Enemas, need or a want?

Definitely in the want category, and the need is the desire to get an opportunity to cleanse my bowels fully. There's nothing better than a bulb full of ivory soap suds or a glycerine solution. The bag makes it all the better, it's a literal rush. A pleasant building fullness leading up to an erotic relief as the solution spills out again.

For many years ive used enemas as a sexual stimulant, litre or so odf warm soapy water gave me a better hard on than anything else, as years have progressed, my meds cause constipation, also just having parkinsons causes it, so it has become a need now, i find it a quick cure that is pretty instant and over and done with in minutes, whereas any oral laxative might happen in an hour, maybe tomorrow, so its hard to live a normal life when you dont know when it will kick in , enemas still help with errections, so im a need and want man.

Want definitely. I am extremely anal erotic and the feeling of an enema churning inside of me excites me to no end.

For me it's probably both a need and a want I try to do one good session a week and if I skip it I can feel it.

It's a want for me, so relaxing and have some playtime. 😜😉

I want them badly so I can be really controlled and sexually stimulated. Once cleaned out I can relax and deeply enjoy some well placed gloved fingers searching for my button. I am hard just thinking of my next want to time.

I’m having an uncomfortable “bump in the road“ in my probiotics treatments. I’m constipated, bloated, and not in a good mood. I'm definitely “needy” today. Doctor said this might happen if I’m not exercising or hydrating enough. She’s right.

Most women my age would probably take a laxative, maybe subject themselves to a Fleet. I have an enema bag and know how to use it. I have liquid and bar soap Castile and know how much to use. My husband is still asleep. I’m going to quietly slip into the bathroom and give myself a cleansing enema, and hopefully in about half an hour I will feel fine — and then have a relaxing Sunday. I wonder the percentage of women who would be doing this when they’re out of sorts like I’m feeling now.

@Vicki_V ….. @sirensong and I hope your Sunday was relaxing and that your private time this morning renewed your energy.

While I do take an enema if constipated I will definitely take an enema anytime I have the house to myself or have my wife give me one prior to playtime

I like to receive an enema once a day from my wife. It really turns me on when she gives me three quarts of water and I'm jerking off in front of her.

With me, for most of my adult life, I thought that I was regular. I would generally have a movement once each week (usually about the same day and time). This was when I was not using enemas at least once per month. My doctor even informed me that I was not “regular". I have been put on medication to try to address it and the medications either worked way too well or not at all. Currently I use enemas to keep myself somewhat regular, although I do definitely enjoy taking enemas. Just to give a little bit of background, when I was told to drink a bottle of magnesium citrate if I hadn't had a movement in 3 days, it took the magnesium citrate a full 10 hours to work. Granted, it liquefied everything, but it took it a full 10 hours to work. Unfortunately, that is what usually happens with my body when I use laxatives.

My personal reason for taking enemas are both need and want. But, more want than need… to me an enema feels just so good as the warm water moves through my rectum and colon…

What became early in my life as a real ‘ need ’ as I tended toward constipation as an infant , according to mom , and later as a kid over time became a strong ‘ desire ’ to have her or my grandmothers and / or a favorite aunt give me an enema . There became early in my life an ‘ eroticism ‘ as to enema interaction with my ladies , a term which I associated with the reception of an enema which I still can not explain , such that a ‘ desire ’ was at a tipping point for me . From my earliest remembrances from childhood through young adulthood while a student @ our state university , my enemas were always ’ partnered ‘ as in a caring lady gave them to me . Even then , there were times when an enema was administered to relieve my real life constipation issues but as I matured , the ‘ desire / ’ want ‘ ’ to receive was an ever growing reality which I later embraced . The ‘ circles ’ of ‘ need / want ’ have overlapped to the extent that one compliments the other such that the ‘ gray area ‘ of the larger ’ overlap ‘ dominates the intersection of the individual ’ need / want ' components as per the thread question . Such has been my experience .

I am a want - absolutely love the feeling of the water filling me. II can not stop with one fill after I take most of my 4qt bag I kind of lay on the bathroom floor and assume I am 9 months pregnant. Realizing it is about 6 months I guess then evac watch the scales to see if the amount goes down to the start weight. II love the feeling down deep and wind up doing my 2" x 12" friend.

A little of both due to my work schedule and what I eat. Funny how many relate to our full belly and looking pregnant, as while I fill, I'll consciously watch it grow, bear down and try to take more.

It’s been quite a while since I got down on all fours on the bathroom floor and gave myself an enema. I was headachy and constipated. My insides had been so nicely calm and working smoothly for several months.

But something was happening in the last few days. I felt some of the old anxiety coming back. Rob and I had a fight over something stupid. I got mad at my daughters because they hadn’t been in touch lately. I’m going to turn 60 later this year (I used to think that was ancient!), but I still feel like a mom!

Maybe it’s the terrible conflicts in the world right now that are affecting us here at home. In any event, I was feeling pretty yucky on Sunday afternoon. I didn’t feel like taking an enema, but I felt that I needed to do it. To be honest, it didn’t especially feel good. I was pretty uncomfortable with some nausea until the final release which seriously did the trick.

