Men: Orgasm From Fellatio Alone?

I definitely can cum from just a BJ — both sucking and licking. It’s even better if my balls are getting played with or tugged at the same time especially once I’m close.

In contrast, when I've had sex with Japanese or Chinese women, they seemed much more at ease about giving fellatio, and completely OK with it. One of my Chinese lovers even let me know it was quite all right with her if I came in her mouth.

@Parker: I didn't know that asian girls are so direct into fellatio and love to let you cum in their mouth. Dis you join many asian women that way?

I personally am very responsive to blow jobs and definitely enjoy oral sex in general. Its not the only thing that gets me off, but by itself I don't have a problem with orgasm.

Challenging for both parties in my case. It takes forever, lots of buildup and hard work… Can be a mind bending experience for me but usually ends up with someone having a very sore jaw!

I have never had any trouble getting DH off with fellatio alone… but maybe I’ve got it easy? Or he does? And I typically apply hands at the same time. And I swallow.

To each his/her own!!!

Works for me unless they have false teeth.

@Parker: I didn't know that asian girls are so direct into fellatio and love to let you cum in their mouth. Dis you join many asian women that way?

@curtina: I've had long-term relationships with Japanese and with Chinese women, and neither these women, nor the East Asian women I saw more casually, had any qualms about fellatio. They seemed to see it as a natural part of foreplay.

But we are not talking about a large sample size.

On several ocassions yes and on several ocassions fellatio and handjob combination. I always let my partner perform this as they saw fit. Sometimes these were performed with the added treat of a fingered prostate included. Fretter

I have only cum twice in my life from oral sex.

Once with a woman, who was determined to give me that experience, which was MUCH appreciated. She enjoyed the “result” of my orgasm, and swallowed every drop!

And, the other time from a guy, which was a surprise for both of us. Unfortunately, he did not enjoy the “result” of my orgasm, and spit out my cum.

As I've gotten older, I usually orgasm best from (mutual) masturbation, but can also cum from vaginal intercourse.

Works for me unless they have false teeth.

@drgiggles at which point I assume you ask them to take their false teeth out, and then the BJ becomes an amazing mind blowing experience.

Definitely I can cum this way and have done. But as many have remarked it actually is better with some manual handling along the way, at least in my opinion. But a skilled operator can certainly use her lips, tongue and throat to wonderful effect.

I had one partner who was particularly skilled in oral sex. She kissed well too and had the softest lips and mouth you could imagine. She claimed she practiced on bananas.

Many years ago, I was parked in a lay-by on a very busy road as cars were going by closely. My then partner decided the time was right to take me in her mouth and without hands, at least once she had me out and ready. As the car gently rocked to the turblulence created by passing vehicles close by she took just a few minutes to have me explode in her mouth. I still pass that lay-by from time to time and smile to myself.

What male doesn’t love a good hummer. I love them so much I decided to try giving one to a friend. Now I am hooked. The more practice makes perfect I say!

It amazes me that some men on here can't or find it difficult to cum while being given a blow-job, I guess it must be a psychological thing. I find it the most pleasurable and intense form of sexual stimulation and cum very quickly, I don't need any manual stimulation. I've been given blow-jobs by several different women and the result for me is always the same, and nearly all of them swallowed…

I never had a probl‘em when I was younger having an orgasm from a blow job alone but never really wanted to because I really wanted to get my cock into their vagina as quickly as possible. it really depended on how experienced she was, best blow jobs I had were by two women, one was by an older women when I was in my thirties and she was close to fifty, and my wife of thirty plus years. Both took my cock down their throats all the way till their mouths were pressed firmly to the base of my cock and couldn’t go any further, the older woman would actually bounce down hard and the feel of my cock in her throat was mind blowing. Fast forward to now best blow jobs from my wife are when she is deep throating my cock she will slide her finger in my butt , I don’t last long at all, I know that wasn’t on topic but just had to throw that in.

Only one girlfriend back in college ever attempted mouth only blow jobs, but she was successful on many occasions. She treated it like a game and a challenge. She really enjoyed it. Usually she would run her hands up and down my legs and hips and sides. Pulling me by my ass cheeks to drive me deeper into her mouth and throat. Occasionally she said she wasn’t going to touch me at all except for the BJ. This was often a quick encounter in her dorm room between classes. I would unzip my pants and lower them, exposing my cock. She would be on her knees with her hands behind her back. She would take me into her mouth and begin to suck and bob and slurp on my cock, looking up into my eyes the entire time. She knew exactly what she was doing. I would alway tell her when I was about to cum and she would suck harder and faster, swallowing every drop that I had. She would lick her lips, get up, and smile at her successful accomplishment. She always said “Good southern girls always swallow.” I was infatuated with her.

While her oral skills were amazing, sex with her was rather odd. When she was on bottom she would spread her legs, but otherwise be almost limp and lifeless. It was like fucking a rag doll. No arms, no grinding up against me, no real effort at all on her part. She was active when she was on top, or when we were standing, but whenever it was missionary she was motionless.

