Men: Orgasm From Fellatio Alone?

Yes, I've cum many many times from just a blowjob.

Sometimes, that would precede full sex, while other times it was the only sexual activity that took place.

I love both giving and receiving oral sex with women. Sometimes I will give and expect nothing in return, other times she will take care of me. It's a great way to start your day before going to work, or when headed out for dinner with friends or family.

I don't ever remember cumming from just a bj. I need both hand and mouth.

A talented cocksucker can get me off.. other times an even less one will succeed with a little mental help from me a man who spanks me loves sucking cock I do not consider him particularity good in technique for me but he likes sucking a load out of me and he gets one but but me thinking "he wants it he should have it", "if you don;t give it too him he should make the spanking he just gave you look like a tickling"... And that is enough to release it to him. I have most times not had an issue sucking a guy off.. resorting to deep throating or getting FaceF#@Ked feels like cheating to me but i prefer to let my tongue and mouth do most of the pleasing getting a guy off if i am trying to get him off orally and not just getting him hard a wet for my butt. I do manual stimulate with my hand when I move on to the balls normally but not a vigorous jerking motion just gentle squeezing and motions to remind the guy i haven't forgot about his Rod just cause his balls are being washed or sucked on.... I tend to really like licking around the head and even pressing the tip of my tongue into his slit. I love rubbing in and out against my lips. And if i get a mouth full of cum I am most definitely hungerly swallow it down.

Rare, and unsatisfying overall. The majority of blowjobs I've received have been frankly horrendous. Teeth, too much suction, too little, too fast too slow, no idea what she's doing, or just obviously hates doing it (the current one).

There should be an "Aunt Susie's Blowjob School for Young Ladies" and you don't graduate until your boyfriend or husband says you do.

One gal, whose high school nickname was apparently "8 Seconds" was an absolute magic worker in your lap. I had to stop her, so that I wouldn't blow it before I got to slip between her thighs into the holy land. That was the one and only exception, but looking back I still preferred fucking her, along with the others, irrespective of their various (mostly terrible) oral talents. PIV just rules.

It's pretty much impossible for me to orgasm from oral sex. Doesn't matter the gender or technique, it just doesn't happen for me. I enjoy getting blowjobs and they feel great, but just not enough to get me over the edge. I can think of maybe three times I've actually orgasmed from oral and I think that was luck more than anything.

Your women need lessons.

Clearly, YES!!

I cum much faster that way.

Your women need lessons.

I was kind of hoping you would pick up on this, but guess I missed that window...

There should be an "Aunt Susie's Blowjob School for Young Ladies" and you don't graduate until your boyfriend or husband says you do.

Your women need lessons.

Susie's college of male oral pleasure

Sometimes it's simply not as easy as needing "lessons". It's just not always the stimulus that some guys need to orgasm. It's never mattered if it's a woman or a guy sucking on me...just doesn't happen.

Do women always orgasm from oral sex? Or do they need lessons too? 😉

MEN need lots of lessons to oral women to orgasm.

I can get off from just oral but not all the time and it can take a while so often it is a handy j bj combo to speed things along.

Generally I don't climax from oral alone. The feelings are amazing and enjoyable but for me tend to stay at a point just a bit short of orgasm. I need other stimulation, anal usually. That works!

MEN need lots of lessons to oral women to orgasm.

Or just pay attention, while spelling out the alphabet with your tongue.

The hips and thighs, they never lie...

Personally, I wish LESS men would come from oral. I love oral, and I do it to get a man nice and hard, and excited for what's next. What a let down when they suddenly go 'Oops, I'm sorry, well, at least I can catch the last half of the game now'.

It's obvious that both sexes need lessons on how to perform oral sex.

Women would do well to read, consider and analyse this post by @SwitchableSusie.

https://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=625387

What she says there is absolutely correct. Don't simply skim through it and move on, but spend some time thinking about what it really means, and how you can make use of it.

