Do men find a "fat" pussy to be repulsive?

It is a turn off for a man to see a fat girl's pussy?

I feel very embarrassed about my own "triangle". I'm worried about the day when I'll be in bed with my future husband and he will see it. I'm affraid that it will disgust him.

Oh no, how sad. Of course we would never dream of disparaging any female genitals. Every woman is different and each set of genitals has it's charms. Remember that it's really what's between the ears which is most attractive to me. A good mind, a golden heart and a quick wit trumps all.

Kookie--Why on earth would you see yourself as such...Take pride in the knowledge that their is beauty in each of us...Genitals can differ in many ways & has nothing to do with a persons "looks"....Any man that would judge another by the way they may appear "down there" is not worth surrendering your heart too....Beauty lay in the eye of the beholder.

Liquidsky has said it all. While we mere males might physically make love to a pussy we are actually making love to the whole person and this is where personality is so important. Relax Kookie ... I am sure you look great all over!

I have never heard of the term fat pussy. A pussy is a pussy is a pussy. Period. As long as it is clean n healthy, men like it.

I went to a street fair today and so a group of female belly dancers. Some dancers were fit and had flat hard stomach and perfect bodies. Some have chubby and less than chubby bodies n slightly rounded stomach. I can tell you, these chubby dancers look way more attractive as their fat jiggle abit as theyaredancing.

It sounds like you are not happy about beiing fat and the low self esteem spread down toyour pussy. If you are not happy about your body, do something to change it. Go to see a dietitian to get help on new meal plans. Then walk everyday for 30 minutes, rain or shine. Or go see your doctor. Doctors are trained in this too. Don't take sliming teas or pills.

Remember, in the eyes of hungry normal men, any naked women look wonderful.

best of luck, darling. Don't be in hurry.

I've been with a big girl and her pussy was as beautiful as of any smaller girl I've been with and she was absolutely marvellous in bed. It is your mind that makes all the difference - how fun you are to be with. The enthusiasm, willingness, curiosity, tenderness, attention and so many other things do all the difference between someone you hardly wait to be with again or someone you wish you didn't make the mistake of going in bed with. Self confidence is the biggest stimulus, work on that. Wish you all the best!

Is it a turn off? Absolutely not. Long term love or one night stand, he's not going to sit across the room and just stare at it. No, he wants to get up close and personal with it. And he's got something he'd love to put in it. Besides, they all look alike in the dark.

I'm a bigger woman myself and the guys I was with enjoyed my pussy quite a bit, especially my hubby, he can eat for days and loves the way it looks, he says it looks yummy and tasty, when we're in bed I have to say "c'mon Adam, you can stop eating it now, I want you inside of me" LOL

Liquidsky said it well. To his point I would add that, with regards to your future husband, physical/sexual attraction is part of the equation as well. So if he's marrying you, you're good to go!

The question should not even be asked! Be proud and confident with yourself!

Personally speaking, I have never met a pussy I didn't like. 😃

I have never found any pussy "repulsive". Before I met my wife, I had an active sex life and encountered many different shaped vulvas. Large mounds, no mounds, large labia, small labia, one large & one small labia, large clitoris, small clitoris etc. These were on big girls, small girls, tall girls & short girls etc. I won't go on about the various shapes and sizes, except to say that all girls are different and that is what you call normal.

Whether you are looking for a relationship or a one night stand, I am quite certain you will find a man who will appreciate you for who you are. The biggest turn on is a woman who is confident in bed and isn't afraid to take the lead.

The short answer is no! There are all types of bodies for all types of people. I am sure you will find someone who will love you for who you are!

I agree with Afternine.

Enthusiasm, curiosity, willingness to explore and experiment are far more important than any visual characteristic. Flirting, teasing, offering yourself and your voracious appetite for sexual play will win over any person worth spending time with.

Go get 'em!

My wife is perhaps 100 lbs overweight, which means that her fat pussy is difficult to get to between her fat thighs. As a result, I am barely long enough to penetrate a significant distance inside of her and I have to control the length of my stroke. Also, it is difficult to spread her lips and look at or lick her parts. So, in all, fucking and playing with her is difficult and not particularly satisfying.

