Do men find a "fat" pussy to be repulsive?

Susie pretty much nailed it, especially if you look at younger males. For many 17 YO guys it needs to have tits and a heartbeat.

Susie pretty much nailed it, especially if you look at younger males. For many 17 YO guys it needs to have tits and a heartbeat.

It needs a VAGINA and a heartbeat.

Well, that has not been my experience. Not for flings and not for boyfriends. I've dated many types of men, a bodybuilder, someone shorter than me, someone over a foot taller than me... they wanted ME. Not settled for, wanted. Perhaps I am adept at never being anyone's consolation prize.

All bodies can go with all bodies but not all people go with all people. Finding the person(s) you go with is more important. To most people anyway.

Again, my experience has been by the time we are getting naked, I'm stoked to see their body and they mine.

I want a handsome, well put together sex partner if that's specifically what I am looking for--male or female. Of course if you get to know someone platonically before you have sex, that's one thing, but if I am looking for someone to have sex with, like at a club or a bar, I want someone who is well put together and takes care of him or herself--why shouldn't I? The way they look is important. I want someone who is trim and works out at least a little. Two people aren't going to really know more about each other than that they want to fuck each other upon meeting the first time anyway so appearance matters. Certainly if I am looking for a life partner, being handsome, and having a good physique is also another characteristic on my list of requirements:

honesty understanding truthful dependable intelligent kind clean responsible trustworthy well-spoken helpful educated appreciative disciplined well-mannered conscientious resourceful funny independent loving confident strong driven persuasive meticulous

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As Bridgette asked men, someone could ask the same questions to women:

So could a woman actually still get wet and aroused by an oversized guy ?

Being the last one left at a bar and maybe having beer goggles fixes that ?

Are some women that bad that they will fuck any guy regardless of his size ?

I have to weigh in here and Susie is certainly right that looks do count. My late partner was an oversized girl and we had many discussions before we ever met. By that time I knew she wasn't petite but from talking to her I knew she was sexy and anal as hell. To me it's not what's between your legs that matters the most but what is between your ears.That said it doesn't hurt either to look like Catherine Zeta Jones!

I have always been athletic, in shape and active. For a sexual partner, I look for the same. My wife was athletic, trim and in very good shape. I have male and female friends who are 'plus-sized', BBW/M, and/or obese and I cherish their friendship, respect them, but would have no desire to have a sexual relationship with them if I were single.

For me, friendship is based on what you got between the ears; sexual appeal is the same PLUS how well your body is put together and maintained. So it's more than just a hot body, vagina, and a heartbeat!!!

Rule#1 is that it sucks to get old. I quit working out after the bypass and it is time to get back at it. It sounds like I have no chance with Susie so I am starting my 2 mile run followed by a mile swim. After lunch weight lifting.

Rule#1 is that it sucks to get old. I quit working out after the bypass and it is time to get back at it. It sounds like I have no chance with Susie so I am starting my 2 mile run followed by a mile swim. After lunch weight lifting.

ALSO flexibility training because Total Sexual Satisfaction is rated the same as Olympic diving using multipliers for difficulty.

Total Sexual Satisfaction = Pleasure Derived X Difficulty to Perform

I didn't mention the yoga this evening

All the comments here are seriously interesting. I always like to hear what other's experience and/or feel related to the matter at question. In my experiences, I've had my lips referred to as 'fat', 'meaty', and 'thick' but not in a negative way. Over time, as I've gotten older, my lips have changed their shaped and color. I sometimes wonder too how my partner feels about my lips. But usually it all becomes a moot point as it hasn't stop us from being sexual with one another.

However, now being single again, I shall see what happens. It will be an interesting thought to see the reaction of the person I'm with next. As I feel that if you really do care for each other, then it shouldn't really matter.

As always, I enjoy reading and hearing everyone's view on all these issues.

My sub/husband took a chance on me. I have always been plus sized. That doesn't seem to change. But boy has my mind grown and opened up to kink in the last 10 plus years.

I dread the thought of who I'll find if something would ever happen to my sub. Who would ever want a Miss who gives enemas? No one round my neighborhood.

Xtrlvn4V said

In my experiences, I've had my lips referred to as 'fat', 'meaty', and 'thick' but not in a negative way. Over time, as I've gotten older, my lips have changed their shaped and color. I sometimes wonder too how my partner feels about my lips. But usually it all becomes a moot point as it hasn't stop us from being sexual with one another.

