretty underwear or lingerie.

IMO, you are entirely correct, Mathgirl, it has to come from within. It can be done, weightloss, that is. I doubt that anyone ever responded to criticism by losing pounds. but remarkable things can be done if one is motivated.

A fat pussy comes with a fat, out of shape body.

I never saw one without the other.

Has anybody here seen a woman in reasonable shape with a "fat pussy?" . . . I didn't think so.

It's certainly possible to be turned off by obesity despite genitalia being offered to you.

In this case I do agree. It's sad, perhaps that some people do not want to be with an obese person. That's just the way it is . Kookie, you CAN do something about your condition, but frankly I doubt that it would be your pussy that would be the problem. There are men who seek out obese women, If you are seriously overweight, you may find such a man, and he will no doubt be delighted with your pussy.

Sorry Susie ?, I disagree about not seeing thin girls with fat pussys . I have seen many many pics and videos of thin females , super thin even anorexic looking having very large pussys . As with breasts they come in all shapes and sizes . I am not talking about artificial pumped pussys either . I know I probably watch too much porn ( hehehe)

That being said , being in the bbw category , which I dont like the label , I prefer the new age lingo " thick" although not much better . I have what I call a puffy pussy . After years of self loathing my body I have thankfully began to embrace it , with the loving endless compliments and reassurances from a very special someone. I was never comfortable enough to take naughty pics , until now and I sooo love his reaction to them .

Ladies embrace what you have , and there are lots of men and women that will love every inch of you .

Sorry Susie ?, I disagree about not seeing thin girls with fat pussys . I have seen many many pics and videos of thin females , super thin even anorexic looking having very large pussys . . . . .

FAT pussy is not a LARGE pussy.

Fat is fat and anatomically large is large.

Susie, I was trying not to overuse the word fat . I googled skinny women with FAT pussys and boom there they were ! Skimmed thru the obvious pumped ones , and some that just looked so disfigured that I am thinking they were somehow altered and low and behold there were still many skinny chicks with natural fat pussys.

What are "artificially pumped pussies?" What is a "puffy" pussy? Please differentiate one from another. Are you talking about the labia majora? Is this a good thing or a bad thing? Is it harder to get at the labia minora with puffy outer labia? Do men have a preference? Inquiring minds want to know.

Some of the very young and very thin porn stars appear to have little to no labia majora at all. They look like Mattel's attempt at creating an anatomically correct Barbie Doll.

Susie, I was trying not to overuse the word fat . I googled skinny women with FAT pussys and boom there they were ! Skimmed thru the obvious pumped ones , and some that just looked so disfigured that I am thinking they were somehow altered and low and behold there were still many skinny chicks with natural fat pussys.

I realize that, but the photos you got (and I got) were postings by porno sites. They have no medically or physiologically valid descriptions. They are simply pornographic photos.

FAT is not the same thing as LARGE.

A seven foot tall basketball player who weighs 300 pounds is a LARGE person. He is NOT fat.

The same goes for pussies.

Mathgirl , you are darling ! I chuckled at your last paragraph , your assessment is dead on , I couldnt agree more !

When I ( only speaking for myself ) refer to a pussy being fat I am talking about the vulva area and the mons pubis . Sheesh the shape and size of the major and minor labia are a whole other category ! Haha

As far as preference I think that falls into the to each his own category . Maybe more members will chime in . ?

Bridgette,

And can someone get their "mons pubis" artificially pumped? Is it injected with collagen? Live and learn. I am assuming that this is an attribute. Just let the bush grow and no one will know the difference.

I guess I'm one of the lucky ones that never needed artificial pumping. Lucky me. If you live long enough and maybe had a couple of babies, it will plump up all by itself.

I'm kinda funny about pussies.. Their size and shape doesn't seem to matter all that much to me.

If the OWNER of the pussy in question turns me on, then their pussy definitely turns me on. if the person themselves is a turn off, then it's just another body body part.

And please.. Do NOT get your mons pubis "enhanced". eeeew..

I have what I call a puffy pussy . After years of self loathing my body I have thankfully began to embrace it , with the loving endless compliments and reassurances from a very special someone. I was never comfortable enough to take naughty pics , until now and I sooo love his reaction to them .

One of the things I am enjoying most about it right now is how smooth it looks! Yum.

I don't find any "pussy" repulsive. Women's labia major and minor are a wonder of beauty. Donna, my partner has what I would call a medium size, what I call her "love box" whereas mine is a little bit smaller. And we both admire hold sacred each others especially when we are embraced in love making.

My only concern about a pussy is how it tastes

My two cents: I LOVE chubby or "fat" pussy! It is the best of the best. But, all pussies are beautiful.

You are not the only one. That was my impression at first too. Many pseudos are odd concoctions and not always easily pronounceable or identifiable. So I often just skim over them. That may be no defense in this case, but I might as well confess to the same failing.

It's like those paragraphs where the letters in all the words are jumbled except for the 1st & last letter of each word, and you can still read what the words are supposed to be with little difficulty. Then to go deeper, where they ask you to read a passage and then count how many F's, but some may miss the F's in the "of" words because the F sounds more like a V.

And then of course on this medfet website, we may be thinking of scalpels.....

And now to actually comment on the topic at hand. Coincidentally, I popped in my Larry Pierce CD while driving home last night. This is one of the songs, "Turn The Fuckin Lights Out"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BEIELKcZkOA

No not repulsive but unattractive.

Well, my two cents of unsolicited opinion. Men are visual creatures. Yes, YES! I know, 30 yrs ago I had a body like a Greek God now I just look like a "G" "D" Greek! thin/skinny girls are nice to look at, and I had my share over the years, but honestly, You guys ever bang a stick thin girl? Really put it to her? It's like sticking your junk between the slats of a picket fence! AND the next day your entire groin region is sore because all you were banging against was bone with skin over it! Call them Fat, fluffy, puffy BBW etc etc etc. Those "bigger" girls show you a good time! Yea sometimes it gets a little scary when your getting in position for a good hot 69 and she is lowering herself over your face and you look up and it looks like a B-52 coming at you with the bomb bay doors open, but you know what? Close your fucking eyes! Work with what you have! Not every guy is hung like John Homes so it's not how deep you guys fish but how you wiggle your worm! Not every woman is put together like a sports illustrated swim suit model. Which by the way do you guys realize the high maintenance on those high priced models!

THE POINT OF ALL OF THIS IS! Be kind! Work with what you have! Look past the outer package and the wrapping and you just might find a very lovely person inside who is need of some serious loving from a caring partner!

Dr J said

"No not repulsive but unattractive."

You certainly are entitled to your own opinion.

B-52 !!!! I love it

I personally find a fat pussy very attractive! I'm extremely oral and love to lick and suck a fat pussy,especially love to take those fat pussy lips in my lips and work on them! You should have no shame about this. Any man who would marry you and then find you unattractive due to a fat pussy is not worth it.Yay for fat pussys! Jim.

Hmm never gave it much thought myself. Since I don't have a lot of experience I may not be an authority anyway. My wife doesn't consider herself particularly attractive. I have always been captivated at her beauty though. While to me she has a gorgeous body. Others may not think so. What I fell hugely in love with is her inner beauty. We both love each other who could or would ask for anything more in a partner. It's nice she accepted my kinks but I'd have slammed the door on those to have her!

A fat pussy on a slim girl is wonderful.

Any pussy that is clean, and smells and tastes good, will work for me. 😜

If you mean large woman, I'm not attracted to large women. I do like women with big labia though. So hot.

It is not believable to me that a pussy can be not attractive however presented.

Am I fucked up?

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