Male chastity

I've been caged for the better part of two years... I wear it because I enjoy how it feels.

Those of you who appreciate how getting hard (sort of) feels in the cage know what I mean, I hope. Feeling the restriction of my excitement only adds more excitement. It's a wonderful vicious circle.

Having gone through cheap plastic and poor fitting ones, I decided to put my money into a Jailbird from Mature Metal, as had been mentioned earlier in this thread. You measure yourself soft and it's custom sized. I found the tube styles too long to keep me from orgasming and the plastic cb-6000 cracked apart while I was out one day.

Was it relatively expensive? Sure but I've been enjoying it for almost six years now. My longest time without unlocking... Ten months.

I have been caged on and off for the past 6 years or so with more time caged than not. I've tried a few different types over the years. They all have their pros and cons. Be sure of one thing, there is no ball trap device that can't be gotten out of. My wife is my key holder and takes good care to make sure things are going ok and will have me take it off if not. She also takes an active roll in device selection. The only device you'll not get out of is one that uses a PA piercing. This is why she requsted I get pierced. (I could have said no) if you and your partner are truly serious about male chastity the ONLY way to go is a PA. So I got pierced. This is not for the faint of heart or people looking for a quick fix. It takes time, lots of time. You need to heal from the piercing for several months after the piercing then another few monts to stretch the piercing for a few months after that to a gauge that the cage manufacturers use. I tried a steel one but it as too heavy and irritated the piercing. Ive read this entire blog and see it goes back several years. The cage I have wasn't made when this thread started. Search Evotion Wearable, if you're serious. It's 3D printed to your measurements. I can wear mine for weeks at a time. Morning erections are not a problem. No bulge in the pants and can clean quite well in the shower. She takes it off about one a week just to check things and do a real deep cleaning of the device and myself. But it really doesn't need it, it's just good hygiene. She still gets plenty of orgasms from oral or an occasional boy friend. Saturday mornings laying in bed is edge day. She grabs the lube takes off the cage and starts stroking. Starting and stopping over and over for abot thirty minutes. Then she sits up looks at me with a big smile and says "ok little man back in your cage" doesn't suck to be me. I've been doing this a long time. Feel free to reach out for questions or advice.

Ken.

Really keen to give it a try, I’ve got a 0 ga PA so I wanna try a cage that uses that and give my wife the key

I’ve had an interest in Chastity for some time. I used a CB3000 years ago and it was very uncomfortable. I want to get another one now that I am able.

I am planning to get back into chastity since I did enjoy it once I adjusted to it (about 1-3 weeks). After that I felt less distracted and seemed to get a lot more done. Once I was released the sex was incredible, especially after being caged for over 60 days... I think the girl I am seeing would enjoy having my key and the control but somehow she would unlock me more often for her own pleasures. To make things clear, during my 60 days caged I had my prostate milked weekly, though I was not released from the cage and never had a complete orgasm during my locked time.

We ordered the MM Jail Bird.

Can't wait to get it!

I have been in chastity for more then 15 years. Have not had sex with my wife for at least that much time. I'm a cuckold , and in a cb6000s 24/7 . My wife dates and has sex, she pleases her date and hopfulky he satisfies her . If she comes home satisfied , she will unlock me and let me jerk off as she tells me about what she did to him ,cand what he did to her. If she is not satisfied , she will come home, tell me in detail about the date , but will not unlock me. This controls my sex life, so I only have the same amount of pleasure as she gets, nothing more , nothing less . I live my sex life through her. As she telks me about her date, in my mind I become her, feeling what she feels , doing what sge does .

Do I like this , yes , or I would have left a long time ago. I'm not good at sex, too small , to fast , can't please her. But this way sex is great fir both of us . It takes the pressure off me to satisfy her. I can be fast , size doesn't matter . Once I cum she stops telling me about the date, this causes me to try and last longer . But it doesn't matter.

I use to jerk off all the time before she licked me up. Now I can't and time can be spent doing more important things. I'm hapoy about this.

I love wearing my cage on a regular basis, i do so on my free will and my master left me several years ago and therefore looking for a Mistress or Master for real time or online, so if you have got spare time to remould me that you be much appreciated.

Martin

Try Emalock for online chastity sessions. I have used it every time I start a new session and my last one was for 2 weeks though the one before that was 63 days wearing my device. Their address is: https://wiki.emlalock.com/

I am currently in a cb 6000 chastity cage. I have been in it now for over 24 hours. My wife has the keys so who knows how long it will be there. And last night she had me sleep with a butt plug in and told me not to take it out so it's still in me to.

I am currently in a cb 6000 chastity cage. I have been in it now for over 24 hours. My wife has the keys so who knows how long it will be there. And last night she had me sleep with a butt plug in and told me not to take it out so it's still in me to.

ILTS,

You may be in chastity for now and not getting any orgasms, but is she? She apparently likes to be Domme with you in a cage and then adding an overnight butt plug still in now. Is that how she gets aroused and orgasms - dominating you with penis and anal control? I've never done that sort of thing, but I'm a straight male switch and sometimes act dominant to my GF, so I'm interested in what your Domme wife enjoys about controlling your sexuality. Thanks,

Eric

I really don't know what she is going to get out of this .I plan to try my best tonight and see if she just wants to keep me in all of it and have me use toys on her till she tells me to stop and go to sleep.

I really don't know what she is going to get out of this .I plan to try my best tonight and see if she just wants to keep me in all of it and have me use toys on her till she tells me to stop and go to sleep.

