Male chastity

Is anyone here into male chastity? I'm looking into buying a chastity cage to keep my cock from having an erection. If I can convince my wife that this would be a fun thing to do, I'll give her the keys to the lock and let her control me.

Yes i am and have been in chastity on and off for the last few years and being in chastity feels good without release

How long can you go locked up before you have to remove the device,

I am into chastity but I do it to myself.

I'll lock myself in and then mail the keys to myself over a weekend. I keep a spare set at work in case of emergencies. Even after a weekend I can be crawling the walls with frustration if I have been having a kinky weekend.

I can be in chastity for a week and i put the key into water and stick it in the freezer

How long can you go locked up before you have to remove the device,

I know guys who have been chaste for months.

I would love to find a girl to be my

Key holder. The mailing the key to yourself is a brilliant idea!

I'm trying to understand the whole male chastity thing. Believe me, the idea intrigues me, but I'm just not clear on what you do once your member is all locked up and what you're trying to achieve. Do you try to go through your day not thinking about sex in any way -- trying to keep from getting aroused? Or do you deliberately try to excite yourself, thinking about what you can't have, and thinking about your caged cock? Do you enjoy the pain or discomfort when you can't help yourself and start to get hard? And when you're all locked up, does that mean you're not stimulated in other ways? Does your partner take you anally, or do you play with yourself that way?

Sorry for all the questions, I'm just trying to understand this.

Thanks for commenting on this thread. Do any of you have a problem with showing too much of a bulge when you go out of the house? I've read on a few sites that one may show more than they want to and it can be embarrassing.

I just ordered my first chastity cage. It's made of silicone and has a bottom bar that acts as a ball splitter. I will most definitely post pictures of it in an album here when I get it.

Now that I ordered my chastity cage I'm wondering if there are any women here who have sub males they are dominating. And if so how are they handling their subs; feminism, exposure to other women etc.

My online girl friend wants me to be in chastity while I fuck myself, so that I can't jack off. Which is exactly the time when I do want to cum. Denial of a pleasure when it is most wanted. Or the constant reminder will keep you in a sexually heightened state of mind.

Or as long as you wear the chastity cage, and the key is not available, it serves as a constant reminder that you are NOT in charge (at least your relationship)

Be very careful, you just might get what you ask for.

Some years ago, my husband snooped around the internet, read some stories about chastity and came up with the idea that it would be an interesting lifestyle. He approached me about it, and being liberal minded, I figured that going without a dick would be OK as long as his tongue functioned, plus the idea of keeping his manhood locked up did appeal to me. So he picked out his device, gave it a trial run and quickly found out it pretty much tore the boys off. Same result with the second but third, a CB6K, was much more to his liking. It will cause the boys problems if he bends or stoops, and a lubricant is required to prevent chaffing. Other than that a pretty good device though nowhere as good as the steel ones.

After a few trial runs, we decided to put it to use over the Christmas holidays when we were off work. He was drained, locked and certain sense of satisfaction overcame me when I put that key around my neck, knowing his dick was now mine to control, plus adding a bit of torment allowing him to see the key to his freedom on a daily basis.

For the first 3 days things went well, then he started getting antsy. He became very loving, which I liked, and anything I asked him to do was quickly done. By the 5th day, he began to talk about being backed up to which I asked him if he needed some relief. A smile overcame his face but quickly left as I told him to drop his pants, bend over and I would massage his prostate to get all that backup out. By the 7th day the chastity lifestyle was not for him, he was released, drained and did admit it was the longest week of his life. Poor Baby!!!!!.

I still lock him up on weekends, tease and torment him but on Sunday night he is given a reason to have a big smile on his face.

Tillie

Thanks Tillie, you have piqued my curiosity even more. I like the idea of being caged during the week but hope to be free on the weekends. It sounds like you two found a good working arrangement.