Do I find her fat pussy repulsive? No, not at all. Just relatively inaccessible and difficult to play with.

hankb

Hankb

Well... That sucks.

What I find super sexy is someone who is really into having sex and doing things that both partners want to do. That said, physical looks really are less important- you can still have great sex.

You know the old saying: Attitude is everything. And that certainly applies to sex.

We men find all pussy sexy, attractive and beautiful. Trust me, your future husband will love it, and do all sorts of things to it.

Remember that it's really what's between the ears which is most attractive to me. A good mind, a golden heart and a quick wit trumps all.

Imagine you add up all these qualities in a slender figure.

Kookie, if you do not like your figure do something about it.

Or accept yourself.

Don'y be embarrassed about this. This is who you are and you should own it. There are guys with fat cocks and girls with fat pussies. I think they look better.

A dear friend of mine told me when I was about 18. To quote him "Pussy is pussy even on a cow, and the worst I ever had was wonderful!

Someone said "the question should not even be asked".

There is *NO* question that should not be asked.

Having gotten that out of the way, the girl is the girl. Some folks have narrower, some broader interests. I happen to be fine either way. I married a beautiful, adventurous muscular girl. Now she's a chubby beautiful muscular girl. She's still *Some Girl*.

About penetration, someone responded to that post with "That sucks!". Depending on how one wants to take that, think "69".

You are who you are. dont worry about things you cannot control!

I have never seen a naked women I didn't like, all sizes, large or small. You should be proud of your body and not be afraid to share it with your partner openly

I've been in a relationship with someone for four years now. The first year was great, sex couldn't have been better and I was relieved and excited to finally have found the partner I dreamed of. After the first year, sex declined drastically. We were doing it once, maybe twice a week if I was lucky. I caught a glimpse of his face while he was going down on me one evening and I saw a look of total disgust. It was obvious that he was not where he wanted to be let alone have to make contact with the monster he was staring dead in the eye. I told him not to do it and made up an excuse why I didn't want him to anymore. (one of the biggest regrets in my life) I often look at my snatch in the mirror when I'm showering and shaving, and I'll be the first to admit, I don't find it ideally pink and smooth like the ones I see in movies. As a matter of fact, I'm very insecure about it and I'm seriously looking into vaginal reconstruction. if I do something about it, I'll feel better about myself to the point that I will most likely have enough confidence to finally get myself out of the crummy situation that I'm in. We're down to having sex maybe twice a month now and I feel that I'm too young to just put my sex drive in a shelf to waste away. I'm tired of feeling like a dirty old man chasing my dude around and I'm sure it boils down to me just not being the one for him. Does that sound right?

So all bullshit aside, if you're not happy with what you got, do something that will help you regain your happiness. If it's not bothersome to you, stay the way you are.

I've always been attracted by the WOMAN not by her parts. If I'm truly attracted to the woman as a person, I am attracted to her body as well. At least, that's always been my experience, with a variety of women of quite different sizes and shapes and colors.

Viktoriana, before going for vaginal reconstruction, and the associated costs, please dump the bum and spend some time developing one for two relationships. See how that works out before stepping off the top rung of the ladder. My guess is that there are other males out there that will find your vagina just fine the way it is.

Viktoriana, I second the thoughts of rain and Richard.

You owe that to yourself.

The amazing thing about the human body is the incredible variety between people. People vary wildly when it comes to height, weight, eye color, hair color, skin color, shoe size,etc. So it follows that the private parts vary wildly in appearance too. It's easier to acknowledge that breasts and make genitals differ greatly between people, but so does the female genitals. The size of the labia majora and minora, the size of the vaginal opening, and the size and appearance of the clitoris are different for every woman.

My wife weighs perhaps 240 lbs. Her pussy is not repulsive, just difficult to get at.

hankb

Viktoriana, please take their advice and read all these responses . I can assure you , the bf is the one with the problem , not you . Find someone that appreciates all your assets. Life is too short to be unhappy in a relationship . Enjoy !

Hankb, I too have a wife that weights about the same as yours and I also found it difficult to get to her gorgeous pussy. But now we put a medium thick pillow right under her hips and butt and this tilts her pelvis just enough up that I have no problem entering the promised land.