Male chastity

My wife has been extremely successful in subjecting me to this without a device. But perhaps a device would be an interesting change in routine?? I will now investigate this device.

The comments about a shaved male not showing himself to another female, therefore being kept pure for his partner, not sure that will work!

I'm totally shaved down there and have been for years. After the initial surprise, I've found every woman has liked it. They say it's far cleaner and seem far more willing to play, suck and handle me!

Sorry, but you may find that works the opposite way...

I have bought a metal chastity device with a urethral tube, I find the retaining ring very uncomfortable to fit and almost too tight, it only came with one sized hinged ring. I love the feeling of my cock in the device but can not retain it. Does any one know where I can order a bigger hinged retaining ring from?

I am and have the Jailbird chastity device from MatureMetal. Feels great wearing it and gone 64 days without removal. My girlfriend loves to tease me and run her tongue between the bars until I am hard and filling the cage. I cannot get a full hard-on and will begin to ache from the pressure of my cock trying to get erect. When I finally am released, the orgasms are unbelievable. Not having an orgasm for that long and then getting release is something else. After the first 3 weeks it gets easier to deal with the lack of not having an orgasm and it becomes a personal challenge to see how long you can hold out. I have pictures of me wearing my device under my gallery.

Start with a cheap device to figure out if you both enjoy it. Have just a cheap metal one I got off of amazon to get started with here and looking to maybe upgrade to a mature metal jailbird at somepoint.

My mistress taped my cock, as my chastity device

This is something that has sparked my interest as well, I tried with a couple of boyfriends in the past and only after a couple of days they where done ! I really liked the control and more so the attention, men can really be like putty in your lil hand when they are in one of those.

I have a Looker01 from Steelworx https://steelworxx.de/The-Looker-01-111p.html?xPrioS=kk5oo50v5kbavf8scb02rlf3r6 with an urethral tube 8 mm diameter, long as 1 cm through the ring, and I like to wear it many days (the key is locked in this box http://www.thekitchensafe.com/ ). Great sensation.

I have recently experimented with chastity cages. However, for me it is short term...VERY short term. For me it is more about play when I am in submissive mode (I switch), and I am to be focused only on her pleasure without my cock taking over. This "forces" me to use my hands/fingers, tongue, toys, etc... It is a turn on and exciting to give pleasure while caged... then once released even more fun!

I'm also open to some slightly longer chastity play in a bi cuckold role (which I have not done YET). I'm open to be denied cumming (without a device) for a few days or a week before a cuckold evening/weekend... then be caged maybe starting the day before and during that evening/weekend. Being locked and servicing BOTH as a bi cuckold is certainly a turn on. I'd expect (and hope) I'd be well used too. Of course at the end of the cuckolding evening/weekend, I'd want to be released for sloppy 2nds (or 50ths) :-)

I think a lot of men will agree- The best chastity device for them is marriage.

HA HA ... good one!

I am not caged, but I am teased and denied orgasms. My wife does give me regular ruined orgasms, but my last regular orgasm was on November 5th. I might get one next month and can't wait for the few seconds of extreme pleasure. It's the 3 or 4 days of downtime after an orgasm, that we don't like. I love that my wife keeps me horny and on edge all the time. Life is good.

I've been denied orgasm since mid September 2017. This is the longest I've gone without being allowed to cum and I have to say it is driving me wild.

I have a chastity belt that I wear but in theory I have the ability to unlock it as my Mistress is an online Mistress. I have posted the keys to myself before, so that I have a delay of a few days before I can get them back. This often coincides with an intense teasing session from my Mistress which leaves me absolutely desperate for release.

I would love to have someone take full control of my chastity so that I really can't get any release unless it is authorised by my Mistress.

I have a fantasy of being kept in inescapable chastity and then each day being restrained before the device is removed. I am then edged to the brink of insanity before being locked back up in the cage and untied. I can't imagine the sheer animal desperation to be allowed an orgasm that almost constant arousal would bring.

I have seen that there is a Mistress Astrid who claims to have essentially done this to her slave. He is basically in permanent chastity but regularly restrained in thoroughly strict ways before being edged or teased to tears. Watching those movies whilst locked up is tough!

This is a new area for us. As time goes by our desires and practices change and evolve. We are both subs and have relied on others to play the dominate role. We have a hot wife lifestyle. She has lovers and I approve. It is so erotic for me for me. If she has a date either in or out of the house I become a chronic masturbator. It started as a joke, but now its reality. It has changed our dynamic. She is becoming more dom and I more of a sub. She also let's others know of my situation.