I have used a few devices, starting with the plastic cages an then a metal one. There is quite an obvious bulge with the cages so I decided to spend a bit of money and invested in a Neosteel.

This one has a flat front plate so it hides any bulge. It is a lot more secure and is less comfortable than the cages due to the waist belt and the piece that fits between my legs. I have made a few minor tweaks to it to stop it rubbing on my bones in a couple of areas. I can now go about a week without feeling the need to release it.

In terms of what I get out of it it is mostly the sexual frustration of not being able to cum. I spend the whole time trying to keep myself turned on as it is the denial that I get pleasure from.

I foud a video of someone being fitted into a belt similar to mine.

http://m.xhamster.com/movies/1150818/puts_vicky_in_a_neosteel_chasity_belt.html

I don't have the electrical butt plug attachment but it looks like a great possibility for the future. Not sure how one would go about making bodily functions with a plug locked in though.

I have never tried chastity devices, but I am a bit intrigued by the somewhat minimalist, custom made designs of Steelwerks Extreme, for example:

http://www.steelwerksextreme.com/male-chastity-device/courte-maiden-chastity-device

http://www.steelwerksextreme.com/male-chastity-device/frenum-maiden-1-chastity-cage

I am not affiliated with the above site/manufacturer.

If you wait til you are old enough, chastity devices will not be necessary!

hankb

@HC- the steelwerks devices are pretty impressive pieces. I'm a big fan of their cage ones, less so of the type you posted. I always think the less of the cock you have access to, the less likely you are able to make yourself cum, especially using a vibrator or something.

Whilst I can cum using a hitachi on my neosteel, it takes absolutely ages and makes so much noise on the metal that it pretty much destroys any pleasurable feeling there might be!

Oh, well the thing that I find appealing about the two designs I shared the links to is the efficiency. They encase only the area of the penis between the head and the base, the area that is mainly relied on for stimulation and to achieve orgasms. Sort of like a woman wearing a clit shield (which steelwerks extreme also makes) rather than a chastity belt. Although of course not every woman's anatomy allows for the piercings a clit shield requires. Anyway, with the male or female version of these minimal coverage devices there is something about the fact that the genitals are mostly exposed as they normally would be, and yet still in chastity. It's a bigger tease in my opinion. I understand that a lot of people prefer the belts for the opposite reason, they prefer the total coverage.

...They encase only the area of the penis between the head and the base, the area that is mainly relied on for stimulation and to achieve orgasms.

This may just be me but it is the head that is the part that I have to stimulate most for an orgasm to happen. I use the shaft for having a good old jerk but with the head exposed it is much easier to achieve an orgasm. I struggle to cum I the head is concealed though.

I see. To be clear, I personally do not touch the head of my penis when I masturbate. Maybe I'm doing it wrong! haha.

I have not tried one of these sleeves and doubt that I will. I am uncircumcised and always have my hand covering both my head and my shaft, not just one or the other.

hankb

I've never had a chastity device, but my ex wife used to make me wait, so I could only cum with her present... Sometimes it was a few days, others a week or so and, she'd tease me in between to make it worse!

It's a horrible, but nice feeling! Especially when you can finally release.

I wear a metal chastity cage underneath my diaper when I'm at home / at my mommy-domme's request...

wear it for at most a few days at a time, clean it well, no problems so far - just sexual frustration :p

If your want to lock yourself up/Have someone lock you up.I strongly recommend having one made especially for your measurements. I have tried many cages and thy all are miserably uncomfortable. ,

Either you simply can not get into them cause thy are so small or the ring behind your scrotum will give a very lousy feeling like its burning. Its pricey but in the long run probably not much more than buying a bunch of useless ones,Mature Metal and steelwerks are the way to go

I don't remember how long ago (I could look in my blog which I posted about his chastity in) it was I got a Bon 4 (it's a silicone chastity belt) for my sub. We used it for awhile then my sub started "turtling" out of it. I just quit putting him in it, because it can take a while to get it on depending on how things go. Fast forward... I just put his "cage", as it is called, on him Sunday evening. It is staying on very nicely. Maybe it became too routine before.