If you read the ORIGINAL POSTER'S POST, it is clarified there.

She asks about a FAT GIRL'S PUSSY, - NOT a "fat pussy"

https://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=689415

If fact is says that at the top of each page in this thread in the lavender box in BOLD print.

It's a good idea to read the original poster's post before replying so you know what she is talking about.

Love a nice plump pair of pussy lips. I also love a plump woman with a nice responsive pussy. I think looks are secondary to whether a woman's pussy responds to being stimulated. When I am close enough to be licking and teasing a woman's pussy it will be pretty much out of focus for me visually. But it will certainly be the focus of my attention.

Suzy says I want:

handsome, and having a good physique is also another characteristic on my list of requirements:

honesty understanding truthful dependable intelligent kind clean responsible trustworthy well-spoken helpful educated appreciative disciplined well-mannered conscientious resourceful funny independent loving confident strong driven persuasive meticulous

So you're looking for a Boy Scout eh? trustworthy, loyal , helpful, friendly, courteous, kind, obedient, cheerful, thrifty, brave, clean and reverent. It's a good thing the girls camp was NOT across the lake because we were all HORNY just the way you like.

. . . . So you're looking for a Boy Scout eh? trustworthy, loyal , helpful, friendly, courteous, kind, obedient, cheerful, thrifty, brave, clean and reverent. It's a good thing the girls camp was NOT across the lake because we were all HORNY just the way you like.

Looking for a KINKY Boy Scout. Were all the horny boys reasonably well built? I would be looking for one that's put together well. Whether we're face to face discussing the the nation's economy or between each other's legs, it's kind of difficult to ignore what is right in front of your face.

I only remember one fat kid Sooze, but I'm not sure he made it to the Boy Scouts, maybe just the Cub Scouts. Did I tell you I got kicked out of the Cub Scouts? For eating Brownies Ho, ho, ho!

@Moppys_jalopy

it doesn't hurt either to look like Catherine Zeta Jones!

I'm trying, but I am afraid to begin with that I am of the very wrong birth ethnicity to look like Catherine Zeta Jones. That's just for starters and the list goes on unfortunately! So I will have to be me and just be happy that I am as healthy as I am given what I could have become. I am thankful there are guys who look deeper to see ME.

not what's between your legs that matters the most but what is between your ears.

Fortunately the kinky part between my ears does seem to work pretty well most days. At least I've got that going for me even if I may not ever look like Catherine Zeta Jones!

Look, of course looks matter but when someone says, "I'm attracted to people who take care of themselves" or who are "athletic" what you mean is people who are THIN and take care of themselves or THIN and athletic.

I know that it may be hard to believe, but there are plenty of plus-sized women who both take care of themselves AND are athletic, and yet still wear a size 16. There are lots of women and men who go to the gym daily and eat healthy and ARE healthy who aren't thin.

Even as an anorexic/bulimic, I would likely not have been thin enough for a lot of people to find attractive. In order to be a size 8 and 145lbs I was working out 2 hours a day and eating less than 600 calories. My hair was falling out and I was nearly hospitalized. So, was I "athletic" or "taking care of myself"? No. I certainly was thinner, but not thin enough for many. I bought into the idea that everyone can be thin if they just have enough will power. Well, that's bullshit.

As I've said elsewhere, now I take care of myself. I'm more athletic now than ever. I'm also thick. I am also happy. This is better than the thin version of me. I get this one body and this one life and I don't waste time on people who aren't interested in either.

I apologize for being on my soapbox on this one, but I think it's important not to conflate "taking care of yourself" with thinness, because that just isn't true for every body.

So, are SOME men going to find fat women "repulsive"? Probably. So my advise is don't date those men. There are many men who are into you, as you. Find those guys (or gals if you like, gals are awesome too. 😃 ).

In the answer to the question can a man get it up for a women he finds repulsive, I can not put words in his mouth but Ron Jeremy made a movie called fatliners back in 1990. Viagra was not introduced into the market until March 1998, so he was not getting help from that drug. I am sure Ron was paid well, so perhaps that had something to do with it. No one has ever offered me lots of money to have sex so I am not sure if that would stimulate an erection or not. Ron also has had lots of sex so it was not the quest for a new sensation, and Ron has had lots of sex with beautiful women, so he was not needy. All I can think is he closed his eyes and just concentrated on whatever good sensations he could find in the process. I don't think even at 17 I could have done that.