I'm certainly qualified to say that some women are better than others in the art of giving oral sex. Some do see it as a chore, and aren't genuinely interested in becoming any better at it. Some do actually try, but have no clue about technique. They keep changing what they do every few seconds and therefore fail to maintain the stimulation necessary. There are others who don't listen to you when you give them directions as to what you like. While not actually telling you so in words, this type have the attitude that says, "This is how I do it, and if it doesn't work for you, it's your problem".

Wrong.

* Be prepared to learn. Nobody knows everything, especially with closed minds

* Be prepared to listen to your partner. What feedback are you getting, and are you adapting what you do accordingly?

* Do think back over your own performance and be honest with yourself about what worked, and what didn't work quite so well

The recipient should give feedback. Whether or not you like something will to an extent be obvious. But if she is doing things right, tell her. If you want her to do something a little differently, tell her.

The same advice pretty much applies to men when giving oral sex to women. From what I've heard and been told by women, some men are better than others. Be self-critical and improve.

Whether or not you like something will to an extent be obvious. But if she is doing things right, tell her. If you want her to do something a little differently, tell her.

@DrZ is totally right here, but i have spoken to a few people who just 'fake moan' to encourage someone doing a shit job.

Moaning and suggesting that their bad technique is giving you pleasure is only going to work out badly for you in the long run. Just don't do it! Wait until they switch it up and it's better to let the 'natural sounds' happen 😁

For all you know, his/her ex LOVED that thing that makes you squirm for all the wrong reasons, so faking it to encourage someone unlikely to give you oral sex is just a bad idea overall.

I honestly couldn't believe some people were stupid enough to do that at first. I mean, regardless of performance, does anyone want that fake-porn-moan in their bedroom?!

Good / compatible lovers are made, not born.

People are not mind readers.

If you want something, like something or don't like something -- SPEAK UP.

Like JR3 said, faking it will only turn out badly.

Yup tried n tested

@JR3 said

..... I have spoken to a few people who just 'fake moan' to encourage someone doing a shit job.

Moaning and suggesting that their bad technique is giving you pleasure is only going to work out badly for you in the long run. Just don't do it! Wait until they switch it up and it's better to let the 'natural sounds' happen 😁

Yes. It's never a good idea to reinforce bad technique and actually encourage it by being too afraid to tell the partner that they need to do something different. There is no sense in effectively telling them, "This doesn't work, so please keep doing it".

I honestly couldn't believe some people were stupid enough to do that at first. I mean, regardless of performance, does anyone want that fake-porn-moan in their bedroom?!

No, not at all. Not for a second.

As for a male giving oral sex, I truly WANT my partner to be expressive and tell/show/direct me to give her the most pleasure. Most women can't/don't use words in that situation so I rely on their body movements and every little gasp and moan and their breathing patterns to determined what I should do. A woman making no sounds and no movements, is very difficult to please.

The only time I had a somewhat 'bad' oral sex experience was with a woman on a 3rd or 4th date and I went down on her in a bedroom with a small window air conditioner. It was so hot we kept it on but it was so loud I had no idea if anything I did to her was any good! That's when I realized that I really rely on the sounds she makes to try to give her the best oral I could.

I know I have a hard time myself expressing what I want someone to do orally, but I realize that you really need to help the giver if you want a great experience!

I mean, regardless of performance, does anyone want that fake-porn-moan in their bedroom?!

This wasn't in the bedroom, but the fake-porn moan (and gestures) still apply.

Once during a massage, when I turned over on my back and the inevitable erection was plainly visible, the masseuse starting acting rather silly, oooohing and awing and cooing, muttering things like 'oooh so big, so very hard ....' and other phrases that got me to laughing, they were so clichéd and needless. Of course she was surprised I was (quietly) laughing and rolling my eyes and also btw loosing my erection.

It was also the last time I visited that particular establishment ... ha ha

I mean, regardless of performance, does anyone want that fake-porn-moan in their bedroom?!