ILTS,

Thanks for replying. What do you usually do when she puts you in a cage? How long are you confined? How often does she let you have orgasms? How often does she want them? Thanks,

Eric

I have to say that I have become very curious about chastity. After looking for a while and playing with a couple of steel rings that I already have, I'm sure I'll be close on the main ring. I think I'm getting close to actually buying something on Amazon to try out. Unless someone has one that they aren't using.

BTW: Did anyone ever find out if Rubbermark finally got out of his cage? It's been a year since his last post.

BTW: Did anyone ever find out if Rubbermark finally got out of his cage? It's been a year since his last post.

And when or if he ever was allowed more orgasms, caged or not.

Eric

Well I'm still in a cage and she got what she wanted last night with me eating her pussy she squirted in my mouth. Then used a toy in her till she came again and told me to go to sleep. That whole time I had a butt plug in that she put there. I asked her when she is taking the cage off and she told me we will see just keep that butt plug in till told other wise. I asked her if she was going to be getting other toys like a strap on to use or what. She said that's her plan. We have used toys in me before but nothing like this. Now I can't just rub one out as I want to. I think she is trying to make me beg. I will not beg her at this time to take it off of me. Due to I like having her in control of if I get off or not. So I have yet to get off at all in the past 3 days.

Well I'm still in a cage and she got what she wanted last night with me eating her pussy she squirted in my mouth. Then used a toy in her till she came again and told me to go to sleep. That whole time I had a butt plug in that she put there. I asked her when she is taking the cage off and she told me we will see just keep that butt plug in till told other wise. I asked her if she was going to be getting other toys like a strap on to use or what. She said that's her plan. We have used toys in me before but nothing like this. Now I can't just rub one out as I want to. I think she is trying to make me beg. I will not beg her at this time to take it off of me. Due to I like having her in control of if I get off or not. So I have yet to get off at all in the past 3 days.

Thanks for the update. I'm a switch and like taking submissive enemas from a trusted Domme ex, so I can understand how you might like having her in control of your orgasms, but how long are you willing to wait to get one? Since I'm really only seriously submissive to my Domme during our D/s enemas, and in that scenario we both enjoy me being very vocal with moans, groans, complaints and begging for leniency, all of which she as usual ignores. I actually find begging very erotic but only in that scenario with her, none other. I hope you can get uncaged sometime soon and enjoy a few orgasms. Let us know.

Eric

Well my wife let me out of chastity . It was the best orgasm I have had in like forever. Sadly it didn't take much to get me there. But now I'm back in the cage till next time. Only time will tell how long that will be. I'm giving her complete control at this point in our bedroom activities.

As part of my male subs ongoing obedience training, i do find a nice tight cage is an excellent way of controlling him.

Although his penis is smaller than average it responds well to my prolonged examination. If i am to take his semen sample i fit his cage immediately after ejaculation and then continue with his discipline but if not after his genital exam he is soundly spanked until his penis becomes flacid for fitting of his cage. I can then continue with his rectal attention with his penis fully restricted.

I keep him caged for at least 24 hours after which removal im presented with a very sensitive erection for further attention.

I will be spending all of October in a chastity cage . That includes getting off.

While I suspect it might be better in fantasy than in real life, a few days in a cage is on my bucket list.

I'm thinking that the blistering spanking on Friday, the enema after enema after enema on Saturday, the spreading of the cheeks for the strap-on on Sunday, the "let's do one more spanking before bed so you go to bed super sore", the "lick well, my friend, because you're not expelling that enema until I've had the climax of my life" would all be somehow more delicious knowing that that cage was staying on at least until Monday.

I found this years ago and still find it super hot: https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=1014913

My wife and I have done some playing with chastity devices for several years. I first ordered a plastic chastity device which I have since discarded as it was too tight and very uncomfortable. However, I then ordered two different metal chastity cages which worked out better. The metal ones are a little heavier than the plastic one was but I like that as the feeling of the weight of the metal cages on my penis is quite erotic. One is slightly looser and longer than the other which makes it a little more comfortable to wear longer. The other is tighter and has a urethral tube so it gives us an option as to which one my wife would like me to wear. Having the urethral tube in me can be an erotic feeling and the top of it pushes into the tip of my penis if it tries to get hard causing some slight discomfort which along with the curve of the metal cage prevents getting a full erection. One benefit of the urethral tube is that when I urinate most of the pee comes out of the tube making it easier to wipe to clean up. With the other cage without a urethral tube it takes a little more wiping to clean up after urination. Either way, I need to sit down to pee when wearing a chastity cage.

As I said, my wife and I have done some short term chastity play but she has not decided she wants me locked up on a permanent basis. Typically, if we have a weekend alone together we will have intercourse and then she will lock me up for the rest of the weekend. This way she keeps me attentive to pleasure her with me doing a lot of of rubbing, licking, and sucking to attend to her needs for the rest of the weekend. More recently, we purchased a remote control dog shock collar which she (or me at her direction) can lock on behind my balls to give me vibration or a shock anywhere in the house at the touch of a button. She uses it to summon or motivate me as she wishes and it has become her favorite toy! At the beginning of our weekends together she tells me to be sure it is fully charged to last all weekend!

My sub complains of a "burning" sensation behind his balls with a Cherry Keeper.

I have seen similar complaints here, so I am wondering if this is something that has a known solution.

For us chastity stared as a fun weekend game my wife ordered a cheap cage and handed it to me for a fun weekend game. Slowly it became longer and longer time in .she started noticing how my attitude started changing becoming more sub and willing.

As I became more submitting she became more powerful. We went through lots of cheap chastity cages till we went full custom. For me/us it was very difficult to find the right cage for long term wear.