I had a gf a few years ago that would cuckold me and would not let me cum except when she decided it was allowed - usually when she had been with another man and would be telling me about it while playing with my dick.

She never locked me up but she was very strict about me not masturbating and certainly not cumming or she would punish me.

I really enjoyed the build up to the days I would be allowed to release and when she had been with one of her lovers and she would come home and tell me about it, it was the most powerful mind blowing orgasms ever.

I would love to find another GF who would enjoy cuckolding/chastity play and I would enjoy being locked and controlled.

I got interested in this about 5 years ago. A Mistress that I had seen a few times agreed to lock me up in a device she owned for a 4 day period. I went to see her for a session and near the end of the session she put a chastity device on me, locked it and put the key around her neck. The session ended and she made me show others at the house my condition. After complying, and before I could get my pants pulled back up she then instructed me to get some ladies panties and wear them with the device. Once I had them on I was to take a picture and send it to her.

On day two we met for lunch and I mentioned that the lace panties I had purchased were a bit uncomfortable so after lunch she made me go shopping for some satin panties at Victoria's Secret. They didn't have my size so we ended up at another store where I had to pay for the panties that she had picked out for me. I went back home, changed into the more comfortable satin panties and suffered through until day 4.

When I went back for the session on day 4 I was anxious to have the device removed. The biggest thing that I noticed was the inability to touch myself there. Whether an itch or looking for pleasure, I didn't have access. I also knew that the only key was about a 90 minute drive away under normal conditions so I was more or less stuck in the locked up condition.

I was once again shown off to the ladies who were at the house and they teased me about my not being in control of my sexual organs. At this point I was willing to do almost anything to gain release from the chastity device. The session then took place, but I had to wait until almost the end to be unlocked. When it was over I was sent on my way still wearing the pink panties to remind me of my place in life as a chastity and panty slave.

Yes I'm in male chastity I got my new one yesterday it when straight on and well not come off for a week I but myself into male chastity for my all fun and to stop me playing with myself

I posted back in January that I'd been locked by my online Mistress since September last year with no orgasm. Well since then I've actually met someone in real life who is now holding my key. In this past year I have still been denied any orgasm.

There is another site I visit which specialises in orgasm denial. Each year there is a challenge/game posted there that coincides with the UK TV show Strictly Come Dancing. Essentially you get punishments or rewards depending in n how well the celebrity couple you choose performs. I've been told I have to enter this again except this time my new Mistress will be administering the punishments.

Last year I couldn't have even imagined I'd go a whole year without cunning, especially considering the teasing and arousal I've received. But I'm still here (I guess I have no choice!). I am a little worried about the next few months of this challenge though.

I was married for a few yrs then lost control of my urine and my wife put me back in diapers to keep things dry.I think diapers are the best chastity.

I have tried some of these devices, but it has been mostly by myself. I am very curious about these devices but I have found important flaws in every one I have tried, which led me to believe that this cannot be a real, practical life style.

I first tried a CB6000, a plastic device that completely covers the penis. I encountered three serious problems: the first one was that eventually I was able to escape. Even though I put on the smallest ring, which was super tight when I put it on, in the middle of the night I woke up in extreme pain because one testicle had escaped and was now pulling in the wrong direction. The second, and even worst problem, had to do with the small holes that the tube has for ventilation. My device was not very well manufactured and my skin started to get hurt with the borders of said holes. The third problem, which made everything unpractical, was that keeping it clean and not stinky was impossible. It is impossible not to sweat and almost impossible to keep everything clean after a trip to the bathroom. The only alternative is to take it out at least daily but that kinds of defeats its purpose.

The second device I tried was a silicone one similar to a CB6000s (the small version): silicone is not the right material, it's stretchy and thus useless.

Then I bought a couple of cheap steel devices from Amazon. The first one has a very weird lock and also has optional spikes. Even though I think the size is adequate, I have been able to put it on only once because the weird lock and the many parts make it almost impossible to setup everything without pinching very delicate parts of my skin.

The other steel device works as intended and does not have the problems of the CB6000. However, it has a different problem: nocturnal erections create a horrible pain! With the CB6000 it was not a problem because the tube keeps the penis tight and prevents the erection when it is at 30%. The steel cage is not tight enough to prevent the erection and thus it grows and pulls everything until I start feeling a horrible tug on my testicles. I have tried every possible trick to keep it from happening but it has been impossible.

That said, I still think that there should be a way to make this practical, but I haven't found it in a cheap device. There are custom-made devices that seem to solve problems, but I'm not willing to spend that kind of money.