. . . acting rather silly, oooohing and awing and cooing, muttering things like 'oooh so big, so very hard ....' . . . also btw loosing my erection.

@agracier @JR3 I agree. I dislike most fake things, fake boobs, fake eyelashes, fake moaning, fake sex. It's the reason why I could never pay a woman to do anything sexually with me. Everything she does is suspect to being fake since she's getting paid for it. I also prefer 'amateur' porn (although I know its not amateur...) because most regular porn has the women screaming and moaning so loud when they aren't even being touched! It just gets annoying. A REAL woman, making REAL noises and having REAL orgasms... mmmmmmm... now THAT is sexy!

Even with a lover, I still don't want to hear anything fake from her. Don't tell me I have the biggest cock ever ( I know I don't, and am OK with that ), or that it's the hardest ever ( when maybe I'm not fully hard yet ). I know it's meant to be complimentary, but it's simply not true ( and like AGRACIER said, would lead me to be less aroused. ) If it feels good in their hand or inside them, then say that, because it's true and really what they feel.

I know this is OT, but do women feel the same about 'exaggerated' or false compliments?

I have orgasmed many times from just oral, but I prefer a finger in my ass while doing it. Seems much more intense. But for quite a while, the bj's are just used to make it big and hard for other activities.

Ejaculating from oral alone is fine as long as the cocksucker swallows but it is not my favorite way to ejaculate. Ideally, I like to receive service and do no reciprocation. I prefer to have the cocksucker remain fully clothed while he gets me off. He should take down my pants and briefs or briefs only if I have stripped down in advance. He inspects and examines my penis and testes and inspects and fingers my anus. I prefer to be flaccid when my briefs first come down and have my penis shaft progressively engorge and the head engirge and flare. I can be either standing up facing a seated cocksucker or lying on my back with him kneeling above me. He wears either a glove or a finger cot with some really slick lubricant and fingers my anus while he begins to work on stroking my penis. Once the penis is rigid, he will move his free hand from the anus to the balls and work them pretty aggressively. I always like the penis stroked dry and only with his right hand. When I am close to ejaculation, I will push his head toward my penis as his indication that it is time to take it in his mouth. He needs to give some good fast head bobs with full suction on the head of the penis as he sucks out every drop. The sucking will continue until I give him the signal that I am done. Then I give him a soda to take a sip from so that I know all the semen has gone down.

I don't usually like being sucked only, but it is much better if someone has a finger up my bum at the same time. Then there is a proper feeling of satisfaction at the end. Otherwise it feels very distant.

Yes quite a few some with raincoat and some with no cover the best one are combined with prostate massage

One of the lady's I have known for more then 10 years

She gives a great full body massage we are both completely naked finish is always out of this world

Bj

One woman's perspective after reading the comments:

I'm lucky my partner can cum with fellatio only, as I LOVE being able to (mostly) do as I please. There's nothing better than taking him whole and making him cum hard, him twitching as I swallow with my mouth on his cock because he's so sensitive. Occasionally if we have had many orgasms over a few running days, I'll 'need' to add in anal or ball stimulation to get him off. But I often do that anyway, both to satisfy my lust, and tease and please him as well.

Often he is off in fantasy, which helps him cum. How many of the men here fantasize in order to ejaculate??

Sometimes, if I am lucky, he will take his pleasure as my Dom and fuck my mouth or present his cock to me and do what he enjoys - which usually is bringing himself to the edge and stopping to wait for more.

I think the times I have done a joint hand/blow job are few. But it's all good!!!

Rarely from fellatio alone, but sticking a finger up the ass and it works alot better for me.

Love it

Who doesn't want to blow a load in their wifes mouth now and then.

I have never come from fellatio alone. I don't think a mouth provides enough friction. I have to say I am a slow pleasure taker, and rarely come quickly even in vaginal or anal penetration. I do enjoy the fellatio but just not to the extent of orgasm from it.

My subs over the years have of course loved this aspect of our pleasure.