It only lasted 6 months, and we parted friends. Part of me thinks if I ever ran into her now, 25 years later, she would offer me a good southern BJ out in the car.

All other partners included hands with the oral action. Blow jobs are not a part of my life now due to my wife’s TMJ issues.

It certainly can work, but for me it is more the mental aspect of what triggers your arousal and the physical just enhances it.

I've had oral sex from a lot of women, and I was always unable to orgasm. Most used a combination of hand and mouth, some just mouth, but it took me years to find a female that rocked my world. It is a little embarrassing honestly, because the most gorgeous of women were not the most skilled at fellatio. It was a large woman at a company party that no one really considered hot, and she bragged to me once she sucked a guy's cock they always wanted more. I was intrigued, even though I had absolutely no desire in returning the favor or engaging in sex with her. She took me into a back room and unzipped my fly and started with a totally limp dick. Without exaggerating I was unloading everything I had down her throat in a minute or two, no one had ever sucked my dick so skillfully. She used a combination of sucking and her hand but predominately had a tongue/mouth technique that was impossible not to cum. I let her suck me off several times after that, it was absolutely the best head I've ever had. There is definitely a skill factor involved.

Yes, I orgasm from fellatio alone. My worry is more about cumming too quickly and whether I should ejaculate in her mouth

I love it when a girl gives me a bj to completion. Almost all of them have let me come in their mouth.

I could come from a BJ in my younger years, but since my prostate surgery, it feels great but I can’t quite achieve orgasm.

When I orgasm from fellatio alone, it's usually only by one partner who makes sex into an all day session, with coffee breaks. The technique is not aggressive to make me have one, as it's each sex partner's artful process. Guys who want to hurry it up and cum deliberately are looked down upon, because then once it happens, what's really left afterwards.

Some sex partners who are determined to make me have an orgasm generally can't do it from fellatio alone. The hand and cream or oil are introduced at some point to finish me off. usually the result of their mouths getting tired.

For me, it's not important to ejaculate, and I don't care whether or not I do. Which is good because often I don't. I just enjoy good stimulating relaxing oral sex.

When I orgasm from fellatio alone, it's usually only by one partner who makes sex into an all day session, with coffee breaks. The technique is not aggressive to make me have one, as it's each sex partner's artful process. Guys who want to hurry it up and cum deliberately are looked down upon, because then once it happens, what's really left afterwards.

Some sex partners who are determined to make me have an orgasm generally can't do it from fellatio alone. The hand and cream or oil are introduced at some point to finish me off. usually the result of their mouths getting tired.

For me, it's not important to ejaculate, and I don't care whether or not I do. Which is good because often I don't. I just enjoy good stimulating relaxing oral sex.

From the other side, as a total bottom and a cock sucker. i find the recipients land in two general categories, though all have Their individual nuance.

For me, the hardest Guy to suck is someone who gives no feedback. i need to know He is enjoying what i am doing, that i am succeeding at giving Him what He desires/needs. If i do not perceive that, i feel it becomes mechanical. On the other hand, if i perceive His pleasure and lust, that becomes a form of control that connects too, evokes, my own lust/need.

The evoking and connecting of mutual desire/need is what makes for a mind blowing experience to me. Any kind of one sided sex shuts me down, and to me, it becomes "one sided" if the desire/need is not mutual.

i can go on and on and on. When i am with Someone Who is obviously loving what i am doing, i do not get tired. (edit: re-reading this, i think the main reason i do not "get tired" is because i am getting what i need/want, which is evidence of fulfilling His pleasure/desire/need. Orgasm is obvious evidence of that, but not the only? So my lust and longevity seem sort of dependent, or at least fed, by His need/desire). "dependent" is not a perfect word because i have my own desire to suck cock apart from Him, but they seem intertwined). When there is chemistry, i suspect my obvious expression of lust also fuels His, but even though it's sort of reciprocal, the Top is in charge... even though i am (seemingly) doing all the 'work.' His expression of desire/need is His foot on my 'gas pedal,' He is fueling and driving my lust.

When a Man does not ejaculate, i feel i have failed... that i am not done. I know a lot of bottoms/cocksuckers are focused on the Tops semen, and really seem to objectify Him in that? That's not what i want or feel, what i want is to know i have succeeded at giving Him pleasure and His semen is a result of His orgasm. i do crave His orgasm inside of me, not just His orgasm... but inside of me.

Nott that my sucking His cock has to always result in His orgasm or be about giving Him an orgasm. It depends on the perceived intent. If my perception from the start is He just wants to have His cock where it belongs (inside a guy who has need/desire for Him), i love the connection of Him knowing He can put His cock in me anytime He needs/wants. But if i perceive His need/want is for orgasm, release, i feel i have failed if i do not give that to Him.