I enjoy the knowledge that he is caged especially if he is out in public. Baggy jeans do help keep the "cage" from being too noticeable. But I can walk up to him and grab his restrained cock. Let him know he's unable to use his penis.

I am not sure how long he'll be locked up this time. It pretty much depends how much chaffing goes on. I don't mind having him suffer a bit, but too many sore(s) I don't want.

I'm trying to understand the whole male chastity thing. Believe me, the idea intrigues me, but I'm just not clear on what you do once your member is all locked up and what you're trying to achieve. Do you try to go through your day not thinking about sex in any way -- trying to keep from getting aroused? Or do you deliberately try to excite yourself, thinking about what you can't have, and thinking about your caged cock?

I haven't ever used a device, maybe it's a step too far or impractical or whatever. But in periods when I withhold release - and in getting older by the year, those periods get longer as well - everything becomes so much more sexually charged. People look more attractive and desirable, there seems to be more energy in the body, so many things take on a sexual significance, imagining fantasies becomes more intense, it becomes very arousing to write sexual fantasies in this state as well.

So I'm fairly certain that the idea is not to forget about sex, but just the opposite. To be reminded of it all the time, all during the day or at night trying to fall asleep. Anticipation is often more pleasurable than release. In this manner you are floating in a sea of longing and desire. It becomes intense and seems to fill the body with energy.

I agree with @AGracier, and he explains it so well. (as he should from a man who has an average of 1000 encouragements/likes per day!)

Within the last year or so, my wife and I started experimenting with male chastity. I talked it over with her and ordered a male chastity device from Amazon. It was a plastic model which also had a urethral insert tube. It was pretty snug and was kind of difficult to get on especially with the insert tube in as it screwed in from the inside so it took some poking and prodding of my penis to get all the way in. I also ordered a metal chastity cage that had three different size cock rings which was a good one to start with as you don't really know exactly what size you need until you try it. I liked the feel and look of the metal one and it secured me well. My wife enjoyed locking me up on a weekend and it was a turn on for me for her to control me. I spend quite a bit of time stimulating her or licking her to orgasm until she then decides I have earned an orgasm and releases me from my cage. I have continued to try other chastity cages. I ordered another metal one from Amazon which turned out not to fit right at all but then finally ordered another metal one which I have found I like the best. It has a cage about 2-1/4 inches long, a hinged cock ring 1-3/4" in diameter. and a urethral tube 2 inches long which screws into the end of the cage after I have it on. At first I thought it fit too tight but after getting used to it, it is quite comfortable and I am wearing it now as write this. Since it fits snug it is very secure and I can't get an erection while I am wearing it. If I get hard, it just increases the pressure of my penis against the cage and gets slightly uncomfortable. I also like the urethral tube as it makes it easier to pee and directs the flow of urine rather than squirting all over against the cage. I lubricate the tube with Surgilube before I put it in and it is quite comfortable once you are used to it. I still don't wear the cage all time while I am working during the week but do often wear it on the weekends, sometimes all weekend long especially if my wife and I have a lot of time available for playtime.

I've had a few chastity items done to me by various dommes. By chastity I mean the prevention of sex with another human being, not masturbation. One of the simplest ones is having your pubic area completely shaved. This might sound ineffective, but not many guys would show themselves to an unfamiliar woman in that condition. It was very effective and not much you can do about it until the pubes grow back. Another one was having my balls locked in a padlock. Again, simple but effective. Would you show a woman your balls locked up? Try explaining that one. Of course I didn’t have the key, but one was hidden in the house so I could call the domme if needed to get the lock off. Bicycle ‘U’ type locks work great for this and the excess ends of the ‘U’ can be cut to size. Both methods were extremely embarrassing and very effective.