Men: Orgasm From Fellatio Alone?

I love oral sex but I could count on the fingers of one hand how many men have managed to make me cum just by sucking my cock. One fantastic memory was an older Dr who happened to be a retired surgeon who sucked me off after a 2 hour long medical examination. Needless to say this wasn't in a hospital environment but in a hotel room.

When I am sucked all the way it's certainly a wonderful feeling.

Love it

Who doesn't want to blow a load in their wifes mouth now and then.

On a personal note, I never liked doing this to my wife and don't think we ever did it much at all, maybe one time or so when we began fooling around.

I thought it somewhat impolite to then insist of your partner swallowing ejaculate, because spitting it out is also a far cry from being polite. Too many ways of hurting each other's feelings.

Besides, mouth to penis just doesn't give enough friction compared to other means of penis stimulation ...

. . . . Besides, mouth to penis just doesn't give enough friction compared to other means of penis stimulation ...

The mouth and vagina have EXACTLY the same type of epithelial lining with the exception of the dorsal tongue and palate.

THEREFORE if there isn't sufficient friction, the fault is with the person doing the sucking.

The muscles of the vagina compress against the penis and the muscles surrounding and in the mouth, ESPECIALLY THE TONGUE should be used to create friction on the penis.

SUCTION and TONGUE PRESSURE pushing the penis against the palate makes for the AMAZING blow job.

This should be taught to ALL women.

Huge orgasm when fellatio is helped by anal penetration, dildo moving in and out, plug pressing against prostate, or a vibrator massaging the prostate.

I never had a problem having a great orgasm with no other stimulation than my wife sucking my cock. It may have taken longer than some other methods; but, she was very adept at getting me to shoot my load with just her lips/tongue/mouth. I sure wish I could still get hard and enjoy those times once again.

I have several times but I really like more. My wife pulls off just before orgasm and it’s kind of like the “withdrawal “ method of birth control. You feel like you aren’t really done yet.

SUCTION and TONGUE PRESSURE pushing the penis against the palate makes for the AMAZING blow job.

This should be taught to ALL women.

Clearly there needs to be a Zity blog dedicated to this very subject: "Aunt Susie's Finishing School for Refined Ladies"

I can certainly cum from just being blown. As others here have said, you can have a good experience or a bad one. For me it’s just about being honest. Do you really LOVE to give blow jobs or are you just saying that to entice me come home with you (or whatever)?

Nothing gets me hotter than replacing your mouth with an awkward hand job, or exasperated sighs, or questions about the ETA of my orgasm. If you don’t like what your partner is doing—educate them. Same goes for the other side—listen to your partner.

One time I was getting frustrated from the job one new girlfriend was doing. She finally stopped and was angry and asked what’s wrong, telling me that she could see the look on my face that I wasn’t enjoying it. She asked what she could do to help speed things up. Now the only thing blown was the mood and I wasn’t liking the way she put it I quickly blurted out without thinking, “well you could fuck me with your vibrator while you blow me—that would be a start!” My mouth snapped shut on the last word as I realized what I’d just said. A sly grin came over her face and cooed, “oh, you like that, huh? Okay.” After a couple of notes to her about how not to hurt me, she went on to give me one of the more sensual and teasing blow jobs that I’ve ever had.

I know from experience men do cum from sucking with my mouth and no waking !

Clearly there needs to be a Zity blog dedicated to this very subject: "Aunt Susie's Finishing School for Refined Ladies"

Good one! That's the funniest thing I've read all day!

Hand free mouth only takes a lot of time and hard work on my part to get my husband to ejaculate in my mouth. If I use my hands and mouth it still takes 5 or 6 minutes which is longer than he takes inside me if he thrusts in and out continuously.

Dita

...a lot of time and hard work on my part to get my husband to ejaculate in my mouth.

As it should be...as it should be...

Can't, and not for anyone's lack of trying. Honestly I have a hard time just sitting there and receiving one, I want to be working her at the same time.

Honestly I have a hard time just sitting there and receiving one, I want to be working her at the same time.

Me too! I need to keep my hands and mouth (very) busy! I just can lay beside a (half) naked woman and do nothing! However, if I'm told not to do anything and just relax and enjoy, it takes me significantly more time to bust it than if I'm working on her. But in both ways I cum way too quick for my liking 😃

There have only been a few times I didn’t come from just a blowjob. One girl in high school got “too tired” after about 5 minutes. One woman kept trying to hold my foreskin over the glans. And one woman used such poor technique and could not or would not figure it out so I gave up and flipped her over and she seemed much happier.

It’s only happened once. A long time ago. I have always needed a lot of stimulation to orgasm.

It’s only happened once. A long time ago. I have always needed a lot of stimulation to orgasm.

Same here with me, only once in about 1993 with my first wife. She wasn't really in favor of experimenting with or accepting my kinks (rubber, sneakers, anal, enemas, bondage, D/s). However, one night without much warning, she did her very best to give me a very nice kinky time. In our little apartment bedroom, she dressed me in a thin 3 mm neoprene wetsuit, Keds canvas sneakers, rubber diving mask and rubber gloves, and then pulled my rubber pants down and put in the first butt plug I'd ever owned. Oh, yes, and then tied my arms behind me on the bed. While on my side, she then gave me a very talented, excellent fellatio with maybe a bit of hand masturbation while I was tied up in kink gear. I'd never had an orgasm from all or mostly having a blow job ever before. Since it was obviously extremely enjoyable for me, especially in kink clothes and gear, I just let her go as far as she wanted and to my delighted surprise wound up with a terrific orgasm. She obviously did a great job on my penis, but I'm guessing I still might not have had the orgasm without the added fetish clothing and gear she put me in. Now I've had other exes dress me in fetish clothes and shoes and gear, but no one has gone far enough to let me orgasm. All my subsequent orgasms have been she or me masturbating me or during our PIV. I'll never forget that night ever. Thank you, my dear. Very kind (and expert) of you.