@Kookie is it a turn off for a man to see a fat girl's pussy?

I feel very embarrassed about my own "triangle". I'm worried about the day when I'll be in bed with my future husband and he will see it. I'm affraid that it will disgust him.

If your husband wants YOU, it's YOU he wants. I have read a number of places that women often think their genitals are ugly. I find female genitals beautiful. My wife is not "big," but if she and I had chosen each other and we were, we would love what the other has to offer.

I can't remember where the post was, but there's actually a running set of photos of various female genitalia, from women who want approval (Tumblr?). I cannot remember ANY of them I thought were not exceptionally pretty. It's a guy thing. Men love women's genitalia. I'm not using the word "pussy," because that connotes an incomplete picture. I love the inside, the outside, the lips, the structures around the vagina, the clitoris, the hood, the urethral opening, all of her. Women want to be "perfect," but nobody is, because if you define perfect somebody else will like something different. OTOH, for most of us guys, "perfect" is a willing heart, a loving body, and an unconditional offer of yourself.

What bugs a guy more than anything else is rejection, or a sense of shame so great that the girl won't fully give herself to her man.

My best wishes to you, Kookie; I see you are in your 20's just starting out. Don't make it complicated. Just love the man who loves you. Learn about your body, and let him teach you about his. Learn how to pleasure him, and teach him how to pleasure you. If he's asexual, RUN! The normal guy is pretty horny. I happen to still have a strong libido in my 70's, and love to be "in" my woman. It's a trip, even after so long.

Hi SwitchableSusie,

Yes, I’m aware the post is about Fat Girl’s Pussy. Sorry I didn’t clarify it enough. I’m overweight and in the BMI world considered Obese. So it’s because I have had similar experiences and build that I was commenting. My vulva or lips or all the various names for that region has changed overtime from change of body size to age to having children (natural birth) and for many other reasons. So to answer the question about men finding it repulsive? For my experience - not when it truly matters and if they had or do - then they aren’t the ones to be with. However, now that the question has been asked - I know I’ll be more attentive to my partner’s reaction when the time arrives. It will be interesting to how I will react. That’s a whole other topic.

Thanks for allowing me to clarify my comment further.

If a woman is willing to share her body with a man he should cherish it. No one is perfect. I have never seen a repulsive pussy. A fat pussy just means more to play with and nibble on

No, not a turn-off as long as she is clean. I generally like soft, curved women better than very skimpy girls.

Now I am confused, nothing new there.

If you are talking about fat pussies, as in big labia, or puffy labia or long labia, they are all interesting and fun. In my life I have only seen one pussy that was grossly asymmetrical in a visually pleasing way, and that was troubling to me. I have seen a lot of asymmetrical labia that I have really liked or had no hard good or bad reaction to. Just that one that turned me off. The odds are really good that if peeling the layers down to that part don't turn a guy off, your pretty much home.

Reggind said

Now I am confused, nothing new there

If you are talking about fat pussies, as in big labia, or puffy labia or long labia, they are all interesting and fun. . . . . .

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To clear any confusion, once again, the opening line of the first post:

It is a turn off for a man to see a fat girl's pussy?

Well, even if slightly OT, at least with regard to this thread's title yet somehow related to various pointers here and here, allow me to summarize with a funny video I just found out what Susie wisely said through the discussion, focusing on the notion she expressed particularly in posts #67 and #125 which I tend to agree upon.

The publisher (The Uglied Venetoan) commented as follows:

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Enjoy! 😁

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Vagina's or what ever you like to call them, are like a snowflake... they are all beautiful. There are not to two pussies the same. I have never ever saw a pussy, that I didn't like.

Appearance wise there is nothing that comes to mind that would be a deal breaker when clothes start coming off. Lack of cleanliness or a funky odor could be an issue. Presence of STD symptoms would certainly be an issue. But i’d be pleased to have an otherwise healthy clean vagina in any shape shared with me.

Not in the least! You should not be ashamed! All bodies are different - that’s what makes them beautiful and pleasurable! If someone is offended, it’s their issue, not yours!!

Not at all. My wife is very slim and trim. But in my life I have been with a few large girls. They were very satisfying.