Around a year or so ago, i tried chastity, i experimented first with urethral tubes, kalis teeth bracelet that i locked on with a ring behind the scrotum for erection punishment, then metal cages, until trying a fully enclosed metal tube, which i found very comfortable, erections were not painful instead gave a pressured feel that was subtly pleasant, whilst fine for around the house it was heavy, i decided to try a plastic device for work, again a fully enclosed type, which i wore for over a month continuously, but i have a manual job and it was awkward to fully move around, so i gave up, overall i would say the metal tube was best for me,

Regarding, how to hide the bulge from the cage. My co-worker keeps his shirt out so that you can't see his bulge. Of course, this is only speculation, since he never told me he wears one. That said, he has a very submissive behavior and wears is hair all done up. The back is curled up and the sides are pulled to the back. I can invision his hair down and it would be very feminine hair style......I digress, but a long tailed shirt hanging over your pants would help cover the bulge (as he always does.........)

Just an update on my previous post. I completed the edging challenge but it was extremely tough. At one stage I found myself receiving over 25 edges a day for a whole week. My Mistress made sure I met each edge too - no slacking allowed!

I’ve been locked back in chastity since but she’s told me I might be able to get a long awaited orgasm over New Years. Really hoping I can as a year and a quarter is a long time!

Well last night was the night I was hoping to be allowed to finally cum after nearly 15 months of no orgasm. As you might imagine, I was quite desperate.

Unfortunately my Mistress was away for New Years but we Skyped early in the evening where she gave me my instructions.

I was told to dress in my full rubber catsuit, rubber corset, rubber stockings and gloves and then to put on my 6 inch stiletto heeled ankle strap pumps. She told me that if I wanted to know where the key to my chastity cage was I also needed to add the shoe locks to the shoes using a couple of padlocks she had left in my desk drawer. This meant I couldn’t take the heels off without the key. She got me to show her that I had done so thoroughly before revealing the location of the key.

She told me she had taped it to the back of one of the green telephone cable exchange boxes a few streets away, low to the ground so no one would notice it unless they knew to look for it.

She told me I was welcome to go and get it whenever I wanted and that I could then enjoy myself.

Obviously my dilemma was how I was dressed. I know I can get my male clothes on over my rubber but the heels are still really obvious. I’ve also walked round the streets late at night in my heels before but usually early morning around 02:30-03:00 when I know no one will be around. Last night being New Years I could hear people out all night.

The anguish was killing me as I was so close to getting free but I couldn’t bring myself to leave the house in the heels. Eventually I plucked up the courage to leave the house with my male clothes on over the rubber. This was about 03:30 and I couldn’t take it any longer. I scoured the road for any signs of people but it seemed to have gone quiet so I made a break for it. The sound of my heels on the pavement was so loud to my ears. I thought everyone would wake to hear the clicking of the stilettos. I got to the end of the road and went to turn left when I saw a group of people coming down the hill towards me, quite rowdy and obviously drunk. Not wanting to risk the confrontation I clip clipped back on myself and decided to try the other way round, hoping no one saw me acting suspiciously. My feet were arching now as I’d been in the heels for a few hours.

I carried on going and steeled my nerves, telling myself that I needed the key more than a little humiliation. I eventually made it to the cable box as directed without running into anyone else. I looked around and checked no one was watching as I bent down and felt for the tape. Thankfully I found it quickly and peeled it off, feeling the key secured within. I quickly headed home, my heels clicking at a faster pace with excitement. I stumbled a few times in my haste and with the adrenaline flowing.

Getting home I practically tore off my male clothes and got the key out. This was it. Over a year in the waiting. I slid the key into the lock and tried to twist it. It wouldn’t budge! I tried desperately but the lock wasn’t opening at all. What the hell!

I she my Mistress a text explaining. Her reply crushed me. This is it word for word.

“Oh, sorry, yes I realised I left the wrong key behind. I found your proper key in my purse a few hours ago but forgot to text you. I guess you’ll just need to wait until I get back on Wednesday. Happy new year. Xxx”

So now I’m stuck in chastity and stuck in these heels and the stockings under them until she gets back. I cannot explain how frustrated and desperate I am. I’m not sure whether it was an honest mistake or something to play with me. I’ll find out later!

Rubbermark,

Wow. Quite a reversal of fortune. I sincerely hope she made an honest mistake with the key and didn't just pull a trick on you without warning or consent. I'm sure you're in no mood to discuss it right now, but are you even able to get your catsuit off over the heels without tearing it? It sounds like you have to keep the rubber stockings on until the heels come off. As you know, I love rubber too, but not without consent.