My husband asked how I was feeling after, and I said the enema did what it was supposed to. No miraculous “I feel so much better” response. What was stuck did come out, and that’s what needed to happen. I didn’t want to fill the bag again. I wasn’t in the mood to take another round. I was tired. When the brain decides this was going to be purely a medical procedure, that’s what it was, without “the frills.” Sometimes, enemas are like that. They are what we need or want them to be.

I usually take an enema once or twice a month, keeps me on the even keel with my system. I have a colon tube so it feels so great going all the way in

Constipation - NEED

Any other - WANT

99% want and 1% need

I want to need it and need to want it! It's a circle of desire that never ends.

Not always want, yet not always need. But most of the time it better being done then not.

Today i'm going to a long road trip. Yesterday i take 3 liters of hot and soapy water in a fast regime. It is not in "want" category. But now i'm sure not to have to use public wc.

A week ago there was very hard day. Very. Hard. That evening i could not calm down for a long time. I remembered topic on zity mentioned enema as a stress reliever and give it a go. Very slow and warm one. Comfy and relaxing. It is not in "need" category.

A “want” – I love the physical feelings of a good enema, the sliding in of the lubed nozzle, warmth of the solution as it enters, the feeling of fullness, and the sight of the slowly deflating bag. I have solo enemas. All are pleasant resulting in a feeling of well-being and and energy.

Could not have described it better than Klip did!

Both

Want or Need? Both. I enjoy the feeling of something fat in my anus, and am learning to like the water/solution enter my body. I don't really like the mess. I also often suffer from diarrhea (a real annoyance while walking the dog!!!) and find that once the diarrhea starts, if I jump in the shower, attach the shower nozzle and “enemate away,” I can rid the body of the last of the diarrhea in a very controlled way. These enemas are not as pleasurable as my “want” enemas for obvious reasons. I also get constipated, but use enemas less frequently to resolve that problem - maybe I should use enemas more frequently!!!

I WANT enemas and I NEED enemas. I have loved and enjoyed them since I was 12 years old and since I had a prolapse from a bad case of Covid 2 years ago, I’ve had to rely on them because I have a hard time holding if nature calls. I need to be washed out every 48 to 72 hours. I consider myself lucky that all those years ago I learned to love this quirk about myself. I thoroughly enjoy them and I absolutely need them. I have also found that it’s much nicer to be clean there the whole day long day after day. Make the world a better place, wash your ass out just in case!

For me , as has been said by others here , there is a real ‘ intersection ‘ of the ’ need / want ‘ category . My mother was very perceptive for me as to her enema administrations . I did growing up have constipation issues were were rightly addressed by a home enema . As over time the enemas were given , we both became aware that our enema sessions were moving beyond correcting my constipation . It became for both of us in our respective roles of ’ giver / receptor ‘ that enemas became a desirable activity for both of us . Eventually as we had candid conversations over time concerning our home enemas where we agreed that if I ’ wanted ‘ her to give me an enema or if she ’ wanted ‘ to give me an enema when constipation was not an issue we would simply communicate our ’ desires ‘ to each other and to our mutual satisfaction we did . It was a ’ plus ‘ for us that my mom enjoyed receiving an enema either solo or from a close female friend or relative . Yes , I do believe that ’ enemas ‘ can be , and in our case were , ’ generational ‘ and also as was our experience ’ recreational ' as well .

I can’t remember ever “needing” an enema for health reasons but needing one for stress relief after a long week or before anal play!…But I always ”want” one ;-)

I give myself an enema or my wife an enema when there’s a need. My wife will ask for a three bag series when she is bound up.

I will tell her I’m going to give myself an enema and not to be shocked if she walks in on me. She waves her hand at me indicating not to worry about her.

While she won’t give me an enema, she has no problem with me giving to myself. On the other hand, she won’t hesitate to ask if she feels the need.

I‘ve tried to talk her into relaxation/pleasure enemas but she refuses such “abuse” of a medical procedure.

Luckily I have a few lady friends who have no problem asking for a series of pleasure enemas if the opportunity presents itself.

I get the pleasure of taking and giving enemas from them and to them.

The arrangement with those lady friends are a closely guarded secret.

This thread has the makings of a really good survey…but before I start counting, I'll add to the data base -

All my adult life enemas have been a sexual stimulant…never a “need” in the curative sense. I can't remember a time when a session with the bag or bulb has not been accompanied by a “release”…and NOT of the fecal kind. (To clarify, though it's probably not necessary, there is, of course, always the release of whatever goes in and whatever it loosens up, but the objective is always the sexual part, either before, during or after.) Since my sex life is not totally driven by enemas, calling them a “need” is probably not accurate….so put me in the “want” column. The addition of other aspects to the event (an enema) such as e-stim, a caring (and horney) enemate, wine in the solution, etc. simple serves to heighten the pleasure; but again, not to the point of “needing” an enema. Sex, for me, is never anything but pleasurable so maybe the “want” should be “WANT”, eh?

Bottom line, if you're horney…GO HANG A BAG!!