Eric

It happens often for me and my Special Woman! She love making love to my cock with her lips tongue and mouth. Little nibbles along the ridge of the glans, and little harder biting on the soft skin frenulum. She puts a lot of pressure with her tongue up against the frenulum as she pumps her mouth up and down. Her pusy is usually dripping wet after she blows me.

Learning how to play the "skin flute" is the same as any other instrument. It takes a master to teach, and time before you get good. Many women try hard to get it, but some fall short. This is when I have to become the master, and teach. It's very gratifying when you have an eager student who learns quickly. For me, a good BJ is not done with just the mouth, and if a finger or two happen to wander south, I would not cut them off!! In fact, the older I get, the more I appreciate wandering fingers.

I haven't posted on this in nearly 5 years, when i first came to Zity. When i first came to Zity, I was straight and had never had a man give me fellatio.

Now here we are. Can I cum from fellatio alone? I have to say, it depends on how well fellated, in large part because I have practically killed all my nerve endings from jacking too much.

The positive? I can be fellated practically all day long and not cum. So i can enjoy being fellated for a long time. And cumming for me is not imperative.

But here's what happens now. The past 2 days pretty much sum it up.

New Year's Eve day, which happened to be the 1 year anniversary since the 1st time i met up with this man, who is now 85. He does not perform fellatio well enough to make me cum. So when he wants to taste me, I jack it for him to get it ready. I had a few false alarms after cueing him to get his mouth on it. Until I finally got it ready, and he took my load. I hadn't jacked off in the couple of days prior, so it was a good load. So in that case, i could NOT orgasm from fellatio alone.

Then yesterday, New Year's Day, my 3rd time meet with another man, late 70's, who had yet to make me cum, after I had long sessions at his home the 1st 2 times.

But this time, he really worked so hard, knowing I'm a challenge. A little over 5 hours after I got to his home and we had been engaging in play on and off, he fellated me so powerfully, i exploded in his mouth. So yesterday, I DID orgasm from fellatio alone.

Unless you want to count the intermittent time when his tongue was around my balls and the perimeter of my anus. But he had to fellate intensely for several minutes at the end before I came (He had been fellating me on and off ever since i got there). I've reasoned in the past that the more I cum from sexual contact with another as opposed to jacking myself off, then it starts to get easier to cum when someone else is involved. I didn't jack off between days. So you could say I shot 2 consecutive loads into 2 men's mouths (a first for me).

Afterward, he went over and sat in a chair. I thought of asking questions like was he exhausted, did he enjoy having to work that hard, has he encountered anyone else who was that difficult to get to cum. I had all this curiosity, because this was the 1st time in 3 visits he got me to cum, and I knew he worked really hard.

But instead I asked nothing. He seemed to enjoy tasting me. I left it at that.

Now here we are. Can I cum from fellatio alone? I have to say, it depends on how well fellated, in large part because I have practically killed all my nerve endings from jacking too much.

The positive? I can be fellated practically all day long and not cum.

Are we in denial of the effects of aging? 😁 😁 😁

Are we in denial of the effects of aging? 😁 😁 😁

No! We still think like 17 year olds.

THINKING like is NOT BEING like 17 year olds.

I know it's difficult (I purposely didn't say "hard" because I know it's not "hard" 😁 ) to reconcile getting old.

Are we in denial of the effects of aging?

You mean it takes me a long time to cum because that's an effect of aging, as opposed to my nerve endings being shot ? Because I think the longer

I refrain from jacking off, the quicker I can cum upon stimulation. by a partner. A lot of the time, I don't take that long to cum when jacking off. Especially when I have to go to work and don't have that much time. And so I've chalked it up more to nerve endings being shot.

We can have our views on aging. Mine is it’s not!

It's difficult for me because I am more of a giver than a receiver. I have a tough time keeping my hands to myself.

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I refrain from jacking off, the quicker I can cum upon stimulation. by a partner. A lot of the time, I don't take that long to cum when jacking off. Especially when I have to go to work and don't have that much time. And so I've chalked it up more to nerve endings being shot.

It's basically like that for almost all men.

Unless you have injured and damaged the nerves in your penis by masturbating, what you describe is not how the nervous system works and I somehow doubt you have created nerve damage by masturbating unless you are doing things to your penis that they demonstrate in places like BMEZINE.com.

A heterosexual guy here.

I love seeing, playing, and sucking another guy off, but when he does me, the feeling is from unbearable from this, and just laugh like my cock is getting tickled.

Has ruin several relationships for me.

Ideas anyone?

I have never had an orgasm from fellatio alone. My wife is the only one who has ever performed oral on me and she never wanted me to climax in her mouth, so I never did. I don't think she really liked to do it on me anyway and it wasn't because I wasn't clean either. I just think she was not into doing oral on me, although she most certainly liked me doing oral on her, which I did every time we had sex. I did it because I liked doing it to her and because she enjoyed it.

Highndry: Does she perform fellatio as foreplay ? My wife would not have the patience (because of pains in the jaw and because sucking gets her all excited) to suck me to orgasm, but she definitely enjoys the lollipop before it goes into her vagina.