I'm hoping and praying you can stay cool and calm and get her home as fast as possible to give you the key(s?). Good luck, and all the best.

Eric

Hi @ericmacson. Thanks for your concern. It’s not been an easy day and a bit now! You are correct in saying I can’t get the catsuit off either, although I have taken the corset off (thankfully not locked on this time) and have taken the top part of the catsuit off and sort of tied it around my waist, a bit like the stereotypical mechanic boiler suit look.

My feet are so sore from the heels. I’ve been trying to lie down so as not to put too much pressure on them but I can’t wait to get them off, even more than the chastity belt...almost!

My Mistress is home around lunchtime today so I’m hoping I’ll be allowed out when she arrives. Being so close to having an orgasm allowed and then having all hope ripped away at the last minute is pretty tough, but I wouldn’t be surprised if she had been toying with me a little.

Rubbermark,

Please keep posting what the outcome of this little unanticipated adventure is. I'd be in agony in heels - I've never worn them and never plan to. That's the advantage of my unique kink for sneakers or trainers - they're not only very erotic, but easy to walk in and I can wear them for very long periods and still be very comfortable. Are you skipping work today or on vacation? What have you been doing since discovering you had to keep the catsuit, stockings and heels on for an extra day or two? I can't imagine you going out like that, let alone go to work. I know you love wearing rubber like me, but have you at least been able to stay fairly cool and not sweat too much under the rubber? I enjoy the sweating, but wouldn't want to do it for too long, especially if I was in your current situation. Good luck. I'll look forward to your hopefully unlocked and liberated next report. I really also hope you can get your well-deserved orgasm.

Eric

My Mistress returned yesterday but in the evening rather than at lunchtime as I had expected. I’m fairly sure this was intentional to keep me stewing a bit longer.

When she came in she acted as if nothing was wrong but did comment that I wasn’t properly attired and that I should put my corset back on and also my latex maids dress and hood over the top so I could serve her dinner and help her relax after her long journey.

I was pretty frustrated at this but I did as I was asked as I wasn’t really in a position to argue.

After serving her dinner I asked if she had the keys to my heels as my feet were killing me. She told me to follow her to the bedroom, so I did so, hoping she had stored them somewhere in there. Instead she produced the leather wrist and ankle cuffs and proceeded to strap them onto me. I went along with this as I suspected she was just drawing out the inevitable of removing my heels.

She had me lie on the bed and used the chains we have on it to spread eagle me pretty effectively. She then started to unlock the heels. My god it felt so good. I’ll be honest, the chastity frustration had almost been overtaken by the need to get the heels off in the end. Being able to wriggle my toes was bliss.

At this point she got up and went to the cupboard and came back over to me. In her hands were the ballet boots. She just showed them to me with a smile on her face and disappeared to the end of the bed out of my eyeline. I started to pull at my cuffs as I really couldn’t take much more of this. She told me that if I let her put the boots on me she would take off my cage as she had originally promised.

At this I quietened down and let her force me into the right boots. Normally my feet would cramp initially in them but I think because I’d been in heels so long my feet were almost used to the severity. They were still uncomfortable though and I have a real love hate relationship with them.

At this point she moved up towards my crotch and started to tap her nails on my cage. I moaned as she knows this gets me hard. Slowly she unlocked the cage with the key from a cain around her neck (I knew she hadn’t made a mistake the other day!) and slid the cage off. I was at full mast almost immediately.

For the next hour or so she must have used half a bottle of lube on me, edging me over and over but never quite tipping me over the edge. I was frantic and desperate to cum but no chance was given. Eventually she told me that she wasn’t sure I really needed to cum yet and that starting the new year by keeping my cage on was a good indicator of intent so she had decided to lock me back up.

I couldn’t believe what I was hearing and started to beg her and pull at the chains making the bed literally move. She smiled and went out for a moment, returning with a bag of ice and applying it to shrink me down again before quickly and efficiently fitting the cage back on. By this time I was pleading like I’ve never before. She told me I needed to calm down and that she would leave me here for the night to do so and she would sleep in the spare room. Which she did.

I was released this morning and allowed to undress and wash. I must admit to having been a little frosty with her until she reminded me that good behaviour would work in my favour. I literally don’t know when I’ll be released but I’m praying she doesn’t intend for me to go another year!

I get caged sometimes.

Usually when my gf knows I’m thinking about master bating.

I’m usually only caged for a day or so.

It’s nice and I sometimes miss it if it’s been awhile.

Never tried that before.